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in this video I'm going to talk to you
about what is emotional abuse and a
i'd like to start off with what is emotional abuse
this is not it's probably easier for me
to start off such a because it isn't
tricky conversation right what is it not
because emotional abuse is something I
believe that is maximum in ramp in
today's study bully is one of the
biggest catch phrases and you know fancy
words and Spence train around friends
but what is bullying and where does it
stop somewhere the start because you
know I over life decided to find a voice
for myself I've had to learn to speak my
truth I've had to learn the steps into
my true self hating Jordan prices for
her some development self-help causes
that has Thomas things that they haven't
delivered I've dealt with mental health
and psychological beast in my family and
the resolution of the domestic violence
within my family over good conversation
and connection is my father and my
mother at the moment which has only
comes from my understanding exact hot
topic of emotional abuse because in his
Hickey one you know more relationship
with mom for a lot of years it's like
being related to a spider's web it was
one of the most overbearing a hover
parent situations you can ever imagine
yeah I love mama dearly and she's a
beautiful woman she has come ashore for
the world as far as knowledge expertise
feminine nature yet she spent a large
portion of her life being emasculating
domineering overbearing sneaky nine
suspicious MVAs and and downright
degrading she did not take him any
information anybody give her and she
translated anyway she saw fit that was
conducive to her home own aspirations I
guess it's probably the best food so in
growing up with the large portion
domestic violence which mainly came from
My Father which not
not one understand not even you and not
not 75% of it come from him it was
actually less than 75 cent because mums
large portion of that too however moving
right along we spent 12 years without
dad in my life and having to deal with
mum obsessive-compulsive obnoxious nuts
it has mrs. arrogant behavior which was
it wasn't fun and so we're going to sit
here and tell you I'm an expert or I'm
know everything to do with this
condition but what I will say is that
emotional abuse is when you're not being
I'm scoodle being connecting to
emotionally and having your emotions
respected and understood as they intend
to be like now we all make mistakes and
sometimes were a bit of a blubbering
mess having tears and doing silly things
over silly things like we all do that
there's not a person's real I don't
think you could say those words together
some to a point of reference in their
life you know yet we've got people
around and support us and challenge us
in our rights as individuals to move
beyond our emotional shoes to a greater
level of emotional resilience away from
our emotional armory which I'll talk
about in a second to a great version
yourself we've got we're starting to
move into the parallel and paradigm of
constructive relationships because
emotionally abusive relationships aware
you're not growing emotionally you're
stagnating at a point of immaturity and
it kind of becomes a sibling rivalry
gonna me meaning you did this you did
that cross on the board all year but the
problem is the problem is look at me he
showed you tell ya kind of relationship
because you know it's like when you're
in love although I'd like to believe
that we all know what it's like to be in
love and to being a constructive
relationship because it's my dream it's
Michael my vision is to teach and show
people and to have people on the park
bench out there kissing quite vividly
and being romantic and sharing one
another's relationships and taking our
energy back into their families and so
on I want to see people making love not
literally that's but metaphysically you
know and bringing more love and
abundance into their family in the
connection because some of us are silly
some bizarre imbecilic some of us are
not that intelligent not me put a lot of
us are however you know I'm forms that
and I think that's what makes the world
of beautiful places room has got silly
people woman we've got innocent 90
people going out there really embracing
the own their own clothes in nature and
their personality of being think quite a
row that being happy and being vibrant
about the silly little personality
idiosyncrasies that I have because when
we start to ridicule of vindicated
people over the ego sink receive we
start to move into the emotional abuse
stage and there's only one way out of
that which is through resolved resolving
those issues and coming to understand
one another's emotions for what they are
in helping people evolve through their
emotions I know with mum like mum never
evolved for her emotional turmoil that
comes from being raped and growing up in
and arrogantly obnoxious family
and you know in the last couple years
she's come a long way because like I've
had to stand really turn with a woman
and not put up with the crap she fished
into our world because it's seen
unprecedented look you can imagine thing
institutionalized by the 14 times she's
been able to take precedence over my
mind and my mindset quite vividly
because one she's my mother too I
haven't known who to ask or have the
mentors robles to go about asking the
questions i needed to ask at that time
my life because we didn't have the
access to google we didn't have the
access to a lot of resources that are
out there today and that's where i think
i've had to stand really clearly in
coming to understand all of the stuff
because i was it would have been the end
of my mental health and the overload of
my own insanity because ok I smell
natural flow of energetic themes and we
should be at a wake up happy and vibrant
and not tired or asleep or and have his
old folks I mean things that go on in
our body and within our minds and the
cluster on with a line that starts to
wear us out whereas down over time and
bring us to a slower version of form
without through one hundred percent free
spirited nature because even the
grumpiest people I believe have a free
spirit of nature since the fact they've
got so many issues that I resolved
emotions hiding below the surface on a
crusty isolate edge that limits them
from really tapping into their great
abundant version of their emotional body
am taking control of their perceptive
lives in correlation to other people
because when we don't take control of
our perception ones in relation to other
peoples as in wanting to understand
somebody or having the time of the space
to understand the same can-do attitude
like that someone really start to delve
remove
to that level of emotional abuse
everybody has stuff got on and yet if we
keep hustling to get more stuff and do
more stuff like evil stuff and expect if
I'm to keep up and catch up and move
with us with all times you miss those
people for what they try to communicate
who they're trying to be all in this
food where's moment that we miss the
magic moments of life sometimes were
being judgmental or critical we missed
some of the most fundamental beautiful
moments of fun moments we could be
having in those relationships moving
