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Vildan,

wasn't mother coming for the dinner?

She gave up on that, Mrs. Hümeyra.

She is feeling a bit tired.

She'll have her supper in her room.

I've already brought some for her.

But I'm not comfortable this way.

I'll go see her after dinner, sis. Don't worry about it.

OK, dear. Thanks.

Dinner table is ready. Please have a seat.

Alright.

I'll go and wash my hands. You please have your seats.

Alright, honey.

OK, let's go to the table. Be careful with my nephew!

I am, don't worry!

Vildan!

What's the situation?

How's our queen mother?

She's getting worse.

Now her appetite is gone, too.

Sweet.

Well done.

Nice.

Come in.

Mrs. Macide?

You haven't touched your supper at all!

I didn't have any appetite, Vildan.

Alright.

I'll prepare something for you, later on.

How are you feeling?

You're better, I hope.

Thanks, I feel better.

Headache is gone, but I still feel tired.

Glad I followed your advice, didn't leave the room.

In fact, I didn't have the energy.

I've seen that coming.

By the way, you took care of me well.

May God be thankful for you.

Of course I will.

It's my job.

May God be thankful for you, too.

Amen.

How are the people here? Are they well?

They are.

They were sitting for the dinner.

They asked for you, and I said fine, about you.

Tell them I'm doing well, even if I'm not.

I don't want them to be sad, or curious of me.

Alright, ma'am.

Do you need anything else?

No, dear. You can go back to your things to do.

Oh, Mrs. Macide.

I wish you weren't that nice.

For more infomation >> How is Mrs. Macide? - Elif Episode 656 | Season 4 Episode 96 (English & Spanish subtitles) - Duration: 4:26.

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Is It Possible To Get Along With Your Abuser? - Duration: 2:56.

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[Pokemon game sound]

There may be moments when you get along with your abuser.

That's bound to happen at one point or another.

There will be moments when you get along

even after you've been hit and dragged.

There will be moments when you get along

even after you've been called names.

There will be moments when you get along even

after they've written or told a bunch of lies about you to family members

so that they will look innocent and you're the bad guy.

And there may be times that you attempt

to cut off all contact every time those things happen,

but things don't always work out the way it was planned.

This is especially common when you're still

under the same roof as your abuser and

you don't have the means to get out and stay out.

It's important to realize if you don't already

that regardless of all of this,

it doesn't erase the fact that these things happened,

that they're in the wrong, and that none of this is okay.

Some of you may wonder why we even

sometimes get along with our abusers.

They hurt us, so why are we being nice to them?

I get it because from the perspective of an outsider,

from someone who has never experienced this in any sort of way,

it really does look bizarre.

The fact of the matter is it's about survival and comfort,

trying to ease everything,

and trying to prevent it all from happening and continuing.

It's just better when things are going well, obviously.

Another thing is that abusers know how to turn on the charm.

They know how to act pleasant to you and to outsiders.

And when you see a good mood, you tend to want to match it.

Plus, doing anything of the opposite

in front of other people can put a huge target on our backs.

Getting along gives us hope.

It makes us hope that it will stay like

this the second that it happens.

Even if we know that it likely won't happen,

it's just the switch in our brain that turns on and sucks us right back in.

It's the feeling of longing for an actual parent

(or whatever person that may be)

again that can consume us.

If that is missing,

it's natural to want to grab on to it

when it's right there in front of your face.

There is nothing wrong with trying to attempt

to better a relationship or lack thereof

if that's what you feel like you need to do for comfort and survival.

There's nothing wrong with you if you went out to dinner and had a good time.

But know that it doesn't excuse anything,

that it doesn't erase any abuse that they've done to you.

Use offense when you need to and defense when you need to.

The last thing I'm going to say is a bit of a disclaimer.

Not everyone will have moments of getting along.

Some situations are just so bad that it ends up not being possible.

Some people have zero interest in making

any sort of attempt to make any sort of amends.

Some have no emotional attachment whatsoever to their abuser

and it's easy for them to cut them out,

especially if they don't live with them anymore or never have.

So, naturally, this video is not going to apply to

every single person who has experienced abuse in their lives.

If you want to follow me on my social media,

my usernames are down below.

If you want to send a letter or anything,

my PO box address is right up here.

Last video and Pateron are right over here.

I upload every Monday and Thursday

and I will see you later.

Bye.

For more infomation >> Is It Possible To Get Along With Your Abuser? - Duration: 2:56.

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Trump Is Profane, Sexist, And Reckless Say Majority Of Americans - Duration: 3:42.

The polls that have come out, basically since the start of 2018, have all had some pretty

bad news for Donald Trump.

