Wipe your tears is my commitment heal your wounds with love
Give you a smile with poetry do what the heat of your passion say
Even I would paint the whole sea to match it with the colour of your eyes
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MAMAMOO IS INNOCENT - Duration: 12:47.
hello bitches it's a girl NihonSaranghae and I am fucking tired
i didn't want to talk about this topic anymore because I don't want people to keep associating
*sings Mamamoos greeting super off key omg i'm sry*
with problematic shit or racist shit but sadly a lot of people still believe
that mamamoo actually did these things
and I mean I kind of get it
haters to make it seem very believable Mamamoo did several terrible things
and I get it you're too lazy to do your research to find out the truth
cuz it's easier to just fucking believe what you read on the interwebs Twitter or whatever
but okay it's also quite difficult to find the truth nowadays
since the haters have spread this #FAKENEWS so much all over the interwebs now
but sis sis hunty today I am here to educate you so you don't have
to read a billion freaking articles or Twitter posts and yeah I got you girl
i got you you're welcome
don't click off I dare you! if you hate
or dislike mamamoo please watch through this video take these few minutes and
please just listen to my lovely voice and then decide whether you still hate them
which I'm pretty sure you will because people don't like changing their opinions
but uhm at least please try and be open-minded and watch this video all the
way to the end even though my voice is annoying
so let's start off with the two things mamamoo actually did wrong
cuz I'm not gonna sit here and defend them
and say that they didn't do anything wrong cuz that's not the case they have fucked up twice.
now the first thing was at one of their concerts where they covered
Bruno Mars song and wanted to cosplay as him or imitating him
or whatever they wanted to look like him so they painted their faces in a darker color
in order to look like a black person so basically
they did blackface which of course it's horrible okay
mamamoo who has apologized three times both in english and korean for this
the first apology coming within four hours
and to be honest it's one of the most sincere apologies I've ever read in kpop
because there were quite a few where I was like yeah sure sis
whatever
anyways I will insert the apology for you now and please actually freaking read it
pause it if you have to please actually read it do it bitch
of course you don't have to forgive them just because the apologized doesn't mean they're entitled to forgiveness
the second thing was when Hwasa said the N-word one time
while covering a Rihanna song which one I don't fuckin remember
but the n-word wasn't even in the original lyrics
so why the fuck did she say it?
basically the lyrics she read off were
provided by I think it was melon *tries to pronounce it correctly*
what the fuck ever I always say melon I don't know if that's correct
and for some frickin reason they edited the N word in there (on their website) like melon did that
I don't know why they changed it now I think so anyways
they printed out the lyrics from said website and give it to Hwasa to read off of
and she should have skipped the n-word anyways of course
but with so many idols saying the n-word
and doing really inappropriate stuff I think we all know how Korea
lacks of education in regards to these kind of topics and this is something
Korea needs to work on and it's correct that we call her out for that she should
be called out for that and in the end it's what mamamoo even wants
in the apology they even said please continue to educate us on this topic and other
topics so they won't hurt people accidentally and anymore
if you spend just a little bit of time researchin a shit about mamamoo you would
know they love all people from all races which you can clearly fuckin see again
if you just spent more time looking their shit up and they are so openly supportive
of the LGBTQ community by the way they speak out about LGBTQ and LGBT rights
all the time post with actual gay flags flags and even
perform with LGBTQ people
anyways back to topic just wanted to put that out there
there in a country that is still very conservative your fav could never
anyway yes these were the two things mamamoo has actually done
again which is bad enough that these two things even have happened
let's talk about all the problematic things that mamamoo has allegedly done
but we just fucking bullshit haters just love to come up with stupid ass shit okay
so the first thing that I'm gonna DEBUNK right now
there's a picture online of Solar and Hwasa together with writings that said
White Unnie next to Solar and Black Unnie next to Hwasa
I have to burp excuse me excuse
that was actually a mistranslation
it didn't say black unnie but it said tan Unnie or dark Unni because she is very
tan and she has a darker complexion and that's basically what it said it didn't
say black woman or black Unni as in like she's a black person but as in like
she's tan she has darker skin
so debunked i guess
and then people have accused mamamoo of doing blackface two more times
when hunty sweety they didn't even do it one more time ok
so onet time they accused Solar of doing it again
when she was portraying a beggar
now girl, boy, beggars live outside in the sun and they will get tanned
and they put dirt on her face and facial hair and darker foundation
cause no shade but homeless people are usually are least a little bit dirty
I mean then if out on the streets okay
they won't be squeaky clean she was portraying a Korean beggar not
an african-american or a black person or what the fuck ever
so that was not blackface
and then the third supposed time Mamamoo did blackface was when was
Hwas was once dressed up as a clown and for some fucking reason people took that as
racist of cultural appropriation or something because she wore braids
first off says several Asian cultures also have a history of braiding, braids
and this is literally just what Korean clowns look like yeah she wasn't meant
to represent a black person I don't know why Korean clowns wear braids but for
some reason they do don't ask me I ain't Korean okay
but this is how clowns look like in Korea
and even Koreans explained that their clowns do look like this and
that they have thick overdrawn lips and as far as I know in blackface they used
brown lipstick to overdraw their lips to exaggerate stereotypical black people
features and mock them yeah it was obviously red though and like all clowns
have these big-ass fucking overdrawn lips at least also where I am from
she wasn't meant to represent a black person
and then this is the most stupid shit..
