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A Study Reveals Your Body Knows When Death Is Near, And It All Begins In The Nose - Duration: 5:12.
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death of a loved one can hit us hard it leaves us feeling lost and dejected in
life it is the most difficult thing in the world to cope from as it leaves a
mark on us mentally emotionally and spiritually you can't just expect to
cope from it in a day it takes time to heal what is broken by the loss of the
loved one it even takes years to fully come out of the mental trauma you must
have endured during that time however some may argue it is a coincidence while
others are confident people know when death is near it is natural to try and
understand the death of someone we love or just imagine what happens in those
final moments scientists know when someone dies the
body immediately begins to disintegrate Putra scene for example is a foul and
toxic scent the result of decomposition researchers have come to realize humans
subconsciously recognize this putrifying odor not only that the scent when
released causes an immediate response animals have the ability to smell the
odor of others causing them to react accordingly this is identical to sensing
danger whether from a predator or stronger and bigger animal from their
pack a study conducted by our node Wisman from the University of Kent
School of Psychology in Canterbury UK an island sheriff from the Department of
Behavioral Sciences in Arkansas Tech University in Russellville a.k have
discovered animals and humans might not be so different after all
the ability to detect chemical sense is part of survival across the species the
warning of death is revealed through smell to humans putrescine is a
foul-smelling organic chemical compound that is related to category nee both are
produced by the breakdown of amino acids in living and dead organisms meaning it
is a chemical compound released when a body decays
it also has a secondary function as a warning signal people have both a
conscious and subconscious reaction when they are exposed to this odor there were
four different experiments conducted using putrescine ammonia and water to
study people's reaction one of the experiments included Putra seen exposed
at a site people's immediate response was to move away from the area this is
the same response around fight-or-flight reaction when animals sense they are in
real danger there are only two responses fight the threat or run away from it the
study revealed people react the same there are other voters humans respond to
as well like sweat separate studies have shown that sweat taken from people in
fearful situations and exposed for others to smell generated an automatic
and startled reflex we do not know why we like or dislike someone's smell and
we're usually not aware of how scent influences our emotions preferences and
attitudes explain Wisman and Shira it is hard to think of a scent as frightening
say other two leading researchers these scents make people more aware and
vigilant of their surroundings humans natural reaction to danger is not
to face it and fight people tend to avoid any type of confrontation whether
it's physical or verbal for the most part people choose to distance
themselves until fight is the only option on the table the responses may be
different from each other but Putra scene and sex pheromone are based on
scent sex pheromones are chemicals released by
the body to attract a mate while putrescine works as a warning signal
putrescine signals a different type of message than pheromones but people's
responses to putrescine avoidance and hostility do seem indeed to be the
opposite of responses to many sexual pheromones explained researchers during
the study people were not aware they had a negative reaction to the scent people
are not familiar with putress Essien and do not consciously associate it with
death or fear admits Wisman and Shira
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Lenovo Z5 Is a LIE? - Duration: 2:12.
The internet exploded with both excitement and
skepticism when the Lenovo Z5 renders leaked.
The photos showed what seemed to be a bezel-less and notch-free phone which would have made
it the first such smartphone.
Now, new evidence is showing up that claims to disprove the bezel-less design claim.
A few weeks ago, Lenovo showed a sketch of the entire phone, and there were no bezels
or notches anywhere to be found.
In other words, the Z5 indeed appeared as though it would be the world's first smartphone
with a true all-screen design.
but it now appears as though that sketch is a blatant lie.
A user on Chinese microblogging site Weibo posted what appear to be full renders of the
new Lenovo Z5, and it's not an all-screen phone at all.
Instead, there's a chin at the bottom of the screen that houses the front-facing camera
and sensors.
It's really not that big of a surprise to me as the only feasible way to pack the camera
in is by making it pop-up.
That's the design Vivo opted for in their Apex concept phone and it's a design that
could be prone to breaking and malfunctions.
Anytime you make something mechanical it has a higher likelihood it will break or be broken.
But even though, Lenovo lied and there's a chin at the bottom, it looks slimmer than
the Mi Mix 2 and the phone still looks really good.
