somebody sent me a video today that was really really saddening it was a young
man sitting there talking about how many girls he's asked out and how none of
them ever wanted to have anything to do with him and he said it was because of
how he looked because of his socioeconomic status because of how he
presented himself how he acted and I could understand what he was saying and
I could feel it I just felt what he was saying and I was like yes you're right I
can see that you would have a lot of trouble with that a lot of trouble that
doesn't mean you're a bad person and then what really got me is he said he
couldn't even comment on a girl's Twitter saying something to her without
people responding to his tweet saying be careful this guy looks like he's a bla
bla bla he probably wants to do this to you bla bla bla it's all judgmental it's
so judgmental and I don't understand why so many people are just so judgmental
now it's so it's wrong it's wrong and it got me thinking you know I'm always
sitting here thinking you're probably still wondering what this pitcher airs
well get to in a second it got me thinking I was like man what can I do to
make things better for people what can I do I know I've got a part to play in
this besides doing all the weird stuff that I do online I know we've got a part
to play in this and I'm going to mark my words I'm going to do something huge to
help the people I got to think it and I started thinking about well how a lot of
people find love nowadays now this is a pretty strange topic that a lot of
popular opinions probably not good about a lot of people probably don't want to
have anything to do with this and they might even say how dare you talk about
this topic I'm unsubscribing I don't want to hear about it and that's okay if
you feel that way I'm not saying it's right I'm not saying it's wrong I will
say though I've known people throughout my life I've known people who they're
the only reason they were on this on this planet was because this was how
their parents met and what do you know years and years went by the parents
still happily married and that's how they met was through mail-order bride
that's why we're gonna talk about it today I know bad things could come about
from it horrible I know I've heard all sorts of stories but it doesn't mean it
can't work out sometimes right so let's go ahead and learn about it let's learn
about it don't quit getting offended over everything
so we aren't ready and we're gonna be welcome back to starship lockjaw your
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it now let's go ahead and read some of these mail-order bride stories from
reddit it's gonna be pretty good it's gonna be pretty good hopefully we get an
idea of what can happen and what may happen and we may not uh I just anything
that can give people hope people can have hope Hey real quick before we begin
when I was younger and I was a traditional young man and I kept trying
to find me a traditional young young lady and and I felt like I had trouble I
figured one day I might end up doing this that's actually what I thought when
I was younger I thought that one day this is what I was gonna do and it was
gonna work and fortunately I don't have to fortunately I found me a traditional
young lady here in America just took me a while I'm just kidding I did
but anyways I don't need this but some folks may alright let's let's learn what
let's learn what the story is here ah to anyone who has ordered a mail-order
bride what was it like and what happened but let's see what we got here my friend
richard has a mail-order bride from the Philippines
he's a scruffy redneck long-haul trucker from West Virginia she's tiny slender
and ten years his junior at first she cooked cleaned and kept his
bed warm but after a few years she told him she wanted an education they put in
a ton of overtime and saved up enough to put her through college
she's a physician's assistant now and makes more money than he ever has but
she still makes him dinner and makes a point of always being waiting at the
door when he gets back from a long haul they've been together for 20 years now
and it's a joy to see them together I gotta give that one a thumbs up best
heartwarming that's nice that's sweet that's sweet cuz check this out III get
I know you don't know the bad things that can happen I know I hear about it
all I've heard about it all but check this out
if if there was a country right with living standards a lot better than
America like a whole lot better than America let
me let me think of a country that's better than America I can't take over
America alright let's just say that there was a country that was way way
better than here and all of us here wish we lived there and next thing you know
there's there's ladies there or men and they're in a certain age for a range and
they're older than us and we're highly successful and they are having trouble
they're finding love so they would want from here right so the ladies there
would be looking at in sales in America and they'd be like I'd love to have one
of them come be my husband and we can have a traditional relationship together
and begin cells here would be jumping on that they would they be like okay
because it's better living conditions and if this works out the way it's
