Waching daily Sep 2 2017

- What is one thing you have to know

if you wanna make it in this life?

I'm telling you have to know this, listen carefully.

You have to understand how to deal with narcissistic people.

Narcissistic people will ruin your life.

I just did a podcast with Dr. David Bus

who's an evolutionary psychologist,

and we were talking about is social media

making all of us more narcissistic?

And he said, "Well, you know Tai,

"there's no real science that that's actually happening.

"Or atleast it hasn't been documented."

But he said, "I'll tell you this,"

he kinda asked for my opinion and I said,

my answer to him was, "Yeah.

"What happens now is I think narcissists

"were hidden from society.

"'Cause if you lived in the small town a hundred years ago,

"you couldn't reach that many people.

"But now, if you're narcissistic, if you're a machiavellian,

"if you're psychotic,

"you can literally become a social media influencer

"or a star or a movie star."

So you can reach millions of people,

and that's what's happening in this world.

So I don't know if there's more or less,

I don't if social media's making it worse

but here's a tell-tail symptom,

if you wanna know in your life

the people you should get rid of or keep close to you.

I asked Dr. David about this and I said,

"You know, they're called the dark triad traits

"of Narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychotic, sadism."

and he said, "A sense of entitlement."

So whatever you do, watch out for people

who have a sense of entitlement.

Whether it's dating, business partners, friendship.

What a sense of entitlement means

is I'm entitled to more than I really deserve.

Just because I am who I am.

And we live in a society now

where it's like everybody teaches their kid,

oh you're perfect.

You ain't perfect.

Oh you deserve the whole world.

You know what, no one deserves anything.

People don't understand how this world works.

We are this planet in the middle of a huge universe

just floating around here,

nobody quite can explain it.

Some people have religious answers,

and some people have philosophical ones

and atheistic ones, but nobody really can say,

"Oh yeah, I get how the whole universe works."

We're this little spec

that at anytime can be blown off,

you know, tracked by a meteor an asteroid, global warming,

global cooling, whatever it is,

and we're gone and nobody will really remember us.

Do you remember anybody from the year 1853?

Do you remember anybody from the year 427?

No, nobody really remembers anything.

We remember little Christopher Columbus.

We remember a few dates,

the US declaration of Independence 1776,

stuff like that, but I mean, do we really remember stuff?

No, because we're not entitled to anything

yet there's a whole group of people

walking around this planet

that think the world is theirs and that you should love them

and for no reason.

And the good news is,

you gotta reverse engineer that in your brain and go,

"Okay, what's the opposite of feeling entitled?"

Well the opposite is working for what you want.

My favorite quote, Charlie Munger, the billionaire,

business partner Warren Buffett

says to get what you want,

you have to deserve what you want.

The world's not yet a crazy enough place

to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.

So even though there are people

that don't deserve to be rich

or don't deserve the great blessings they have,

most people in the long run get what they deserve.

So, if you want more, deserve more.

That's just the simplest form.

You want more money, well be better at making money.

In term of skill wise, do you understand marketing?

Do you understand product development?

Do you understand competitive research?

Do you understand the internet?

'Cause you're gonna need that.

Do you understand the social media marketing?

Those are all components that go into making money.

Do you understand persuasion, public speaking?

All those things,

vlogging is becoming important in the world.

I tweeted today,

probably the worst of human's traits,

my traits, your traits,

are our ability to wish things were different.

Albert Einstein said the definition of insanity is what?

Anybody know that quote?

It's one of my favorite quotes.

The definition of insanity

is doing the same thing over and over

and expecting different results.

That's what people do when they wish.

They're entitled, so they go,

"I wish I was making more money."

or "I wish I was in love."

or "I wish I could find the right person."

or "I wish I was happier."

Well, if you wanna be happier,

are you somebody who's putting in,

planting the seeds of happiness today

so that you'll be happier tomorrow?

Because if not, why are you entitled to happiness?

You know the United States is built on this principle of

life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

And people sometimes forget that word.

They think that because you're born in the US

or in any country,

they demand that they have these things,

but it's the pursuit of those things that's allowed.

And people forget that word, the pursuit,

meaning a good government gives you the chance

and it has a level playing field.

But if you don't play on the playing field,

you ain't entitled to anything.

And that's where people get tripped up.

It's not life, liberty and guaranteed wealth

or guaranteed happiness,

and yeah, I'm not gonna get philosophical

on what socialistic versus capitalistic,

but I'm just saying, think about it

in your individual life.

All we can hope for in life is we get a chance

to go after stuff.

So, get motivated, quit procrastinating.

You wanna make more money,

be somebody that money must stick to,

money must be attracted to,

because you understand that so well.

You've reversed engineered the formula.

