Ladies and gentlemen welcome back my name is Ferenike and this is a channel
for people who don't want to die with regrets and they want to put out the
best version of themselves. I am really excited about this week last week I had
a wedding in the Netherlands my best friend got married yay congratulations
to her and yeah that's why I didn't put any content out. This week on Monday
I started a new role with WGSN some of you already know about it and I had an
incredible week. I've learned so much and I'm just really excited about what's
coming up. Now of course you know when I create those videos I'm always inspired
for my day to day life but I'm always trying to make it relevant for you guys
so we have common experiences and how can we essentially make the most
high-value responses into our day to day life and how to showcase self-respect
self-worth and be confident. What I realised is when you go to a new place in
your working environment, a club, a new community that you don't know many
people you have two feelings and I definitely had those on Monday. The
first feeling is you feel like this nervousness of the unknown what you
don't know that is there like because you have an idea on what to expect but
you don't know exactly what to expect right so you have that nervousness or I
definitely had that nervousness. Then on the other side I felt like
this productive new me or like the news clean slate
new things and the excitement of the opportunity somehow. Does it make sense?
That is healthy so far right! Sometimes though I have realised that we
tend to put more pressure on ourselves that we actually have based on thinking
about other people's opinions and how we appeal to them or
don't appeal to them on whether they like us or not like us or all of those
stuff and it just is human nature. I've been guilty myself when I was younger to be
doing that but now I feel like it's really fundamentally wrong and
irrelevant to try to to be liked - I would rather be respected every day
of the week rather than being like because think about it
when you step in a new environment some people will
automatically be drawn to you and like you and some people will not some people
being indifferent of course. And that is absolutely fine because we shouldn't
place any sort of energy or focus into going out of our way to try to please
anybody because there's no point really there's no point. It is important
to showcase why we're here our skillset our character what we bring to the table
yes and not so much with words rather with actions our vision what we're here
to achieve these things are very important and and that's how you build
respect but to be liked it just irrelevant.
It really is I'd rather spend all of that energy and focus into
building myself my skillset and work hard on what I want to achieve so
yeah I feel like there's nothing to gain from that and I know that traditionally
women have the tendency to be people's pleasers and I just think
it's just a waste of time and we shouldn't go down that
route at all it is important though to be kind of course and be have manners
and and be considerate and be yeah just kind and a nice person of course that is
very important not only when you go to a new place for the first time but
every day any day every day of the week right
just be nice and have manners. However I feel like that lots of
people put lots of weight into other people's opinions and it's very freeing
when you realise that is nothing I can do there's nothing I can do about it
some people will like me in some people will not and when you like yourself that
is more than enough so being authentic being yourself being
who you are unapologetically and also you know
accept those weird things that you have as a person that would help other people
to accept you as well and to you know be comfortable with you if you like
yourself and you're comfortable with who you are people are more likely to be
that way as well. One thing that is weird about me according to other people
and I've heard that before is and some people may know that some
people may notice is that I don't watch any movies at home I don't watch any
series I don't watch any movies. I only watch movies if I go to the movie
theater and that's that specific movie I want to watch I don't do that because I
feel is a waste of time for me I know that how addictive can be I know how
many hours people spend into watching series and movies and all that stuff and
I feel that's nothing for me to gain from that I'd rather spend my free time
doing other things that I love I like watching documentaries YouTube videos so
I can learn from other youtubers or a self-development material I'm reading
lots of books as well so I'm doing things with my time but it's just not
watching movies some people see that as very like they don't understand that
right some people find a watching movies and and series very entertaining and I
hundred percent understand that I understand that it's just a personal
preference. It's like eating meat or being vegetarian you know or
being pescetarian it's just a choice just a preference.
it's just how you're gonna live your life and I yeah I have my own choices
and preferences and I hundred percent approve those and I'm
not so concerned about whether other people approve them or not. I hope
that gives you a different perspective and I hope that make you own your choices and
who you are more. Let me know if you have any specific topics you want me to
address next on my next video and I'll do that for you. If you want to comment
below on the YouTube channel or if you want to send me an email later on
everything is it's fine. Yeah thank you so much for watching guys and I
shall be back with more content like that. Love you!
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