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Sugar...?

Okay...

- Excuse me - Thanks.

Listen.

I know it's a little awkward since it's an arranged marriage setup but relax.

I'll start.

I had 2 girlfriends in college. What about you?

Same.

You mean, you had 2 boyfriends, right?

So...

Tell us, dear...

What do you think about him?

Yeah Didi, tell us how you scared this one away?

Don't you want the car keys or not?

Either you put your headphones on or come, sit here and listen to your sister.

By the way, Anu...

I hope you didn't tell this one about your previous boyfriends?

What's the problem if she has told him?

What are you saying?

Anu, say it like it is.

There's nothing to be ashamed of.

Say whatever you want to say, with no fear We are with you!

You know what, dad? You're right.

I shouldn't be ashamed of myself.

Good.

Yes, I did have boyfriends.

Its ok if you had them

Yeah, so I had relationships.

So what?

And yes I like girls!

Exactly.

What...?

Wha...Hold on. What did you just say, Anu?

Mummy, these headphones aren't working. Where are the other ones?

Mummy!

No one listens to me in this house.

Will either of you say something please?

I don't want to talk to you.

I don't know...

I just don't get it... I mean, how is it possible?

What do you mean?

Neither is your mom nor me, or anyone else in our family... Then how are you?

Dad, this is not diabetes. It's not hereditary.

You're right, dear.

- This isn't diabetes. - Thank you.

- It's cancer! Cancer! - Oh God!

I would always think that it would happen in someone else's family.

But someone in our family...

Can y'all please stop comparing it to diseases?

This is exactly why I've been avoiding this conversation for so many years.

For how many years?

It must be around 5-6 years.

Or 25 years! I don't know!

Initially I myself couldn't understand what people see in

Ranbir Kapoor, Ranveer Singh, Fawad Khan...

Okay, Fawad Khan is still an exception,

but, Hrithik Roshan?!

Seriously?!

I then realised that if people aren't interested in Sushmita Sen

then the problem's with me!

Yeah, well it is a problem, ain't it?!

Looking for a boy was hard enough, now we have to go look for a girl for you?

Why not?

Didn't you take up this responsibility?

Then find someone suitable for me.

How does it matter if it's a girl or a boy?

Love is love!

I also want to settle down with someone smart, intelligent, funny

and a non-smoker would be ideal.

Okay. The law...what about the law?

What about it, mom? Even the Supreme Court has passed its' judgement!

Your mom's talking about the law of nature.

Which world are you living in, eh?

This doesn't work here.

Okay, tell me something. What will you do if you want children?

Should we look for a child also for you?

No, thank you. I have thousands of solutions for it.

Adoption, surrogacy... But, that's not your problem, mom.

You're only worried about what people will say in your office,

or what the neighbors will think about you.

So, what's wrong?

That's my circle.

What they think matters to me.

Won't they obviously think that I fell short in bringing you up well?

That I must've done something wrong?

- Why are you quiet? Say something! - What do I say?

You'd never let her talk to boys when she was a child.

She'd come to me to talk about her boyfriends!

Really?

How much did I beg you...?

How much did I tell you to not send her to a girls hostel?

Did you listen to me?

Girls hostel has nothing to do with it!

Anu... Anu... Hold on. You're forgetting something.

You've had boyfriends.

Then how can you be..this?

It's not an abusive word. You can say it.

This girl liking person...

Look, I think you have some sort of misunderstanding.

Yes!

It happens with me too.

Even I have days when I feel life is so easy without men!

But this isn't how you deal with it, right?

This is not a solution, right?

One problem at a time!

Anu, this is probably just a phase?

Perhaps you're stressed and tensed ever since you heard about marriage?

Maybe you're just not thinking straight!

Dad, didn't you know of all my boyfriends?

Was I ever happy with any of them?

Yeah! With that, Shashi..Verma...Mathur! Shashi Mathur? The tall one?

Whose sister's name was also Shashi and we'd get confused between them both...

She was such a nice girl...

