Thứ Sáu, 7 tháng 4, 2017

Waching daily Apr 7 2017

You cannot be average any longer

Why? Well because average attracts average

I'm telling you to be great because great attracts great

Become great, and great people will come

Great things will start to happen

and your life will become great

I need you to get off this average thing. I need you to get off average

I don't care what kind of school you're at

or what kind of family you have

or what kind of upbringing you had

just because the people around you are average, doesn't mean you have to be average

Looking around you what do you see?

When you stare at the mirror, what do you see?

Let me tell you what I see when I look at you

I see a sleeping giant

who hasn't realised what he carries

I see a bulldozer who doesn't know his strength

I see a champion

who doesn't know there's a trophy to be won

Wake up

Listen, it will take as much time as it will take

until you decide to change things

until you decide to make things happen

until you wake up and decide to step up and hold yourself accountable

Success is allergic to average

Success and average have nothing to do with each other

So you can't say you wanna be successful if you're still average

You've gotta get to the point where you are allergic to average

You don't think average

you don't study average

you don't perform average

success and average have absolutely nothing to do with each other

Nobody likes average, and the problem with a lot of you

is that you aren't allergic to average

At the point you say you wanna be great

you want to do great things, but really, you're comfortable with average

How long will you live in the dark?

It's time to study, but you're still

watching TV

It's time to study but you're out hanging with your friends

Your alarm is ringing but you wanna sleep more

So your teachers look down on you

your classmates look down on you

everyone around you looks down on you

Why? Because you are looking down on yourself

Remember people will treat you the way you treat yourself

People will see you the way you see yourself

Go to the library

borrow as many books as you can carry

go back home and lock the door behind you

lock the door of shame

the door of poor grades

the door of watching life pass you by

while you achieve nothing

and open a new door in your heart

in your mind because there is nothing

more powerful than a change in mindset

How long will you continue to weep?

How long will you continue to live your life in self-pity?

How long will you continue to be a disappointment to yourself

How long will they continue to laugh at you?

How long will you sit back and watch people achieve greatness

while you struggle to achieve average

If you continue to sleep away your time

play away your time

party away your time

then you are doing this to yourself

you have only yourself to blame

You are telling your classmates to make you a laughing stock

You are telling your teachers that you aren't serious

and that they should give you the poor grades you deserve

You have to shut the doors behind you

and open the door of your mind

You cannot continue to sit at the back

You cannot continue to let life pass you by

You cannot continue to hold your head in shame

Tell yourself you've made it

Because they said you couldn't

Make it, despite them trying to pull you down

Use their negativity as fuel

And I promise you, when you push yourself and give as much as you possibly can

Your friends will take notice

your family will take notice

live will take notice

and life will begin to back you up

life will begin to open doors for you

and introduce you to people that will take you to the next level

but you have to take the first step

Step up, go for greatness

and leave average behind

Let them know you are around

Let them feel your power

Let them feel your wrath

And pick yourself up and start studying

When tough times arise, I never say how could this happen to me?

I say, how could I use this?

What can I gain from this?

How can I ensure that I can improve my life

so this never happens again?

That's how you become great

Not what I've got to work with

But how I work with what I've got

Listen, it's such a powerful sight seeing someone who has been at the back of the class

and rise above everyone to take the front position

Be that person

All it needs is determination

and hard work, that's all, it's really that simple

You've just gotta do what you've gotta do

and then you look back when it's all over

and you can see the reward

You can look back and see

the accomplishments

You can look back, and see that you've succeeded

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Employment Law Gotcha's to avoid - Duration: 21:09.

R. Shawn McBride with you live here and I have my friend Cathleen Scott who's a great

employment lawyer.

Works out of California.

Her firm also has offices in California.

So we've been talking to her for a long time, we've known each other for a while and we're

always comparing notes and I thought it would be great to just sit down and talk to employers

about what we're seeing and mistakes people see in employment loss.

Cathleen, you want to introduce yourself a little bit?

Let people know who you are and ... Cathleen: Absolutely.

Hi, thanks for having me and good morning everyone.

I'm Cathleen Scott, I'm a board-certified labor and employment attorney in my practice.

I've been practicing almost 20 years now.

We do both employee and employer sided and so hopefully all the business owners who are

out there listening . . . I hope to provide you with some good tips on kind of the dos

and don'ts when it comes to employment and your particular business.