Sucks that it's not an all screen phone as previously claimed.
Anyway, the Z5 will be announced just a couple of days from now on June 5th and It's expected
to go on sale on June 12th.
Make sure to subscribe to keep up with all of the updates and I'll see you'll tomorrow...Peace
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What is gaslighting? | Riley J. Dennis - Duration: 6:44.
Hey everyone!
Today, we're gonna talk about gaslighting.
Chances are you've heard this phrase thrown around at some point -- probably either in
reference to an abusive relationship, or in reference to how Trump talks to the American public.
So what exactly is gaslighting?
Essentially, it's a method of psychological manipulation where Person A tries to get Person
B to doubt their lived experiences, memories, and knowledge.
This allows A to control B, because B doesn't know what to believe and can't trust their
own perception of reality.
Because of this deep-seeded doubt, B feels like they have to believe whatever Person
A says -- even if it's a complete lie.
Unfortunately, it's a very effective manipulation technique because gaslighters tend to be relentless
in their position, meaning that the more you question them and point out their lies, the
further they commit to those lies.
It's easy to think that you can trust your own perception of reality when you're not
being gaslit, but when someone is so adamantly telling you things that clash with what you
know to be true, it's really hard not to doubt yourself at least a little bit.
And that's all gaslighters need is to sow enough doubt that you're not 100% sure you
can trust what you know.
In abusive relationships, gaslighting can be a powerful weapon.
Even those who are aware of what gaslighting is can fall victim to it.
So I think it's important not to blame gaslighting victims for what has happened to them.
Just because you, someone outside of the situation, can see how gaslighting is occurring, that
doesn't necessarily mean that someone in that situation can see it as clearly.
But it is also important to be aware of what gaslighting can look like so that you can
do your best to identify it in your relationships and not tolerate it.
So what are some example of gaslighting?
Oftentimes, this technique can be used to cover up a mistake that was made by the gaslighter.
Let's say that there are two people in a romantic relationship, Person A and Person
B. In this scenario, Person A stays at home during the day while Person B works from 9 to 5.
So in the morning, Person B wants to take the trash out on their way to work, but they forget.
So when they get home, instead of taking responsibility for forgetting, admitting that they messed
up, and taking out the trash -- they decide to blame Person A. They say to Person A, "I
asked you to take out the trash while I was gone like 3 times this morning, why didn't you do it?"
Now, that definitely never happened.
B never asked A to take out the trash.
But because B is so forcefully insisting that they did, A starts to wonder whether that
did happen and they just forgot.
So A apologizes for messing up and takes out the trash.
After all, in A's mind, it is *possible* that B said something that morning and A just forgot.
That's a classic case of gaslighting -- making someone else doubt their reality by using
the uncertainty of their memory against them.
Though it can also be used even more maliciously.
Maybe B didn't even forget to take out the trash, it was just their plan all along to
guilt A into doing it.
And as their relationship continues, B can continue to use this tactic to make A doubt
even larger aspects of their life.
Maybe after years of B physically abusing A, the two of them sit down together to talk
about their relationship, and B says, "I would never hurt you.
That's not who I am.
You've really made it sound so much more dramatic than it was.
We've always been so happy!"
This kind of gaslighting can make people question if they ever really were abused, which is
terrible because then they can't even deal with that abuse or get away from it or move
on from it, because they're not even 100% it all happened the way they remember.
Another common gaslighting technique, though, is to spin it back at the victim and blame
them for the problem.
Gaslighters are always on the offense, because if you keep hurling baseless accusations,
the victim has to spend so much time defending themselves from those accusations that they
can't even address the real abuse from the gaslighter.
Following the same example from earlier, where Person B was denying that they ever hurt Person
A, B could continue by saying, "I can't believe you would accuse me of hitting you!
Why do you hate this relationship?
We do you want it to fail?
Why don't you believe in us?"
And that type of language immediately puts A on the defensive.
So now they're not only questioning what happened to them, but they're questioning
if maybe they were the problem all along.
Gaslighting is such a sick, twisted manipulation tactic that is so hard recognize because we
all have trouble trusting our memory.