people have also complained about her skin tone saying she had blackface again but
that was literally just her normal skin she is tan we even knew by now
she didn't make her skin darker that was just her fucking skin that wasn't blackface
okay hunty
and she's literally wearing a big red clown nose
PEOPLE! she wasn't portraying a black person she was a Korean clown!!
and now the "rape" scene in Decalcomanie
people were really reaching for that one
it was the scene where this dude joined Solar in the elevator and they started to
make out and all that happened basically was that he grabbed her arms and like
put them over her head and then that was it
like that shit happens in every fanfiction ever!
and people be like oh my god dats so hot yes fuck me daddy fuck me against the wall
but okay apparently that was rape good to know
still I guess I can kind of see why people would think this was
non-consensual and rape and very bad but it's not
anyways Rainbow Bridge world their company took down the video immediately and uploaded
a cleaner version and apologized for that as well even though that wasn't
even fuckin rape bitch okay anyways
the next thing was quite a huge thing too
which is wearing a bindi in their AZEGAG music video
but the thing is that
wasn't a bindi that wasn't Urna I don't know how to pronounce it
and it's something from the Buddhist religion and if you didn't know solar
herself is a Buddhist so she wore something from her own religion her own
culture so she was not freakin appropriating any culture Indian culture
whatever cuz again Buddhist religion Urna something out of the Buddhist
scene religion lifestyle what the fuck ever she wore it as a Buddhist whatever
and then people were like oh my God my culture is not your freakin punchline
sis it wasn't even it's not that deep it wasn't even anything insulting or
whatever the punchline was like a handsome Buddha
then there was this thing that I didn't even know was a thing but someone has complained about
this too which is Wheein called herself black
which was literally just a fucking
post spread by a hater fake fake news again basically
and that was a lie what happened was Wheein was on V-Live and she was talking about some random ass shit
and then the lights went out and all she said was the room went black
or the room went dark or my vision is black or dark or something
around those lines she didn't say I am black she said the room is black the room went black
something around those lines and that was literally it
but i guess since international fans don't know Korean they just fuckin believed the hater idfk
so basically Mamamoo actually did 2 very hurtful things in the past
which they have sincerely apologized for
several times it was totally okay and the right thing for us to call them out
they were just uneducated cuz racist issues aren't really talking about much in korea
since there isn't much cultural or racial diversity there
and a racist is someone who knows their action will hurt others and think they are superior just
because of the fucking race but they don't give a shit and continue to
purposefully hurt others so they ain't racist that's not how mamamoo is you
wouldn't know with a little bit of research but again it's up to you if you want to
forgive them just know that these other things that people accuse them off and
love and love to spread are not true people just love to hate and believe
everything they see and then spread that shit yeah that's the tea on that
the facts jumped out I just wanted to put the truth out there whether you want to
believe me or not it's up to you but these are the facts
but if you decide to forgive other idols who have done the same fucking shit and just
fucking ignore it but keep coming from mamamoo then honestly choke
choke
on your fucking shit
bye bitches
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Love is Love - Mobile Film Festival - #StandUp4Human Rights - Duration: 1:12.