forward so the answer to what is
emotional abuse for me it's when you're
not being understood physically mentally
emotionally through communication all
these things out to emotional abuse
their sewing and they have layers of an
onion that can be peeled back or added
on depending on how you accept your your
level of desire to communicate and be
heard his mother took five years to be
heard by her in the last five years like
I started doing them of a self
development and personal development
courses which look at you know looking
at somebody smack of the world you know
they can see this slow the map you can
see this size of that but unless we can
start to come around and start to
understand why not seeing other people
have massive world see their reference
point speed is their visuals see their
filters of the world will never really
get you a deeper level of connection
with them although it takes the other
person to want and have the desire to
open up their world and show you their
map of the world sometimes the most
emotionally abusive people aren't
interested in showing you their map of
the world because they've you've got
reference points to communicate with
them and the reason why they don't want
to show you their emotional they've been
map of the world is because they don't
have enough trust in themselves or you
or other people
to really open up and and and show you
the rest of the world who they are what
they're about why the filters are based
upon the emotional abuse of injured in
their lives it's built their emotional
army up in order to supply center stage
they can get their needs met regardless
of whether your needs are getting met or
not and as far as emotional armory it's
a phrase that I got out of bread a
Browns research and brené Brown is just
shame and guilt research up very much
looks I'm written book called the
Powerball the building daring greatly
and we get help the other lives of hers
but she looks at emotional armory and
emotional army is when we've got scars
or emotional turmoil from the past we
build up filters catchphrases for ways
to avoid dealing with the same or
enduring the same level of payment pain
and hurt that we have from past so and
everybody has emotional are rebuilt into
a certain level because emotional armory
are our emotional scars which have often
limited in our ability to connect
emotionally and effectively with the
people now well and unless we start to
open up the conversations around their
own emotional armory and open up the
conversations around our shame and guilt
and really shed light on one of these we
feel shame and guilt guilt on in a
comfortable environment mind you with
people that we trust and feel safe
around will never ever be able to avoid
avoid and remove those filters so one of
the quickest ways to understand
emotional abuse and start a motional
conversation to people and to see
whether they are willing to move into
those conversations or wanting to run
away from those conversations because
the core of emotional abuse lives in
those conversations and open them up and
that's the best way to understand if
somebody is I'm taking an emotional
abuse substance sometimes it's not even
about them they're just responding from
the emotional armor in disguise and
their life and that's where bullying get
tricky because that's where the police
feels like they're being bullied by the
bully by the bully by the bully and also
nobody knows what's going on and that's
for me that's a foundation of
formulation of the construct of disaster
for this is the most accessible you can
be and stay in the public eye where
people think all year they're great and
yet you're getting your needs met
without actually seemed like the best
person while ripping the Krug out from
under everyone else's feet well they're
not eat well are totally oblivious to us
by this most fine-tuned art form of
emotional beasts you can have because
logic don't see that coming until it's
too late well and truly too late now you
resolved your concept of emotional abuse
is to remove your own chain of guilt
filters around that which are your
weakest attributes and not step into the
strength of dominance of your strongest
attributes but I'm humility and team lel
defeat humility George's strengthened
and dignity of defeat towards where your
role or being wrong in conversation
through interaction allow people to
communicate effectively and show you
where and how your role because they
will teach you how to elevate your world
view from the simplest microform right
to the macro form allow yourself to open
up conversations and see yourself from
other people's perspective allow
yourself to see yourself through the
eyes of others and chop and change your
ways of solving problems in your world
that become more conducive through
others eyes of giving you their truth to
be more conducive to what it is you're
trying to communicate or how you're
trying to be portrayed which is easier
said than done you know the time
building up trust with people and having
those icky sticky emotional conversation
people is only going to deepen your
connection with those people bring you
to a great evolution another thing who
you are which is going to bring a high
level of intellect to your emotional
body it's going to remove your emotional
armory one layer at a time and going to
give you a great
effective ability to communicate with
people at their level whatever so bears
that out because sometimes the bullies
can seem like the most wealth is
domineering people but things inside
they can be the most broken and
tormented that are needing to have
somebody give them the time of day to
you and I'll found that massively over
the last couple of years it's been
absolutely I can surprising to many
other people now are perceived like this
person's believe our purposes just like
off the chops yet when I've approached
them and started to open up a
conversation which will look a lot of
you're quite often starts with a high
level of arrogance and narcissism and
aggression and heavy breathing and dark
voices and big words and ends up with
mutual respect it's a good feeling see
on the other side of emotionally abusive
relationships lives a great connection
because once we break through that
emotion the fundamentals of what is
happening in that emotionally abusive
relationship in an emotionally abusive
for a conversation in our emotionally
abusive family situation on the other
side of that is what is happening is a
greater level of decent connection and
growth and contribution to learn are so
don't look at emotional bitch Isabel or
an end or look at as an opportunity to
get to know the people in your life at a
whole new level because that's the power
of true leadership man sometimes it
leaders got to carry the heaviest load
in order to show the team what it is to
lead by example and if you're watching
this be on your plan to this point that
person is you my friend and you have the
strength to step into that conversation
and take the knocks on the team remove
your own shame and guilt sky shed light
on those gremlins and actually grow to a
greater abundant of yourself because you
were beautiful my friend you fucking
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