I mean, our memory is fragile and malleable and often unreliable -- every time you remember
something, you change little things about that memory -- but gaslighters take advantage
of that to the extreme.
Because even though our memories can have their issues, overall we do tend to remember
general things that happened and how we felt during them.
And while this kind of manipulation is common in abusive relationships, it can also show
up in friendships, among coworkers, and even among politicians.
Trump is notorious for gaslighting all of the US.
The easiest example is the size of the crowd at his inauguration.
We have photos proving it was smaller than he said it was, and yet to this day he continues
to insist it was larger, just flat out lying to everyone's faces -- trying to get them
to question their reality by sticking to his lies no matter what.
And it works -- he has supporters who will defend the crowd size and make elaborate excuses for it.
When this all happened, there was a whole national conversation about the size of the
inauguration crowd, which shouldn't even have been a thing because we know for a fact
how many people attended.
But the fact that it was even talked about for so long was what Trump wanted.
It wasn't really about convincing everyone that the crowd was bigger than they thought
-- it was about sowing doubt.
He wants you to think, "Well, maybe those photos were edited," or "Maybe everyone
who was there lied about the crowd size."
He doesn't have to convince every American that he's right, he just needs to make everyone
a *little* bit unsure about what is true.
No amount of proof can dissuade Trump from his lies, and that's what makes him such
a strong gaslighter.
The more he sticks to his nonsense lies, the more people in the media start to ask, "Well,
maybe there *is* something there," even though there obviously isn't.
Now, the crowd size issue is by no means the worst gaslighting he's ever done, it's
just a good example.
That's how gaslighting works.
It's not just about getting you to question the big stuff, it's also about getting you
to question the smaller things that don't really matter as much.
It makes you question your entire reality.
Like, to pick one of many examples, there's the fact that Trump led the birtherism movement
for years, being racist as hell and calling for Obama's birth certificate.
But then in 2016, he tried to blame Clinton for birtherism and acted like he'd been
innocent all along.
Trump's been a pro at the gaslighting game for years, making Americans doubt everything
they've experienced, regardless of whether it's a thing as simple as crowd sizes or
as serious as claiming Obama wasn't born in the US.
So that's what gaslighting is, but where does the term come from?
It comes from a play that was turned into a movie in the 1940s where a husband tries
to convince his wife that she's crazy.
In the movie, he dims the gas lights in the house, and when she points out that they're
dimmer than normal, he says that they're the same brightness and that she's imagining things.
The term gaslighting as been in usage since the 1960s, so it's by no means a new word.
It's just one that has cropped up in a lot of stories lately largely because of how right-wing
politicians continue to gaslight the American public.
And while it is important to recognize how gaslighting works in the political sphere
so that we can fight against it, it's also important to be aware of how gaslighting works
so that you can identify it in your own relationships.
That's certainly not easy, and it's not your fault if you're gaslit by someone else,
but hopefully by understanding this tactic and how it works, you can be confident in
what you know to be true, and you can call out gaslighters for exactly what they're doing.
Anyway, that's all I had for you today.
If you would like to support the continued production of more videos like this one, you
can support me on Patreon by clicking over, which honestly would help me out so much.
You can also click over here to subscribe to my channel.
Thanks so much for watching, and I'll see you next time.
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22 Signs That Indicate Your Soul is Getting Quantum Upgrades - Duration: 4:17.
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sure we go through a lot of shifts and upgrades in our lives but not all of
them are as simple as we think they are the more spiritually inclined you are
the more often you might notice this kind of thing quantum upgrades are
basically strong energies the universe lets off for us it does this so that we
can be pushed towards where we need to be if you are a sensitive individual
then chances are you have felt exactly what I am talking about while most of
the time light workers and crystal children are the ones getting these
quantum upgrades the ones that play currently are not isolated to just those
people if you are experiencing the things below you too are getting these
quantum upgrades 22 signs your soul is getting quantum upgrades right now one
you are becoming more aware in general you are seeing and feeling things you
have not yet felt before everything is really falling into place while this
might be a bit overwhelming it is a positive feeling to your intuition is
becoming stronger your intuition is really beginning to speak to you it is
making itself known more and more as each day passes your gut is working in
overdrive 3 you feel connected to everything you feel at peace and as one
with the universe you are beginning to understand the connection at play here
we are all one and everything is connected
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✅ Stacy Keibler Is Expecting Second Child, Shows Off Baby Bump - Duration: 4:03.