R. Shawn McBride: Now let's jump in a little bit.

What are some common mistakes you see, things people aren't thinking about.

I know most business owners are busy, they're running their business day to day, a lot going

on and this is kind of a secondary thing until it snaps up and bites somebody.

So what are some things people aren't doing that can cause some problems in the future?

Cathleen: So the most common type of claim an employer would be exposed to, particularly

if they're a small employer, and I would kind of put that under 20 employees, is being sued

for unpaid overtime.

And people are like, Oh, but I get this, everybody knows you gotta pay overtime.

There's a lot of myths out there.

And so one of those examples of a myth is that well, I pay all of my employees salary

so therefore I don't owe them overtime.

And so that, I think, more than anything else, is one of the most common mistakes employers

make.

They have this belief that because they've put an employee on a salary basis that therefore,

they don't ever have to pay them overtime.

And so that's probably not true.

For overtime you really, there's three main buckets.

So step one is paying an employee's salary, but step two is figuring out if they fall

into an exemption bucket.

R. Shawn McBride: Right.

And there's really only three.

Cathleen: Yeah, so that could be very pricey because not only do you owe the back wages,

you'd owe attorney's fees and costs as well.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, so you're getting really hit with a big sticker right there.

Cathleen: Yeah, and you know there are no defenses.

If you make a mistake, you're on the hook.

So this, I didn't know or I wasn't aware or, you know . . . I tried to do it right.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, so kind of hand in hand and tangential to the idea of not paying

overtime is not having good records.

Because often the employer gets it right from an exemption standpoint, but might not have

the proof to say, Oh, but I have detailed wage and hours records, right?

And show how many hours this particular employee worked in a given week.

Cathleen: Right.

R. Shawn McBride: So all the employers who are out there listening, do yourself a favor,

number one, keep records.

Cathleen: Yes.

The best record is something the employee signs off on at the end of the work week,

where they say, yup, this is how many hours I worked.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, and I guess that's probably true.

A lot of people with salaried employees you don't think to keep track of their hours,

but I'm guessing from our conversation here, that it would be advisable to have some record

of the hours just in case you would have a reclassification.

You at least then have something to help.

Cathleen: Because here's the kicker.

The federal law that regulates overtime was written in 1938.

It's probably the most pro-employee statute that's out there.

It affects every employer who has two or more employees.

This is everybody.

What the law says is, if you don't have records then the employee, and often it's a former

employee, disgruntled usually, they have the right to just use their recollection, and

their beliefs about the hours that they worked.

So it's sort of a penalty to the employer for not keeping the records, and a benefit

to the employee because they can just say, Oh, I worked 60 hours a week, I worked 75

hours a week.

Without those records to prove it, the employer's going to be in a bad situation.

R. Shawn McBride: Right.

I think it was a big surprise to me to find out that hours worked is very broad.

Right?

This could be something- Cathleen: Yes.

R. Shawn McBride: It could be somebody just checking their cell phone on Saturday night.

Cathleen: Breathing air.

You know having now all these little handy dandy devices.

You know, most of you who are listening are probably watching on an iPad or on a computer.

Well, your employees are using those, too.

And they might be checking their work email at home, they might be getting a text from

you at eight o'clock at night saying, hey, is my meeting confirmed tomorrow morning?

And that's compensable time, so- Work is really very broad, so if they're breathing air and

they're benefiting you, in your workplace or even in their workplace at home, you've

got to pay for that.

R. Shawn McBride: We can add up real quick and I'm going to step out on a limb here and

say this is usually pro-employee, right?

I mean the employee is probably at the office sometimes talking at the water cooler you're

paying for that, and then they go home and check email, you're paying for that, too.

Cathleen: Exactly.

And the scary part is it comes with the data, too.

Another sort of issue is if they're using their employee cell phone, and they're working

on your business, that's their cell phone, they're using your data, you owe them for

the time, but then another trickier employment issue is what happens to that data when they

leave?

Do you have a policy in place that kind of deals with how do I get that data back safely?

How do I make sure that I don't have my trade secrets, my customer list, my number one client

information out there in the hands of my employee.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah.

Cathleen: So I battle that and to segue into what is really the second biggest issue is,

no written documents during the employment that talk about what will happen after separation.

R. Shawn McBride: Yes.

Cathleen: That is really more than, the next big issue is really, Wow, how do I make sure

that my business interests are protected?

