Thứ Tư, 2 tháng 5, 2018

Waching daily May 2 2018

What does love have to do with it anyway?

Only everything.

Love makes you think you can do things. Like make wine where grapes have never grown.

Love's too big for four walls to hold.

Love is one voice that speaks to us all.

Love says go your own way.

Fiercely, totally, truly. Because love is the start of everything, then and now. And

love is here, just waiting for you to find it.

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Is Cracking Your Fingers Bad, Can You Get Arthritis From Cracking Your Knuckles? - Duration: 1:22.

Well, is cracking your fingers bad?

Many people ask this question to the doctor.

They also ask questions like, can you get arthritis, from cracking your knuckles?

Or, does popping your knuckles, cause arthritis?

But the fact is, people always get scared by this misconception.

According to the explanation of orthopedic surgeons, in our joints, their is a fluid

called synovial fluid, and, it also contains some gases like, Oxygen and Nitrogen, in a

form of bubbles.

So, after some period of inactivity, when we flex or stretch our fingers, the gas filled

fluid causes the bubbles to burst, and we hear the cracking sound.

Though there is no medical evidence that, cracking your knuckles can cause arthritis,

or any harm to your joints.

But doctors do not recommend, cracking your fingers, for good.

In other case, if cracking your fingers causes pain, then you should definitely, go to doctor.

If you want to live a healthy life, then stay tuned with our channel.

Don't forget to subscribe, See you later and, thanks for watching.

For more infomation >> Is Cracking Your Fingers Bad, Can You Get Arthritis From Cracking Your Knuckles? - Duration: 1:22.

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Dissociative Amnesia: What to Do When Life is Only Partially Lived - Duration: 4:57.

Imagine if you suddenly realized that there were thousands of holes in your

memory. There were chunks of childhood, adulthood, celebrations, and relationships

just missing from your mind. This is dissociative amnesia and it's a

shocking realization when you're diagnosed with it, because then you feel

like your life is only partially lived.

Hello! I'm Arien Smith and you are watching Arien Inspires, a weekly online

web series where I help survivors of abuse find peace and joy and prosperity.

Now, I do know that that opening was a little intense, but that's the reality of

dissociative amnesia. Many of us survivors of abuse experience this, whether it's

through a chronic condition like dissociative identity disorder or even

just repressed memories from past trauma. Not knowing what happened during days or

months or years can be a terrifying thing. We can doubt who we were, the

stories that people shared about us during those times, and what we'll even

remember tomorrow. Will it be more or less? Will we even be able to recall the

good experiences that I had today? When I first got my dissociative diagnosis

and realized that it wasn't normal to not remember about 15 years of your life,

I was absolutely terrified. I was suddenly questioning what it even meant

to live, since I couldn't even remember my own life! I was missing significant

memories of my birthday, childhood friends, lessons in school, and even adult

relationships that I had had. I was missing large chunks of information

about those relationships. It's understandable that with dissociative

amnesia you feel like you can't live fully. That was me too at the beginning

of 2017. Now, you might even know why you have dissociative amnesia. Like repressed

memories from trauma or other alters being upfront. But that doesn't make it

inherently easier to come to terms with. But this will. First, no other human being

remembers everything. Yes, amnesia means that we remember a lot

less than your average person, but memories don't make a life. Life is this

moment right here, your experience right now. When you have a memory, that's an

experience in the moment too. You are experiencing the process of remembering.

When you don't have a memory, that's also an experience in the present moment. Life

is lived in the moment and this is so important for us survivors with amnesia

to remember. Life is not your memories. You are vividly

and amazingly alive right now. No matter what you recall about your past, you're

living and you can have a wonderful and full life. Now the other really important

thing about living a full life with amnesia is about recognizing that grief

is normal. It's sad to not remember important things like the first time

that you were intimate with your life partner or when you first got your dog.

Even though this amnesia formed to protect us from trauma, there are

sometimes happy things that we forget too and this can naturally make us sad to

not remember these things. So let yourself grieve. Let it be a sad

experience and don't fight that trauma is sad and the impact, the amnesia that

it's caused, is saddening too. You don't need to be perfectly okay and smiley and

acting like everything's totally fine when it really doesn't feel that way.

Grief is normal and it's a part of coming to terms with and accepting

dissociative amnesia. When you let yourself grieve, you'll be taking a

weight off your shoulders. A weight that was preventing you from living fully.

This is how you'll begin to feel fulfilled, by acknowledging and

experiencing the feeling of confusion and doubt and grief that comes with

amnesia and by recognizing that life is lived right now, right here, as you're

watching this video, this is life. And it's vivid right now, whether you

remember it in a moment or not. None of us know how much we'll remember or even

how long we'll be on this planet for, so that's why living in the moment is such

an important thing. For us survivors of amnesia, we sort of get a leg up on this.

We have to learn to live in the moment if we're going to feel fulfilled at all.

So what's your biggest fear or concern about dissociative amnesia? How do you

feel it limits your life and how, with what I just talked about, do you feel

like you can reclaim some of that joy and fulfillment? I'd seriously love to

hear what you have to say, so go ahead and leave a comment below!

You're also not alone in this. Dissociative disorders and traumatic

amnesia are so common for us survivors of abuse, so if you have a friend or you

know you have some followers on social media, please go ahead and share this

video with them. I've personally never heard anyone talk about how to live

fully when you have dissociative amnesia and your friend may not have stumbled

upon a resource like this either. This video might be that exact message that

they need to hear. As always, there are a ton more resources over at UncoverYourJoy.com,

so head on over, check it out, and leave a comment! While you're there,

be sure to subscribe to our email list. You'll receive exclusive monthly self

love letters, weekly blog updates, and free resources

I send only to my email community. But what really counts right now is what you're

experiencing within and around you. That's your life and by paying attention

to it, you will start to live fully. And every single day remember that you are

loved, you are worthy, and you are capable of so so much.

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