Live Today With Passion: "There is nothing as powerful as a change
you can change your hair your clothing
your address your spouse your residence
but if you don't change your mind the
same experience will perpetuate itself
over and over again because everything
outwardly chains but nothing in return
you are where you are today in part
because of what you've been saying about
yourself words are like seeds when you
speak something out you give life to
what you're saying if you continue to
say it eventually that can become a
reality whether you realize it or not
you are prophesying your future and this
is great when we're saying things like
I'm blessed I'm strong I will accomplish
my dreams I'm coming out of debt that's
not just being positive you are
prophesying victory prophesying success
prophesied new levels your life will
move in the direction of your words but
too many people go around prophesying
just the opposite I never get any good
breaks I'll never get back in shape
business is slow i'll probably get laid
off flu season is here i always get it
they don't realize they are prophesying
defeat it's just like they're calling in
badbrakes mediocrity lack the scripture
says we will eat the fruit of our words
you are planting seeds when you talk at
some point you're going to eat that
fruit my challenge is make sure you're
planning the right kind of seeds if you
want apples you have to sew apple seeds
if you want oranges you can't plant
cactus seeds poison ivy seeds mushroom
seeds you're going to recruit from the
exact seeds that you've been sowing in
other words you can't talk negative and
expect to live a positive life you can't
talk two feet and expect to have victory
you can't talk lack not enough can't
afford it never get ahead and expect to
have abundance if you have a poor mouth
you're going to have a poor life if you
don't like what you're seeing start
sewing some different seeds
you know we all go to change our lives
and we all want to improve our lives
whether you want to improve your health
or your relationships your work your
lifestyle you know that sometimes it's
difficult and you back off of it you
back down from change because it's scary
I mean do you know anyone who needs to
change their life and you can tell them
change change change but they don't why
or have you ever set a big goal at the
beginning of the year and you knew you
really wanted to achieve it but you
found yourself a couple months later not
doing it well the reason is is because
psychologically you are unwilling to
face the price of change it's kind of
like the way I think about it it's like
admission gates like how you know how
you going to amusement park or for a
circus or to Disneyland you kind of have
to pay to go through the turnstile to
enter and enjoy the ride well changes
like that to most people bounce up
against those turnstiles only go this is
I don't like it it's uncomfortable to me
and they leave the park and they never
get to experience the beauty and the
wonder and the fun on the other side
they said I it's not worth it and they
walk away from their goals and their
dreams and their hopes because they just
thought it wasn't worth it or it was too
hard so what are you going to have to
face what are you really going to have
to allow yourself to pay for the price
of change well I think there's three
costs to change anytime you wanna change
your life you're gonna be faced with
these three things they're the price of
admission to a better life and once you
realize that these are the price of
change you can consciously choose will
is worth it to me or not because most
people they're not consciously choosing
they just get scared and run so instead
i want you to realize there is a cost to
change are you up for it or not here's
the three cost to change that first
price of a mission to get to those out
of change is
uncertainty you know when you go to
change your life you don't know how it's
going to turn out you start the new diet
is it going to work is it not you don't
know you're going to change your career
or quit your job are you gonna get a
better job you don't know you're going
to leave that bad relationship to find
someone who really loves you cares for
you through CL are you going to find
somebody better you don't know and that
terrifies people uncertainty is so scary
because we might lose something we like
well what if I lose the job it was okay
or lose the person she was not so bad or
or I lose that opportunity and it's
scary to people but that's what your
mind has to be willing to wrap around do
it you might have to be able to say to
change your mind has to go I am cool
with the fact i'm not going to know what
the heck is going on i'm going to go for
it anyway i'm going to enter that dark
cave I don't know if I'm going to be
eaten alive I don't know if it's going
to turn out bad but i'm gonna go in i'm
gonna trust and believe in my ability to
figure things out I don't know how it's
going to go but I know I'm going to show
up is the best of who I am to deal with
that change your mind must be allowing
and saying I'm gonna let go of
everything I think I know I'm gonna let
go of everything I want it to go like
I'm gonna let go of my need for
permission I'm gonna go my need for
perfection and I'm just gonna try and
when you can get to that point and you
can say you know what I'm cool with the
fact i'm not going to know what the heck
is going on on because i haven't done it
before I'm gonna try even though I don't
know how it's going to turn out if you
can get over that that's that first sort
of step into making longer-term change
for your left see I'm okay with it I
never know how things are going to go as
many of you know I shoot this whole
YouTube show this this thing called the
charge life my podcast I do it
extemporaneous I don't know exactly how
it's gonna go I usually know the topic I
know maybe one or two points in my head
and I just go but my mind when I first
did that he was terrified so I said no
no no I need certainty I knew certain
