Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato Do you believe it's necessary to protect our heart in the spiritual communities
I'd say they often speak about how important it is to open the heart but
isn't it also sometimes good to protect our heart what do you think about this?
Well if I were to ask you to define what you mean when you say protect your heart?
Protecting at the heart let's see if I can find an example I think a good
example for this is when for example you are a child and you experience a lot of
violence from the outside and what a child automatically does is to protect
is through in a way I don't know if closing the heart is the same but it's
it's a kind of protection that a child does to not let that experience to go in
too deeply. And does it work? I'm not sure if that works maybe at that time it
works. I don't think it works. No why not?
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato Because that kind of protection is a sort of non-being yourself
yeah and non-being yourself is is an illusionary protection if you need to
numb yourself you means it means that you were you don't want to suffer you
are avoiding suffering and the best way most likely is to integrate suffering
and transform it rather than avoiding shielding yourself so yes my mother and
my father are fighting and it's painful but rather than blocking and pretending
and closing and just shut down I fully embrace what's going on and by fully
embracing I am starting to integrating and understanding and learning from it
and then from there I start to even have the power to transform it into love and
probably that's the best process rather than shutting down and because if you
shut down the damage is already there you mean you already have suffered
otherwise you will shut down so you really suffer it and now you close the
suffering because you don't want to deal with it so I have the feeling that I could be
wrong but like I am the feeling that protecting your heart it's really a
trick of the mind that wants to protect itself the heart is really powerful I
don't think the heart needs any protection I think it is the mind that
wants to control the situation somehow and therefore needs devices like
protections and blocking and all that the heart is can handle everything if a
child has if the soul of a child has chosen two parents that fight he came very
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato well equipped to face that and shielding and protecting its self
deceiving and then it will probably run for the next forty years or
whatever long to do the same and so every time you enter relationship with
his opposite sex or with whatever it will adapt the same mechanism and
then will cause further suffering
unnecessary but of course it's natural to shut down just to protect yourself to
control you know something really scary so in a way it is a natural mechanism to
protect yourself. Yeah I can see for example a mother that would protect her
child for example if we would go into a little bit more of an extreme in war
situations where where there's a lot of violence a mother would naturally
protect the child right so that's the image what I see is that it's such a
natural way of us to protect ourselves from the outside violence of whatever is
yeah it's painful. Well if I was a father of a child and I was in that situation I
definitely would try to protect my child as much as possible but at the same time
I would have a very long communication with the child at whatever level the age
of a child allows in order to explain to him
situation in order to bring him to awareness or to understanding of what's
going on and still I will protect him of course but at the same time I wouldn't
protect him meaning shutting down from the world I would say hey we are facing
this situation humanity right now is facing this and that, again it would depend
on the age of the child of course but
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato so that he or she will again as fast as possible an understanding of what's
going on and with that understanding he or she will be able to face better the
situation is still going to be very hard of course but at least at least there is
more ingredients than more information that allows me to with understanding to
cope with the situation much better than in a situation where I see a lot of
violence I don't understand anything you know so if I say the wife get slapped by a
father or by a husband and the child is there for the child is a big shock the mother
should protect the child so that he doesn't get slapped I either of course
after the situation is completed she should have to should probably have a
conversation your father when was a child was abused
so unfortunately is still angry and is doing this but he's loving it's just
in a state of fear so we need to have compassion you know I'm just
inventing but by honoring the child with an intelligent conversation because even
an extremely intelligent already the child with within with a
an intelligent conversation the child most likely will respond in a
very effective way rather than protect him shut him down and don't tell me
anything and pretend everything is well the child knows well what would you
do for example when it's a child that is only a baby or one or two years old then
I think the only thing is like a body language and hold the child or anything
that that gives her or him the feeling of being safe in that environment
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato Yeah the feeling of love feeling of love yeah yes in that case what you can do is
using touch using the voice the sounds of your voice you're nurturing the child
in a way that he feels with what just happened is I mean it counteract what
just happened with with an embrace of love there will still be processes where
the child will have to to pass through and this happen also when the child is
in the womb of the mother the same thing. Every time the mother in a
situation of distress or anger or fear or challenge that emotional challenge
the child . . . not only when the mother . . . when the environment around
the mother so we cannot I don't think we can protect completely the child and I
don't think is also healthy to protect the child I don't think for example
aboriginists protect their child more than necessary the child needs to
because with protection that it says subliminal message of fear be careful
don't do that I protect you that's the contraction the best message
again depend what kind of situation but the best message is yes this is a fear
fearful situation I believe in you you're strong let's face it together
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato this is what's going to happen this is what is happening but we are both strong
right let's do it you know I team up together towards
whatever fear is there rather than protecting protecting because the child
the soul didn't came here to be protected is a child came here to
experience fully life contrast darkness and light both simultaneously the child
want the soul wants to experience it all so the children are over protected
usually our children that are very weak
in a certain way sometimes they're also very spoiled meaning they are so not
used to deal with situation that they constantly say mommy, mommy for
everything all stuff in order to fill them you know they have not they didn't
build the internal stamina internal self-esteem to face upcoming situation
because the suffering situation will keep coming because that's earth we are
not here to avoid suffering we are here to integrate suffering and transform it
into love that's our job so avoiding suffering is avoiding the primal reason
why we came here
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato that doesn't mean that we have to jump into the most excruciating situation and
but it means that we are here and we have dark we had light we have dark and
light is constantly the polarity and we learn to master and dance with this
polarity and integrate not to avoid but we integrate both aspect of life and
transform them through fear now that does again a certain point . . .
