How many have you ever decided not to do something based upon an assumption raise
your hands please and so that's why it's important for us to be strategic and
experiential and and being able to tell the story to distract them from their
current story distract us field breakdown the limited belief system and
inspire them to say yes to a new opportunity in their lives and so as a
result I didn't do what I'm doing that because I had such a tremendous inferior
and fard inferiority complex because of my lack of college education I stopped
myself as an African proverb that says there's no enemy within the enemy
outside can do us no harm and so as you look at yourself as you look at your
goals look at your dreams it's very important that you take time every day
and write this down to retrain your thinking kind of retrain your thinking
because how we live our lives as a result of the story that we bought into
I had to retrain my thinking because of what I saw studies indicating the
decisions we make in life is directly related to the things that we saw the
things that we experienced the conversations who have been exposed to
between age zero and five and so as a result of that my experience I had to
begin to engage in a process of retraining my mindset and I don't even
know what I was doing but this man mrs. sidarsky I never forget Lesley come in
here yes sir look at my shoes you can shine them better than this I do
apologize sir I'll do a better job and his wife said please don't yell at him
like that that's not nice he's just a kid he's only ten years old he should do
a better job in that he can I said it's okay mrs. sidarsky and he should have
yelled at me he was very rude arrogant guy but he was a kind guy too what I
loved about him ever day he had a routine it was his time in
the morning he spent working on his mind and I wanted to be in the office as he
was shining his shoes listening to Earl Nightingale all of us are self-made but
only this successful will admit it listening to dr. Denis Waitley people
form habits and habits create futures listening to Zig Ziglar if you give
enough people what they want they will give you what you want listening to Jim
Ron when the incomes for you let it find you conquering a new mountain not
sliding down an oh one listening and reading the words of Winston Churchill
the truth is incontrovertible malice mere tacit ignorance be derided but at
the end there it is reading from my favorite book be not conformed in this
world be transformed by the renewing of your mind listening to these words help
to create a different vision for myself some of you are already doing it right
now I'm saying this is a time more than ever that you want to begin to inoculate
yourself with positive words coming to conventions showing up on meetings being
on the calls to make yourself unstoppable to get out of your mind the
polluting negative thoughts that's causing most people to go through life
being stuck because they are volunteer victims somebody said that many people
died aged 25 and don't get buried until they're 65 because they got so much
garbage in their minds you are here because you've got a clear vision of
what you want and where you're going give yourselves a round of
applause come on bring energy level up yes yes
you want more you want more you're different you're
different than everybody else don't worry if they don't get it don't try and
convince people to do this business a person convinced against their will is
of the same opinion still you are not like everybody else you can walk outside
and find pigeons but if you're looking for eagles it's gonna take you a minute
you are different it's lonely at the top how many of you know it's lonely at the
top razor has it's lonely at the top but you eat better that's what I'm talking
about you're different one great entrepreneur said I choose not
to be a common man it's my right to be uncommon if I can seek opportunity not
security I do not wish to be a kept citizen humbled and dull by having the
state look after me I want to take the calculated risk to dream and to build to
fail and to succeed I refuse to live from hand to mouth I prefer the
challenges of life to the guaranteed existence the thrill of fulfillment to
the still calm of utopia I will never cower before in master nor
bin to any threat it's my heritage to stand erect proud and unafraid the face
to hurl bolli and say this I have done you showed up because you're building a
business that you can stand and say I did this I did this this is my dream
give yourselves a round of applause yes yes yes
yes
there's something in you that wouldn't allow you to stop dr. Howard Thurman he
said there's something in each and every one of you that Waits and listens to the
voice of the genuine in yourself it will be perhaps the only guide you
will ever have and if you cannot hear it all of your life your days will be spent
on the ends of strings that somebody else pulls and I said you the reason you
showed up even though you couldn't afford to be here the reason you drove
hundreds of miles flew around the world there's something in you in your heart
of hearts that said I'm not gonna let anybody pull my strings it said I'm
