no nothing is needed beyond noticing it in the same way that you notice a sense
perception and look on it to feel it
otherwise the fear becomes a reaction and you withdraw and run back into
identification with thinking the familiar place
it feels so familiar so then the fear pushes you when you touch this place
consciousness sometimes it happens that fear arises and then you touch it again
and if you don't know that this is a very natural reaction then the fear you
identify with the fear you become the fearful entity that then withdraws again
into the normal state of B so to notice the fear is there brings about a freedom
so that the fear is not totally possessing you you're not totally
identified with the movement of fear you can see that fear in your energy field
and don't have to do anything you allow that and then you can look again at
something when the same thing that brought the fear there is a gentleness
when you allow the fear there's a gentleness around it because so you're
using the other portal now with the fear which is allowing it to be then the fear
itself is turned into a portal first it seems to prevent you from getting there
but if you then apply the portal of allowing it what is to be it is then the
fear itself becomes a portal again so first there was the portal of perception
clear perception which brought about fear or listening to the silence which
brought about fear when you notice the fear and allow it you the allowing is
best expressed in a gesture that I would describe as this when you almost they
hold it in a spaciousness which is a also one could say that gesture and that
particular portal very much it connected with the female principle of embracing
that's why Dex you see sometimes with Mary statues the arms like that that is
the female principle there's enormous power in that holding embracing
receptivity and there's a gentleness there so when you allow something
including fear there is that an inner holding it within this larger
spaciousness and rook it might even help a little while to actually hold your
arms like that and then because you can almost feel the space around it and then
whatever it is that you allow to be will turn into the portal the worst things
will turn into a portal but the worse they get the deeper the yes would have
to be and deeper the allowing so see how everything that looks like an obstacle
in your life an obstacle to enlightenment and
obstacle to whatever can easily be turned into an opening simply through
non resistance and then every situation even if it looks from a conventional
mental viewpoint even if it looks dreadful very bad indeed if you allow
that which looks dreadful and very bad indeed
the strange thing is that every situation it's not just on the inner
level that the shift happens that the portal opens the situation itself is
turned from good to bad it's the transmutation of good to bad
it's not there's a famous story unfortunately I don't remember the
details of it they're different versions when a poor farmer a horse comes to him
a wild horse and all the people in the village come to him and say aren't you
lucky you're so lucky that this horse you have a horse now and the farmer says
well maybe maybe so and then the next day the horse
I think leaves him again and they all come all you've lost the horse that's
you're so unlucky first you had it just maybe and then the horse comes back
the next step is five other horses and they come back in some maybe then the
summer some rights on the wild horse and then he's thrown off and breaks his leg
and the villagers come and say oh poor man you know he cannot help you with the
harvest and the fast perhaps maybe the next day the the army comes to
constitute seek conscripts for the next war and the son can't go by them and
they all get killed of course so the village has come and say aren't you
lucky you kept your son because he has a broken leg okay every event he doesn't
resist anything and every seemingly bad event transient is good again there are
quite a few people in this room who have experienced bad events that they would
never have chosen if some reason do you want this to happen to you you would
just say no but it happened and at some point
surrender happened if not complete substantial surrender happened and then
you see that which you never wanted was actually the best possible thing to
happen for you and it's a strange realization that whatever happens to you
when you align yourself with it will turn out to be the best possible thing
for you the universe is not mad only you are mad
it's nothing personal and of course your madness is part of the universe - it's a
little game so to see that whatever happens through the yes turns around
it's not only that you become free internally and the dimension opens up
that is beyond the form that this moment takes even on the level of form a shift
happens and it turns around and that's an amazing thing to realize the similar
story which I have told a few times the Zen master who was accused by a 17 year
old girl was pregnant of being the father in a town in Japan and
Aaron's came to him and said she has just told us she's going to have him
she's given birth to this baby and she's just confessed to her that you are the
father when she came to see you in nine months ago it happened she had obsession
with you and you and all over the town they gossip started and they all said
how dreadful he could have done such a thing but when they came to him the
parents and told him about it all he said was is that so in Japanese I don't
know what the Japanese it it may be something like a song or something so
the parents come and say here you you know we don't want this baby it's your
baby you look after it first they say you are the father and he didn't deny it
he said oh and then they said here do you have the baby you look after it we
don't want it he said so and then they left and he started looking after the
baby feeding it buying food nobody came to see him anymore because he had lost
his reputation but because he didn't live through a conceptualized sense of
self or that matter to him was what this moment required this moment there was
this baby so he was feeling the baby without the conceptualized sense of self
the drama was in all the other people they talked about it for months in
months the drama was not in him there was only
this moment and he cares for the baby a year later the girl confessed that the
master wasn't the father but the boy next door so the parents came running to
the Zen master and said because she's just told us that you are not the father
and he said ah
and sulk we are terribly sorry we made a mistake and can we have the baby back
now please we want the baby now is that so okay it is that situation which is a
potentially a dreadful thing for the Zen master we charge into good only good the
baby was brought up in the first year of his or her life by a Zen master that's a
good start in life and this is the story symbolizes the state of nun it's an
extreme version of non-resistance - what is it didn't have to be literally like
that you could say he could have said no I'm not the father but if you believe
that I'm your father what can I do could say that also this
is an extreme form of being aligned totally with now never resisting and the
good that comes out of a seemingly bad event through alignment inner alignment
with it so it describes the state of not resisting the instance of now Jesus even
has an even more extreme example and again it's own it's a symbol it's still
charging the other cheek means simply complete non reaction it's not
necessarily you don't have to take it literally it's in a normal reaction in a