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Come Viola, come and show your teeth to your grandparents!
Look at the camera, you look like an old lady!
Don't you?
What's happening?
Why did he hit her?
For no reason, don't worry...
... they are just in love.
Can I film a little bit?
Ok.
But don't go too far, that's my work phone.
- And be careful! - Ok!
- Hello! - Hello!
Viola, what are you filming?
Girls, come on, there are kids here!
But daddy, they are just in love.
Come on, show your teeth to your grandparents!
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Charlotte Mason Homeschooling Is Not One-Size-Fits-All - Duration: 9:22.
Guaranteed success!
Just follow these steps!
Tempting isn't it?
But that's not the Charlotte Mason way.
Let me explain.
Welcome to the Simply Charlotte Mason podcast.
I'm Sonya Shafer.
Joan wanted a garden.
In her mind this garden would provide colorful, fresh, healthful vegetables for her family.
She could picture the lovely yellow peppers, delicious sweet onions, and bright red tomatoes.
In fact, she could almost taste the fresh salsa!
But Joan was new to this whole gardening thing.
She knew it involved putting seeds and plants in the soil, but that was about the extent
of her knowledge.
She decided that she needed some instructions—instructions that she could follow to the letter.
Something that would guarantee success.
So Joan bought a book called 283 Easy Steps to a Healthy Vegetable Garden.
She located the right spot in her yard, according to the book, and tilled the soil like the
book said to.
The next step in the book was, "Add sulfur to the soil to make it more acid."
Joan wasn't sure where to find sulfur, so she decided to ask her neighbor, who had a
beautiful garden every year.
"Oh, no, Joan," her neighbor replied.
"You don't need sulfur for this soil; it's already acid.
Put a little lime in there instead."
Joan now faced a crucial decision: Should she keep following the system in the book
or should she deviate in order to better suit her circumstances?
Joan decided to take a step away from the system and do what seemed best for her specific
soil.
Several weeks later, Joan was outside watering her garden when her neighbor stopped by and
asked what she was doing.
"Oh, the book says to water your garden for fifteen minutes every day," Joan replied.
The neighbor smiled and gently offered, "But Joan, it has rained every day this week."
Joan put away the garden hose.
Over the summer Joan learned a lot about gardening, and little by little she let go of the follow-the-book-to-the-letter
system in order to adjust to her garden's unique and changing conditions.
Her efforts were rewarded with a bountiful harvest.
What Joan learned over the summer was how to let go of a system and embrace a method.
She had the picture in her mind of what she wanted to accomplish; and as she gradually
acquired the general principles of gardening, she began to see how to apply those principles
in different ways amid varying circumstances.
She no longer blindly followed the book.
The author of that book didn't know Joan's personal situation: what the soil was like
in her yard, what the weather was like at Joan's house during any given week that summer,
what kinds of vegetables Joan wanted to grow and didn't want to grow, how shady or sunny
her garden patch ended up being.
All of those factors came into play whenever Joan faced a decision about her garden.
The book couldn't make informed decisions nor adapt in the moment as Joan could.
The book outlined a system: follow steps 1–283 and you will end up with the garden of your
dreams.
A system is different from a method.
A method is how Charlotte advised us to approach educating our children.
Education (all we do to help our children develop mentally, morally, physically, and
spiritually) should be a method.
We should have the end goal in mind, learn the principles of what we're trying to accomplish,
and then apply those principles in different ways according to our varying circumstances.
"The following of a method implies an idea, a mental image, of the end or object to be
arrived at.
What do you propose that education shall effect in and for your child?"
(Home Education, p. 8).
That's where it starts.
Do you have a mental image of your end goal?
When your child stands before you as a graduate of your home school, what is it you want to
see standing there?
You know your child better than any curriculum writer does, so don't become trapped in a
one-size-fits-all system.
Use curriculum as a servant; don't let it become your master.
Education should not be a system that dictates the exact same actions at the exact same time
for every child.
A one-size-fits-all mentality cannot possibly be adequate in every situation.
But isn't that what we all look for?
We want a system, not a method.
Charlotte recognized that emotional pull: "A 'system of education' is an alluring
fancy" (Home Education, p. 9).
We want the 283 easy steps to an educated child: "Just do what the book says and you
are guaranteed to be successful!"
