Waching daily Oct 5 2017

You're talking to a girl, you think she's interested, and then she leaves, or she stops

replying to your texts, or she starts ignoring you or turning you down when you invite her

out, and you start thinking "UH OH. what did I do wrong?"

Has this ever happened to you?

Or maybe you've spent WEEKS learning how to appear confident and how to approach a girl

and how to overcome your anxiety and the best opening lines and all that, only to be baffled

when another guy just walks up like it's nothing and gets the girl you've been wanting.

Talking to girls can be hard.

We've all screwed up with it before.

So today, I'm here to teach you 5 Do's, and 5 Don'ts, to use when talking to girls.

These are really simple things you can remember, or write down in your notes app, and they'll

improve your chances with girls SIGNIFICANTLY.

Do: Be positive.

Smiling, being open-minded, having a good time, and showing that you're happy and having

fun, sets up a vibe that you're a really fun guy to spend time with.

You've probably noticed how people naturally gravitate towards fun, positive people, haven't

you?

So be like that.

Don't: Be negative.

Don't put yourself down.

Don't say negative things about yourself.

Don't grill her about whether she likes you, or ask her why she doesn't like you, or anything

like that.

Girls tend to like drama, but they DON'T like it when the guy is more dramatic than they

are.

Do: Be different.

If you look like a generic guy, with generic style, you approach her in a generic way,

with a generic opening line, have a generic conversation, and then ask for her number

so you can take her out on a generic date - that's boring.

Do something DIFFERENT.

Have a unique style.

Drop an unusual line on her.

Take her on a date to somewhere she's never been before!

Girls LOVE this, because it automatically puts you above all the other guys she's known.

Don't: Be needy.

This means: texting her every single day, multiple times a day, seeking her approval,

and getting even more needy and desperate if she doesn't talk to you or give you enough

attention.

This is a HUGE turn off and it will instantly destroy your chances with her.

I see guys do it all the time though, and if you're one of those guys - don't feel bad

- just stop doing it, RIGHT NOW.

Do: Treat her like she's a normal person, on the same level as you.

Most guys suck up to hot girls, and they act "fakenice" - this is a term I made up to describe

guys who aren't actually "nice guys," but who only ACT nice around girls because they

think it'll impress the girl or get the girl to like them or lead to the girl going out

with them or hooking up with them!

We all know guys like that.

Don't do it.

Don't treat a girl like she's ABOVE you.

Treat her like she's on the SAME LEVEL as you, and it'll make you stand out and seem

more real.

Don't give a girl special treatment just because of her looks - give it to her AFTER you get

to know her, because of her PERSONALITY.

Treating her just like any other person will make her REALLY into you, REALLY fast.

Don't: Treat her like dirt.

It's easy to listen to the last point I made and then say "oh, so that means I should be

an asshole to her."

No it doesn't.

Treating her like dirt is just as bad as treating her like a princess.

Treat her like she's ON THE SAME LEVEL AS YOU, like she's one of your bros, and don't

tip toe around her.

If you're comfortable with her, she'll know she can be comfortable with you.

Do: Actually make a move.

When I was younger, I used to get tons of girls' numbers, I'd text them a lot, and even

categorize them in my mind according to which ones I thought were most into me, which ones

were the hottest, which ones I'd actually date, and so on.

And I spent so much time texting that I'd just end up blowing them off the majority

of the time and not actually spending any time with them, because I assumed that if

they liked me now, they'd like me forever.

That definitely isn't true.

You want to make a move, and you want to do it quickly.

This means if you want a girl, go for her, and actually invite her out.

Don't let yourself get stuck in an endless loop of texting back and forth

Don't: Overanalyze.

One reason I don't like the "pickup artist community" is they overcomplicate things.

For example, there's something called a "List of Indicators of Interest" that you can reference

to see if a girl is into you - things like how many times she tucked her hair behind

her ear, the angle she's standing relative to you, and so on.

Forget all that BS.

If you want to talk to a girl, just talk to her, right now.