non reaction because usually somebody hitting you on the cheek would
immediately produce a strong reaction so he's not giving any prescription for
Journal conduct it's pointing to an inner state of being aligned
non-reaction so that's and all evil turns into good through that the
situation turns around you have to try it out in your life but one could say
that is only a byproduct of something deeper the facts that the external
situation also turns around is a byproduct of something deeper at the
deepest level what matters is the inner the arising of that depth at
spaciousness within yourself to know that through non-resistance and then
there's the event yes and yet the allowing the space that comes when you
allow and so you become free of depending on content of your life as a
byproduct of that a little irony of the universe when internally you become free
of the content of your life needing to be in one per a particular way to
satisfy you you become free of that need for your life situation to be in a
particular way to satisfy you which most people have that great need you become
free of that because knowing the the depths of space consciousness is the
most satisfying of all that is the only satisfying state so then the need for
content to be in a particular way isn't there
irony of the universe is such that when you don't need for the content to be
alive to be in a particular way it turns into the tendency is for content to turn
into good not without limitations ever but it becomes harmonious because you
are aligned with the totality so a harmonious flow comes into your life
which often means it also improves the content as a by-product precisely at the
point when you don't need it anymore it's a desperate inner need
so people have demands they demand that the world should make them happy it
doesn't it's not in the nature of the world to make you happy you can try for
a while one could say the world is here to make you conscious not to make you
happy and then when you're conscious happiness is there or something deeper
than happiness this thing a joy it has a depth to it that is deeper than
happiness happy unhappy happy unhappy something deeper is there so not to see
the ultimate non satisfactory nature of content when you see that it gets better
because you don't need it anymore so strange and many people realize in their
own lives when they let go of a demand that this or that should be in a
particular way or should happen the moment you completely let go of this
inner search it happens so only Jesus said only be
concerned with the kingdom of heaven which means kingdom of heaven is a
strange description he uses to describe the transformed state of consciousness
he has other descriptions for it the pearl of great price and all kinds of
parables pointing to it he's talking of only be concerned with finding the
essence of who you are then everything else comes and he I believe he said all
the things that you thought you need it will be added unto you because you no
longer need them and of course those things they won't stay around forever
either nothing does they still have certain limitations which are the
limitations inherent in every form but it's nice when you certain things come a
while nice and then perhaps goes again something else comes
it forms arise upon die
and you are beyond that so you leave here chains of content save space and on
the deepest level it's true to say that you never really go anywhere
and so phenomenal existence the world of form the world of phenomena continuous
in your life in this place the space that you are different configurations
forms your life situation make up your life situation you may have certain
problems in your life your life situation
the more you access the space of now the more quickly problematic situations
become resolved not by lying awake for hours on end and thinking about them
they don't become resolved in fact they don't become resolved through thought
thought maybe a final form that your realization takes of what the answer is
sometimes but problems do not become resolved through thought they were
actually created by thought in the first place so it's only by going beyond
thought that the problem suddenly disappears it may not even become
resolved it disappears from your field of vision it may reveal itself to be
only a mind form people carry problems around many people that have no
existence whatsoever except as a thought form for example fear of certain things
that may happen to me he may leave me she may leave me what if this could
happen and this can develop as it as if it were an actual situation and and you
look more deeply you see we pointed at this briefly already when you look more
deeply you see that the entire existence of the level of human problems
our only thought forms not reality only a challenge can be there in the reality
what are the problems in people's lives physical relationship financial
finding life purpose
or fashion work problems
and ultimately all of them thought-forms
relationship problem let's talk about our relationship problems maybe we can
work it out yes up to a limited point a little bit of talking may be helpful
like pain bodies but unless presence arises in the relationship you can't
work it out it's only the arising of space consciousness of presence in the
relationship that it can deepen and it can go beyond problems and the need for
problems and as you know that begins with listening to your partner when he
or she speaks the art of true listening
listening
in the field of the where presence
not exclusively focusing on the content when you listen the words because then
your vision becomes immediately content-based thought you listen to the
words and then your your face goes what do you mean what do you mean by that
what do you what do you and immediately the reactive thought forms come up no
let's do pletely I'm true I never say that
why do you almost accuse me of that yes you always do
no it's not true I don't know it took there's no listening
there's just to mind forms so there's and so not exclusively focusing on the
form because in do listening you are there as space you're not there as form
it's only you can only truly listen if you are there as space the space in
which these words appear and you allow them to appear it's again of course
connected with allowing what is to be completely so you listen to another
person you are this place in which these words happen and as you listen you
listen not in the reactor as a reactive entity but as receptive space and that
is the arising of presence unconditioned consciousness in the relationship
and the words if words come are very different if finally you do say
something those words are very different from words that arise out the out of the
reactivity of the mind so to be able to be with each other beyond the movement
of thought and not try to solve the so-called problems of the relationship
only on the level of thought the same applies with not just partner
relationships relationships with children space give the child space be
there as place as spacious presence for the child but if you are totally
identified with a thought form which is father mother and you're totally
identified with the role which is a thought form a conditioned thought form
then you interact with the child only through the role of mother or father and
how this role identity thinks a father or mother should behave to be a good
father or mother and the way they should behave is to tell them what's best for
you because I'm I must be I'm a good father I'm responsible do this don't do
that
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