But such an approach can never hope to achieve what a method can.
When you use a method, you recognize the fact that you are dealing with a unique human being,
who has individual strengths and weaknesses.
"The educator has to deal with a self-acting, self-developing being, and his business is
to guide, and assist in, the production of the latent good in that being, the dissipation
of the latent evil, the preparation of the child to take his place in the world at his
best, with every capacity for good that is in him developed into a power" (Home Education,
p. 9).
That kind of individualized education cannot be achieved with a one-size-fits-all system.
It requires a solid yet flexible method.
You can still use a curriculum, of course; but use it as a starting point, a loose guide,
a suggested idea.
Don't be afraid to deviate from those suggestions.
Adapt the curriculum to fit your child; don't make your child fit the curriculum.
Ask God for wisdom, apply Charlotte's wonderful methods, and adjust as needed for your child
to grow and flourish.
Picture your goal; keep it in mind.
Then learn the principles of a Charlotte Mason education, and use them to fit your situation.
Don't get locked into a system.
I'm curious in what areas of homeschooling you have been able to let go of a system and
embrace Charlotte Mason methods instead.
Was it a long process?
What results have you seen from that switch?
Leave a comment and let's encourage each other in this important mind shift!
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Why Is Gratitude So Powerful? - Duration: 10:42.
And welcome back. Today we're going to talk about why gratitude is so powerful.
Yes, gratitude is powerful. And by the end of
this video, you will understand why and how to use gratitude in such a way that
you'll be able to draw amazing things into your life. So, why is gratitude so
powerful? You may have heard the saying that an attitude of gratitude determines
your altitude. What does that even mean? An attitude of gratitude determines your
altitude. Well, let me share with you what that means and why gratitude is so
powerful. So in life, we have emotional experiences, right? We have happy times, we
have sad times. And if you were to see this line as your emotional meter to
gauge where you are at, what emotions you experience. And these being negative
emotions and these being positive emotions, what might that be? So the line...
So this line right here would be the neutral line. So, the neutral line, we have
neutral and then slightly positive. We've got content slightly negative. We have
annoyed and then we have so many other emotions that we might add to that. What
would be... For you, what would be your definition? What would be the highest
emotion that you could experience in this life? For me,
that's joy. That's love. Joy and love are right there at the top for me. What about
the most negative emotions you could experience in this life? Depressed,
hopeless. Right? So, you've got depressed, you've got hopeless. Joy, love and then
all these emotions in between. You can put all different kinds. And as you look
at this, you've got so many different emotions on that line. Love, joy, happy
excited, peace, content, annoyed, fear, angry, sad, depressed, ray,
hopeless. So, what determines the emotional experiences we have. I would
say... So, if you think about that idea that an attitude of gratitude determines your
altitude. Watch this. As you apply more gratitude to your life, you will notice
that you begin to experience more positive emotions and if you were
experiencing some of these dark negative emotions, how are you doing on your
gratitude tank? Are you running on empty? Are you being grateful for the
experiences that you're having in life? Try that and add gratitude because when
you are living in an incredible state of gratitude, where you're expressing
gratitude for so many different things in your life. Anything that happens like,
"Wow! Thank you for this experience. Thank you for teaching me." At this point, you're
high on gratitude. Your tank, your gratitude tank is full. You get to
experience joy and love and not only that. Look at where you're at. If this is
the earth plane right here, an attitude of gratitude determines your altitude. So,
as you are full on gratitude you are up higher. Which allows you to see further
into the future and further into the past. And so as you learn to be grateful
for where you're at in your life, you can look in the past and you can well be
saying, "Wow! I am grateful for that painful experience because that prepared
me for what came next. I am grateful for the lessons of the moment." And then in
the moment where you're at, I am grateful for this because as you look forward
into the future, you can start to see what this is preparing you for. So, when
you are high on gratitude and living in a incredibly grateful space, it allows
you to see so much more of this beautiful life that we are given and we
can learn to be grateful for anything that happens. The hard times, grateful for
the good times, grateful for life in general. Because
of gratitude. We started to experience more of these positive emotions. Joy, love,
excitement, happiness, contentment because of these this gratitude. And when we
start to lack in gratitude, that's when we start to feel some of these other
emotions. And we can even drop down into a pit of despair which comes when we
aren't expressing gratitude for what we have. And in this moment, in this place,
it's very dark because we are in the hole, we can't see very far forward, we
can't see very far backward. All we see is what's around us and it's actually
quite dark because not a whole lot of light is able to come that deep into the
hole. And that's where people experience hopelessness, deep depression, they don't
see a point to life because everything around me looks black. I don't see
anything. There's no point. Add a little bit of
gratitude and that will slowly start to lift you up out of the pit. And you'll
start to experience other emotions. Be grateful for those emotions and before
you know it, you'll be out of the hole and back up into a positive space.