In this past weekend a politico morning consult poll came out that has even more bad news

for President Donald Trump.

According to this new poll, majorities of people in the United States, view Donald Trump

as sexist, as reckless and as profane and majority also viewed him as racist, but that's

something that we have covered in the past.

Now, before we get into this new poll, let's spend a second talking about those old polls.

Recently, it was revealed that polls show that a majority of people in this country

view Donald Trump as racist.

A recent poll showed that a majority of people in this country do not view Donald Trump as

a good model for kids.

The latest approval ratings have him close to 40, 42% still well below the 50 needed

to show that you at least have half the country's supporting you.

And this new poll, goes ahead and adds on to that and says, "Guess what?

In addition to being a racist horrible role model who most of the country doesn't like,

you're also a sexist, reckless, profane, human being," that again nobody seems to like.

The poll shows a 57% belief that Donald Trump is reckless in his decisions as President

of the United States.

51% say that he is sexist and 46% to 40% say that he is racist.

Now, as for the profane part.

That again, not necessarily something that would disqualify somebody to be president

of the United States, but the other ones, the recklessness, and the misogyny that we

see from Donald Trump every day and the racism.

Let's not not include that.

Those are the real problems for the president.

Especially as we get further and further into 2018.

Because let's not forget the fact that Republicans and Democrats, I guess everybody really, have

midterm elections coming up.

Republicans are the ones who are trying to defend the house and defend the Senate and

if their represented on the national and international stage bu a man who is profane, sexist, reckless,

racist and a bad role model who most of the country doesn't like, that's not gonna bode

well for them when they go back home and start campaigning and say, "Hey, I've been working

with the president to do these great things," and then the people in the crowd say, "Oh,

you mean that racist, sexist, profane, reckless human being?

Yeah, we don't like that.

We don't like him."

On the other hand, if they run opposed to Donald Trump, that's only gonna give Trump

reason to go out and attack them on Twitter as he is so frequently does.

So, Republicans have found themselves between a rock and a hard place and it's a rock and

a hard place that they created both of them.

They've put themselves here.

This is what they created and this is what they deserve.

There is no good scenario coming up for these midterm elections that would help them win.

And the fact that the majority of people in this country are starting to see Donald Trump

for who he truly is, is also a really bad omen for Republicans for the midterms this

year.

For more infomation >> Trump Is Profane, Sexist, And Reckless Say Majority Of Americans - Duration: 3:42.

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VISITING GRINGOLANDIA in MEXICO? AJIJIC is AWESOME ! (MEXICO TRAVEL VLOG) - Duration: 9:38.

What is going on Members of the Barrio

It's Jon coming to you from Ajijic

Which is on Lake Chapala

The largest freshwater lake in all of Mexico

And I have found out one of the most popular retirement destinations

In the world

For Americans, Canadians, and British people

I've been so curious about this place

I want to find out exactly what it is.. About this lake..

That draws people from all over the world

To spend time here

And we are at an awesome hotel right now called Real de Chapala

It had the highest rankings on Trip Advisor

That's the reason I chose it

And before we head to town.

I want to show you guys around a little bit

And Adriana is going to be giving you a tour of the room

Alright Adriana you're going to be the tour guide

Are you excited to explore Lake Chapala?

Of course it looks so beautiful guys.Let me show you

And give you a tour

This is our room which has beautiful light

And it has two full size beds

Which is good because Jon can sleep there

And I can sleep there

It has this table

Where we can work

It has this lazy guy.. here

I love this couch because I like to sit on my computer

But I don't like to be on the bed so..

I love it

It's really cool

Like touch here

And my favorite part

We have this view

That blue part you see there

Is the lake

Which looks beautiful

We have the pool which is warm

So we might jump in later

And we are going to show you more about this hotel

Alright lets go guys

Heck of a pool side view I must say

It's like 71 degrees right now

And I found it amusing that when we checked in here

All the hotel staff was wearing heavy jackets

And all of the guests at the hotel were wearing short sleeves

I could even go for short sleeves right now

Now that I've shown you around the hotel a little bit

It's about a 15 minute walk

To the malecon

To the heart of Ajijic

I really want to explore this area

We're going to at least walk there

Maybe take an uber back

Let's enjoy this walk

Instead of an Uber we can pay the horses 5 dollars to go to town

You want to do it?

No..

My first impressions as we get closer to the town

Is that everything is very well manicured

This is a very well put together town

I can see immediately it's pretty beautiful so far

I'm liking all of the colors

Very calm

I'm starting to dig this hippieish vibe of this town

Very very neat

A lot of cool murals

On the street walls

You know you are in an American town

Brunch

I've seen breakfast before

From Mexican towns

But i've never seen Brunch

We have reached the fabled Malecon here

And it is absolutely

Gorgeous

It's beautiful

Here's Jon flying baby drone

In that direction

Bye bye..

