So when you go to a guy's apartment, what is the first thing that you look for?
Hey, Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. There comes a time in every man's
life where he finally takes a girl home. A girl comes over to his apartment and
sees his place for the very first time. Whether it be the same night you meet a
girl or a first date or a third date, whatever it is, eventually you are going
to be taking the advice in this channel, it's going to work and you're going to
be having a girl come over to your place. And the amount of stories that I have
heard from women who have told me some of the disgusting and weird stuff that they've
seen in guys' places has given me the idea to be able to give you advice and
teach you some of the best practices in terms of what you need to do with your
place before a girl comes over. This is not hard stuff. In fact, we're doing
the 80/20 here. The few things that make the biggest difference in terms of a
girl coming over your place and seeing what's going on there. In fact, what I did
was I went on the street and I did a couple of interviews with some girls so
you can hear it from the source in terms of what they're looking for when it
comes to the first time they go over to a guy's place. Let's cut to that real
quick and you can see what they're saying. I look at his bedroom.
If his apartment is nice, that means his life is nice and
he's got everything together, his mind is okay, he's not crazy
you know, like the stuff is all over the house, that means he's good.
A broom! Well I think the first thing I look for is to see if they're clean or
not and be like I guess how that is and then I kind of like to check out the
vibe and I just kind of like go about the room and see like what he's interested in.
What he's not interested in, stuff like that. Like what specifically? Like I'll
see stuff on the wall and let's say I see a band and I'm like oh you like this band.
Stuff like that or like let's say there's like clothes everywhere
whatever it's kinda like uh, but I get it cause I'm a girl so I do it too
so it's fine. But yeah I don't know it's just kind of like first impression vibe
so I think with first impression you should be like super clean but that's me.
Pictures of like family and stuff, that's always cool. If it's somewhat clean.
Because if it's uber uber clean then I think he's too anal. But if it's a pig sty and there's three days of dishes
in the sink. It's halfway in between. You don't want the guy to be too clean and not too messy.
Somewhere in the middle. Exactly. Alright, so a few obvious answers here. Of course a
woman wants to see your place clean. When it's not clean
well, it's disgusting and that's not going to be able to turn her on or get
her excited about being there. Fung Shui is everything there actually is an
energy that you can feel when you walk into a room depending on how it's
designed, how clean it is, what it looks like, of course what it feels like so you
need to be paying attention to the cleanliness of your place so when the
girl comes over, she can just feel comfortable. It's interesting because
a few of these girls ended up saying that they'd want to see pictures of the
guy with his family and so that's up to you to take that advice. I'm not saying
that's a make or break or even in the 80/20 in terms of what's important.
But it's kind of cool to know but that is something that definitely resonates
with a woman when she sees a picture of you with your family, says you're a
family guy and that's pretty nice. I'm going to give you 3 things that you
need to think about in terms of your place so let's get into these 3
things. Of course, first cleanliness. But more detailed, you need to have certain
parts of your house clean that are more important than the others that have a
bigger effect like your kitchen, like your bathroom and especially your
bedroom. Those are what's going to make the most difference, of course other
places, but those are the places you want to focus on in terms of being clean. Not a
lot of dishes in the sink, get your pee stains off of your disgusting toilet
and make sure that stuff's clean and your bedroom is put together.
That's the first one; focus on those clean areas and then next think about
the lighting. This is really important when a girl comes over and she enters
your place, there's got to be really good mood lighting so whether you have a
light or a lamp that has a dimmer on it or whether you have some lamps that have
dimmer lighting, I want you to focus on how to set up your place that has really
chill lighting. Because if it's too bright then it's not going to feel too
good. There's something about dim lighting
that really creates a nice sexy atmosphere so make sure that you have
lights that are not too low but not too bright, somewhere in the middle or
somewhere where you can control it so it creates that nice atmosphere. Just like
you're going into a lounge or a bar. Next thing to control is the temperature of
your place, you don't want it too cold and you don't want it too hot. When it's
too hot you're uncomfortable, when it's too cold, you're uncomfortable. Even
though you might hear, it's nice to keep it cold so then you can snuggle up with
the girl, but at the end of the day if it's too cold she's going to feel
uncomfortable and you don't want her thinking about anything else other than
being in the moment with you. So make sure the temperature is slightly warmer
so it makes her feel more comfortable and more sexy. Now I want you to learn
how to set up your bedroom in the proper way so I have a video that I did on this
channel with my friend and dating coach David Wygant and he gives a whole tour
of his bathroom and his bedroom showing you what he did to set it up that makes
it irresistible to women. I'm going to put that link in the description below.
Check that out. Now I want you to write a comment down below and tell me what you
think. Does this make sense to you? Pretty easy right? Write a comment below. Let's
talk about it and I'll see you on the next video.
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