I've given you some of those topics you gotta learn,

whether it's business network and public speaking,

social media and marketing,

and psychology and persuasion.

And technical skills,

whether if you're a doctor, the technical skills.

Pay attention to what you're doing.

Continuing education.

Steven Johnson says, "The world's moving so fast,

"everything you learn becomes obsolete

"at the rate of about 20% a year."

Meaning, you gotta be a learning machine.

Pick up some

For more infomation >> Is Social Media Making People More Narcissistic? - Duration: 6:31.

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Who is the rapist Ram Rahim Singh in detail. - Duration: 7:49.

Who is Ram Rahim Singh?

Now it's a question of all sensible people of ASIA.

He is an Indian sect leader, he made his way to a court in India's northern Haryana state

on the morning of August 25 2017, Friday.

Some news channels showed live coverage of the 200-car cavalcade, that included several

black SUVs, as it made its nearly 250km journey from Sirsa to Panchkula in Haryana.

That Singh had been accorded Z-plus security - usually reserved for prominent politicians

- was testimony to the level of political influence this controversial sect leader wielded.

When a few hours later the judge in Panchkula delivered his verdict - finding Singh guilty

of raping two of his followers - tens of thousands of his supporters, who had gathered at the

court, began rioting.

In the ensuing violence, at least 38 people were killed and scores were wounded.

Singh, who is popularly known as Ram Rahim, was sentenced to 20 years in prison for rape

on Monday.

The country's Central Bureau of Investigations (CBI) is also looking into Singh's alleged

involvement in the 2002 murder of a journalist who investigated Singh's religious order - Dera

Sacha Sauda, which means "place of truth" - and exposed the rape allegations against

him.

He has also been accused of forcing 400 of his followers to undergo castration.

So, who is Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh?

The head of Dera Sacha Sauda The 50-year-old was born to Sikh parents in

the western Indian state of Rajasthan.

In 1990, at the age of 23, he was anointed head of Dera Sacha Sauda, a sect that was

established in 1948 and to which Singh had been introduced by his father, Maghar Singh.

Under Singh, the sect, which is headquartered in the city of Sirsa in Haryana, about 260km

from the capital, New Delhi, has grown substantially.

It now has nearly 50 branches across the country and claims 60 million followers, mainly from

Haryana, Punjab and New Delhi.

Its headquarters boasts a cinema, hotel, sports stadium and schools.

The Dera, which describes itself as a "non-profit social welfare and spiritual organisation",

advocates vegetarianism and opposes drug and alcohol consumption.

High rates of drug and alcohol addiction pose a major problem in the region.

In recent years, Singh - who is married with a son and two daughters but now claims to

be celibate - has acquired a colourful persona, making films and producing music albums.

His penchant for bright outfits and jewellery has earned him the name the "guru of bling".

His Facebook profile describes him as "Saint Dr. MSG", while his Twitter bio presents him

as: Spiritual Saint, Philanthropist, Versatile Singer, All-rounder Sportsperson, Film Director,

Actor, Art Director, Music Director, Writer, Lyricist, Autobiographer & DOP.

In 2002, one of his female followers wrote an anonymous letter to the country's then

Prime Minister, Atal Bihari Vajpayee, alleging that she had been raped by Singh and that

other women had also been sexually exploited.

This triggered a CBI investigation, which eventually led to Singh's conviction.

But to millions of his followers, Singh remains a figure to be revered, despite his conviction.

"He can't do any wrong ... He works to rid the world of all its troubles," Rajkumar,

a shopkeeper from Haryana, told the AFP news agency.

Singh's political links Since Friday's deadly violence, there has

been a public outcry over Singh's close connection to the corridors of power, particularly the

Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP), which runs the government at the federal level, as well as

in Haryana state.

In the 2014 Haryana assembly election, Singh issued a public statement calling on his followers

to vote for the BJP.

The state's chief minister and other ministers have shared a stage with him despite the fact

that he was under investigation for rape.

In a 2014 tweet, Prime Minister Narendra Modi applauded Dera's efforts to take part in a

campaign to clean up the streets.

Singh also lent tacit support to the opposition Congress party in 2007.

In Haryana and Punjab state, there are tens of thousands of sects known as deras.

A dera is a spiritual centre with living gurus around which the dera is organised.

Deras often attract members of the most disadvantaged castes, whether Hindu or Sikh.

In Punjab, where one-third of the population are Dalits, the most disadvantaged caste,

whose members often face daily discrimination, there are more than 10,000 deras.

"People go to the new deras because they find them offering a vital space for recognition

and identity," Panjab University Professor Ronki Ram told Scroll.in news site.

This is the short story of an evil Indian sect leader.

May be his time is over.