If she's interested in the conversation then make a move - ask her out, get her number,

invite her somewhere, and while you're out go for a kiss.

THAT'S IT.

Just talk - if she's into it, then make a move; if she's not into it, then don't; and

if she's into the conversation but not the move, then just back up a little and keep

talking.

Do: Have other fun things in your life.

The best way to get girls, is to not be obsessed with getting girls.

Having other fun things in your life, like family, friends, hobbies, sports, games, and

goals - will make you more confident and less desperate - which will make you happier, funner,

and you'll give off a less needy vibe, so girls will actually be MORE interested in

you.

Don't: Talk to only one girl.

This is a big mistake that younger guys make.

They single out one girl at school that they like, and they ignore every other girl.

What you actually want to do, is talk to lots of girls, because it'll give you experience,

it'll make you more comfortable and confident talking to girls in general, and it'll show

that one girl you like that other girls are into you, and that'll make her intrigued by

you.

And, once you get to know other girls, you might realize that they're actually pretty

cool and you like them even more than the original one.

Bonus tip: Tease her!

Girls like it when guys are fun and playful.

Don't always be completely serious.

If you think you're coming off as "The Anti-Charisma", cut it out!

Have FUN with a girl, and let her have fun with you.

So that's it!

I hope these tips helped you, remember them or save them somewhere, and start using them,

and you'll IMMEDIATELY see your success with girls improve.

If you're subscribed to my channel, you may already be familiar with some of these.

I made this video because I wanted to make a quick checklist of what I thought were the

MOST IMPORTANT things to ALWAYS remember.

I highly recommend writing them down or screenshotting them in your phone so you have them handy

all the time.

OUTRO: Want more tips: Then click the link on the screen right now to check out my video

with more tips.

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Is it you or the devil? - Session 217 - Tafsir in English - The Cow - Verse 208 - Part 4 - Duration: 7:11.

Session 217 Chapter 2

Verse 208 a continuation

You who believe, enter wholeheartedly into submission to God and do not follow in Satan's

footsteps, for he is your sworn enemy.

(Chapter 2: Verse 208) In the phrase 'do not follow in Satan's

footsteps, for he is your sworn enemy,' Allah is warning you against following the

devil because his goal is to keep you away from God's path.

In fact, satan's animosity for humankind is ancient; it started from the time of Adam.

Allah, the All-Merciful- conveys this animosity to us by narrating what satan said as he stood

before Adam: He said, "I swear by Your Glory!

I will tempt them all, Except Your servants among them, endowed with sincerity in faith

and worshipping You."

(38:82-83) By clearly narrating the story of Adam, Eve

and satan at the beginning of the Quran, Allah gave us immunity and protection from satan's

actions.

This is similar to when you want to protect your body from vile diseases such as the measles

and polio.

You would familiarize your body with that disease through vaccination early in life.

Satan will not take you by surprise, for God has alerted you early on of his actions and

intentions.

In the Quran, the words: 'satan' and 'the devils' refer to the disobedient jinn in

general.

The Jinn have believers just like humans have believers, and the Jinn have disbelievers

known as the devils who spread corruption just as there are disbelieving people.

However, we should not blame all corruption and sin on the devil; there are many sinful

actions we do out of our own selfish desires.

So, the key question to ask is: How can you distinguish between the sins that Satan adorns

to you from the sins that are adorned to you by your own self desires?

In other words, some sins stem from your own self, and some sins come from the devils'

whispers, how can you tell the difference between the two?

We answer that there is an easy way to distinguish between the two.

If you find yourself insisting on committing a specific kind of sin, then know it is from

your own self.

This is because each self has a certain desire and weakness that it wants to satisfy, so

it insists on a particular type of sin.

A person may love money, so his or her self would obsess over accumulating wealth by any

means.

He or she would rationalize sinful acts for the purpose of making money.

A man who is otherwise upright may have a weakness for women, so his self would always

sway him in the direction of sex and pornography.

