Yeonkyoung, you can stretch out your legs.
Kim Yeonkyoung can't
keep her legs crossed for long, so...
Those are the longest legs I've seen so far.
You have really big feet.
Why don't you compare your hand size?
I saw her hands earlier.
(Her hands are big, too!)
Do you have big hands, too, Niel?
(Crawling over)
Do you have big hands, too, Niel?
They are so small.
(Cute feet / Big feet)
Oh my.
I've never looked so small in my life.
Oh my.
This person sent us a concern
in hopes that his concern of a decade
can be resolved today.
"Peace Agreement Between Siblings."
Hello. I'm a man in my 20s with concerns.
I have a sister who is 2 years younger than me.
People call them "realistic siblings."
They cuss at each other and fight.
I'd like to do that with my sister, too.
My sister and I haven't
spoken a word to each other for a decade now.
(For 10 years?)
One time, I forgot to bring the house key.
My sister was home alone.
I just jumped over the fence
like a burglar to get in the house.
But fortunately, we have our youngest brother.
"Ask her if she's going to eat."
"Sis, are you going to eat?"
"Yes. What side dishes are there?"
"She's going to eat. What side dishes are there?
"Kimchi stew."
"Ask what time she's going to eat."
"Oh, come on! Just talk to each other, okay?"
But I just can't get myself to talk to her.
Please help us out.
How many siblings do you have, Yeonkyoung?
I have 2 older sisters. I'm the youngest.
I'm sure you're sick of this question,
but are your sisters tall, too?
- Yes, they are. / - They are?
My oldest sister is almost 5'11".
My other sister is almost 5'9".
(Excellent DNA)
It must get rowdy when you three are together.
We get along great although
we have unique personalities.
- The more siblings you have... / - The better.
We beat each other up at home,
but when someone got beaten up by someone else,
the four of us all went out and fought together.
That must've been scary.
That really must've been scary.
Please come on out.
(Who's not getting along with his sister?)
(Kim Taehyeong)
(Welcome)
You haven't spoken a word with her for 10 years?
No, not a single word.
When I talk about her to others,
I refer to her as "that person."
- Like she's a stranger? / - Yes.
We worked part-time together once.
We got on the same bus,
but she would ride in the front
and I rode in the back. Like two strangers.
Why aren't you two speaking to each other?
Do you remember?
I don't quite remember why.
There are three of us.
You're 25 years old.
Your sister is...
23 years old.
You forgot her age, too?
That's understandable.
- And the youngest? / - He's 20 years old.
You are all grownups.
My brother and sister got in a fight 10 years ago.
She was dragging a blanket over him and
loose thread got caught between his front teeth.
Loose thread got caught in between his teeth?
Then what happened?
His gum ripped and bled a lot.
I asked her to apologize, but she never did.
So I rolled up newspaper and hit her in the face.
- Her face? / - Yes.
(Oh my)
You were 15?
You were 15, 13 and 10 years old.
She cried so much. I think that was the cause.
But your younger siblings get along now?
Yes.
(But the other siblings get along well)
They get along fine.
So you never thought of
apologizing to her first?
I thought of it, but never got around to doing it.
After becoming an adult, I gave her pocket money
through my younger brother several times.
Through your younger brother?
There could've been a mishap in the delivery.
(Aha)
I'm sure he passed it onto his sister.
Did you ever get money back from her?
No.
Did you raise the amount over time?
- Consistently? / - Yes.
- About how much? / - About $50.
That's the best amount for the youngest one.
If she got money from you,
it's natural to show signs of gratitude.
Did you give her money 1-2 times?
More than that.
But nothing changed between you two?
No.
- Youngest one! / - That little brother!
You youngest brother!
All right.
I'm curious to find out what happened.
We'll talk about this later.
I know it's inconvenient for you two, too,
but it must be agonizing for your brother.
I heard from mom that
he got really drunk one day and
asked if my sister and I are not family.
I felt bad when I heard that.
Your parents must be quite concerned, too.
Your mother must be heartbroken.
