This concern is about a man who is afraid to
go home because of his passionate wife.
What kind of concern is this?
(Embarrassed)
For us, not being passionate is the problem.
How is she passionate?
"Please Stop My Wife."
Are they newlyweds?
I'm a man in my 40s who's afraid to go home.
When I go home,
"You're home? Take off your clothes."
(Why are we embarrassed?)
Why is she in such a rush?
Can this be aired?
As soon as he gets home?
"I'm tired. Can't I just go to bed?"
"Don't be ridiculous.
Take it all off right now."
(Blushing)
(Buddy, I'm glad we came here today)
What is going on? In order to enter our home,
I must strip down naked
and take a shower first.
It's because my wife is overly clean.
(Disappointed)
(We're disappointed, too)
"What are you doing? It's 1 a.m."
"Can't you see? I'm cleaning."
She wipes the entire place down
with wet wipes.
She uses over 200 a day.
I guess about two packs.
One pack usually holds 100 tissues.
Then she uses two packs a day.
This is the bigger problem. "I'm home."
"Don't come in!
Take off your clothes and go take a shower!"
"Mom, I'm so hungry."
"If you don't wash up, no food for you."
My wife only cares about cleaning.
I can't live like this anymore.
Please stop her.
We've had people who are excessively clean.
But I think this is the worst one so far.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about his overly clean wife?)
(Na Jongguk)
I've never heard of stripping down naked at home.
Right. Even your underwear, too?
It's a normal ritual at our place.
If I don't do that, I can't go inside.
So I must strip down naked at the front door.
I have to take a shower and
the clothes I wore are washed.
Every day?
Yes, every day.
She even washes my jackets every day.
Even your jackets?
Yes. So I leave expensive clothes in my car.
Even if I go to a public bath and get scrubbed,
I must take a shower again at home.
Even if I go out briefly...
Wait.
Even after going to a public bath,
you must take a shower again at home?
(What is that?)
There must be days when you're really tired.
You don't want to wash up when you're drunk.
I tell her, "I'm tired. Let me rest."
I try to go in,
but she grabs me with a wet wipe
to stop me from going in.
(Goosebumps)
Couldn't you just pretend to take a shower?
My wife watches me and if I'm too quick
she pours shampoo on my head.
Then she tells me to go back in and wash again.
You can lock the bathroom door.
She cleaned it so much that the knob is rusty.
- Because she cleaned it too much? / - Too much?
How much do you have to clean it for it to get rusty?
(Speechless)
Let's say you're home from work,
but your wife isn't there.
Then he can go in.
It's party time.
I can't go in the house.
I have to wait for her by the front door.
I always call her when I'm going home.
"Can I go home right now?"
You must get permission to go in?
It's my house, but it doesn't feel like it.
Couldn't you tell her that you'll take a shower
and wash your clothes even if she isn't there?
She has to see it with her own eyes.
How far down do you wash?
What's up with your hand?
(Well...)
Why are you going like this?
You could've gone like this.
What I mean is...
You could be home very late.
When you're late, does she wait up?
She does.
I punch in the PIN on the front door.
While I'm taking a shower,
she wipes down the door lock.
Because you punched in the PIN?
(She's the cleanest person in the world)
- She wipes the handle, too. / - Wow.
Then she wipes down the other side.
It's like she's getting rid of evidence.
She's getting rid of his evidence everywhere.
I guess you can't have guests over then.
I'm curious about this.
Would a guest need to strip down naked, too?
(Hahaha)
My best friend came over once.
He was left speechless.
He had to stand by the front door?
He did for about an hour
and then left.
What about your parents or your in-laws?
"Honey. Let's not do this."
Does she clean everything with wet wipes?
Yes. She wipes the floor,
the front door, the living room, the walls...
Even our children's notebooks.
She wipes each page.
Then the pages will get wet.
Yes, the notebooks are wrinkled on the edges.
The edges are rolled up?
How much does she spend on wet wipes?
About $300-400 a month.
On just the wet wipes?
She uses a big tub of detergent every week.
Even when she washes 4-5 plates,
it takes her about 30-40 minutes to do so.
For 5 plates?
(We can't be surprised anymore...)
When did this start?
We've been married for 12 years now.
She wasn't like this in the beginning.
But after our eldest child was born, she changed.
It must be because of the children.
When we get a package delivered,
she gets changed and cleans the box.
She seems to have a fear of dust.
Of course it's nice to be clean,
but it sounds like she's excessively clean.
Have you tried to change her habits,
like by seeing a therapist?