The pregnant former WWE wrestler was all smiles while walking to a restaurant in Beverly Hills with husband Jared Pobre
May 28, 2018 AceShowbiz - Stacy Keibler and her husband, Jared Pobre, are set to be proud parents for the second time as they are expecting another child
The couple has not announced the baby news, but Us Weekly has confirmed it. The "Dancing with the Stars" alum later showed her baby bump during a night out with her husband on Friday, May 25
The 38-year-old former actress and her businessman husband were seen walking hand-in-hand with happy smiles all over their faces as they headed to Avra restaurant in Beverly Hills, California
She wore a red bodycon dress which hugged her belly. Stacy Keibler showed her baby bump while walking to a restaurant in Beverly Hills with her husband Jared Pobre
Stacy was first seen flaunting her baby bump on Tuesday, May 22 when she stopped by the upscale Erewhon Natural Foods in Los Angeles
The couple is already parents to three-year-old Ava Grace, whom they welcomed back in August 2014
The TV personality, who broke up with George Clooney in 2013 after dating for two years, began dating Jared, who is a tech entrepreneur, in September 2013
After dating for seven months, they secretly wed in a surprise beach ceremony in Mexico, in March 2014
Four months after giving birth to her first child, Stacy revealed that she never thought about marriage or parenthood until she dated Jared
"Life can be unpredictable. You feel one way and then.boom!" she wrote on her lifestyle website
She then continued to share how her life changed after dating Jared, "After a serendipitous reconnection with Jared, a friend who turned out to be my soulmate, we created a family together almost instantly
Talk about a serious change in my reality!" The blonde beauty admitted that she and her hubby watched Ricki Lake's 2008 documentary film entitled "The Business of Being Born" before their first baby's arrival
She claimed on her lifestyle website that the film changed everything for her and her husband who didn't really know what to expect before the labor
After watching the film, they decided that a home birth with no medication was the best decision for their family
She felt the bond with her child after the labor. "I kept saying, like, 'Ava's a warrior
I'm a warrior.then when she came out, I feel like we had this bond that we fought together," Stacy told Ricki Lake
Since becoming a mother, Stacy has maintained a low profile. She stopped acting and was rarely seen in public
She also shut down her lifestyle website StacyKeibler.com along with her Twitter, Facebook and Instagram accounts
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This Is the Most Effective Way For Women to Lose Belly Fat - Duration: 1:31.
According to Experts, This Is the Most Effective Way For Women to Lose Belly Fat
When it comes to burning body fat, a lot of women have the same target area: the belly.
Much to the chagrin of many of us, belly fat is notoriously stubborn, and it's important
to note that you can't spot reduce fat.
In other words, simply being diligent about crunches isn't going to help you achieve your
goal.
Nutrition Phelps described refined sugar as the "number
one enemy" of women who are working to reduce belly fat.
"Reduce or better yet eliminate refined sugar all together," she suggested.
Phelps also recommended eliminating processed foods from your diet, noting that if a food
item comes in a package and has a list of unrecognizable ingredients, it's best to keep
it out of your shopping cart and fridge.
Stay away from refined sugar and processed foods, but increase your consumption of protein
and veggies.
Exercise
women seeking to reduce belly fat shouldn't be afraid to lift heavy weights.
To make the most of your workouts, Spraul recommended putting an emphasis on total-body
movements.
"Squats and deadlifts are much more effective than isolating muscle groups with curls and
dumbbell raises, and total-body moves also can help prevent imbalances from cropping
up," Spraul said.
"Full-body movements create the largest calorie-burning effect — especially if you are lifting heavy!"
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What Time Is It? [Shorts] [Obsolete] - Duration: 0:06.