What do you mean she "was" nice?

Nonsense! She's the one who's corrupted your mind!

Isn't this why you scored less in 12th grade?

Less? I scored 82%, mom!

And Shashi has nothing to do with it! This is just how I am!

Anu, you shouldn't lose hope like this.

We'll take you to the best doctors!

We'll talk to the best psychiatrist!

That boy who had come home today- Ajay?

He's a doctor as well, right? Let's talk to him.

Have you lost your mind? Absolutely not!

We'll send you to a spiritual camp!

- They've had good reviews! - Yes, this spiritual idea is good.

- Listen, we can't tell son in law about this. - No, no, no...

- God knows how he'd react. - He reacted much better than you both!

By the way, he was also more supportive compared to you both.

He's a doctor, that's probably why he understood what I was saying.

And if you think about it...

If it's easy for me to talk to a stranger about this than my own parents,

then the problem probably lies with you, and maybe you need to see a doctor!

What's happening in this house? Can I get some food today?

Do you have the slightest idea of what's going on here?

Yeah, it's 3 in the afternoon and no one is hungry, what's going on?

Son, we were discussing some family matter and ...

Family matter? About didi being a lesbian?

When did you find out?

I just found out. I told you my headphones weren't working, right?

- You heard everything? - Yeah, so?

Nothing's changed!

The car is still mine!

And she's the same Anu didi who reads stupid books,

plays the guitar terribly and comes to snatch the TV remote at night!

Don't give her extra sympathy and spoil her!

Sympathy? What do you mean?

Y'all will say things like- "It's going to be so difficult for you to adjust...";

"How will you tell people?";

"People will spread rumors...";

"How will you deal with people's judgements? Here take the car keys, dear".

Don't I know all of this? I've already said it, the car is mine!

I'm hungry now and I'm going out to eat!

Whoever wants to come can come. I'm still going to drive!

You guys take your time.

I myself took a long time to accept it.

I don't know may be you'll take longer.

Vicky...!

What is it that you said? I play the guitar terribly?

It's your sister's call. Answer it.

Yeah, Poonam?

There's a really good proposal for Anu!

It's a great family and he's a great guy! Tell me when I should take this ahead.

Um, Poonam... Anu likes some girl... guy!

So you forget about this.

He's a really nice guy! Just meet him once.

Poonam, why don't you join some hobby classes?

Like a pottery class or something? I'll talk to you later, okay?

What were you saying? What if she suspected something?

So what? We're not spending our lives with her, are we?

We have to live with our children.

Come on, let's go eat.

Kids would be waiting.

Come on now...

Come on...

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Can Young Kids Have Chores? How Young is Too Young? - Duration: 7:00.

How early can you teach a kid to clean?

That's a great question, and we're going to talk about that today.

Hi there, I'm Angela Brown, and this is, Ask a House Cleaner.

This is a show where you get to ask a house cleaning question

and I get to help you find an answer.

Now, today's show is brought to us by MyCleaningConnection.com,

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So there's a whole bunch of stuff.

Go check it out at MyCleaningConnection.com.

All right, today's question comes from a mother.

She's a young mother who has children, and she wants to know how early can you teach

a kid to clean.

Now, I love this question because I grew up in a big family, and my mother leaned on us

kids to help out at a very early age.

But over the years, from all of the trial and error, all of the people whose homes I

worked in, and all of the people that I've trained, I've learned this to be true, you

can train a child when they're in their little baby seat with the little handle on it, and

you're carting the kid around the house.

You can start training them at that age.

At that age a little baby, an infant in its car seat, or its little travel seat, it has

nothing else to do.

It doesn't have any video games to distract it, it doesn't have anything on its mind.

It's just sitting there, absorbing everything, and it's willing to learn, and it's observing

things that are going around, and it picks up on that stuff.

So it's a perfect time to train a child.

So even if the kid can't physically help you, you can say, "Hey, do you want to come in

and help mommy with the dishes?"