Because you're adding the gratitude and the cool thing about gratitude is it's
free. It's not like gasoline where you have to go and pay all this money to get
your gas. Gratitude is free and there are gratitude stations all over the place.
You actually don't even have to go anywhere to fill up on gratitude. You
just plug in right here and then start being grateful for whatever you have. If
you're... If you're in a place right now in your life where you don't see anything
to be grateful for, start with the very basic. The very basic things. I'm grateful
that I have toenails, I'm grateful that I have toenails because you probably have
toenails or be grateful that you have fingers. Or be grateful that your heart
is beating or be grateful that you can take a breath, a full breath.
Be grateful that you can smell, be grateful that you can see this video, be
grateful that you can hear my words entering into your ears. Start where
you're at with wherever you're at. Just start being grateful for what, where
you're at in that moment. And then I challenge you for each day to add 10
things to that list. 10 different things and keep a gratitude journal and write
down, "I am grateful for this 10 things." And then the next day, 10 more things. 10
more things. You can keep this list on your phone and what you'll be doing is
you'll be starting to train your mind to look for the things to be grateful for.
And after 30 days, you'll have a list of 300 things. 300 different things that you
can be grateful for and when you feel like you're starting to dip down into
these lower emotions, pull out that gratitude list. Read through the things
that you are grateful for and see what that does to help pull you out. To help
fill your tank and help you start to feel more positive emotions. And
gratitude is powerful. Gratitude can change your life.
Doesn't matter where you're at in your life or what experiences you're having.
Depression or whatever it is. Add gratitude and gratitude consistently
applied over time will change your life. Gratitude is attractive. As you are
grateful for things, those things want to be with you. If you are not grateful,
those things will leave you. Those things will leave you if you are not grateful
for them. Think about a friend that you go to see. You haven't seen them for a
long time and you go and they say to you, "Oh wow, now you show up? Huh,
you could have been here a year ago it would have been good to see you then." How
do you feel about that? You're like happy to be there and like, "Yeah. Well I just
want to stay. Let's talk some more." You're like, "Okay. Well, I guess I'll just
leave." You know and you leave. Now, think about the friend where you haven't seen
for a while and you go and they say, "Oh my goodness. It's so good to see you,
thank you for coming." And they give you a hug and they express how grateful it is
for you to be there. Do you want to stay there?
Gratitude will bring things in your life. Even if you aren't
experiencing it right now but you want to. Express gratitude for it. And it will
bring it into your life because if you can be grateful for it as if you already
have it, it has to come to you. It is that attractive. Gratitude is that powerful
that as you express the gratitude, it will bring into your life these positive
emotions, these powerful things that you want to experience. So remember that. That
an attitude of gratitude does determine your altitude. If you are struggling in
life with any of these lower emotions. Just know that that is an indicator to
you that you are low on gratitude. And you just need to plug in and charge up.
If you have a gratitude journal that you're keeping a list, read the list. If
not start with where you're at. And express gratitude for anything in life
that is where you're at in that moment. And as you express more gratitude, you
will start to see more and more things in your life to be grateful for. Thank
you for being here with me. I appreciate you. I am grateful for the work that you
are doing to learn, to grow into that person that you know you were meant to
be. So I express gratitude for you and invite you to express more gratitude in
your life. For those little things that you have been overlooking. Those little
things that you haven't thought to be grateful for. Start expressing gratitude
and see what it does for your life. As you do, so I invite you to come back and
leave a comment below and share with us how gratitude is powerful in your life?
Thank you for being here with us and I look forward to seeing you again soon.
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How to Know if Your Child is Doing Drugs|HFE♪ - Duration: 10:36.
