Sadhguru another very important concept which is very important in this campuses
of feminism and in one of your earlier videos you have said that feminists are
just desperately trying to be men no no you are going by other people's comments
not mine you're going by some delhi lawyers making some stupid comments but
still it's a guru what would you what is your idea of what how would you see
first of all a man and a woman are not two different species we need to
understand that till let's say 50 years ago or 100 years ago till technologies
came there were certain things in life that only a man could do because it
everything work on this planet were essentially done by man's muscle yes
everything by human muscle mainly man's muscle woman took to those kind of
activities where muscle is not the main investment there are other aspects to
life they took to that naturally so that's how the world was running today
women are out doing many things not because of liberalism not because of
feminism simply because of technology technology has devalued oh it's a bad
word to user technology has devalued brawn only brain power matters now still
it matters in India even if you want to get on to your bus in India you need
some muscle okay but if technology as it gets very all-pervading in every aspect
of our life you will come to a place where you don't have to think who is a
man who is a woman why should you think right now I am talking to you what does
it matter to me whether you're a man or a woman I'm asking only in certain
relationships in certain spaces being a male or a female is relevant isn't it
for you to do your research what does it matter whether you're a man or a woman
if you have a few brain cells working you can do it right
so this thing about excessively trying to separate male and female as if
they're two separate species is a wrong way to approach this is happening in
reaction to exploitative situations which have existed in the past
but even this exploitative situations are - it is true to some extent to a
large extent it is true let me say this but it is not absolutely true it is not
true all women in this country or all women in the world were exploited it's
not true many women lived wonderfully well yes maybe they never cared of the
whole of their homes and did some work outside but they lived wonderfully well
doing fulfilling their part of their work beautifully and doing it so this
idea that man and women always have to fight to achieve something he is a wrong
idea so instead of talking about feminism I
am saying what is feminine has to find equal value in the society means one
thing that needs to happen is see if you create survival of the fittest kind of
atmosphere masculine will rule when I say masculine I am NOT saying man a
woman may become more masculine in given situations and Jimmy succeed but the
loss of feminine is a loss for the species hello if we lose everything
that's feminine everything that's gentle everything that's beautiful is lost
simply because we have created a crude society where unless you are like this
you can't win you are destroying the species the beauty of feminine is gone
then men will wonder why the hell of their life after some time yes
it will come so for any wonderful society to happen it's very important we
create an ecosystem where both masculine and feminine can function but from the
caveman's time where human muscle ruled everything and women were kept in a
certain way because muscle was the most important thing once again we are
creating the same system in the modern world survival of the fittest dog eat
dog rat race whatever you want to call it if you do this you will kill the
feminine' maybe not the women women may succeed they may build themselves like
men and they succeed but isn't it a great loss for the species that
somewhere you understand feminine is weakness this must go feminine is not
weakness it's another form of strength it's another form of life expression as
masculine is one form of expression feminine is another form at expression
in yoga the masculine is called right Pingala and feminine is left so I'm
sorry I'm on the right
but we are on equal terms to and Torah
Satguru v as students stay away from our homes from the familial emotional
comforts in terms of our careers we move out seeking greener pastures
in that we seek company in opposite sex some people get into relationships which
gradually progresses to physical intimacy so grew the question is then
why as generations we cannot discuss it openly or is premarital sex still a
taboo see this is not some kind of a prescription this is an individual need
right now we must understand this in this society we handled human sexuality
like this before a girl attains puberty they are named this is the boy you're
going to marry at the age of six or seven they don't marry but they say they
keep telling him your uncle's son this guy you want to marry him you want to
marry him they're telling him you're going to marry her so they have not seen
each other they have not met each other they have nothing going but emotionally
they're being bound before they touch each other physically they want them to
be emotionally bound in a strong way so this is the technique of the culture how
they dealt with it so when you become or attain to your
puberty when your body blossoms into certain possibilities now your emotions
are already with somebody so you handle your body you don't go wild because your
emotions are already attached to somebody so by the time they're 1516 the
girl gets married by the time they're 17 18 the boy gets
married they get into agriculture a business of whatever whatever their
activity so one important aspect of the life of the youth is settled one thing
is emotion the thing is a physical requirement both
are settled at an early age and of course those days children came within a
year or two years so they got engaged and they got busy and they life went on
all right today our lives have changed because by the time you finish education
most people are minimum 24 25 years of age PhD means 30 what 35 I don't know
what it depends how kind your professor is so let us say average education time
is 25 years of age by the time they get employment and settle down somewhere to
reasonable financial security thirty years of time all right
the peak of human hormonal function is between fifteen to thirty you are not
teaching people some ascetic way to live you're not giving them some sadhana that
they're transforming their energy to some other possibility and attaining to