I worked so hard to build my company, I trained my sales team, I get my clients and customers

best customer service and I have an employee who leaves and they can take it all with them.

How do I prevent that?

R. Shawn McBride: Right, that's very valuable.

I talk to a lot of companies.

You don't realize it, but for many companies today, particularly given the internet and

all these other channels, a lot of times one of your most valuable assets is that customer

list, that contact base, the people you're working with, and if you have an employee

walk out of the door and set up shop across the street or go work for your biggest competitor,

you're at a real disadvantage.

Cathleen: You are.

Especially if you haven't had the benefit of any advice from a labor attorney or a corporate

attorney like yourself to be able to say, draft this document during the employment,

have the employee sign off on it now, so that in the event that happens, you have legal

recourse against them.

R. Shawn McBride: Right, and I think you hit on something I was just going to bring up.

So in a perfect world you have all these documentations in place before the employee shows up, before

they show up you give them the manual, do you want to start working here, please sign

our employee manual, everything's in place when the employee starts on day one.

But most employers don't live in the perfect world.

Cathleen: True.

It's good for business.

R. Shawn McBride: It's good for business.

Most employers may have employees that never sign an employee manual or never looked at

these kind of issues, so what would you counsel them at that point?

And I know this may be a little state law specific, but let's say we have a Florida

employer, and they've got an employee and they didn't do this paperwork in the beginning.

Cathleen: Well, they're not completely out of luck.

I mean there are Florida state law protections that they could still have a legal course

of action against the former employee.

It's just going to be much more expensive for them to obtain the protections of the

law without that written document.

But it is possible.

It's called a tortious interference claim but those can be brought.

So they're not completely out of luck.

But they should use that as a teaching moment to say okay, I don't ever want to be in this

situation again, I'm going to make sure I tighten up, get a hold of my local or corporate

counselor or employment lawyer.

Look, these documents are not overly complex.

They're not that difficult to draft.

It's a very simple solution to a very important problem.

R. Shawn McBride: How does it look doing it midstream?

I know we've worked and I don't do employment law regularly, I'm a corporate guy, but you

know this has come up tangentially in Texas.

We worked with an employment firm and we had a client who we implemented a lot of this

part-way through, and under Texas law we got comfortable that we could tell them, okay,

you need to sign these documents now to continue your employment.

And so we could probably do something similar in Florida, where we could say-

Cathleen: Absolutely.

No time's a good time, because it's always difficult to shake things up in your workplace.

But continued employment, if you do it in the middle of employment, better to do at

the beginning, but it's not difficult if you don't.

For some reason employees seem to be more open minded to rolling out changes at the

beginning of a year, so making goals now to start things in January of next year to have

a new set of documents.

It's absolutely appropriate under Florida law, to require an employee to sign them at

the threat of, you can't work here unless you do.

And that's okay, but you should do that in conjunction with counsel, depending on what

state you're located in, and where you do business.

R. Shawn McBride: Right, you want to be very careful about this, and obviously you want

somebody to go over the documents you're going to have the employee to sign because you want

to make sure they accomplish what you're trying to accomplish, you know, get the protections

you want.

Cathleen: Right and you don't want to look like the bad guy when you're the employer.

So for our employer clients, what we often do is we'll do the drafting of the handbook,

the drafting of the job description, any restrictive covenants, non-competes.

And then we'll come into the workplace and actually present the changes.

And so we're kind of viewed as the bad guy.

But that has two very important qualities, I mean one is the employer can say, this is

the advice of my attorney, so it's not like they're trying to torture their employees.

R. Shawn McBride: Right.

Cathleen: The other aspect of it is, in addition to being the advice, it also becomes, they

know that we're serious about enforcing these things because they've spent the time and

money to have an attorney come to talk them and have it signed.

So the perception is, okay, it's a big deterrent, you know.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, there's definitely something to be said about having the attorney

be the bad guy.

You know, that's one of our assigned roles after we come out of law school is to be bad

guys and help our clients, but you can send the message differently when it's coming from

this third party.

It's like they're saying this, not necessarily I'm saying it.

Cathleen: Right.

And I feel like for our firm, we probably do about 50-50 employee versus employer side.

A little heavier employee right now maybe 60/40, but we feel like we have a lot of credibility

in that position because we see these things when the employee comes in.