How to Know if Your Child is Doing Drugs
As parents, we should learn to identify if the changes in behavior of our kids are due to their development or something else, like drug use, for example.
Learn how to recognize these patterns.
Nowadays, drugs are one of the biggest things that parents worry about.
Knowing if your child is doing drugs is crucial to finding help in time.
The numbers that manifest every year are alarming.
Although it's seen as "normal" that teenagers "experiment" with everything, it's easy to become an addict.
Adolescence is a time of rebelling in the sense that a teenager can behave in unusual ways, but this shouldn't mean using drugs.
People between the ages of 11 and 21 usually have a distorted perception of risk.
This explains why they tend to conduct themselves in a way that, when it's too late, they regret it.
Parents of children with some type of addiction say that recognizing the problem in time isn't so easy…the signs aren't that clear.
In this article, we'll take a look at some of the signs to watch out for.
The Rampant Adolescent and Drugs.
Adolescents are, by definition, daring and rebellious.
They experience a time full of changes that are difficult to deal with.
The development of sexual interest and the need to belong and identify themselves with their peers begin.
This period is characterized by experimenting and trying to stay on the same wavelength as their friends.
The influence that friendships have on each teen is intimately related to their sphere of influence.
If they also don't have a healthy channel of communication with their family through which they can openly talk about whatever they need to, it can be more complicated to act on time and save the adolescent from this terrible fiend.
Drugs: An Underestimated Enemy.
Many adolescents and parents see drug use as a simple act that they'll drop later on.
They don't assume the risk that it could stay with them for the rest of their lives, causing serious problems in their personal and professional lives, as well as their health in general.
Teens don't realize until actually trying drugs that it can easily become a serious problem.
As parents, on the other hand, we refuse to accept that our child isn't exempt from these types of experiences.
Therefore, we tend to not be prepared, not knowing how to act if it were to happen to us.
The first thing that we should do is determine if the disrespectful attitude from our child is due to hormonal changes or not.
It's critical to see a little farther than this tough age that they're in, and verify if the strange behavior is really from drug use.
Behaviors to Consider.
The teens that are experimenting with drugs will naturally try to hide it.
Therefore, it's vital that you pay attention to any difference in conduct, as insignificant as it may seem.
Pay Attention to the Smells.
Drugs like cigarettes or tobacco have strong smells that stick to those that use them, as well as their clothes.
The strategy that users employ to prevent being discovered is to repeatedly apply cologne, chew gum, and wash their hands excessively.
Look into Their Eyes.
Eyes are very clear indicators of addiction.
Each drug in particular has side effects.
For example, cannabis causes redness and a sleepy stare.
On the contrary, cocaine and ecstasy cause the pupils to dilate, with eyes that appear very wide and round.
Excessive Irritability.
Hormonal changes in teens usually cause changes in humor, but those caused by drugs are usually much more exaggerated in comparison.
Boys become irritable and aggressive about everything when they are in withdrawal because their body craves the drug.
They isolate themselves and tend to distance themselves from others, especially their fathers, since that way they can use drugs without having to explain themselves.
Stealing Medicine from the Cabinet.
When someone starts to abuse drugs, they usually experiment with different types of drugs, which is why they say it's "just trying" them.
The family medicine cabinet is usually a source of drugs without costing them anything.
Pain killers or popular cough syrups are the most commonly recommended by those that have already tried them and try to induce others.
Therefore, if any of your medications in your house disappear, it's time to have a conversation.
They Become Irresponsible.
One of the most devastating effects of addiction is the bad habit of abandoning everything and creating more free time.
The young drug user leaves their studies and everything that requires commitment.
Scholastic performance goes down and they refrain from committing to homework before enjoying their free time.
General Evaluation.
Behavioral changes in a child that is abusing drugs are often so evident for the parents that know what to look for.
Depending on the type of drugs (stimulants or depressants), there will almost always be specific proof.
If they're walking and talking quicker, they could be using amphetamines.
If they go two days without sleeping; it's possible that they're using cocaine.
If it's the opposite, they seem tired and slow, they could be smoking cannabis.
We should clarify that these signs mentioned in the previous paragraphs, when they are isolated, aren't determining factors that the teen is a drug addict.