supposed to and they can have better living conditions here right and they
can find love and they can find someone's gonna take care of them and
supportive role it's it's it's good stuff man it can work it can work go
ahead leave me a comment telling me how that how horrible this is go ahead I
just I wanted I wanted it's an option man and I'll tell you I'll tell you some
folks some folks who would live the rest of their lives here without ever having
any love or anything this could be an option that could work out and then
could work good why don't you guys have to make everything so
people always got your version but I always coming at me man all right let's
continue this is adorable this is adorable yeah thought was adorable Brett
Scott all right what else we got here one of
my uncle's who is Filipino convinced one of his white co-workers to marry his 28
year old niece who was still living in the Philippines at the time though the
guy was at least 20 years older than her the relationship was really rocky the
first two years she hated him basically but she stuck the relationship out it
got with him got him to go to church and they were more or less together about 10
years into the marriage the guy he needed a kidney transplant
months pass you can't work anymore and she's spending all her free time outside
of work taking care of him at the hospital while he's waiting for her
kidney I visited one time while he was in the hospital and she broke down
telling me telling me and my other relatives how much she loved him and she
didn't want to lose him the doctors finally gave him the less than three
months to live if he doesn't get a kidney and after a month and a half
later he got the kidney recovered and went back to work within a year's time
and had a family get-together he bragged to everyone including me about how
amazing he feels and how much he thought he was dead and that he was blessed to
have a new lease on life then a few months later I get a call from him
saying that he's met someone else online and that he still considers me family
and shocked I tell him I'm busy and then called my aunt who then explained to me
he found a 21 year old single Filipino Filipino mom from Cebu and already filed
the divorce papers against my uncle's knees who he was who who was almost 40
at the time
oh that ol damn damn some people are a yeah some people are yeah what a what a
d wat yeah he's a D 1 all right ouch I can't believe that hey wow that
just goes to show you that no matter if you're talking about the husband or the
wife there's no talent in the future one of them may end up doing something like
that a DUI move like that and that's hurtful
man that's not loyal yeah some people ain't gonna be loyal people they're
loyal let's continue hopefully the next one is a little bit happier that was a
damn some guy in my small hometown married a Filipino mail-order bride the
guy was kind of a creep and it didn't last she left him and got a minimum-wage
job at a fishery shop grueling work for no money she cried when she got her
first paycheck she couldn't believe how much money it was really put my quality
of life into perspective I'm pretty rich for a bored person and I occasionally
remember this tidbit when I lose my way yeah
yeah if he was a bad guy and yeah yeah let's don't stay with people if they're
really bad and they treat you wrong right yeah that's something see if if
this were to happen if people were to go about doing this
then I would I would want there to be these these precautions right and if
things do turn out bad for either party I would want them to be able to get out
of that situation right to be treated right to be treated with respect because
you do care about that - you want to talk about how red mems what's up red
names and people talk about how dangerous it can be for a horrible it
can be for yes it can it definitely can at the same time there are also the
stories where it's horrible for him cuz she's just gonna use him to get the
ticket over here boom she's gone baby see I mean so interesting stuff that's
why he he can go over there he can move there alright he can move there then he
can then he can really see what's on the menu huh I'm just gay
this is a weird video let's continue ah
that's good another one I went to a college course and one of the other
students was a pretty obvious mail-order bride
she was Thai and the more we got to know her the more she shared about this
relationship she was late 20s and he was at the lower end of 60 it didn't work
but had received some big work compensation payout and was apparently
quite wealthy because oh that's another thing you guys do you'll have to be
wealthy for this to work okay you'd have to be wealthy so young in cells young in
cell counts fight fight y'all be young in cells money max first money max first
okay money max money max money max to the point of where you cannot you can
reward deviously afford the finer things in life but I
just okay um it's work firstly you can afford the
finer things in life thumbs up this video please it's
priority got a bunch of thumbs down give me a thumbs up it's funny it's
interesting why can't we talk about this kind of stuff why can't we just talk
about it without people getting olives she told us they met online on one of
those meet site ladies who are just dying to be your girlfriend kind of