What time is it?
Look at the clock.
There is no clock.
Good point.
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Meet 15-year-old Fortune Ibe who is believed to be the tallest teenager in Nigeria - Duration: 1:39.
A teenager identified as Fortune Ibe from Imo state, Nigeria is fast becoming popular because of his unusual height. 15-year-old Ibe stands at 6 feet 9.5 inches.
The teenager is believed to be the tallest 15-year-old in Nigeria. He reportedly stated that he grows an average of 5 inches every year and added that he would love to play for the NBA (National Basketball Association).
At the moment, he is a Mass Communication student of Covenant University, Sango Otta in Ogun state having graduated from secondary school at a very young age.
He says his height makes people assume he's way older than he actually is. Ibe said: "Everywhere I go, people don't believe my age at all, I always cause unnecessary attention. I am proud of my height.
We are all extremely tall in my family. My mom is 6 foot 1 inch, my dad is 6 foot 5 inches.".
However, Ibe's eldest brother who is 21-years-old is reportedly 7 feet tall, the second son who is 19-year-old is 6 feet 5 inches and the last son who is 11-year-old is already as tall as 5 feet 9 inches.
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Lecture: The History of The Great Rite- What It Is, What It Isn't, and Why It Is Important - Duration: 19:01.
Merry meet, I am Colleen Criswell.
In this lecture I am going to discuss a bit about The Great Rite and what it actually
is and the purpose behind it as well as the common misconceptions about this ritual and
the confusion of this ritual and another ritual that is similar to it.
In the most simplistic terms, The Great Rite is a ritual that is performed at Beltane , which
in the Northern Hemisphere falls on May 1st and in the Southern Hemisphere falls on October
31st.
The reason it is performed on this date is because Beltane is the mark of the beginning
of the planting season, the Celebration of Beltane tends to have a lot of themes that
revolve around fertility.
Now, keep in mind that fertility in the olden days of Paganism, meant something different
than what we look at as fertility in modern terms.
In the days of ancient civilization things such as supermarkets and fast food delivery
services were not invented yet, so they had to grow food and hunt for food themselves.
The celebration of Beltane was all about making sure that the coming year the food will grow,
animals will populate in great numbers so that the people would be able to eat and survive
for another year, by this time the last of the old harvest that was stored is about gone,
so all that was left was the more hardy vegetables, usually meat that had been cured, so full
of salt and usually not the best cuts of meat are left, and of course wine and beer.
So we are looking at the bottom of the barrel at this point.
So the people, mainly the farmers, chose to create a ritual that focuses on fertility
of the Earth, and these people understood that when a man and woman had sex, a child
would be a result, so this repopulates.
Due to this understanding, they chose this sort of symbolism to perform a ritual during
Beltane.
Now, keep in mind, that though sex is seen as the symbolism, this ritual has nothing
to do with sex or sexuality, it has to do with the result of a man and a woman having
sex and creating life.
For those who are in same sex relationships, this does not diminish your sexuality nor
is it giving the idea that only a male/female relationship is a possibility, here we have
to look at science and understand that in order to create life we do need sperm and
an egg, this has nothing to do with love or sexuality, it has to do with basic biology.
So, even those in same sex relationships can still work with this ritual, it is just understanding
that we are not talking about human sexuality, we are talking about the understanding of
how life is created, and in ancient civilization, before we had the scientific breakthroughs
and so on, the understanding of the act of a man and woman having sex was what was understood
as a basic fact.
I know that there are a lot of different forms of sexuality these days, and there are those
who get upset by the Great Rite's symbolism because of this, however that is not what
this ritual is about, and when you are focusing only on that aspect of the ritual you are
missing out on a lot of important aspects involved in the ritual.
So, remember, this is not a ritual about sex, it is not about sexuality, it is about the
Earth, plants and animals, that is all.
So, first let's get into the understanding of Sympathetic Magick.
What this is, basically, is doing something on a small scale to represent something on
a much larger scale.
Sympathetic Magick can be used for a number of things, in most common uses we use it for
healing.
In poppet magick, for instance, we use the understanding of Sympathetic Magick.
