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Hey Guys!
Have you ever wondered if a girl likes you?
Do you feel like guessing a woman's feelings is like trying to learn morse code?
Well, there's a number of signs to look for that will tell you if she's interested
or not.
And that's what I will share with you in this video.
My name is Kate Spring, I'm a relationship and dating coach from Victoria, BC, and I
want to show you how to tell if the girl you like also likes you.
First of all, it is important to understand that men and women communicate in somewhat
different ways and for different reasons.
Men typically communicate to achieve an end goal, for example, making a plan to hangout;
in contrast, women communicate to maintain relationships.
So for men to understand some of the signs to indicate whether a girl likes you or not,
we have to be open to different ideas.
In this video I will share 8 signs that a girl is into you.
But just before we begin, I want to thank you for all of your comments and remind you
to post any questions that come up in this video in the comments below, and I'll get
back to you, personally, as soon as I can.
Ok, here are 8 signs to look for when trying to decipher if a girl likes you:
The first sign is eye contact.
This might seem basic to you, but eye contact is a very important cue to read in body language.
Eye contact speaks volumes about a person's comfort level in a given situation.
When someone is uncomfortable, eye contact becomes more sporadic.
And when there is genuine interest in someone, and what they are saying, we become more relaxed
and our eye contact becomes fixated on the person we are speaking to.
You may recall from some of my other videos about how to approach a woman, we discussed
how important it is to create a comfortable space to have the kind of conversation that
makes people want to share with you.
If you make your lady of interest comfortable, chances are her eye contact will be fixated
on you.
The second sign is touching.
Touching is a given: if a woman touches you, she wants to be touched by you.
And the longer she touches you the better.
The third cue that she is interested in you is if she laughs -- even at your bad jokes.
Laughter makes us feel good; it creates a common bond, and if you can make someone laugh
and relax them, as opposed to make them uncomfortable, this will increase your chances that you will
get a call back.
Like I've said before, women communicate to maintain relationships, and the number
one way we do this is by texting.
And for our fourth point of interest, if you are not face to face with your crush, the
immediacy with which a woman responds to your text message can actually reveal several things:
a) that she respects your time, and b.) she probably likes you.
We have all, at some point in our life, played the game of delaying our text message to seem
somewhat aloof to the situation when, in actual fact, our insides are churning with excitement.
And if someone says they have never done this, they are lying.
Alright here's the truth: if a girl is responding to you, I would say she has some interest
in you.
Your next challenge is to keep building that attraction.
You can learn more about how to build attraction with your lady love by heading over to katespring.com/free
and grabbing your copy of my eBook, which is completely free by the way, and covers
many topics that are guaranteed to help you build that attraction and get any girl you
want.
Remember, you can get it at katespring.com/free.
And, as always, I will leave the link to the eBook in the video description below.
Anyway, back to the topic… here's the bottom line: If a girl is keeping the conversation
going over text, she is trying to create/maintain a relationship with you.
When a woman isn't into you, she will be more aloof, and you should read: "We want you to
know we aren't into you."
Short answers are a bad sign.
The use of emoticons in texting is also a somewhat decent indication that someone might
have feelings for you.
How she presents herself is the fifth way that you can tell if a woman is interested
in you.
I don't know if this will shock you or not, but most women pride themselves on their appearance.
One question you can ask yourself is does she have dry hair?
If you've ever met me, if I leave the house with wet hair, it usually means I don't
care or I'm just hungover.
If you meet up with a girl who looks GOOOD, that usually means she is trying to impress
you, which means she likes you!!
We want you to be attracted to us.
And for a female, getting ready is part of the build-up of excitement when we are being
courted.
If we like you, we will get dressed for you.
It's not a bad thing to want to look your best because for many people looking your
best also helps you feel your best.
And that isn't a bad thing.
Number six, if she tells her friends about you, that means you're on her mind, and
if you have made it that far, congratulations!
You've penetrated her daily thoughts.
When someone shares stories about you, that means she has stories to tell, which either
means you have spent some time together or she wants to spend time with you.
Generally, when a woman includes you in future plans, that means she imagines some sort of
future with you.
Even if it is just a group hangout, or like an, "omg, we should do this!" that means she
is thinking about you and wants to continue getting to know you.
And last, but not least, and arguably the most complex way to tell if she likes you
or not, is, wait for it, she will straight up tell you!
Shocking, I know!
Woman can be very mysterious and confusing, but both male and females have very similar
tendencies, and the more you get to know people, the more you will learn that we are not as
different as we like to think we are.
This is not 100% of women because the girl who is more shy will most likely allow her
friend to tell you that she likes you.
But regardless, you will know some way or another.
Now if you see the girl you like doing a few of the things I mentioned above, then things
are looking good for you!
But don't get too comfortable yet… you still need to keep her interested and keep
the spark alive, and sadly a lot of guys have NO CLUE how to do that….
But you can learn more by liking this video and subscribing to my channel where you can
stay up to date with my latest videos!
I hope this video has taught you something that you didn't already know about my complex
species!
That's all for today, YouTube.
I'm Kate Spring and I will see you next time.
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