Bye

Baby drone

You know what I think we need to do guys

We need to find a resident here

Who is not from Mexico

And let's hear somebodys opinion

on why Ajijic is this amazing spot to retire?

There are many reasons why people come here

And want to stay here

Number one the weather

The weather is very very constant

It's certainly not like the weather in Canada

Another reason is the cost of living

Is quite cheap here

If you're on a retired income

You can live very well

The third reason is the medical

The medical is very good here

A lot of the doctors have been trained in the U.S or Europe

So they're very very qualified

The hospitals are like hotels

Okay

It's a very friendly environment down here

Lots of friends that you can make

Lots of activities

Lots of fundraisers

You could be busy every night of the week

If you want to be

Alright thank you so much for helping me out with that

That interview was actually unplanned

I was looking for somebody, Syliva just happened to be sitting on the Malecon

I asked here if she would talk to us about the experience of being retired here.

I thought her answers were so interesting to me

Because i'm living in Mexico for 4 months

As a digital nomad

There are some similarities I suppose

Between being a retired person in Mexico

And being someone who just works remotely here

But something she told me off camera

That really resonated with me

Is that when you come to Mexico

As a foreigner

Especially as someone from the United States or Canada

You are used to service being super quick

You are used to everything being exactly the way you want it

Back home

But here the pace of life

Is much slower

And she said there's people that get used to it

And there's people that don't get used to it

After living in Mexico for now close to 3 months..

I'm definitley getting used to it

And in some ways it's actually healthier

Because you have to slow down.. your pace of life to be happy

This is the biggest antique shop I've ever been to before

It just keeps going

Cuidado la cabeza, esta suelta

I think it means the heads cut off

Guys I didn't break this

He came like this

For 90 dollars you can have a japanese made radio

That store was called Bazaar Barbara

And it is quite bizarre

All the things they have in there

Not to play on words

That place is really really cool

Check them out

When you come to Ajijic

We just randomly stumbled in

Now we're going to show you The main square

Which i've heard is quite pretty

Actually 90% of my customers are Canadian or American

Definitley a lot more culture from the U.S.A and Canada

In some of these shops

We just went to that really cool hot dog place

Which is themed like a shack

The owner even told me.. that the reason that place exists is for the foreigners to feel more at home

He said 90% of his customers are not from Mexico

Check this place out

And we've got Lake Burgers

Now you feel at home?

I feel at home now, yes.

Something that I noticed here

And it's quite nice

And I don't know it makes me feel happy.. and excited

This is a very Mexican square

But even though you see all these Americans.. or Canadians walking around

Like this is there home..

So it's a contrast.

I don't know.. I like it..

It's interesting

I was thinking the exact same thing

Becaues this is your typical square in a Mexican city

All around us

Vendors..

But it's populated by a lot of ex-pats here

Which is really unique

I've been absolutely blown away

By the cool street art in this city

The school which has skulls on the outside

And then across we have..

A church

Members of the Barrio

Honestly.. I did not want to like.. Ajijic

I hadn't really done much research on it

I thought it would be super touristy

Like Cancun

I know there are a ton of retired Americans.. Canadians.. British people living here..

But I think they're onto something.. Seriously..

All the people I saw..

I interacted with.. I walked by..

In this town

They looked super happy

Super relaxed

I feel like they're trying to become

A greater part of the community here

That lady Sylvia was telling me

That she's involved in a lot of volunteer things

And the other people here are as well

If you're watching this video

And you're of a retirement age

Maybe you could consider Mexico

And who knows maybe in 30 or 40 years

I could be retired..

To a spot like this

I hope you guys enjoyed

All of the footage from Ajijic

We've got one more episode coming up from Lake Chapala

So make sure to check that one out as well

When it comes out

Make sure to subscribe to this channel

If you are new here

Thank you so much for watching

Until next time

For more infomation >> VISITING GRINGOLANDIA in MEXICO? AJIJIC is AWESOME ! (MEXICO TRAVEL VLOG) - Duration: 9:38.

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Film Is A Collaborative Effort from Giving Voice to Women Silent Film Writers` - Duration: 0:41.

This is from the very beginning with D. W. Griffith. It's not his movie. Right? He shouldn't

get the credit. Then again, it's a terrible movie and I hope nobody ever teaches this

movie. I always tell my students, we'll never touch this movie. It's all awful and everything

that someone says you're supposed to learn from about it close-ups and tracking shots

are in all the movies by all these women that I'm telling you about. So watch one of their

movies that show those things. Don't watch his movies.