sites and after talking for all of two weeks they agreed to marry this country
is a little bit stricter about these sorts of unions so there were some hopes
I just realized how many guys after seeing this video tonight when I put it
up how many guys are gonna be like surgery measure four hours tonight the
search it look about look look it up learn about it do it it works for some
people it does but that doesn't mean it's going to work for you don't come
back five years from now selling me Big Sean and I hate you baby shaman you
convinced me to do this and I did it I'm not telling you to do it I'm saying
learn about it and maybe it's a possibility I'm not telling you do it
cuz if you do and you get screwed over if something you get used don't come
back tell me you told me do it base shop I didn't tell you to do it I just had
learned about it okay learn about it so many of y'all are gonna be tonight look
at um I didn't know about this I love you guys I love you alright let's good
video let's go so what happened next what happened next so they agreed to get
married after two weeks and he had to go visit her for a certain amount of time
in Thailand before starting the process I wonder if she was at native lass I'm
like II ain't kidding brother but essentially they were engaged after a
few weeks and married within a few months the guy essentially wanted one of
those stereotypical Asian marriages where the wife was subservient and
existed to please their husband she would tell us he would make her wait
till he was done to eat he what he made her wait till he was done to eat oh man
oh come on come on why can't y'all eat at the same time come on dude dude this
guy sounds twisted yeah yeah this alg he made her wait to eat till he was
finished and he would only let her eat ladylike foods like salad what he would
only let her eat salad what he paid her a monthly salary which was pretty
abysmal and she had to use that for clothing and other essentials he also
wouldn't let her go anywhere by herself and would drop her off and turn up an
hour before classes ended in case we got let out early to drive home he was
extremely insecure here he was extremely insecure Wow yeah that's the bad thing
about this you guys there can be really bad cases where you end up with someone
like that that's bad that's he's a bad he's a he's not ready yeah yeah this
stuff is tricky man this stuff is tricky out I remember we had to do a group
assess a assessment and I had given her my phone number and he forced her to
delete it I'm a female he forced her to delete a female's phone number I think
the saddest part was when she asked a bunch of us if we could get birth
control pills for her because her husband kept destroying her pills and
you could tell she was absolutely terrified of getting pregnant the weird
thing though was that she wasn't terribly bad off in Thailand our family
was apparently quite wealthy and she had her own home and stuff over there but
for whatever reason she didn't want to live there personally I would have ran
the second I saw that purple-faced blob of a husband yeah that's bad that's
horrible yeah that's horrible man that's horrible
that's why people don't like this stuff cuz that's what they associate it with
they don't see it as anything that can come up with anything good they just
think it that's what's gonna happen and it probably does a lot what do you all
think of this hmm yeah that one hurts that one hurts let's do one more
hopefully we can do a funny or a happy or something and then we'll be done we
can't we can't end this on that kind of a note week we can here we go give us a
good one is our last one my girlfriend and I were recently eating at a
restaurant in Las Vegas seated right next to another couple the lady was
around 30 Asian American and the guy was about a 50 year old American man they
spent about five straight minutes with the waiter trying to order food for the
woman who didn't seem to understand they were in a place that served food then
once they did order she leaned in and told the guy something we couldn't quite
hear he got up immediately and left for a bit
and his absence the woman tried to ask for something from the waiter and super
like beyond broken English waiter couldn't understand and she just stopped
talking and stared straight ahead the guy he eventually got back and put a box
on Tampax of Tampax on the table next to her and said very loudly because I take
care of my baby she smiled and grabbed the box and started opening it right at
the table took out a tampon opened up the plastic opened the tampon and stared
at the guy with a super confused look the guy turned pale and started asking
her things like do you not use those do you use peds do you want me to find you
some pads for your period your period you're on your period right now yes the
blood yes dear that's that's your period all the while the woman was like
repeating what he was saying super loudly meanwhile I'm eating spaghetti
like a foot away from the guy almost shoulder shoulder shoulder to shoulder
with him they eventually left without eating or paying and saying anything
it was one of the most bizarre things I have ever seen and I now completely
assume without any other kind of supporting evidence that she was a
mail-order bride
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