However, the more changes you see, the more likely they are to be experimenting with drugs.
The important thing is to be alert, to look out after your kids, to keep track of them and where they go, who they're hanging out with, and who their friends are.
Daily effective communication is the basis for maintaining a close relationship with your kids and preventing terrible situations like drug addiction.
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My name is Carla - Mobile Film Festival Stand Up 4 Human Rights - Duration: 1:16.
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Good evening to everyone, so,
now I'm in my hospital room,
I will undergo surgery in a few hours.
Carla will be Carla once and for all
tomorrow around noon.
I did everything I was asked to: chemical castration,
I dressed as a woman,
I went and saw the psychiatrists, the psychologists...
and I finally got the doctors approval.
Now, give me my name. Just my name.
MY NAME IS CARLA
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What Is The Difference Between Guilt And Shame? - Duration: 9:28.
In this video today we're talking about the difference between guilt and shame
and there's a big difference between the two.
Knowing the difference will help you get unstuck.
Hi there Genine Smith here. I'm a PhD candidate. And a former divorce attorney.
Though I'm talking today about guilt and shame. A lot of times those get munched
together but there are actually different things. Both of them are social
emotions and the reason why they're important is because they trip a lot of
people up. You may be walking around with a guilt load and not even realize how
much it's impacting your life and your relationships. You may be walking
around with a massive shame load and not realizing how much that's impacting your
life. So, I'm talking about both of them but I really want to emphasize shame
today because it's correlated with P-T-S-D. So, what I want to teach today is what
they are and then how you can work yourself out of them. So, it helps to be
able to recognize them. First off guilt. Guilt is it's supposed to be useful in
that it helps you repair relationships and it's more about this, I-did-something -wrong?
Okay? In contrast to shame where I am
wrong or I am bad. So with guilt, it's really important with parenting
that you focus on guilt like doing something wrong and not turn it into the,
Kid-is-wrong, the-kid-is-a-bad kid. You focus more on the situation versus being
very personal to the child and it's so easy to do. So what that would look like
is if someone made a mistake. Example, brought muddy shoes in all over the
carpet. It would be hate. That's a wrong thing that made a mess instead of you
did a wrong thing, you are a wrong thing, you're not... You're a bad kid. That type of
thing is very personal and very shaming. So try and differentiate between the two
in parenting and then working particularly
intimate relationship. Try and differentiate between the person and the
activity. So, what does shame look like. If you grew up with all of these messages
of you're-a-bad-kid, you aren't good enough, then it shows up in your life in
a lot of tough, tough ways. And it really has a lot to do with your self-worth. And
there's a high correlation between P-T-S-D triggers anxiety and shame. So, that's why
I want to focus more on shame right now. And in the course that I teach, we work
with how to retrieve the parts of you that have been shamed. And so, I want to
talk about how to think about that. So, you can start to notice the markers in
your life. So how a chain show up in your life? The first thing is physical. So,
you'll notice people with a high shame load. It's really hard for them to make
eye contact. You may say, "Hi, how are you doing?" And they do this. It's because they
feel bad about themselves. Also, there's a warm flush that comes over. It's
correlated with embarrassment. You're embarrassed about who you are, about
yourself, personally. So that shows up physically. It's something that also
people can be tired. So in looking for shame and yourself and other people, low
energy, lack of eye contact, a flush when when they're connected with and they're
hesitant in their speech. How are you doing? Drop their eyes and their words
are hesitant. So, the next thing is relationship. How does it show up
relationally if you have shame or someone you love has a lot of shame in
their life? Well, first off, shame has attacked their sense of worth wildness.
Their sense of personal worth. And in contrast to shame, what we work with in
the osage system is one that you are absolutely worthwhile. And secondly that
you can heal this and we recognize that you probably didn't get what you needed
growing up. You know, you had parents that were doing the best they can
or you had people raising you that we're doing the best they could that. They also
had shame loads and guilt loads and trauma and that kind of thing. So, if you
were raised with a lot of shame, you're going to have black and white thinking. So,
you're either going to be... Have to be perfect and if you aren't perfect, then
your trash or garbage. There's none of this middle way. It's either/or thinking.