I've tried everything. I've taken her to see
a psychiatrist, a counselor and tried hypnosis.
I want her to change her ways,
but she has no will to change.
The hypnosis treatment doctor said that
she must have the will to be hypnotized.
(Let's stop this now)
Let's hear what his wife has to say.
Hello.
Hello.
You understand his concern, right?
No, not really?
How come nobody who sits there understands?
How do you feel when you don't clean everything?
First of all... Sigh.
(It's horrible just thinking about it)
I feel like germs are everywhere.
You feel like invisible germs are on you?
What is your process of cleaning?
I go to work from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m.
When I get home, I don't go inside.
I stay by the front door until my kids get home.
(Unbelievable)
Once my children are home,
I take their clothes off.
Once they go inside,
I clean the spot where I was sitting.
I take a shower, feed my children
and I start to clean.
(Oh my)
I use a lint roller to clean the mat and pillows.
Then I open the windows for ventilation.
Then I use wet wipes to clean
the kids' toys, the corners, the remote controls
and the dresser next to our bed.
You're supposed to put the mic to your mouth,
but you're afraid that it's too dirty?
(Disgusted)
Yes, a little bit.
(This is why I'm here today)
You said that you wait until your kids get home.
Yes, for about 4 hours.
By the front door? Where your shoes are kept?
I have to go out to pick up my youngest anyway.
(Oh my)
I have to take a shower again anyway.
What about your lunch?
I eat by the front door.
(Oh my)
You eat by the front door?
Isn't food in the kitchen?
I buy it when I come back from work.
- You eat squatting down? / - Yes.
(Hard to understand wife vs. War against germs)
Why did the door knob break?
I use hand wash to clean the door handles
and wash them with water.
You spray the door with water?
If you spray that, metal would rust.
I don't spray it. I rub the soap on it.
How many times did you rub it for that to happen?
I'm curious to see what the bathroom looks like.
I clean the restroom with hand wash
so everything is shiny.
You clean everything with hand wash?
Is there a reason why you use hand wash?
It says it gets rid of 99.9% of the germs.
- Killing germs? / - Hand wash.
She's a germophobe.
Cleaning like that every day...
You have to be on your hands and knees.
Your back and knees would hurt.
My wrists are always in pain.
Her wrists are in pain.
My knees have turned black,
so I can't wear shorts anymore.
Because you're always on your knees scrubbing?
(For a 100% germ-free environment)
(Impressive)
I wonder how you are when you're outside.
At work, I take antibacterial wet wipes.
So I use it to wipe my area.
I can't use public restrooms.
You only go when you're at home?
Yes, ever since I was in my 20s.
Since you were young?
So you didn't go to the restroom here today?
No, not once.
It's horrifying for me to seat on public toilets.
You can wipe it first.
No.
That's why I've peed in my pants a few times.
(That must be even more gross)
She should carry her own personal bedpan.
You must be feeling very uncomfortable today.
We actually observed how she acted
while she waited in the waiting room.
She seems surprised.
Let's take a look.
(His wife has arrived)
Please wait here.
(She sits down)
(She takes something out)
She's sitting down.
She's taking it out.
(Here she goes again)
(Go away, germs)
She's wiping her hands.
It's like a habit for her.
(It's her habit!)
She's wiping her hands first.
(30 minutes later)
She never moves from that spot.
She won't sit anywhere else.
(1 hour later)
You need to come now.
Right now?
She was sitting there the whole time.
- Wow. / - Unbelievable.
She never left to go to the restroom.
I feel like we were looking at her front door.
You sit there for hours every day, right?
(She does that wherever she goes)
If she likes to keep things clean like this,
your house must be spotless.
The tables must be clean.
Not really. Considering how much she cleans,
she's really bad at organizing.
She only cleans but doesn't organize.
She has her own way of organizing things.
(What are her standards?)
If something breaks down, like the TV,
someone must come and fix it.
Inspection time!
Sir, inspection time!
What do you do then?
The lights have been broken for a while now.
(Wow)
We just live in the dark.
Really? Even when it's broken?
Is that why the door doesn't have a handle?
Yes.
If it's just the light bulb, I can do it.
But if it needs a professional's work...
How long has it been since the light went out?
About 3 years.
(Isn't it annoying?)
Do you light candles at night?
We leave the door open and use indirect lighting...
- From the next room? / - Yes.
The kids feel uncomfortable, too.
They need to do their homework.
They are growing up
and they want the house to be brighter.
I'm afraid that their vision will get worse.
Your husband is saying that
this started after your children were born.