gonna control my own personal economy is that I've got a dream I want to achieve
I want my children to have a choice of the kind of education that they want
that said I am the captain of my ship that said I'm going to control my
destiny and whatever it takes I'm willing to do the work give yourselves a
round of applause
1961 1961 President John F Kennedy had a decision to make decision was wherever
not to call a news conference and tell the world the United States was going to
go to the moon and I submit to you that the decision to do that was very risky
and what governed his thinking is what govern your thinking when you decided
I'm going to do this see the technology did not exist the answer of what will it
take did not exist no one had ever done it before but he made a decision he
looked at Wernher von Braun the most brilliant scientist of that day and he's
that one of what will it take for us to go to the moon and he spoke five words
and those five words I think is what governs most entrepreneurs those five
words I think is what give people like you the courage to pursue their dreams
those five words is what I think people who are pioneers people who are breaking
new ground make decisions on he said what will it take for us to go to the
moon and the response was though will to do it as you look at yourself as you
look at your business as we look into 2015 and beyond what will it take for
you to increase your business the will to do it what will it take for you to
become more powerful in your presentation skills and be able to
increase the number of people to quadruple your business the will to do
it what
take for you when others are quitting because of the rejections when others
are stopping because they just become so discouraged and they have creditors
breathing down their neck and they have family members and friends telling them
their fool what is it that will allow you to have the mental resiliency to
keep on keeping on to keep your commitment to your commitment the will
to do it every time I said and asked you a question I want you to say the will to
do it what will it take for you to build your business what will it take for you
to increase your recruiting what will it take for you to bring out the greatness
in you and to make your mark what will it take for you to become a high
achiever and to bring out the billionaire in you shakes one's hand on
your right and left and say I've got the will I've got the will
mr. Washington this man who taught me he said mr. brown
you want to make it in life he said number one develop your mind you don't
get in life what you want you get in life what you are remember to develop
your communication skills once you open your mouth you tell the
world who you are 3 practice the principle of oqp only quality people let
us say together only quality people as you think about your goals and dreams
this is not for everybody you want to build an organization with only quality
people not people who need more but people who want more you want to
surround yourself with people that are hungry people that are hungry are
willing to do the things a day others won't do in order to have the things
tomorrow others won't have people that are hungry do what they know not what
they feel see I didn't do this for years because I knew it would be hard and mr.
Washington said something to me Mike Williams my mentor you want to go online
and find his book the road to your best stuff he said something that grabbed me
and I want you to put this someplace where you can see it see you build this
business through persistence you got to affirm I will persist until I succeed
you build it through patience it takes time to grow orchids faster to grow
roses but orchids that take time you have to have persistence you have to
have patience and perseverance it takes courage to come back again and again and
again because in order to build the business it's hard work it's har D and H
EA RT are you with me there break this down if you do what is easy
your life will be hard but if you do what is hard your life will be easy if
you do what is easy point out all this to some pyramid scheme well I've been
talking to people and nobody's interested I talk to people and they
said no well I've done that before come up with excuses if you do what is easy
always looking for a way to give yourself a pass to let yourself off the
hook to do what everybody else is doing a job the journey of the broke if you do
what is easy your life will be hard people working the jobs that they hate
that they hate the heart attack rate on Monday morning between 6 o'clock and 10
o'clock increases by 35% people going to jobs
that they hate if you do what is easy your life will be hard working two and
three jobs for one paycheck and no job security but there is something in you
that says you know I'm making some good money but you know what I can't do this
I can't do this anymore friend of mine she's here I'm so honored
to be in her presence him.we she went to do a presentation drove from Los Angeles
to San Francisco and 20 people in Rome and they said yes
she's an electrifying speaker great presenter yes and when she left the