When they're post separation, they walk in the door with this document and they say,

what are my rights?

Is this enforceable?

How does this go?

And that really brings up what I think is really the third big issue employers kind

of on a don't list is, be really sensitive to the way you let an employee go.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah.

Cathleen: I can't tell you how many times an employer will walk into an office like

ours and say, I feel like I've been mistreated, and it's always over something relatively

minor, but then when you dig a little deeper, you might find something a lot more serious.

For example, an employee might walk in and say, I was terminated by a Post-It Note.

And that's actually a true story.

Or my employer objected to my unemployment, or refused to pay me my last week's pay, and

that's what sends them into a lawyer's office.

Then we dig a little deeper and we realize, oh my goodness, they were misclassified this

whole time.

Or oh my gosh, they were mistreated or some other employment laws were broken.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah.

Cathleen: Sometimes the simplest of issues become complex and so from an employer's standpoint,

how can you avoid that?

Challenging unemployment is a big one, I think that is really a big motivator for people

to come see an employment lawyer.

So my advice to any employer out there is think long and hard before you want to object

to everybody's receipt of unemployment benefits and recognize you might be pushing them into

the hands of an attorney and maybe under that microscopic view, that may not be a place

that you really want to be at that moment in time.

R. Shawn McBride: Right.

Yeah, just for the people that aren't as familiar with the attorneys and our ethics rules, I

mean our ethics rules require we work for the best interest of our client.

And so that means no stone goes unturned.

An employee shows up in Cathleen's office, it's what is every avenue of recovery do I

have to help this person?

And that's our job.

And that's one of the reasons a lot of people love their attorney, right?

They hate attorneys but they love their attorney, because they're trying to work with them.

Cathleen: Right.

R. Shawn McBride: When you get a good smart lawyer on the opposite side, they're going

to be looking at the stuff, so anything you can do to avoid things escalating to that

level is great.

Cathleen: Right, that's right, Shawn.

So some of those things if I had to make a little checklist would be one, think twice

before you deny an employee their last paycheck or before you don't pay them their accrued

vacation time, or any time off that they might be entitled to.

Because those type of claims, that you might feel really entitled or emboldened on, wow,

you know, I don't really want to pay that versus I'm angry, they left, they didn't give

me notice, but you might very well be sending them into the lion's den to try to come up

with other reasons and violations that might have happened during employment.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, I think I see that.

That's definitely a good thing for people to think about.

Take the long view of how things are going to play out.

Don't make things overly contentious.

Cathleen: Exactly.

On that same note, another common mistake would be how employers deal with complaints.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah.

Cathleen: Especially small businesses.

Because small business owners are often spread very thin, they're the CFO, they're the CEO,

they're also the head of Human Resources, they're wearing all these different hats and

so when an employee comes to them and says, geez, I'm having trouble getting along with

Sally, or so-and-so did this to me, often the response can be somewhat negative because

just as a matter of time, they're pretty strung out and they kind of hope that everyone can

work and get along.

So my other last sort of big topic of some dos and don'ts for employers out there is,

when someone comes to you, an employee comes to you and they have a complaint, the first

word out of your mouth should be, thank you for letting me know and I promise to look

into that.

And to take really a lot of caution and make sure that you don't tune things up by putting

your own emotional energy into being angry about the complaint, 'cause that could be

misconstrued as retaliation and retaliation is the number one box checked on EEOC charges

for discrimination.

So let's learn from the statistics and know that we could probably . . . we control the

workplace a lot with our own behavior and our own personalities, so some of it can be

just be more open to hearing dissenting viewpoints and complaints, not turn it into something

more than what it is.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, and you're really hitting on something that I'm passionate about

which is culture.

It's very important in an organization that you have a certain culture and while it's

tangential to the employment law issues, but if you have that right culture where employees

can talk, they can raise issues, they can talk about problems before they become big

problems, you can cut a lot of these off at the pass, and I've had some employers that

have very strong cultures, it will cause employees to eject themselves.

Right?

If you have a good culture and you are doing business a certain way that you want to do

business, employees that don't fit will often leave voluntarily before you even get into

this whole mess of issues.

Cathleen: Absolutely, and that's why they call it Human Resources.

You know, it is our most valuable resource, as business owners is to keep the people who

are our first line of defense or answering the phone, keep them happy.

That's good for business.

And it's good to prevent lawsuits, too.

