>> Susan Bratton: Hi.
I'm Susan Bratton, your trusted hot sex advisor.
I'm here with my girlfriend, Amara Charles.
She's a sexual trainer in tantric and sacred sexuality practices.
We want to talk about vulvas and genitals and penises and cocks and all the words that
we can use for our genital anatomy.
You have some really good ones, and I wanted to hear what those are because you have a
lot of different lineages that you know about, so talk about those.
>> Amara Charles: Well, I believe that how we talk about our genitals ... I mean, actually,
I really love some of our slang terms, and I do.
There's also some very poetic terms that are endearing.
They're also great for children.
I mean, how we talk to our children about our anatomy is not always appropriate to use
those language, so some of the words that used to describe the vulva, I totally love
them.
One is the G-spot is not my favorite terminology, the G-spot.
>> Susan Bratton: Me neither.
If I have to talk about it, I like to say G area...
>> Amara Charles: Me too.
>> Susan Bratton: ...because it's not a spot.
>> Amara Charles: It is not.
>> Susan Bratton: It's actually a sponge.
It's the urethral sponge.
It's a tube that surrounds the exit of your urine.
It's also where all of your Skene's glands dump the ejaculate when you have female ejaculatory
orgasms.
I like to call that amrita.
What do you call it?
>> Amara Charles: Well, I also call that amrita.
It's also called silver snow.
>> Susan Bratton: Silver snow.
>> Amara Charles: In the Dallas tradition.
That area you're talking about, I don't know how this guy Grafenberg got that famous word
to be called all this, but we call it as the fire trigger.
>> Susan Bratton: Fire trigger.
>> Amara Charles: The fire trigger of...
>> Susan Bratton: That's from the Quodoushka?
>> Amara Charles: ... of the Quodoushka from the feathered winged serpent because when
the wings open, the feathered winged serpent opens its wings.
That's exactly ... The head of the clitoris is called the head of the cobra because when
we rise to attention, the cobra is awakened.
>> Susan Bratton: When we get our clitoral shaft engorged with blood and give ourselves
the erection that we need as women to get into full sensation.
>> Amara Charles: Isn't that fantastic, because they knew that all of those nerve endings
spread throughout the whole labia?
I love the word for labia.
>> Susan Bratton: What is it?
>> Amara Charles: It is the sacred butterfly wings.
>> Susan Bratton: Yeah, that's nice.
>> Amara Charles: I mean, how could you imagine talking to a little girl?
These are your beautiful butterfly wings.
>> Susan Bratton: Exactly.
>> Amara Charles: It's just so endearing.
>> Susan Bratton: Yeah.
>> Amara Charles: Yeah.
I also like the anus.
It's not my favorite word.
It's okay.
>> Susan Bratton: I know.
>> Amara Charles: We call it the rear cavern.
>> Susan Bratton: I like the word.
Mysterious.
>> Amara Charles: Yeah.
Come into my rear cavern.
>> Susan Bratton: Yeah, and there's a sponge between your vaginal canal and your rectum
and anus called the perineal sponge.
That's erectile tissue just like the urethral sponge, so you actually have erectile tissue
not just in your clitoral structure, which by the way is the tip of your clitoris, the
shaft of your clitoris, the little legs and the little vestibular bulbs that are down
underneath the fur at the top of the opening of your vagina, but you also have those two
sponges up inside your vagina, and I'm sure there's a lot more.
Do you know any other erectile tissue in the vulva besides those?
>> Amara Charles: No.
Those are the glands that I know as well.
>> Susan Bratton: Okay, yeah.
>> Amara Charles: I don't think the indigenous people were quite as scientifically detailed,
but they got the essence.
I like the scientific terms because we're learning more, and I also love the poetic
terminology as well, and so-
>> Susan Bratton: What about the entrance to the vagina or the vaginal canal?
What are the words for that?
>> Amara Charles: That is called the sacred black hole.
>> Susan Bratton: The sacred black hole.
Okay.
I like that, to infinity and beyond.
>> Amara Charles: Yes.
The lingam, we can't forget the lingam.
>> Susan Bratton: Yes, well, that's next.
>> Amara Charles: The lingam, we have many names for that, the penis.
In the Dallas tradition, it is called the jade stem.
I particularly love it, sometimes, known as also the jade stalk.
>> Susan Bratton: Jade stalk.
That's what I've heard.
Yeah.
>> Amara Charles: That's right.
That's polishing jade.
Can you imagine stroking and imagining that you're polishing jade?
There's also, in the Quodoushka tradition, we call this the tipili, so that's like a
tipi standing erect.
The female, the yoni, is referred to as the tepulli.
It's a very beautiful word, tepulli.
It's like a tulip.
>> Susan Bratton: Nice.
I love that.
What other words do you like to use generally when you're talking?
Do you use penis?
I use penis and vulva when I'm kind of technical to talk about the entire anatomy, but I like
to make the distinction.
Most people use the word vagina, but that to me is just the canal, which is why I like
to consider all the genital structure to be the vulva.
>> Amara Charles: Correct.
>> Susan Bratton: Then, I kind of feel like that shortchanges the penis because that really
to me is just the stalk that's sticking out.
I like to talk about the buried shaft.
I like the scrotum or the balls.
I like the perineum.