We create a poppet to represent the person we are healing or that we are performing magick
on.
Yes you can use poppet magick for other forms, but in this lecture I will be using healing
as an example.
So, in the example of healing, a person creates a poppet in the image of the person who needs
healing.
So let's say Jane Doe is having issues with stomach pain.
John Doe then creates a poppet for Jane Doe and in the center of the poppet he has taken
string and knotted it up around the center of the poppet to represent the pain.
Next he would charge the poppet to give it "life" to connect it to Jane so that he
can work on helping her out.
Then in the spell he would take the string and start to un knot it and remove it slowly
from Jane, to help ease up on the pain she is feeling.
So here, we have a small scale representation of Jane and her pain, and John is helping
remove that pain from her in small scale.
This is sympathetic magick, doing something on a small scale to represent something on
a much larger scale.
So, the Great Rite, we do something on a small scale, such as using symbolism to represent
sex, to mean something on a much larger scale, meaning fertility of the plants and animals
so that they will repopulate and the people can eat and have food.
This is not about human fertility or fertility of the mind, but about the Earth being fertile
and granting life again so that the humans living there can survive.
The way the Great Rite is traditionally performed is symbolically, not physically.
So, no, a man and a woman don't traditionally sneak off and do the do as my daughter put
it, but is done symbolically using items that represent the God and the Goddess.
Who can perform the Great Rite?
Well, in a Coven, usually the leaders of the Coven will perform it, however as most people
are Solitary, any person can perform this ritual.
Traditionally we use an Athame to represent the God, though a Wand could be used instead,
and a Chalice filled with wine for the Goddess.
So the athame or wand of course we look at it as phallic shaped and therefore the male
aspect, the chalice we look to as a womb and the wine, traditionally it would be a red
wine, to represent the waters of the womb... now in today's understanding we know that
the waters of the womb are clear, not red, but the red represents the blood of the woman
which was the understanding of the people at the time because that was what was shed
when a woman was not pregnant so to them a woman's womb would be red.
The athame would be plunged into the chalice blade first to represent penetration.
Now, where that is the traditional way to perform the Great Rite, it is not the only
way.
These days there are a ton of ways we can choose to perform this ritual, and for those
who are uncomfortable with the symbolism of the athame in the chalice and those who are
sensitive to the idea of male and female joining sexually, these ways are sometimes helpful
to use:
Flowers being placed in a basket or vase can be used instead.
Fresh cut flowers are easy to get these days, though not something that was available that
much during that time, so by placing flowers in a basket or a vase you are bringing life
and growth to you.
Also, during Beltane in the Northern Hemisphere , this date falls on May 1st which corresponds
with May Day, and the tradition of the May Basket, which was a small woven basket with
flowers on it which would be left on the door of random people to bring a little love and
happiness into the world.
Later on this custom was rebooted in the 60's and 70's by using construction paper to weave
the baskets, so one could use this as a new form of performing the Great Rite, using colors
that represent the God and Goddess, or the idea of the Earth and Sun, to weave together,
then add flowers to the basket to represent the life that is renewed from that union.
This is a great activity to do with small kids to help explain the Great Rite for a
family orientated Beltane ritual.
Another way is to actually put seeds in the ground yourself.
Plant yourself a little garden or a potted plant to represent the Great Rite in a more
literal way.
Again, the whole point of The Great Rite is because we are starting the planting season,
so by planting the seeds yourself, you are doing a literal version of the Great Rite's
purpose and focusing that energy on a larger scale as to the world wide understanding that
all the farms around you will grow crops and life will completely return.
Or, for immediate results, plant a small plant in a planter.
By the way, the Great Rite is where the euphemism of a man planting his seed comes from.
The more you know.....
So, with this ritual it would not be used for mental fertility or creative fertility,
because the symbolism would not make sense, and it would not work properly.
So, no, the Great Rite is not used for getting knowledge and understanding and creative inspiration,
you would do other things for that.