What were you like before then?
I was like this in my early 20s, too.
I spent half of my earnings on wet wipes.
I used to live with my sister,
but she ran away because she couldn't take it anymore.
She ran away in the middle of the night.
It must've been really tough for her.
Your husband didn't know it before he married you?
We only dated for about 7 months
and then I got pregnant.
I'm sure he was blinded by love.
I'm curious to know how you got pregnant.
(Aha)
Because she's so excessively clean.
I'm sure he bathed a lot back then.
It's not that. It happened the first time.
(Oh...)
Your chance of pregnancy was 99.9%, too.
(She's firm)
99.9% on germs, too.
But it got worse after you gave birth, right?
I guess I cared more about being clean
after I gave birth.
That's when I started to clean with wet wipes.
How many times do you wash your hands a day?
About 100 times.
100 times?
(Basically obsessed)
That would dry out your hands.
It's not so bad now,
but I had skin peeling off my hands
because wet wipes have alcohol in them.
This could be hereditary.
Were your parents excessively clean, too?
No, my parents and my sisters aren't that bad.
Since we lived in a rural area
and my parents weren't too hygienic
I was a bit traumatized.
That's why you turned out this way?
There were so many flies in my home
because we had cows in the backyard.
That happens with cows.
There were so many flies on the ceiling.
I just remembered my first popular saying.
- My first popular saying. / - What was it?
"I heard that you're strong enough to kill a cow."
"That's a misunderstanding.
I slapped the cow to kill a fly.
Who knew that would kill the cow, too?"
(A perfect popular saying)
That's how many flies live near cows.
If I were their child, it would be tough.
Our eldest child has the toughest time.
So I took her to a psychiatrist since I was worried.
Good job.
She drew our house completely black.
(Oh no)
She said that our house is too dirty and dusty.
It looks black to her.
(Shocked)
Since Mom cleans so much
she thinks it's because the house is dirty?
She got treated for about 6 months.
She's doing a lot better now.
It's her mom who needs to change.
What about your younger one?
She's 5 years old now.
She gets sauce on her mouth when she eats.
Sure. Grownups do, too.
She won't eat unless we wipe it off for her.
She will stay still until it's gone.
- A 5-year-old? / - It's a habit for her, too.
We're shocked to hear this. Aren't you shocked?
My husband keeps telling me
that I have a problem.
So I wanted to come here and see
if other people think I have a problem, too.
If they do, I am willing to change a little bit.
Just a little.
(Really?)
Then I'll show you right now.
Raise your hand if you only use
the bathroom at home.
(Quiet)
No one.
(No way)
Please be honest with us.
When you get home, you strip down and shower.
You have to do it every day.
If that's the way you live, raise your hand.
No one.
No one out of 200 people raised their hand.
(Her lips are trembling from the shock)
What do you think? No one raised their hand.
No one.
Why is that? Geez.
This is the reality.
Why would anyone wash everything
just after wearing them once?
Other than socks and underwear.
- You don't believe it? / - No.
(Please face reality now)
I know this is hard for her, too,
but she forces her ways on us.
Right.
She decides everything on her own.
When we go on trips,
she just tells me 2-3 days before we leave.
"I made a reservation, so make time."
I don't have a choice but to listen.
She even caused a major financial problem once.
Your wife?
(What kind of problem was it?)
(You're going to reveal everything?)
I went to the bank because I needed some cash.
I was going to get a loan for $3,000
but they rejected my request.
They told me that my credit standing is bad and
that I was about to become a credit delinquent.
They told me that I have a lot of debt already.
I came home and asked my wife about it.
She invested in some stocks
and lost about $200,000.
(She spent that much without telling him?)
She lost that much.
She lost it all?
(Oh my)
She also took out loans without telling me
and got a loan from a loan shark, too.
She tried to make up for the loss.
You found out when you went to the bank?
- Yes. / - She never told you?
And...
(There's more?)
She also invested in Bitcoin.
(Oh my goodness)
(This concern is getting more serious)
She did all this on her own.
Oh my.
We were supposed to move
to a bigger place earlier this year.
But we had to use that money to pay back the loan.
It's very upsetting.
We've been married for 12 years,
but I've never heard her apologize to me.
Who's paying back the debt?
I am.
(Even others are getting frustrated)
I have more pride than other people.
I've made my own decisions since I was single.
(So you're asking him to be understanding?)
I guess I think my husband is a pushover.
Your husband is a pushover?
Now that we've heard everything,
you seem to do things without discussing it.
Shouldn't you think from his point of view, too?