I love John Carpenter because he's the one who said...Let's be fair. It's a collaboration.

Be honest about it. I do this. They do that. We blend together and that is what makes a

product really good.

For more infomation >> Film Is A Collaborative Effort from Giving Voice to Women Silent Film Writers` - Duration: 0:41.

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Lincoln is Weird // Lincoln Lives - Duration: 6:43.

Meh! [laughs]

[pants like a dog]

Four... hem...

Four score- Abe!

God bless America!

Sorry.

How did you even know I was here?

Yeah, we need to talk about that.

Your story is like 27 pictures of your feet and two that go straight up your nose.

Anyway, Bulu Box called and I'm a finalist for the internship!

Hup!

You can have anything you want as long as you want it badly enough.

I need one more video and I was thinking about what you said last night, how the weirdest

parts of a person are the most interesting?

Too bad there's nothing weird about you.

I like balloons because they're pretty, not because of the helium.

Por ejemplo, you being in the Wrestling Hall of Fame?

Wikipedia is the scourge of your generation.

[theme music plays]

Nebraska holds the record for most consecutive

sell-outs in college football.

90,000 people converge right here on game day.

I have a sporting record as well.

Out of 300 matches in my lifetime, I have only been defeated once!

If any of you would like to try it, come on and whet your horns.

Costume change!

[laughs]

You're lucky you're small! [transition music plays]

[bear growls] Wow!

I support the United States National Soccer Team with the original American Outlaws, a

national fan club for US Soccer established right here in Lincoln!

Chapter 001 established in 007.

I can even pour you a beverage, if you are of legal drinking age, as I am a licensed

barkeep.

[crowd groans] Although I don't drink myself.

[Transition music plays, crowd cheers, groans]

The University of Nebraska–Lincoln is the state's only land grant university.

I never had the privilege of attending college but I did start the university land grant

system after I became president of the United States of America.

[transition music plays, is interruptted] Say it.

What?

Come on.

You want me to say POTUS?

Yeah.

I hate that word.

Sounds icky.

POTUS.

[transition music plays] [liquid bubbles, explosion]

A little girl once told me she thought my face would be less appalling if I had some

whiskers.

I started growing my beard the very next day.

Of the 357 hipsters per square mile in Lincoln, approximately 100% of them have beards less

stunning than mine.

Though to be fair, that one is in contention.

[transition music plays]

In 2013, the city of Lincoln built the largest

lincoln log structure in the world!

Fortunately, i didn't have to live in it this time.

Unfortunately, despite the prevalence of structures and toys containing my surname,

people will insist on calling me Abe.

Honest Abe, the ancient one, vampire hunter.

Which reminds me of a time- Good take Abe!

Ugh, Sarah uploaded a contouring video and it has 3,000 views already!

We should really get this posted.

Are you ready?

I'm gonna be a lemur!

[transition music plays]

[audio scrubbing] Is it done yet?

I can still see the stars on your forehead.

I am not going to fall for that a fourth time, Maiah.

Just a few more touches.

Alright.

I think that's it.

Oh!

We must commemorate this occaision with the ultimate in self-congratulatory expression!

What?

A selfie!

Oh, let's do it!

Lemme see.

Oh, that's a bad one, let's do it again.

No no no, there are no bad pictures.

That's just how your face looks sometimes.

[phone buzzes]

[hip hop music]

Maiah?

We're ready for you.

Leave the talking to me, Pharrell.

So we've been following your work this summer with Mr. Lincoln, it's impressive!

Thanks, tomorrow we're go-kart racing in gorilla masks.

So do you come up with all these concepts yourself?

Yeah, mostly, except the gallon challenge.

That was Abe's idea.

So you're collaborative and creative, that's exactly

the kind of person we want at Bulu Box.

So we've been talking around the office and we'd like to go ahead and offer you the video

production internship for the fall.

Just so you know, there's been a tiny structural change to the position.

There she is!

Maiah, I'd like you to meet Sarah.

Hey Maiah, did you hear?

You're going to produce my videos.

I saw that one of your samples is cricket protein.

Let's start with a taste test.

[transition music plays]

Oh, I think they're over here.

Maiah, what are we doing?

Look how cute they are!

I bet they're delicious!

No no no no no, you are not making me eat one of those.

Mmm hmm.

Alright Sarah, go ahead and take a bite of one of those little guys!

Maiah...

Come on, did you really think I was going to make you eat a live cricket?

I wouldn't put it past you.

Cricket protein though, you've been slurping on that all week.

[theme music plays]