Because often people that feel like they work in a place with great culture, are more loyal

to that culture, and less likely to go see an employment lawyer or to lodge a complaint.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah.

You've given us some great stuff.

There's one more thing I wanted to visit along which has been a common issue that's come

up, is this employee versus independent contractor.

We've talked this entire time about employees, and in this world, particularly with the internet

being out there and everything happening, there's a lot of people who view everybody

as independent contractors, but the government is really pro-employee.

They think more people are actually employees than independent contractors, or when you

get in these reviews that seems to be happening.

Cathleen: Right.

R. Shawn McBride: What tips can you give people for getting this right?

Cathleen: So yeah, that's a very good question.

Especially here in the south, we're one of the most hotbeds for misclassification cases,

in part because we don't have unions.

And so it is very common for small businesses to classify someone as independent contractor.

It's a costly expense if you get it done wrong because the IRS is going to come after you

for back taxes, self -employment taxes, and the employee then could later come back to

you if they've worked overtime, even though they were classified.

A couple of really scary points to think about, even if you get it wrong, even if there's

a contract that says, I'm an independent contractor, that's not enforceable for unpaid overtime.

So that's real scary, so recognizing that risk, I would always recommend that you err

on the side of classifying someone as an employee, but here's the guidelines, the hallmark test

is really about control.

So a true independent contractor doesn't need training, doesn't need guidance, doesn't need

to be told how to do their job, and they have a lot of autonomy.

They have an autonomy to schedule as they need, they have their own tools, they have

their own truck - the cable man's a good example.

R. Shawn McBride: The cable guy?

I always talk about the roofer.

The roofer, you tell the roofer to put a roof on your house, you have no idea how to put

a roof on your house, they show up, they get a roof on the house.

Cathleen: That's right.

And so if there's a lot of control being exercised over a person, they're probably not an independent

contractor.

The next thing is about the length of time.

If the relationship is more permanent, it's not just a short three to six months, it becomes

a more regular steady-type of arrangement, that looks a lot more like an employee than

an independent contractor.

So I would definitely, you know, the longer relationships last, the more likely it's an

employment relationship.

Often it can start as a true independent contractor, but when it works out for a long time, it's

probably going to morph into that employee situation and you'll want to take a look at

it.

But the most, most, most, underscore this, best thing that you can do if you're going

to hire someone and classify them as an independent contractor, they must, must have their own

separate licensed corporation in the state where they are working.

And that corporation needs to be responsible for their own workers' comp, and for any other

insurances that are necessary.

Most states look at the fact that if they're not, if you're not paying a true employment

ID number, that that's not going to be a true independent contractor.

So if you're just paying someone by their social security number and you're not an established

corporation, that's big red flag to both the IRS and employment lawyers that maybe it's

truly not an employee.

Truly not an independent contractor.

R. Shawn McBride: Right, and that's great things to think about.

And I think the important takeaway from this is this is complicated stuff, if you're out

there and you've got people working for you, whether they're employees or independent contractors,

just stop and get an evaluation done.

Look at where you're at right now and get your rest, because one of these issues, I

mean we're talking tens of thousands, maybe even more money, and to stop and just do a

quick review, truss up a few issues, get yourself moving forward, maybe do that once year, every

six months or so, Cathleen: Absolutely.

R. Shawn McBride: And a lot of people have probably never done one of those, it'd be

great to stop, do one here in the next couple of months, really assess where you're at,

adjust some things, and take a lot of these risks off the table.

Cathleen: Absolutely.

And I should mention also, have a written agreement as you kind of alluded to there.

Definitely a written agreement, and that should be written by an attorney, you know these

forms that you can download, these Zoom sites or whatnot, that's not going to be state specific,

it's not going to be fact specific to your situation, and it's a good trap for the wary.

R. Shawn McBride: Yeah, and you don't know how good these forms are, they're coming from

everywhere.

Again, like Cathleen said, just saying somebody's an independent contractor, that's not going

to make them an independent contractor.

You can say whatever you want til you're blue in the face, they're gonna look at it.

And then every state has a different test, right?

There's a small dewpoint test, there's state-specific multipoint tests on whether somebody's an

independent contractor or employee, so you really want to address it to your locale and-

Cathleen: Keep in mind the IRS is not a party to that agreement.