Your sister and you have been doing the most
you can for the past decade to hurt your parents.
Now that I'm an adult and the eldest,
I know that we should make amends,
but I don't know how. So here I am today.
It must've been quite frustrating.
The offender may not remember it as well.
But for the victim, it could be shocking and painful.
We should listen to the sister's side of the story
and talk about the younger brother's bad habit.
I'm most curious about that.
Let's meet the sister first.
Hello.
Hello.
Say hello.
Say hello to your brother, too.
She can't do it.
(So awkward...)
Isn't it inconvenient to be like this with him?
Is it okay for you?
I do feel bad.
You never thought of reaching out to him first?
I did. When I was a sophomore in high school.
I brought Korean blood sausage home and he was there.
- Your brother? / - What a great opportunity!
So I put the blood sausages right in front of his eyes.
But he never looked at them nor ate them.
That was...
- You were upset? / - Yes.
Why didn't you eat the Korean blood sausages?
- I don't remember. / - You don't like them?
I love them, but I don't remember this.
She put them right in front of your eyes.
I don't remember it at all.
Maybe they were too close.
Your eyes can't focus.
He was playing a game on his cell phone.
Oh, on his cell phone.
You should've said, "Eat some,"
but you couldn't do that, right?
I couldn't say anything to him.
When you were young...
I'm sorry, but I'm too curious.
What happened to those blood sausages?
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
I am too curious about that.
I have to ask before they cool down.
- What happened? / - Dad ate them.
That's a relief.
Your brother assumes that you haven't spoken
since he hit you with the newspaper.
Is that right?
No. I don't remember that incident at all.
(What? What's going on here?)
You don't remember it at all?
My younger brother doesn't remember either.
Even when his gum was bleeding?
The newspaper was right in front of your face!
They were too young to remember.
Perhaps that runs in the family.
They don't recall what was in front of their eyes.
So the reason is finally revealed now.
Then why do you think you stopped talking?
There was no special reason.
We just drifted apart.
There wasn't a specific incident to cause it?
- No. / - You don't remember?
I don't even remember when we stopped talking.
How futile is this?
What's going on here?
He said he jumped over the fence to your house.
Did you know about that?
Yes. I watched him do it.
You did? She saw him.
Why didn't you open the door for him?
I thought, "He could've at least knocked."
Then why did you sit separately
when you got on the same bus?
Because I felt uncomfortable with him.
Because you felt awkward?
I was once disappointed.
We were on the way home after work.
I got off the bus and was walking home.
It was quite late at night.
So I thought he would follow me home.
But he took a different route.
He left you alone late at night?
Yes.
She wanted you to follow her home.
Why did you take another route?
I wanted to take a faster route.
A faster route?
"This way is faster. Sucker!" And you went that way?
You never thought it'd be dangerous for her?
I never thought about that.
- That was wrong of you. / - That's upsetting.
You both feel the same way.
You both feel awkward and want to change that.
Yeonkyoung feels more frustrated right now.
You feel uncomfortable, too, right?
When we are together
I feel so awkward that I go somewhere else.
Couldn't you at least text each other?
You know his number, right?
Yes, I do.
You don't ever text or chat on your phones?
No, never.
Do you know your sister's number?
No.
- You don't? / - Really?
That's terrible.
That's crossing the line.
I thought she was going to punch him.
She changed her number.
I think it's been 4 years.
It's been 4 years and you don't know her number?
Do you know her previous number then?
Yes, I have it saved on my phone.
The old number?
He has the old number.
He has the old number from 4 years ago.
When you have something to say,
do you relay the message through your younger brother?
Yes, most of the time.
One time, he was supposed to go to work,
but I saw that he was still asleep.
I told my brother to wake him up.
I feel bad for the younger brother.
But you were worried about your brother, right?
He is often late to work.
She still cares about you.
"She told me to wake you up."
Is that what your brother said?
No. He just woke me up.
He never mentioned your sister?
It seems like the youngest is the black hole.
(Is that what the youngest one is after?)
(How suspicious)
Did you receive all the $50 that
he gave you through your younger brother?