I've never thought of it from his point of view.
Not once?
(Where is that confidence coming from?)
You two are married.
Then why should he think from your point of view?
Because he's living with me.
You're living with him, too.
Did you ever speak to her sternly about this?
After she gave birth, she seemed depressed.
I tried to call her more often.
When I asked her, "Have you eaten?"
she'd say, "Look at the time. Of course."
Whenever I tried to talk to her at home,
she was always busy cleaning the house.
You two are not able to talk to each other.
I call her by her name, but...
What does she call you?
Sometimes, she will say, "Hey, you!"
When we argue, she'll call me an animal.
Sometimes, she cusses at me.
Do you think there are men like him out there?
Someone who is as understanding as he is?
A normal human being would...
Calm down, Din Din. You're angry.
She should be grateful to him.
You don't have to honor your husband,
but you should be respectful to each other.
As a human being.
Do you not want to talk to your husband?
It's not that.
Since I clean until 1 or 2 a.m.
I am too tired.
1 or 2 a.m.?
If you're that tired,
how do you have the energy to invest in stocks?
She must've done it by the front door while waiting.
Please tell us.
(Please think from my point of view, too)
I'm curious to see why you came here today.
There were many incidents
and my body felt weird last year.
I drive a lot for my work.
I started to break out into cold sweats.
We live on the 9th floor.
It takes 15 seconds to get up there.
But I couldn't stand to be in an elevator.
It sounds like a panic disorder.
I went to see a doctor and he told me
that I have depression and a panic disorder.
That's the diagnosis I got.
(He's mentally exhausted)
I know this isn't good for our kids,
but this isn't something I can control.
For now, I am hoping that
my psychiatric treatment will help.
She signed a written promise.
If she doesn't change after the treatment,
we will get a divorce.
You talked about divorce, too?
(He said it in hopes that she will change)
It's too hard for me.
I'm afraid that I will just give up one day.
I think this is my last hope.
I think you're being too selfish.
I've never thought of it that way,
but I guess it's somewhat true.
What is it that you do for your family?
Me? I clean the house for them every day.
That's not what your family wants.
I'm getting rid of germs for them.
But they're suffering because of that.
But the house is clean in the end.
You're doing that for yourself.
(Admit your fault now)
How are you going to pay back the debt?
You're a thorough person.
We have about $50,000 left in debt.
But your husband is...
Who paid back $150,000?
My husband.
You must set your pride aside today.
Be honest with us.
You made the decision to do it.
You never discussed it with him.
You're sorry, right?
You are sorry, right?
Yes.
It's okay. You should express it, not keep it inside.
You should tell him how you feel.
Then he can get rid of his anger.
You have a debt and he's paying it off.
He gets frustrated when he goes home.
What joy does he have in his life?
It must be so upsetting.
(You must change)
He came here because this is his last resort.
You don't want to divorce him, right?
No.
- You don't, right? / - No.
You may be harsh with him because of your pride,
but you want to live as a happy family, right?
Yes.
Then you must work harder.
Please say a word to your wife.
I want to live like other people and wash later
if I am too tired that day.
Please don't strictly tell me to do things.
I want us to be able to talk to each other.
(Do you see how much he has suffered?)
It's my fault
and I'm sorry.
(She's apologizing for the first time)
I will try to change my ways from now on.
What will you try to change first?
I will try to use wet wipes less.
I will try to use hand wash less, too.
Nothing will happen.
Even if he comes home late,
let him go inside without doing anything.
All right. Just wash your hands, feet and hair.
Then what about his body?
- Just his hands and feet. / - Just his hands?
Just his hands and feet.
Everyone should wash their hands and feet.
Even if you are not home, let him go in.
You will keep your promise to wash, right?
- Yes. / - Even when she isn't home?
(You can do it!)
Please tell him that you love him.
I love you.
A little? Or a lot.
A little a lot.
Don't repeat after me and say how you feel.
She's your Avatar.
(She's in control again?)
This much? That much? How much?
I love you this much.
Say one last time that you're sorry.
I'm sorry.
(We hope she can respect her husband now)
Good job.
Let's start with Bongsun. Is it a concern?
How can this not be a concern?
We'd be married if we met a man like him.
I hope you think of your family first.
I think it's a concern.
You must try much harder.
I hope you change your ways
even for your own life.
If you can relate to him, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please show us the result.
It was an unbelievable concern.
(The last digit is a 6)
- Out of 200 people. / - She'll be surprised.
It'll be a lot.
(What's the result?)
(They got 166 votes)
(I admit it now)
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