And then you bring the seat in, and you put the kid up on the counter so the kid can see

what's going on.

And the kid is little, a kid can't move, they're in their little seat.

And they sit around and they're like, "Well, what is mom doing, and why is mom doing it?"

And, "Mom thinks that helping, what am I supposed to be doing?"

And they start processing all these things.

As the kid gets older and you put them in a little bouncy seat, move the bouncy seat

in the kitchen, "Hey, do you want to be mommy's big helper,

and you want to help me with the dishes?"

Now, obviously, they're not helping with the dishes, but they're in there, and they're

being entertained while you're doing the dishes.

So they're watching you, and they're picking up on what you're doing, and they are learning

from you.

Then the day comes, and they're probably a toddler, and this is the age where they start

getting into everything.

Instead of them getting into everything, and being punished, and putting locks on everything,

this is a perfect time for you to train them how to be your helper.

You can pull up a chair, and you can show them how to do dishes.

Now, in the beginning, they're just going to be splashing their hands in the water,

and they're not actually going to be washing dishes.

So you say, "Here, let me show you how to do it."

And then it's tough because it's going to take twice as long, but you wash the dishes,

and then you put them in the dish drainer or the dishwasher, and you show the child

how to do it.

And every day you can show them how to make their bed.

There are little tasks that you do as a parent around your house that your kids can pick up on.

Then the day will come, and they're probably four or five years old at this point when

they graduate from watching to actually helping, and this should be a graduation ceremony where

you say, "Hey, guess what?

Today is the day that you are grown up enough that you get to wash the dishes by yourself."

And then pull up the chair, and don't help them.

You've helped them many times before, you showed them how to do it.

Let them stand there and wash the dishes.

And the dishes, give them little dishes, give them plastic dishes, give them dishes they're

not going to drop on the floor and break.

And don't give them heave pots, and pans, and stuff like that.

But give them a few dishes to wash and put in the dish drainer.

And then you'll clap, and you'll celebrate the growth of them helping.

And you may have come by after them and rewash the dishes, but the moment of them feeling

like they have done a service for you, and you reward that behavior that you want repeated.

And then what happens, is the kid gets excited, like, "Hey, I contributed something to the

household."

Now, there are a lot of parents that pay for allowance, and my suggestion is, pay for allowance

for things that are extra.

But the things that are daily chores, like taking your dishes to the sink, putting the

dishes into the dishwasher, making your bed, cleaning up the bathroom vanity after yourself,

these are things that everyone in the household does for no money.

Because we're all part of the household, we all live here.

In order for us all to live here, there are things we must do, and you're going to be

teaching your children daily tasks anyway, like taking a shower and brushing their teeth,

hanging up their clothes and putting their toys away.

These are things you're going to be teaching them anyway.

It's not anything extra for you to teach them how to make their bed, to hurry and put the

toys away, to wipe off the bathroom vanity when they're done.

And so, these are things that you can teach them from a very early age, that by the time

they become 8, 9, 10, 12 years old, these are skills they've mastered.

Yes, they just do it because that's what you do in a house.

If you're starting at age 16, and you're going to start to teach your kid household chores,

you've gone way too long.

Because kids pick up at a very early age, and if they know that they're helping out,

and they're a part of contributing to the family, then they become part of the family.

They feel a sense of ownership, and when their friends come over and make a mess they're

like, "Hey, you got to put that away.

That doesn't go there."

And so, they will help you keep the house clean.

But how early can you do it?

You do it when the kid is an infant because that is the time when they are absorbing everything.

And use the words like, "Mommy's big helper.

You want to be mommy's big helper?"

It's a positive term, and they're like, "Yes, I do.

What do I have to do?"

And so, as they grow up, they still want to be mommy's big helper.

Now, my husband, he's not mommy's big helper, but he's Angela's big helper, and he helps

me all the time.

I'm like, "Look, yay, you're Angela's big helper."

It's a joke, and it's funny, and he's like, "I want to help."

And so, there are rules that you install from the very beginning.