I like the spot around the base of the cock.
You talked in one of the earlier videos.
I think it was lingam massage about putting one hand on top and one hand underneath and
grounding a man before you start to stroke his penis.
I really like that.
Do you have any more words for that area?
Amara Charles: Yes.
Well, the man is filled with sacred semen, and that is called his secret jewels.
You think about he's giving you the sacred essence of his masculine essence, his sacred
jewels.
It's also called the sacred snake, is another term for that.
I think it helps with our imagination, with our intimacy, with our playfulness to have
some different terminology especially when we're making love.
>> Susan Bratton: I love that, and I also love semen.
I have found out recently through Dr. Lindsey Berkson, she is kind of a sexual science nerd.
I don't know if you know her, but she talks a lot about all of the things that are in
semen.
When a man ejaculates, and if you are a female bodied person and you're with a male bodied
person, and you have safe sex practices such that he can ejaculate inside you, that you
get a healthy dose of serotonin and all kinds of luteinizing hormones to keep your periods
regular, your moon cycles going.
You get testosterone, which gives you more confidence and lowers your anxiety.
It truly is a sacred essence for us, women.
We have so much semen available to us.
>> Amara Charles: Yes.
>> Susan Bratton: As much as we want pretty much.
Taking advantage of that will actually lower your anxiety, increase your mental clarity,
increase your personal confidence, help lower your risk of heart attack and stroke, help
normalize your hormonal system.
There are so many benefits to it as well that they truly are sacred jewels.
>> Amara Charles: Yes, and so, when you consider the semen of a man that's his sacred essence,
when you consider that that is actually nourishing for you, and you can feel it, you know your
face glows and the phosphorus.
It actually glows.
Yes, it's full of hormones, and it's great to know that, but the essence of it is to
understand that his semen actually rejuvenates me, nourishes me, and awakens me.
We don't have to be scientists to get this.
We've all experienced it, how fresh we feel.
It's about our attitude.
If we treat it that way, that it is sacred, that it is wonderful, that it is nourishing,
then it is even more so.
It just ignites us even more.
>> Susan Bratton: Yeah.
I don't like to miss a dose.
What do you think about amrita, female ejaculate?
Do you think that it has the same kind of benefits?
I know that a lot of men really enjoy, and women enjoy drinking the ejaculate or having
someone come on their face and kind of enjoying some of that.
I even have a friend who took a cup of her amrita and poured it on the tree in the center
square of the Vatican to nourish it with her sacred amrita.
>> Amara Charles: That's so beautiful.
All of our fluids are a blessing.
The more fluids we have, the more healthy we are, and so whether we can squirt to the
moon, so to speak, or we just have like a little flowing stream, it's all ...
>> Susan Bratton: It's all good.
>> Amara Charles: ... very nourishing and very beautiful.
How we treat this ... and it is a beautiful blessing.
I love that, of taking that to a tree with our blessings and even prayers, for example.
That's a beautiful way to bring celebration, to bring sacredness, to bring ceremony to
a lovemaking.
>> Susan Bratton: I love wet sex, sharing fluids, and it can be the most healthy and
connected intimate experience of your life.
I want to leave you just by saying that if you currently, if you've never had any kind
of female ejaculation, either experience it from a woman or you're a woman and you'd like
to have it, it's a learned skill.
Having orgasms of all kinds are learned skills.
What you're doing right now by watching Amara and I is you're incrementing your knowledge,
and you're looking at what you could live into.
For that, we want to thank you very much because you are taking care of and owning your sexuality
just by listening to what we have to say today.
Really, we just wanted to talk about pussies and cocks.
>> Amara Charles: Yes, indeed.
>> Susan Bratton: We decided that was kind of our favorite go-to words, were pussy and
cock.
>> Amara Charles: We're just here having fun.
>> Susan Bratton: I just want to talk about my pussy.
>> Amara Charles: Like, oh, I can feel it.
>> Susan Bratton: I like a gorgeous cock, you know.
>> Amara Charles: I just wanted to add one little thing.
>> Susan Bratton: Please do.
>> Amara Charles: I talked about how nourishing the male semen was.
Well, I just want to say that it's also the same with us as women, so that if we consider
our fluids as being just full of yin yummy essence, it's the concentration of our feminine
energy, and when a man tastes this, when he drinks this, he gets revitalized and refreshed
and renewed as well.
>> Susan Bratton: Most definitely.
>> Amara Charles: It's a beautiful dance between yin and yang, between sharing our essences
together.
>> Susan Bratton: If you're same-sex partner-
>> Amara Charles: Absolutely.
>> Susan Bratton: It is 99.99% just as good.
>> Amara Charles: Absolutely.
>> Susan Bratton: Don't worry about that at all.
You just go out and make all the love you can.
>> Amara Charles: It is a beautiful blessing.
We all are benefited by drinking the essence and enjoying and letting go of any kind of
shame, bringing sacredness.
It's like I am beautiful and my essence is fantastic.
>> Susan Bratton: Yes, it is a gift, and you are a gift for being with us today.
I'm Susan Bratton, and this is Amara Charles.
We're going to put some links to some goodies in the notes below.
You're just going to have to trickle yourself on down there and see what we put inside because
it's a surprise.
We'll see you on the other side.
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