dream busters took the floor and when the dream busters finished with those
people who had goals and dreams of a new life they
Taj Kim and they called her before she can get home and said no we're not gonna
do it and at that moment she could have quit write this down
your private voice every entrepreneurial you have two things going for you have
an energy signature and some of you will be working with and you have a private
voice eight to nine decisions out of 10 that you make are governed by that
private voice when they call and said no her private voice said you're wasting
your time you don't need to do this your husband is a doctor you don't need to do
this your mother you need to spend more time your child get this crazy idea out
of your mind but rather than do that she started talking to herself rather than
do that she started listening to motivational messages that will build
herself up from the inside and as a result of her saying yes I can do this
as a result of ignoring the dream Buster's now she's one of the top ten
producers in the world in multi-level marketing give her a round of applause
Kim we stand up give her a round of applause yeah
yes and now
and that's why you are here there's a voice in you that is sad I can do this I
know others have failed I can do this I know others that have said that that I
can't do it I've had setbacks in life how many had some failures raise your
hands please hope you had some nose in your life
raise your hands please shake someone's down on your right on the left and say
make know your vitamin
there's an gentleman if you want to make it in life you got to make know your
vitamin you've got to know every no brings you a step closer to yes anybody
can stop because someone said no but there's something in you in your heart
of hearts are saying I'm not a quitter there's something in you that says I've
got the will to do it there's something in you that says I'm going to find a way
mr. Brown what do you want to do with your life young man sir I'd like to
become a disc jockey why Sarah because I want to buy my mother a home he said
great listen to Paul Harvey here are my car keys going to car 12 note he comes
along every day why because if you want to be successful study the people that
are doing what you want to do he's the best in the world when it comes to
communication I suggest to you you look at what you want to achieve look at the
top achievers understand and know they are only an example they are not an
exception they're an example of what you can do because success leaves Clues
follow the system watch the leaders and study them I did that and he said Mr
Brown detoxify your life let all the negative people in your life go can I
change him no it's a full-time job changing yourself he's right he's right
you can't change people it's hard changing yourself and there's some
people so negative they can walk into a dark room and begin to develop
he said practice oqp only quality people he said I want you to see yourself as a
disc jockey you want to be a disc jockey visualize yourself being on radio you
want to be a top performer visualize yourself building the business visualize
yourself coming across the stage accepting an award for your recognition
of your hard work see it in your mind's eye he said I'll give you all your eyes
can see and I had to see myself on stage as I'm presenting right now I've been
here many times before I showed up in my mind all your goals are achieved twice
first in the mind then and without and then finally he said mr. Brown I said
yes sir you want to be a disc jockey yes sir he said you got to be hungry I said
why you keep saying that he said people that are hungry are relentless people
that are hungry unstoppable people that are hungry no excuse is acceptable
I said sir I'm hungry to take care of my mother all my life people have always
compared me to my brother because I'm not smart like him it takes me longer to
get things that most people I have to hear it again and again but once I got
it sir I got it you yield the only person that never called me stupid or
dumb you never called me DT the dumb Trent you you look at me like like I'm
somebody I've never had a father and I I watch you and I want to be able to talk
like you I get choked up sometime because I can't get my thoughts out sir
I want to do what you do and I want to make my momma proud he said you can do
it mr. Brown I've given you all you can get from me now it's on you if you want
to be a disc jockey go out into the marketplace I went to apply for job on
Miami Beach Milton butterball Smith was a program director hello mister
how are you sir my name is les brown sir I like to be a disc jockey young man you
have any journalism in your background no sir I don't have any experience in
broadcasting no sir but let me let me get Edition for you sir let me show you
how good I am all I want sir is a shot just let me let me Edition he said no
I'm you I've been rejected raise your hands please I was devastated with
rejection I said mr. Washington they said no he said don't take it personally
most people are so negative they have to say no seven times before they say yes
he said you got to be hungry go back again I went back again hello mr.