I remember getting it once or twice.
Once or twice?
How many times did you give her money?
At least 4 times.
At least 4 times.
4 times?
You don't remember how many times exactly,
but at least 4-5 times.
But the sister only got it once or twice.
Younger brother!
You have the right to an attorney.
Did you give the money to your sister?
I don't recall.
(Denying it)
How could you?
You pocketed the rest?
I don't recall.
He deserves to take that money as compensation.
It's been so hard being in the middle.
We have to be understanding.
Going back and forth.
You believe that you deserve that much, right?
Yes.
(I got you!)
What if they stop speaking to him now?
(We'll talk at home)
So you got drunk a few days ago and
complained to your family?
I yelled, "Aren't they family?
What is wrong with the two of them?"
I was so drunk then,
so Mom took me to my room and forced me to sleep.
She scolded you instead?
Do your brother and sister
ask about each other to you?
Yes, sometimes.
What do they ask?
If the other one is home.
If the other one is home?
One time, my brother asked me
if she had a girl... I mean, boyfriend.
If she had a boyfriend?
What did you say?
She didn't have one, so I said no.
Did you ever know about it when she had one?
No, she's never had a boyfriend.
- Not once? / - No.
Oh...
It ends as a tragic story. (We're sorry)
Their parents must've suffered for a decade.
Children can never understand how painful this is.
You've been quite frustrated, right?
Yes.
They were so close when they were young.
But then they just stopped speaking to each other.
I asked, "Why aren't you speaking to each other?"
They both didn't know why.
I got a job around that time.
I guess I didn't spend enough time with them.
You never knew the conflict would last this long.
I'm sure you tried to improve their relationship.
Our family had never gone on a family trip before.
Really?
So last summer
we went on an overnight trip for the first time.
My eldest son just
locked himself up in his room to sleep.
So just the four of us hung out.
Why did you do that?
Why didn't you try to talk to your sister?
I just wanted to avoid being awkward with her.
You must've known your mom's intention.
I didn't.
Are you always this dense?
Did you know your mom's intention?
Well...
- You didn't know? / - No.
What's wrong with the DNA?
(How upsetting)
I thought in a situation like this, you could
talk to your son alone and persuade him.
Sir?
I'm a man of few words.
I did have a drink with him to talk.
He wanted to find a way, but didn't know how.
Which of the two is more at fault in your opinion?
It's more of my and my wife's fault.
Why do you say that?
We weren't good enough parents to them.
Dad must've been quite frustrated by this.
(Dad got emotional thinking of the past)
(It's not Dad's fault...)
Guys, your dad is crying.
Make amends now.
(If I had been a better parent)
(You guys would've stayed close...)
(He can't stop crying from feeling bad)
There's nothing you can do. They're adults now.
They're not little kids anymore.
There isn't a reason for them to hate each other.
- So it's even more upsetting. / - Yes.
Everyone is shocked by dad's sudden tears.
Yes.
Sis.
You're upset that your dad is crying?
Go ahead and cry.
He's blaming himself for what has happened.
Yes, he's blaming himself.
I'm sure none of them knew
how heartbroken their parents were.
Son. Your dad is in tears.
What would you like to say to him?
It's all my fault.
What about you, sis?
Your dad thinks it's his fault.
Are you blaming yourself for not fixing this?
It's not your dad's fault, right?
It's not his fault.
Tell him that it's not his fault.
(Still in tears)
He is still crying.
Everybody feels the same way.
The older brother feels the same way.
The sister feels the same way.
Mom and Dad were too busy making ends meet
while raising three kids.
Dad is blaming himself for this.
He keeps blaming himself.
Get him some tissues.
Stop crying, sir. This isn't your fault.
I think it's Mom's fault.
I'm sorry. He was crying too much.
It's Kim Yeonkyoung's fault.
Why are you so tall?
Yes, it's my fault.
If there is anything you'd like to say
to your son and daughter, please do so now.
Let's laugh and talk more to each other.
Let's go on more trips and be happy.