yeah I need notes I need a script I need
to know exactly how it's going to go and
I
you know what that's not the charge life
the charge life is good with spontaneity
the charge life is good with being in
the moment the charge life actually
loves and draws energy and power and
vibrancy from flow from being in the
moment and dancing with the moment
versus having everything needed to be
script in your life so have you not
changed because your mind saying I need
everything to be perfect and script it
out I need to know all the exact steps
in the future if your mind is telling
you that I guarantee you're not
progressing growing or achieving at the
rate that you could you gotta let go of
certainty in your life and be willing to
venture into the unknown and walk into
it being okay that you'll be vulnerable
being okay that you'll be scared being
okay you're gonna have nights where
you're laying awake on I don't know I
don't know and that's okay because you
know what you'll figure it out if I can
sell you one belief that's given me more
confidence than anything in my entire
life it's like you know what I know that
I'm kind of a bumbling fool but I
believe in my ability to figure things
out put me in the mix put me in the game
coach I can do it it'll be a hot mess
for maybe a quarter but by second
quarter I'll get it I'll figure it out
put me in the game I will figure it out
I trust in that and that's why I've been
able to change my life so significantly
and grow so quickly beyond sometimes my
peers because I'm willing to venture
into the unknown and they are not and it
is those who venture into the unknown
who are the adventures the Pioneers the
Explorers those who move the needle of
change in the history of the world so
allow yourself not to know and
the second big price to change a lot of
people avoid or run away from but it's
always going to be there is when you'd
bumble into something like that guess
what the price the change is other
people might not understand meaning
judgment meaning rejection people might
make fun of you when you go to change
your life they might say who do you
think you are why do you want that well
that's dumb why are you doing that
you're so stupid why can't you just be
happy you're gonna get people saying
that there's a social fear of change as
well because they would rather have you
conform to their little conception of
you see people draw a little conceptual
cage around who you are and they say
well this is who that person is they
think they know you they don't know you
and you know what they also don't know
they don't know tomorrow and they don't
know where you want to go they don't
know exactly what you are capable of
because they're trying to gauge it based
on their certainty coming from the past
but who you are is not tethered to the
past you and I can both wake up tomorrow
and claim what I call my book life's
golden ticket a second chance you get to
wake up tomorrow take a new breath in
decide what am I going to show the world
today what am I going to do today how
disciplined am I going to be today what
energy am I going to arrive to the world
with and choose today what's my attitude
going to be what am I habits going to be
today what am I going to really go after
with thunder and power today you had to
choose that every day that's the second
chance every single day that's the
beauty of the world tomorrow is always a
blank slight tomorrow you get to begin
anew it takes guts and most people don't
have the guts because they're scared of
the rejection that could come your
spouse makes fun of you and the people
at work going you crazy stupid the kids
in the play yard point and tease and
ridicule and abuse and be
but you know at the end of the day it's
your life and you go decide what it
stands for are you going to live your
life based on the the noise of the
crowds and the masses telling you what
to do or living their life we're going
to live your life are going to put your
dreams on hold just because some person
who doesn't even know you or what your
capabilities are judge you once look the
reality is most people got your back and
it's not my opinion it's reality they're
all of us assume oh there's all the
judgment all these people are out to get
me look you need to stop believing
people don't support you and want you to
achieve and grow I used to believe that
I thought well you know the people
around me they'll support me until I get
above them right no one wants you to be
above them but you're not above that's a
BS definition that's their meaning
definition not yours you're just growing
into your full potential don't apologize
for that don't hold back from that just
because somebody might not like it that
doesn't make any sense whatsoever your
job is to live that fullest expression
of who you know you can be to do that
confident to live in that freedom of
flow of being spontaneous and alive
regardless of what other people think
it's so easy to go well I better not
tell my dream because I'll think I'm
small but if you don't tell your dream
your mind doesn't believe it if you
don't tell your dream the supporters who
would like the idea can't get your back
you don't tell your dream people can't
believe and you buy from you fall you
get on board with you look in silence is
suffering if you're not expressing who
you are and what you want in life that's
not personal freedom that's personal
caging of your soul and you're doing
that not anyone else it's easy to blame
everyone else well they judge me so I
stopped no they will always judge you
you stopping or starting that's on you
buddy and we got to accept that on a lot
that's personal accountability going
it's on me
no matter what the world says because
you know what you know what you're gonna
get the believers you know you're gonna
get them with momentum you know when
you're gonna have more motivation with
momentum as you get going as you start
succeeding as you start committing as we
start to see wow she is really
interested in this wow she's really