butterball how are you sir now my name is les prompt sir I like this job he
said I know what your name is worked you here yesterday I said yes sir I was
didn't I tell you no yesterday I said yes sir you did he said then why are you
back today that's it well sir I didn't know where the not so mighty was laid
office somebody was fired sir he said no one was laid off or fired and I get on
out of here I came back the next day hello mr. butterball how are you sir my
name is nasrallah I'd like to be discharged said I know what your name is
weren't you here in the last two days I said yes sir did not you know the last
two days I said yes sir he said why are you back today I said sir I didn't know
where that someone got sick - someone died sure no one got sicker died no one
was laid off a fire now don't you come back here again I came back the next day
talking loud looking at me like I sing him for the first time I said hello
listen what Allah how are you he looked at me but rayji says don't get me some
coffee I said yes sir
as you think about your goals and dreams you've got to make know your vitamin I
became the errand boy for the disc jockeys I'd go get though watching their
dinner and I stand in the control room watching them move their hands knowing
my time will come let us say together I expect to live my dream I I began to
serve them my favorite book says the greatest among you will be your servant
learn how to be a good server and so pretty soon I was writing this down
building a relationship people build relationship that people they know like
and trust and have proven themselves and I said look here young boy who cleaned
my car today I did sir how much you owe you nothing sir you
clean it inside now you wax it yes I don't owe you anything no sir I just
wanted to help out write this down give before you ask I
was giving service that's giving service first he said whoa you know Donna Ross
and The Supremes are coming to town two Four Tops and the temptations here my
car keys pick him up and take him to the Fontainebleau Hotel on Miami Beach I
said be my pleasure to serve you sir I would drive these entertainers all over
Miami Beach and the disc jockeys big long Cadillacs I didn't have any
driver's license but I'll Drive like a hand
then one day it was a Saturday afternoon a disc jockey by the name of rock and
Roger was drinking while he was on the air he began to slur his words he got so
drunk he was about to fall off the chair is a Saturday afternoon and I was the
only one there looking at him through the control room window walking back and
forth young ready and hungry
I was saying drag Rob Drae drag rock how'd it go and get him some wolf it
asked me to then pretty soon the phone ringing with the general manager in
answer for and I said hello he said young boy this is mr. client I said I
know he said rock can't finish the show I said I know he said will you call one
of the other DJs in I said yes sir I'll hung the phone up I said hi he must
be think I'm crazy I called my mom and my girlfriend Cassandra said you all
come out of the front porch and turn on the radio I'm about to come on there
I waited for about 20 minutes not calling back and said mr. Klein I can't
find nobody he's a young boy you're not aware that controls I said yes sir he
said go on and segue the recommends don't you say nothing here
I said yes I could wait to get a rock hotter away I put on a fast record I
said look out this is me lb Triple P let's round your platter plan Papa there
were none before me and there will be none out to be therefore that makes me
the one and only young and single and love Domingo certified bonafide duly
qualified to bring you satisfaction in a whole lot of action look out baby I'm
your love man I was hungry
I'm hungry
I was hungry shake someone's hand and say you got to
be hungry shakes one's head is that you got to be hungry
you gotta be hungry so I'd like to leave this with you I don't know what you want
to do but I believe that Zig was right you give enough people what they want
they will give you what you are I believe Jim Rahm was right when the
end comes to you let it find you conquer in the new mountain not sliding down an
old one I believe Earl Nightingale was right all of us are self-made but only
the successful will admit it I believe that dr. Peale was right always strive
to get on top in life because the bottom is overcrowded I believe my Queens is
right if you do what is easy your life will be hard but if you do what it's
hard your life will be easy so I dedicate this to you to the dreama
in you something my mother used to love to hear me say Leslie yes now mama
save that thing for me boy that makes me feel good I dedicate this to you because
it's one thing to be in the business but there's something else when the business
is in you you are here because it's in you it's in your heart and it's there
simply this if you want a thing bad enough to go out and fight for it to
work day and night for it to give up your time your peace and your sleep for
it if all that you dream and scheme is about it and life seems useless and
worthless without it and if you gladly sweat for it and fret for it and plan
for it and lose all your terror of the opposition for it and if you simply go
after that thing that you want with all of your capacity strength and sagacity
Faith Hope and confidence and stern pertinacity if neither cold poverty
families are gold sickness of pain of body and brain can keep you away from a
thing that you want if dogged and grim you beseech and beset it with the help
of God you'll get it
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