Taehyeong, Seulgi. I love you both.
(Dad's sincere words for his family)
What made you come here today?
What are you most concerned about?
I'm worried about my sister.
She's always home.
She goes out maybe once a month.
She got into college,
but dropped out in less than a year.
She got a job where I work,
but quit in less than a month.
She's always home,
so I'm worried that she's lost her self-esteem.
I'm afraid that it's going to get worse.
You really are her older brother.
He knows his sister's personality.
He never stopped caring. He just never showed it.
Why don't you go out more?
It's not true that I only go out once a month.
I go out at least 2-3 times a week.
Whom were you talking about?
(He fails to look like a great brother)
Why did you drop out of college?
When I was a senior in high school I started to have
problems with my skin all over my body.
I had atopic dermatitis.
Your brother thinks that you lost self esteem
since then.
That is mostly true.
(Contemplating)
As we are listening to them speak... Woohyun.
You are so deep in thought.
- You're paying attention, right? / - Yes.
You seem to be deep in thought.
Sometimes when my wife and I argue
we won't speak to each other for several days.
You said that you feel awkward at home?
Every nerve in my body is
focusing on my wife after we fight.
When she's doing the dishes in the kitchen,
my heart is also clanking like the dishes.
When she pats down the laundry, my heart pounds.
Just doing that for several days
seems to shorten my life.
- 10 years. / - If you've done this for 10 years...
If you get married and have kids, they...
They wouldn't speak at all.
They wouldn't be close at all.
I am glad that you are here today.
You can see that
your brother sincerely cares about you, right?
Yes.
Are you grateful to him?
He's concerned about you.
Yes.
(Happy)
Make eye contact with him now.
Make eye contact with her.
(Glance)
That was their first eye contact.
A round of applause for them, everyone.
Look at each other.
Anyone can tell that you guys are siblings.
They made eye contact for the first time, sir.
I am really glad that you are here today.
You did a great thing coming here.
Why don't you tell your sister
what has been on your mind?
You know her name, right?
Call out her name.
(He's calling out his sister's name)
(For the first time in 10 years)
Seul...
Seul...
He hasn't done it for years.
You have to do it.
(Nervous)
(Everyone's wishing for the same thing)
(Bring up the courage)
Seul... Seulgi.
(Touched)
Seulgi.
I'll talk to you from now on. Talk to me.
I'm here for you. Hang in there.
Make that promise that she wants to hear.
"I'll give you spending money directly."
That's important.
Spending money. Spending money.
I'll give you spending money directly.
Not through him.
(Sad)
Call out his name and say something, too.
It's been 10 years.
"Taehyeong." Like this.
She's doing it.
Uh...
(Hesitant)
Taehyeong...
(She did it!)
I'll try my best, too.
Please make the first move.
Talk to her.
She wants you to make the first move. Talk.
I'll do my best to do so.
(Thanks, Taehyeong)
Did you take a family picture on that trip?
We did, but...
- They all looked unhappy? / - Yes.
Let's take a family picture with smiles now.
Come up to the stage.
Come this way, sir.
Why didn't you get matching clothes for him, too?
Put your arms on each other.
Stand next to each other.
(A happy family after a decade)
We'll take the picture first.
Look over here. One, two...
(It took so long to talk about their feelings)
(Like when we were young)
(Like family, like friends)
(Let's comfort each other from now on...)
(May 2018 on Hello Counselor)
Niel, is it a concern or not?
I believe that everything will work out now,
so I don't think it's a concern.
When the father apologized to his kids,
I was touched. I couldn't help but cry.
It's heartbreaking when parents apologize.
I hope they are good to their parents now.
Is it a concern?
Yes.
I truly think it's a concern.
When I was young, I was busy training,
so I couldn't spend much time with my family.
I hope you make many special memories now.
If this has lasted for a decade
I believe it's a serious concern.
Even a dog can sense the tension.
If you think it's a concern, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please show us the result.
"Peace Agreement Between Siblings."
Have they reached the agreement? A 9.
They got over 100 votes.
(They got 129 votes)
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