Hi guys!
It's hot and I'm dying, but to get to the video, today we'll be talking about shopping
addiction, makeup collecting and hoarding.
So Lucia Tepper, a beauty um YouTuber who has gained a little bit of fame recently for
her video entitled "Why PR is Problematic" I made a video answer to that as well, I'll
link that here or here, how can I never remember that?!
Anyways, um she recently made a video called "Why collecting makeup is problematic" and
I know what you must be thinking wow you must really hate this girl that you're doing another
answer, no I don't hate her, I just find her topics that she talks about to be very important,
very heavy topics, that she just kind of discusses from her point of view, the way it affects
her, but she's really mixing up a lot of the issues she talks about, so she'll... so the
lines between shopping addiction, makeup collecting and hoarding really get mumbled up in her
videos, so I just wanted to make a quick video explaining the three and the difference between
them, so it's a little more clear to everyone.
There is a lot of people out there who just collect makeup because that's their hobby
and they like doing it and yes, they might buy something just for the packaging or they
might just buy it um because it's a special edition or a limited edition, because that
is what they do, they collect makeup.
It doesn't necessarily have to be a problem.
Even expiration dates don't really matter to them because they're collecting it for
um for what it looks like or they're like me and they don't really care about expiration
dates, you know, I don't care about expiration dates on food either, if it still smells good
and it still tastes good I'm still gonna eat it, even if it's passed the expiration date
but I guess just that, that's just the way I grew up.
However sometimes collecting and shopping for these things can turn into something more
serious, which might for example be a shopping addiction.
Here are some of the symptoms you might be experiencing if you're actually a shopping
addict.
By the way I'm an addict as well, I'm not a shopping addict, but I feel like all addictions
are in general kind of the same in the base of it, why you do it and that's way it's so
easy to shift addictions as well and what really pisses me off is people that go on
YouTube or go anywhere in life and they're like oh I'm such a shopping addict wow I just
so splurged on it and like you know you're really belittling the topic of addiction this
way.
It's the same way people say oh I'm such an alcoholic I had like three drinks last night,
it's not funny, maybe it's just not funny to me because I'm affected personally but
I just don't find it that funny and I'm not sure people are aware of what they are actually
saying here.
So the first symptoms would be emotional symptoms.
For example: spending more than you can afford, shopping as a reacting to feeling angry or
depressed, and of course I'll link my sources to this down below as always.
Then shopping as a way to feel less guilty about a previous shopping spree, so you shop
you feel guilty about it and then you shop again to make yourself feel better um harming
relationships due to spending or shopping too much, losing control of the shopping behavior.
In my opinion the losing control bit is in any addiction the point where you can really
say ok I'm an addict, you are no longer in control and you have to admit that to yourself.
Now physical symptoms are not that prominent in shopping addiction but some people who
are addicted to shopping might be in a considerable amount of debt because of this.
And again with any kind of addiction you have long-term and short-term effects, the short-term
effects of a shopping addiction are usually that you feel elated or you feel happy because
you just splurged on something because you just did a shopping spree but in these feelings
very quickly turn into embarrassment or anger or anxiety or guilt.
And this in effect may lead to more shopping again and the long-term effect of shopping
addiction is again being in a lot of debt because of it or at least having a declining
financial situation.
There is a list of questions on psychguides.com I'll link that down below that you can ask
yourself to... if you think you might have a problem with shopping addiction.
Now onto hoarding.
Which is really what you're talking about when collecting becomes a problem.
Someone who hoards may exhibit the following symptoms first inability to throw away possessions
second severe anxiety when attempting to discard items third great difficulty categorizing
or organizing possessions four indecision about what to keep or where to put things
five distress such as feeling overwhelmed or embarrassed by possessions six suspicion
of other people touching items seven obsessive thought and actions: fear of running out of
an item or needing it in the future; checking the trash for accidentally discarded objects
eight functional impairments including loss of living space, social isolation, family
or marital discord, financial difficulties, health hazards.
So if you're experiencing any of these symptoms, please don't be afraid to reach out for help.
Now the difference between collecting something and hoarding is that people that collect something
usually have a sense of pride of the things they're collecting, they like showing them...
this to people, they like showing their collection, they like talking about it, whereas hoarders
feel usually a lot of embarrassment about the things they collect.
Also collectors usually do not have a problem budgeting with their time and their financial
means for their collection, so they don't go out of their financial means to acquire
more to their collection, whereas hoarders can't really control that.
So I hope that could clear up the difference a little bit between the different issues
and they're not just kind of melting into one together and again if you feel like you
might have a problem, do not be ashamed to reach out for help.
I reached out six years ago, pretty much exactly sex years ago and I am feeling so much better
and my life is great now and I would have never imagined that back then, so don't be
afraid, you can do this!
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