you do you think a bachelor's degree with your extra if your experience with
college maybe you think a bachelor's degree is a necessary key to attaining
success oh I am NOT your role model on this one yeah absolutely
stay in school
look not gonna be real um I think it helps I loved I loved the time that I
spend in college I wish I could have gotten more time I did not choose to
leave I just happened to build Facebook and it kind of made me leave but if I
had the opportunity to to learn for two more years in college and colleges this
magical time right where you get to explore different interests and focus on
different things and meet great people and that is not something that I would
have wanted to have given up and if I could have magically both done if I
could have done Facebook in my senior year I would have done that or or after
I left I would have done that and I wish I could have stayed in college but and
of course there's no doubt I mean there's a lot of research that shows
that if having a bachelor degree absolutely does help increase your job
potential your earnings potential all that so yeah I mean look I mean it's
kind of crazy for you know I'm not necessarily the best spokesperson for
this message but like unless there's a really really good reason to leave
college you really should finish college Dom you know and even me I'm I'm going
back to college to get I'm gonna get a degree this year
Harvard finally allowed me to come back
and I have to say you know I think that this is probably gonna be the thing that
my parents are most proud of me for so so look yes I'm not the right messenger
but stands for most important history what I like to call surround yourself
with with your dream team mm-hmm I called my Josh Altman's dream team yeah
and it consists of of a good amount of support from people that I trust value
their opinion and who I surround myself with I always say that you are the
average of five people that used to round yourselves with right you ever get
that before yeah yeah I totally Jim rum
just made that up right now so I think it's super important to do that so in
real estate for example I have the best mortgage broker who's available 24/7 for
me and we've worked our way up in the business together I have you know
everybody from the best title guy and escrow guy and and all that so I
surround myself with this team of of people who I can trust and they can
guide me in the right directions of whatever I do so that's one way
obviously in any business is just surround yourself with some with people
who support you I want you to read one self-help book it's not a lot just one
per month that's not a lot you can handle that most self-help books are
pretty short so all you need to do is just have a list in fact I have a list
of some of my favorite most powerful self-help books on my website and go
check that out actualize that org but this is this is a huge habit here's why
because self-help books have basically distilled all the principles of success
and happiness and human beings have discovered in the last 2,000 years and
especially the last hundred years there's been so much research done on
how to be successful in business how to be successful in relationships how to be
successful with your happiness levels how to meditate properly the scientific
benefits of meditation and so on and so forth and self-help books are not just
abstract you know very pedantic type of books that you might read in college
these are very practical these are written to get you results
these self-help books have exercises in them they have techniques read those
start practicing those if you just read one book per month for the next let's
say eight years that would be close to a hundred books that would give you the
entire theoretical foundation that you need to master life create the highest
grandest vision possible for your life because you become what you believe when
I was a little girl Mississippi growing up on the farm only
Bukka with his role model watching my grandmother boil clothes and a big iron
pot through the screen door because we didn't have a washing machine and made
everything we had I watched her and realized somehow
inside myself and the spirit of myself that although this was segregated
Mississippi and I was colored and female that my life could be bigger greater
than what I saw I remember being 4 or 5 years old I certainly couldn't
articulate it but it was a feeling and a feeling that I allowed myself to follow
I allowed myself to follow because if you were to ask me what is the secret to
my success it is because I understand that there is a Power greater than
myself that rules my life and in life in life
if you can be still long enough in all of your endeavors the good times the
hard times to connect yourself to the source I call it God you can call it
whatever you want to the force nature Allah the power if you can connect
yourself to the source and allow the energy that it is your personality your
lifeforce to be connected to the greater force in the thing is possible for you I
am proof of that I think that my life the fact that
was born where I was born in the time that I was and have been able to do what
I've done speaks to the possibility not that I am
special but that it could be done it took a couple months to like real I mean
I was 17 at the time I just finished high school two months earlier and I'm
now living in Melbourne I mean I was playing catch up really quickly anyway I
was living on my own in a new city where I had never met anyone two hour flight
away from anyone I knew and I had no money and I was like just trying to find
CAPTCHAs to sleep on at that point plus before you're 18 you can't like sign up
and get electricity bills and stuff like that so no one would rent a place to me
I didn't have any money the whole thing was like I was just trying to like keep
my head above water at that point and then once it settled in and I kind of
got settled there and you know it's working constantly then that's when I
felt like oh yeah I've seen I've seen people make the jump from here to
America so my choices are either stay out you know be good enough to stay on
this show the decades the way some cast members have which you know you'd have a
lovely life in Melbourne or you screw it up and you get fired which I didn't
obviously didn't want to take that okay or try and make the transition to the
American industry you know try and move to LA and do pilot season as I had seen
a few customers do at that point so that was my goal
any fear when you made the flight yes but it wasn't as scary yes definitely
but it wasn't as scary as that first moved to Melbourne that first minute
open was terrifying because I was just you know I like I said I didn't have the
money at the time I didn't like heaven I didn't know when you at least when I
moved to LA like when I did that flight to LA I knew two people there already
who had already been our neighbors and I had my money safe so if anything
went really wrong I knew I could afford to get in a cab drive to the airport and
buy a ticket home and so like I died that's all I needed to know I was like
cool I'm sweet whatever happens like if anything goes really wrong
I can always afford to fly hard and they'll be fine and it ever what you've
got here did ever seem like anything was going really longer yeah obviously like
the ups and downs and like the crazy as anyone who's moved to a new city before
I'm sure they've had crazy experiences so I had all that for sure but that no
it was fine I was uh it would have had to take a lot to make me fly on I was
like I will not be a failure I came here I'm not going home until I've made it in
this business the way I do branding I sell so
infrequently that I think some of you that are watching me the hardest core
need to hear this which is it's okay to sell especially if you believe in
something look if you believe in what you're selling and that's what I'm
spending a lot of time on now trying to spend more time on really getting to a
place where I really believe in stuff instead of just passive not creating so
I wasn't selling because I didn't believe you know and just letting
everything come to me but as I create these you know events Vayner experienced
a lot of events very big on events events are so valuable just watching the
four DS crew is value and like how it's impacting their business for ten
thousand dollars right there I get and you see I know you get the emails the
wine club like $150 worth one for fifty five bucks like I've just locked in
November's it's gonna make all your Thanksgivings ridiculous the conference
$500 two-hour session in my stomping grounds good deal compared to like other
conferences that I speak at but you're getting the wine for free or you're
getting the talk to free and you're getting the wine so like I'm very
fascinated because I'm putting more pressure on myself to create things that
I really believe in which then allows me to sell more and I just think for a lot
of you selling the ask the right hook is very difficult you're passive you like
the idea of like feeling good about like giving out content this and that
and you believe me something you can sell it and you should put more pressure
on yourself to create things that you believe in biggest problem is so many of
you self you don't believe in you're just doing it for the money you're gonna
lose Matt I don't like
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