And so they have the right to come in and say, geez, I think it's an employee, so even

though you have this nice, fancy contract, we're gonna go ahead and assess you back taxes.

And that's an assessment almost always against the employer not the employee.

R. Shawn McBride: Right, and let's think about it.

States are economically motivated, right?

They want bigger coffers for workman's comp in their insurance fund, so they're pro-employee,

too.

You know, they want to have more people in the employee bucket so they have more resources

flowing through.

Cathleen: Right.

So I don't know that you're really saving much by having an independent contractor versus

an employee.

R. Shawn McBride: Exactly.

Cathleen: You know, the risk is so great that it's really got to be the exact right fit

or it's definitely a trap.

R. Shawn McBride: You've given us some wonderful stuff to think about.

You want to give people your contact information in case people want to reach out to you.

Cathleen: Absolutely.

You can find us at www.FloridaLaborLawyer.com.

I'm Cathleen Scott, my partner is Lindsey Wagner.

We also have a second website www.ScottWagnerLaw.com.

We're located both in California with offices in Burbank as well as in South Florida here

with offices in both Jupiter and West Palm Beach.

We offer consultations for employees and employers, both by Skype, in person and by phone, whatever

works great.

And our phone number is 561-653-0008.

It's probably easiest to find us online and just contact www.ScottWagnerLaw.com.

Thanks so much for having me, Shawn.

R. Shawn McBride: Thanks, Cath.

I'm R. Shawn McBride, www.McBrideAttorneys.com.

As you know my mission is to help successful private business owners build companies to

stand the test of time.

And part of that is getting these right people like Cathleen involved, to go over people's

businesses and their plans, so if you have specific questions and want to follow up,

let us know, we can try to get some content directed to exactly what you need and we look

forward to talking to you again in the near future.

Thank you!

Cathleen: Thanks, guys.

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Harnessing the Power of Administrative Data: OnTheMap for Emergency Management - Duration: 2:31.

When Hurricane Sandy was bearing down

on the East Coast in 2012,

New Jersey needed information fast.

It needed local information to help with

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After the storm, it needed detailed information

to help rebuild its communities and businesses.

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to the specialized data it needed.

The program combines Census data

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States collect this information through the

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To figure out which policies are working

and which might be less effective.

And to spot trends that would have been difficult

or impossible to spot before.

Most importantly, all of the linked data

are completely confidential.

Census researchers remove any information

that could help someone identify

an individual or business.

They also use state-of-the-art protections

to prevent anyone from being able to trace

the data back to an individual or business.

During Hurricane Sandy, New Jersey was able

to use a special Census Bureau tool that adds

real-time federal disaster area boundaries

to the linked data.

The tool —OnTheMap for Emergency Management—

made it easier for the state to direct aid

and help local businesses get back online

in the affected areas.

It's just one example of what is possible

when state and federal data are linked.

And that's smart government.

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For more infomation >> Harnessing the Power of Administrative Data: OnTheMap for Emergency Management - Duration: 2:31.

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Meghan Markle Shares Top Tips For Successful Relationship With Prince Harry - Duration: 2:52.

The Californian actress has taken to her lifestyle blog to impart some precious life wisdom to

her readers about relationships and we're taking notes.

Whether it's organising the perfect weekend getaway with a new partner or a casual dinner

party to introduce them to your closest group of friends, it's not uncommon to fall into

the habit of overthinking and stressing about the minor details and, as a result, missing

out on the fun, spontaneity and mishaps that make up the joy of life.

It's a topic actress Meghan Markle is eager to talk about with her fans, following a year-long

relationship with her royal beau, Prince Harry.

Yesterday, the 35 year old took to her lifestyle blog, The Tig, to emphasise the importance

of making the most of every moment with the person you love and not sweating the small

stuff.

In a post titled, 'Thoughts to live by', the Suits actress shares her favorite life-inspiring

quotes, which she describes as 'equal parts cheeky and sincere, they encourage us to take

every day with either a grain of salt or a spoonful of sugar'.

At the top of her list is the quote, 'overplanning kills magic', which may refer to her blossoming

relationship with the prince, who's she reportedly moving in with later this year.

Since announcing their romance last summer, the pair have been coping with the challenges

of a long-distance relationship and have organised numerous trips to see each other's family

and spend time with one another in Megan's hometown of Toronto, Canada and Harry's beloved

London, UK.