Now, my rules with my husband started when we got married, but you have to start from

somewhere, and the sooner you start, the sooner you can benefit from everyone helping out.

Because if one person in the house is doing all the chores, it becomes overwhelming, and

it's hard to keep up with, because that one person probably has a whole host of other

things, even if it's a house mom.

Because you still have to taxi for your kids, and you still have grocery shopping, and you

still have to pick up the mail, and you still have to pay the bills and do all these other things.

So if everyone in the house is helping out with the chores, it becomes easy for everyone.

All right, that's my two cents for today, and until we meet again,

leave a world a cleaner place then when you found it.

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(bright music)

- Hi, I'm Greg from Jeffery & Wilkes.

Today, we just want to discuss,

what is the process when you're having a home extension

and how long does a home extension usually take?

How long does it take is difficult to answer

because it does depend on the size

and the complexity of the project.

But an average

rear or side extension,

they can take somewhere between 8 and 12 weeks.

What is the process between these 8 and 12 weeks?

What goes on?

Let us consider for a moment

that it's a 12 week project and let us outline

each of those steps through the 12 weeks

and you can get a guide on what happens

at the beginning to the end.

Week 1

is when the build team will turn up.

They'll bring all their plant onto site

and probably bring a portaloo

they might take down fences

and put up some secure Heras fencing.

It is site preparation

ready for the main build that is about to start.

Week 2.

Week 2 is where you may excavate the foundations.

If you've got access,

you may bring an actual excavating machine in,

for example a small JCB.

If you haven't got access, then you'll need

to think about hand digging the site,

which may take a little bit longer.

Generally speaking, it is about a week

for excavating for your extension.

Week 3.

Week 3 is where you've done all your excavation

Now you want to pour the concrete.

In week 3, you would be thinking

about other groundwork.

Such as drainage, moving manholes,

other rainwater gullies.

All your ground works would

be prepared during week 3.

Once you've got your ground works done

and you've poured your foundations

In week 4, you generally

will start the brick work.

Brickwork will then go up to DPC height -

Damp Proof Course height.

Now Damp Proof Course is about 150 mil above ground level.

Sometimes it could be higher

if it is matching your existing

Damp Proof Course in the house.

In week 4, you build up to Damp Proof Course

and you do the damp proof membrane

on the floor of the extension.

Week 5

You will extend the brickwork up to roof height.

When you get to week 6,

you are thinking about putting the roof on.

That will be the structure of the roof that will go on,

whether it is a flat roof or a pitched roof.

You will make the openings for

the deluxe windows or roof lanterns.

Week 7 is when you get watertight.

That is where the finished roof covering will go on,

and your velux windows and roof lanterns will be installed.

You are now watertight after week 7.

You can start thinking about the internal works.

Week 8 is where you will start

your electric and plumbing first fix.

You will start putting all the positions

of the spotlights and the radiator positions in.

At this time you might be thinking

about doing the knock throughs.

You might have a structural post to go in,

or a structural steel, and you might

knock through into the existing building.

Then week 9 you can think

about insulating and plaster boarding.

You insulate to become thermally efficient

and after you plasterboard the entire room,

ready for skimming.

Week 10 is where skimming will be done,

and by week 10 you should

have skimming all complete.

This is where you really start to see it take shape.

Week 11 is second fix which means second fix

of all your plumbing, electrics,

your radiators go on, all your light fittings,

your light switches and sockets.

Your carpentry second fix

could happen at this time.

This is where your kitchens might go in,

your skirting boards, architraves, doors.

This is where all the finishing touches really happen.

In week 12

this should be the completion of the project.

This is where you're snagging,

and inspecting with your project manager,

checking that everything is up

to top standard and good quality.

There is an average guide.

As we said, not every project will take 12 weeks.

Some may take longer, if it is more complex.

But as guide

of a 12 week project, that is

how it would work from start to completion.

Hopefully this gives you

an idea of how your home extension will go.

Thanks.

(bright music)

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