And that shows up in relationships with other people. Though you can be very, very
critical. You can also turn into a rescuer where you derive your
self-worth and a feeling that I'm good enough by rescuing people. And so, you're
often... Whether you realize it or not, pushing people down or attracted to (In
our family we call it) projects. People that are really, really struggling and
challenged and in kind of a spiral and really aren't motivated to improve
or get better and they tend to pull you down. If you have a high shame load, you
may attract those kinds of friends and lovers and be attracted to people that
are really really challenging. And that's trying to bolster your self-worth. Also,
you may... If you don't feel good about yourself, have problems with trust. And
really have a hard time trusting people. But you may also put up with a lot of
physical abuse... Physical abuse, spiritual abuse in a close relationship. Because
you don't feel like you're worth defending. You feel like, "Maybe I don't
deserve a good job. Maybe I'm not good enough to have an education. Maybe I'm
not good enough to have someone that sees me and treats me well." So, this is
the the Cascade effect of living with a high shame load. And personally I think
it's really sad because one of my gifts is being able to see the value of each
person and see that spark of life. That spark of light that creativity and let
me tell you, no matter what you've been through, no matter what's happened in
your life, we need you and you can heal. So, let me
just wrap up by saying, if you're frustrated with yourself, particularly if
you feel like you're hyper sensitive to criticism, if you feel like you're just
not good enough and you don't have the courage at times to go for things
that everybody is saying you know, "You're good enough for that job" but you don't
feel it. Know that there's nothing wrong with you. You've just had some trauma in
your life and you've had some messaging in your life that says you're not good
enough. I believe that isn't true and I believe
that there's a way for you to heal that and to feel that genuine courage and
that joy of doing hard things and extending yourself. And what's
fascinating is you'll find that you won't have to control everyone around
you. You'll find that the critical thoughts where you're critical with
yourself. With... You're critical with other people, with things in the media. You're
self-criticism. You're criticism of others will go down
once you feel good about yourself. But you have to get connected. You have to
get connected to that spark of life that is you and have the courage to engage
with who you truly are. And I'm telling you, I've worked with people that are
just crawling into my office and they feel so bad about themselves and like
they can't possibly recover. They can't possibly have the life that they want.
And I help them help themselves. So, I give you the tools. I give you the power
to be able to navigate your life and to shed off these false messages. Because
when you were a little kid, all this information came in. You believed what
you were told. Whether it was true or not. You probably had damaged people around
you. And although they were doing the best they could, you didn't get what you
needed. But now you can. Now you can truly start to blossom and bloom and it'll be
safe for you. And you'll feel a confidence and a peace that maybe you've
never felt in your life. And that's what I wish for you. To take you from this
survival level where you feel controlled by outside things.
And not good enough to thriving. Because we need you. Our culture needs you, I need
you, I need you to be your best self and to feel good about your life, good about
yourself and to recognize your own personal value. If you fail the
connection to me and would like to work closer, you'll find a link down below and
of course, subscribe.
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Using ExamOMR Step 3: Importing data with a student is not registered ID error - Duration: 1:57.
Using ExamOMR Step 3: Importing data with a student ID is not registered error.
Once you've prepared to mark your data, we can now move on to importing your data.
Click "OMR",
To import your scanned data, click on the file folder icon.
Select the data text file from your email attachment or USB key.
Click "Open",
a checkmark will appear next to the file folder icon when done.
To fix a student is not registered ID error, click on "Not Reg."
OMR will tell you which sheet numbers have student IDs that are not registered in the course.
In most cases the student has not bubbled in their student ID clearly enough.
Provide the correct student ID for each sheet number.
For example, OMR has informed us that sheet number 4 has a student ID that is not registered in the course,
but sheet number 4 belongs to Amit,
with the student ID of 34567812.
We can see Amit forgot to bubble in the last digit of their student ID.
In this field I'm going to type in the last digit of Amit's student ID.
Once you've resolved all of your not registered errors, click "Exit",
the count for the not registered errors will reach 0.
Once all of your coding errors have been resolved, click on "Load Scores",
a checkmark will appear when done.
Click "Exit".
Thank you for watching this tutorial.
For more information,
you can check out our Optimal Mark Recognition or OMR and scanning web page, at uwaterloo.ca/ist/examomr,
email us at helpdesk@uwaterloo.ca,
or call us at 519-888-4357, extension 44357.
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