to get to the point where you don't pick up anymore the offer to
going into darkness you know it you don't need experience anymore and so you say
no I'm not interested in that thank you and so you will not engage
anymore in relationship that are infected with the drama you will not
engage anymore in a situation that don't give you the level of joy that you now
demand because you have the experience of darkness and after not to need to
experience it anymore and that's where you start to shift from the collective
and start to upgrade yourself in situation of course when you upgrade
yourself you start to be pointed out our strange and weird or cold or different
but this is part of the game and that's okay it is a big deal. Yeah so open in opening
and closing the heart is also part of that polarity right going on from
opening the heart and then closing the heart and as you say it's not that we
should avoid that but integrate that and really also see when or become aware
when we are closing over when we are opening for example yeah soon you become
aware when you are closing in your opening you don't need to close it
anymore because you realize how silly that a useless that is but
to get to the point you have to have you have to gain a the process of
remembering who you are as to get to a point where your level of self-love is
higher and so you can open your heart because you don't get hurt you don't
need to close your heart otherwise you get hurt anymore you don't get hurt
because your level of awareness takes you to a point where you don't need
anymore external validation you don't need anymore confirmation from the
external you you trust what is within in within yourself and so if somebody
doesn't like you or that tells you something that could be helpful you
don't internalize it anymore you don't take it personally you don't get
defensive you don't get hurt anymore you're saying oh well that's an
interesting observation you just made okay well I respect your your ideas they
are not mine but you are free to work those ideas and I love you anyway it
doesn't matter you know so at that point the heart doesn't need to close open
close open open close cause you know doesn't need to do that anymore yeah
but I guess it's also practice and it doesn't go overnight you know it's like
you it almost sounds like well if you realize that that that doesn't work
anymore then you probably also don't do that anymore but that's I don't think in
my experience at least I don't I become aware when when my heart is closing or
opening but
Is It Necessary To Protect Our Heart? From "Walking the Path" with Marco Missinato I've not mastered already okay it doesn't make any sense closing my heart
so I don't do that anymore because it's still sometimes to this
pattern that comes in and you know and it is still part of the learning and and
it keeps on coming until we completely learned I guess you know and the length
of the process is based on how how much you are paying attention to what's
happening and how humble you are to to feel what is happening within yourself
and and processing rather than immediately go into victim and blaming
blaming and then if you go immediately in victim and blaming then you haven't
learned what that possibility was creating for you and so you will have to
eventually to do it again and then again then again so but you will choose it's a
choice and internal choice okay this time okay he triggering me something and
again I get triggered by it is something now let's stop for a moment let me go
within myself and let me feel what is going on here and and then bring to
surface what are the different layers of reasons why this trigger created
emotional response and once you start to do that immediately life will support
you with evidences of how that is silly and and it's a sign that you don't need
that or you need less than that and then next time you will be still maybe
trigger another two or three times are less and less and less a certain point
you will smile and then you will be able to - you will get to a point where you
will be so connected where you will feel gratitude for that
some that try to trigger you because if it wasn't for him or for her you
wouldn't have the chance to do the work that you just need right so basically
the person that is triggering you whatever you need to look at is being
created by yourself yeah you attracted that person maybe not consciously maybe
your other part of you multi-dimensional or part of you they call it higher self
I don't like so much to work higher self because creator is better than me you
know kind of situation but you have the Creator I am the creator so if somebody
comes and trigger me I have created a situation so that I can learn from it so
it's painful but I think I'm delicious opportunity because the moment I
resolved that I shift into a field where I have many more possibilities of
enjoying life that before were not accessible to me because I had that
problem that blocked so thank you for doing that for me oh my god I suffer so
much but this time I didn't step into unconsciousness and let the suffering
take over and into the drama I felt the suffering and I became an
observer I neutralized myself and I observe the suffering and I observe the
message behind it and I heard that clearly and I learned from it and now
that suffering is not in it anymore now what before was not possible now
it's possible now I don't need to attract another person we keep
triggering my stuff so next time I will attract somebody that has a different
vibrational offer and then the co-creation can be even
much more exciting and much more full
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