Another person may love to be recognized and praised, so his or her self would always obsess

with being recognized even if it has to cheat and lie.

Each self has a goal of satisfying a specific urge, so it always pushes in that direction.

Thus, if you always find yourself struggling with a specific weakness, coming back to it

again and again, then know that it is from yourself.

Satan, on the other hand, does not insist on a particular type of sin.

If he sees you standing strong and refraining from a certain sin, he will shift tactics

and push you towards another one.

This is because satan wants you to be a sinner regardless of what the sin is.

For instance, if you are careful in your prayers, the devil would attempt to sway you regarding

wealth, urging you not to pay the zakat almsgiving.

If you are upright when it comes to money, the devil may turn you to the allure of bad

company and slander and so on.

Satan is unrelenting in his attempts to deceive humans because he does not want to be the

only sinner.

He disobeyed and was expelled from God's mercy.........why can't others be sinners like him?

It does not matter what we do as long as we sin.

Allah warns you: 'do not follow in Satan's footsteps, for he is your sworn enemy.'

When you know the source of your sin, you can develop specific tools to protect yourself

from falling into it.

Let's look into the best way to guard yourself against the whispers of the devils.

God says: O children of Adam, let not Satan tempt you

as he removed your parents from Paradise, stripping them of their clothing to show them

their private parts.

Indeed, he sees you, he and his tribe, from where you do not see them.

Indeed, We have made the devils allies to those who do not believe (7:27)

How can you fight something that you cannot see, you may ask?

We answer that satan is a creation of God, and so are you.

It is logical then that in a struggle between two of God's creations, the most powerful

and persistent of the two will win.

But if one of the two happens to be in God's company, then no one can ever overcome him

or her.

This is why God wants you to seek refuge in Him so you can be in his company against Satan.

As soon as you entertain the thought of a sin, God teaches you to say and repeat: 'I

seek refuge in God from Satan the accursed.'

Now you are in God's company, and no one can overcome you.

But if you deviate from God's path then the devil can defeat you, because the struggle

in this case, would be between two parties detached from God.

If you would like more information about this topic, listen to our series titled: "I seek

refuge in God from Satan

the accursed."

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A Message From The Father: Is that not enough? - Duration: 2:31.

A Message From The Father: Is that not enough?

I chose you when I planned creation

I knew you even before you were conceived. See, I knitted you together in the womb,

each piece, each section

was made to perfection.

You were not a mistake.

You are not just decoration to the world.

You have a purpose.

Your spirit and your body: for my Glory alone.

For all of your days are written in my book.

I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live.

I smiled at the joy that you gave to me and continue to give you

You are fearfully and wonderfully made.

And the lies about you will never cause that to fade.

But you look at your reflection and question about the creation that I've made.

Your mind and mouth start speaking the harmful lies about my creation.

You start looking as if disgusted and pick out each detail,

each so called imperfection and call it names.

You speak lies about yourself, repeating, "I'm this. I'm that."

And it all gets so loud that you can't hear me weeping for you.

My love, you don't understand.

I worked so hard on you.

From each inch, to each section, to an overflow of my perfection.

You're perfect in my eyes.

Is that not enough?

I have numbered each strand of your hair on your head, one by one

Not because I was bored

But because I wanted to demonstrate your worth to me,

by showing how much I love each piece

and each detail of your being.

Is that not enough?

I'm the King of kings, Lord of everything, Creator Elohim

and I created you and have called you perfect in my eyes

Is that not enough?

I have called you royalty, a child of the King,

Every part of you I have made for my Kingdom

Is that not enough?

I took my time with your design

Making each part the very best, so when you ask me what is my

favorite part I can smile and tell you it is the whole masterpiece

Is that not enough?

I love you.

Every inch, every detail

even the things you call flaws,

I love it.

I don't make mistakes.

I just ask of you, my child,

to not only love the ministry that you're stepping into

not only love the blessings I'm giving you

but love

my creation. Love what I've made

YOU.

This creation is not like something of an infection,

but every piece and every section, to me

is perfection.