Scott has a comment.
I feel like I wanna lean my phone here, but it's probably gonna fall out the window
if I do that.
Just don't touch it. Just don't breathe.
Ok. The comment is,
I think that people undervalue also doing the self-assessment work.
I think we've both spent a lot of time trying to figure out who we are, why we do the things
we do, why we make the choices we make, why we act the way we may, and then are able to
communicate that to each other.
And being able to do that, I think actually, takes the "work" aspect of a relationship,
not "away", but it lightens the load, because you've already done all of the work
on yourself.
I think a lot of the "work" people talk about, is figuring out each other's things
like a Love Language, or like the stuff I talk about on the podcast with our tendencies.
Once you know yourself really well, not only knowing yourself well, but are willing to
know yourself well, a lot of people, ignorance is bliss.
And if I didn't recognize that parts of my personality that most of the time people
who come to Instagram love these things about me, right?
Love that I'm so honest or bold or whatever.
I recognize how that can be received by somebody who I'm not trying to be critical of.
I know that it can be received in a way that comes off as very critical.
So that if I also know that someone like Scott, his Love Language is Words of Affirmation,
I mean, this is getting deeper, but the opposite is also true.
If I criticize, it's more painful to him than it might be to somebody else who doesn't
have Words of Affirmation as their top Love Language.
So, really getting to know each other in those ways, and using personal development, all
of that, as a means to know yourself, and know each other better.
Listen.
If you're in a relationship and your partner isn't willing to do this work, you need
to get some therapy.
People need to, you need to be able to know what your Love Language is.
Find out what your Love Language is.
Find out what your tendency is; if you are an Upholder, Obliger, Questioner, or a Rebel.
That's the minimum.
Extra credit is Enneagram.
Enneagram is a really, really good one.
It's a little more intense.
The two of us read each other's Enneagram report, and we were like, "Woah, yeah, that's
totally you."
Anyway, goodnight, guys.
We'll see you another time.
Bye.
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I basically need for people to read the Enneagram type 8 assessment before they follow me on
Instagram.
Can we do that?
Can there be a "Do Not Pass Go", "Please Read This and Know What You're Getting Into
Before You Tap Follow"?
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