something else there is no such thing and this close proximity with opposite
sex if you don't want to address it then you will create an unhealthy Society
very unhealthy Society which unfortunately is finding expression in
violent ways in our society because we've not addressed the fundamental
needs of a human being first thing is nourishment if nourishment is taken care
of you must understand nourishment is
survival once survival is taken taken care of
naturally the species this is not even individual the species that you are is
longing to reproduce this is how it's built
it's longing to reproduce because this is survival of the species
if people don't reproduce there is not going to be human race isn't it so your
body and your mind plays many tricks and how when you look at somebody you
suddenly think they're the most beautiful suddenly you think they're the
most tastic we will discover later many
things but initially everything is clouded see I'm telling you let us say
you are 10 12 years of age you looked at people they're quite normal
suddenly you became 14 every little bump on somebody's body is a world by itself
simply because your hormones begin to influence everything in a way you are
more your intelligence is had your intelligence is hijacked by your
hormones now this is not to be judged as bad or good this is a natural process
there may be a few people who will go beyond that it's fantastic for them if
they can go beyond that they are not compulsive about it they went beyond it
fantastic for that person but you expect the whole society to go beyond it you
just stupid such a thing doesn't happen so definitely the debate of when and how
sexuality should happen has to come in but now we are still having a certain
cultural aspects to us that we are i emotional not we are still an emotion a
lot people suffer immensely when things happen without the needed emotions a
whole lot of people at least there may be a few people who are about that but a
whole lot of people suffer so for our country for our society how to deal with
this without causing a major disruption in the social structure is something
that we must debate you must do research on it how to do it though I get a little
hint of the answer of my question from your elaboration but still I will ask it
so I had this belief or in fact maybe I was made to believe this whole concept
of one life one partner but now when I see your observe the whole monogamous
relationships do not seem to be existing anymore the whole idea of it is gone
what you think about it it's not gone maybe in JNU it's gone in
the in the rest of the world it's not really gone even if you even if you go
to United States where there seems to be so much promiscuity even there when
people marry they believe it's for life but of course two years later life gets
over that's another matter but when they get married they believe it's for life
that's why they invest in the diamonds they think it's a lifetime investment
they're putting on that but unfortunately for all kinds of things
relationships go wrong and one reason they go wrong so easily is because
people are meeting much later in their life see when people met much younger
when their personalities were not concrete ashed they met early 17 18 then
two people became like one person very easily now they're meeting at 30 now
both are concrete eyes two concrete blocks but I am seeing young people if
they marry they hang on if people marry over fifty years of age they have gone
because they have again softened up concrete as again
between 2015 30 and 50 it's a bit of a concrete block you know strong persona
now friction happens well if they're wise they will find something beyond
well monogamy and polygamy or whatever kind of gammy if you want to see the
important thing we need to understand is you know we are all here you and me are
here this means a man and woman came together some time ago maybe you think
they think are their parents you know they don't Lao they don't do sex they
don't do anything they just because a priest uttered a mantra you were born
probably no it's not like that somebody had a physical need so they
handle it through marriage and we are here and now we can at a certain age at
a stage in your life after when you become a teen you become always against
marriage but when you were three years of age you were for marriage your
parents marriage when you were three years of age were you not glad your
parents had a stable marriage hello when you're 18 you think of Rhys axe and no
marriage and everything but once again if you become 50 55 then you will look
for a relationship that lasts so it is for you to consider because it's your
life to consider whether you want to live a life where emotionally you're
always looking out for somebody or you settle it in a certain way so that you
can use your intelligence and time to create something else your research your
work of whatever you're doing if emotions and body are settled actually
your ability to use your intelligence will be much better otherwise every day
you have to walk around to find somebody no I'm not making this any of this thing
because I feel so bad in United States people I know and we know that thousands
of people are involved with me people over 40 45 years of age women I'm
saying wonderful people but they are all on this these days they've all gone
online otherwise they go sit in a bar and wait
somebody needs to pick them up today it's terrible
Binda generation I'm sorry tinder generation whatever you want to call it
but I think it's so pathetic when a woman at 45 should have been loud and
respected in a proper atmosphere now she's sitting there looking for some
strange guy to come her way and she's going to make the judgement in the next
10 minutes when he buys her a drink or a dinner or something this is tragic this
is tragic that you will end up without any sense of dignity this doesn't mean
everybody will go that way but you must think of the larger well-being before
you break a social structure you must think whether we can replace it
with a better structure at any point in our life let everybody understand this
whether it's a social structure or a political structure or a psychological
setup in the society whatever before we break it we must think through whether
we have a better alternative system without an alternative system if you
break the existing damn thing that's working reasonably well then it'll go
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