By understanding the correspondences for creativity, for instance the color yellow is traditionally
seen as a color associated with creativity, where you could plant a yellow flower and
under the flower have a petition to help that creativity grow, yes, that would be a possible
ritual, and even though you are using the idea of planting something to help in aide
in that process, this is not the Great Rite or an example of that.
A key thing here is that the Great Rite is specifically for the regrowth of the plants
and animals on the earth.
This would not be for that.
Another thing this ritual is not used for is human fertility.
This is a big misconception.
A lot of people seem to think that the Great Rite is something that is used for a Handfasting
or Marriage ceremony.
It is not.
And, if you took the Entrance Exam and put in your Going Back Over essay that it is used
in this sort of ceremony I will always say the following
Unless you are planning on having a reality show on TLC, this is not something appropriate
for a handfasting or marriage.
Remember, the Great Rite is something done on the small scale to represent something
on the large scale, as in world wide.... so not really appropriate.
So why to many books and even information on Handfasting include this misinformation?
It is actually very simple, they are confusing The Great Rite with another ceremony called
Hieros Gamos.
The reason why it is often confused with this is understandable, because a lot of the time
they use similar symbolism.
Hieros Gamos comes from the Greek, and is a sexual ritual that is traditionally included
in a Handfasting ceremony.
The bride and groom take on the representation of the deities, usually the couple's patron
deities or they could be a God and Goddess that represent love and marriage.
This ritual is also seen in numerous other cultures such as in Hinduism, the Ancient
Near East, Buddhism and others.
Usually this is only performed with a man and a woman, it is used in handfasting to
represent the union of the couple and is usually done with the athame held by the groom, being
placed in the chalice of wine held by the bride and him inserting the blade into the
challice.
This ritual can also be done physically, after the Handfasting ceremony, in private, with
the bride and groom consummating the marriage.
This is why there the idea the Great Rite is performed physically, because the Hieros
Gamos is sometimes performed as a physical rite instead of symbolic.
Other things the Hieros Gamos can be used for is the precursor for what is known as
Sex Magick.
Hieros Gamos can be part of Sex Magick rituals and there are numerous other forms of Sex
Magick that help in raising energy, either as a solo practitioner or with a partner,
and this is something that is totally different and again gets confused with The Great Rite.
Why did this all get confused?
Well, this happened with the creation of Wicca.
Gerald Gardner didn't really fully research things, let's be honest, he confused the two
terms up and due to this there is a lot of misinformation and countless books and Wiccan
writers who have continued on with Gardner's misinformed understanding of The Great Rite.
Gardner adopted the idea of the Hireos Gamos, and mislabeled it The Great Rite, and chose
to include it as part of the Third Degree Initiation ritual.
This ritual was meant to be a symbolic ritual, however some groups who are offshoots of Wicca,
chose to do the physical representation of this ritual, which brings a whole other issue.
First, let's understand Gardner's thinking in this.
As we understand the Hireos Gamos, the two participants take on the representation of
the deities.
Now, when we understand the purpose of the Third Degree Initiation, this means that the
initiate has achieved the practice and study that will grant them the title of a High Priest
or High Priestess.
When they have this title, during Coven rituals, they then invoke the God or Goddess and they
represent them during Coven rituals.
Priests and Priestesses usually represent the Elementals during rituals.
During an initiation ceremony the person performing it is always the opposite sex than the initiate.
So, one represents the God the other the Goddess, and the ritual is performed to solidify that.
Seems simple enough, and again, when Gardner chose this as part of the initiation ceremony,
it makes sense, and his view was that it was to be symbolic, not physical.
As I stated, there are some groups who choose to do a physical version of this...and let
me tell you, be leery of any group who expects you to do this physically.
Now, if you are a solitary practitioner or are working with a partner who you are in
a committed relationship with, sure, go for it, however if it is for a coven and they
expect you to have sex with your High Priest or High Priestess, or in front of the coven....
red flags should be raised as this is not appropriate and more than likely you are not
joining a legit group.
So, hopefully this clears up a lot of confusion about the Great Rite and helps you understand
the difference between the Great Rite and Hireos Gamos, how they are used, why they
are used and when they shouldn't be used.
Thank you for joining me, Merry Part.
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