doing well she's really going to it wow
she's really succeeding more of them
will clap at the beginning they all like
weird and then as you get going they're
clapping for you so don't forget that
and don't also forget that guess what
the bigger you grow too yep the more
people will judge you it's not like you
get success one day and everybody loves
you you know or you get millions about
look I got millions of students out
there who graduated my videos Mike
online courses who've read my books and
we still get people going well Brendon
you're an idiot millions of students if
I run in here an idiot or I do my videos
they go well this is stupid you're just
you know but I want you to stop doing
these videos your hair sucks i hate your
shirt ah you know it's like I don't care
i don't i'm not going to pause my
mission simply because there's some mean
people out there who are uninformed or
in a bad mood you must not stop your
march out of a fear of rejection or
judgment because it never goes away what
needs to come back into your life is the
constant so you're gonna do it any way
to go and that's the price to change the
price of changes some people won't like
it but on the other side that's your
dream so go the last big price big cost
to change last huge one and the most you
don't like it is that guess what to
change to progress it's going to bring
struggle struggle hardship difficulty
that's part of the process one you got
to deal with the unknown that's scary
because you're not in the game just like
even thinking about scared because it's
the unknown to judgment rejection
possibility and three hi
this can be hard I'm not it's gonna be
uncomfortable not just uncertain it's
gonna it's going to be difficult I'm
asked to stay up late nights to work on
my dream I'm gonna have to you know give
up some things i like doing with my
family my friends sometimes so I can
focus a little bit more I like reading
those trashy magazines but I'm not
adding value they're comfortable for you
how to put them aside I'm going to
struggle with the discipline to stay
focused I'm going to struggle not
knowing what I'm doing looking silly I'm
going to struggle being absolutely a hot
mess as I begin this it's going to be
hard it's gonna be a lot of late night
it's going to be you know times are
going to try your soul your mind your
body and thank God it's not easy thank
God it's not even because you know what
it's only in the tough stuff that your
real character is exposed and forged
it's only in the difficulties that the
path becomes meaningful and worthwhile
if everything we're easy none of us
would grow if everything were easy none
of us would learn if everything were
easy none of us would ever feel alive
it's in that struggle in the fight in
the challenge that we find real growth
that we find the charge left because you
know what a lot of people they live what
we call the comfortable life
everything's fine everything's great
everything's easy and then at some point
some of this house your life in the go
it's fine and they say it knowing
something's missing you know what's
missing the push the challenge the
struggle the growth that comes from
those things so are you going to
struggle I bet your butt your that doing
this dream for me I struggled with you
know launching a book one time didn't do
so good launching videos nobody watched
it doing my first seminars 20 some
people showed up that was it but I knew
the struggle is worthwhile and I said
the struggles can make me sharp the
storm doesn't get any skill the
struggling to make me grow the struggle
will allow me to serve better with more
empathy
and verve and power and guess what now
three New York Times definitely looks
seminars sold out after seminar after
seminar after seminar videos been viewed
millions of times we're talking like
tens of millions of times why because I
was ok with the struggle in the process
to struggle I never hated it I said this
is part of the journey I accepted that
was a truth I didn't fight it I didn't a
moment I never complained I was never
better I was like this is just part of
it even when I started I went bankrupt
when I first began I don't know what I
was doing I just said okay this sucks I
own this it's real that's okay I'm gonna
keep working because you know what don't
ever forget when you knock on the door
of opportunity that its work who answers
don't the Mon complain or hate the
struggle and the difficulty that
sometimes takes for you to grow enough
and to find that place of in you that is
allowing it to be spontaneous and
flowing even in the midst of difficulty
to find your Center in the midst of that
chaos because you know that it's okay
this is chaos chaotic it's always in be
chaotic it's always gonna be crazy in
the world but we don't have to feel that
way and that's a struggle to master your
internal world and master our day each
day and push away distractions and say
no to the wrong things that's hard it's
difficult and thank God it is because
that's what makes you grow I hope that
you've enjoyed this episode if you did
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enjoy the charge life along with you and
remember this it's always difficult to
change there will always be even go to
judge you and you'll never know the
exact path and exactly how it's going to
turn out begin anyway because you know
what's on the other side of these prices
these admission charges to change you
know it's on the other side of going
anyway even though you're uncertain of
walking through even though they might
make fun of you of pushing through even
though you might be uncomfortable and
face struggle and hardship and
difficulty you know it's on the other
side the price and chain
progress and progress is worth it your
growth is worth it you'll take these
ideas and you'll keep going through pay
the price of change keep moving through
you'll find that progress and you'll get
experience what we call the charge life
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