Other quotes on the blog include 'travel often; getting lost will help you find yourself',

which comes weeks after the couple traveled to Jamaica to celebrate the nuptials of Harry's

best friend, Tom Inskip, and 'be in love with your life'.

In the post, Markle who's half sister recently announced she was planning to publish a tell

all book about her relative instructs her readers to 'print them out to save for those

days you need a reminder of the most important message of all: You are enough'.

For a woman who has just posed alongside some of the world's most important leaders in gender

equality, such as Emma Watson, Cher and Canadian prime minister, Justin Trudeau, we have a

feeling Meghan might know what she's talking about when it comes to life's most important

lessons.

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For more infomation >> Meghan Markle Shares Top Tips For Successful Relationship With Prince Harry - Duration: 2:52.

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India to finance Bangladeshi purchase of Mig 35 Fighter Jets - Duration: 2:39.

For more infomation >> India to finance Bangladeshi purchase of Mig 35 Fighter Jets - Duration: 2:39.

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Applegate's rules for RPD By Dr.Prashant Thakur - Duration: 11:46.

For more infomation >> Applegate's rules for RPD By Dr.Prashant Thakur - Duration: 11:46.

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Learn Colors and Numbers by Painting Pictures for Kids 3 - Duration: 10:36.

Learn Colors and Numbers by Painting Pictures for Kids 3

Learn Colors and Numbers by Painting Pictures for Kids 3

Learn Colors and Numbers by Painting Pictures for Kids 3

For more infomation >> Learn Colors and Numbers by Painting Pictures for Kids 3 - Duration: 10:36.

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Meine 'Coloring books for adults' :-) - Duration: 17:16.

For more infomation >> Meine 'Coloring books for adults' :-) - Duration: 17:16.

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HOW ORGANIZED SEXUAL ABUSE HAS STAYED UNDER THE RADAR FOR SO LONG - Duration: 9:01.

HOW ORGANIZED SEXUAL ABUSE HAS STAYED UNDER THE RADAR FOR SO LONG

An episode of Dr Phil aired recently in which a woman spoke about being born into sexual

slavery.

She talked about her life having been sexually abused from before she could talk right through

to adulthood.

An �owner� had control of her, and sold her to wealthy clients for sexual/sadistic

abuse and torture.

People have had mixed reactions to this.

A number of people seem to have taken Kendall�s story on board and believe her, and consider

this information in light of several other stories that have brought to light the reality

of organized sexual abuse.

To scratch the surface in the mainstream media:

4,444 victims: extent of abuse in Catholic church in Australia revealed

Massive paedophile ring uncovered by police in Norway after arrest of 51 men

Fifth man charged with dressing up as an animal and raping a small boy as part of sick �furry

fetish� pedophile ring Massive online pedophile ring busted by cops

�World�s largest paedophile ring� uncovered Some people do not believe her, and are unwilling

to entertain the possibility that organized groups with a lot of money could be engaged

in such practices.

I completely get that.

I don�t want it to be true either.

My work with sexual abuse victims, however, has opened my eyes to a horrific reality that

exists in our world � including in small, everyday communities in Western society, where

people would never imagine this is happening.

I have met people who were prostituted by family members for money, trafficked through

gangs, and abused by groups of trusted people.

For these women and men to even be sitting in front of me ready to talk, they have to

have already (mostly) overcome the overwhelming fear that they will be found and killed for

telling the truth about what happened to them.

Abuse like this is so incredibly horrifying to experience, that the shock of it alone

can be enough to fear any possible repercussions for trying to get away or reach out for help

once they are away from the abusers.

Many people who live through sexual /sadistic abuse cannot bring themselves to talk about

what happened because they fear no-one would believe them.

How has this widespread problem existed in relative secrecy for so long?

I believe there are a few elements to this.

Physical Control by Perpetrators

Perpetrators go to great lengths to cover their tracks.

This can mean ending someone�s life in some cases.

Other sexual abuse victims can be kept in slavery and never given the opportunity to

escape.

Mental Control by Perpetrators

For those for whom there may be a possibility of escape, perpetrators will use skilled manipulation

to keep a victim terrified and under control.

People or animals may be killed in front of them, to demonstrate what will happen if they

don�t comply or ever try to escape.

Other abusers who harm children who are still living in the community may make threats while

carrying out the abuse, like: �If you ever tell anyone, I will kill your Mother/baby

brother/best friend,� or �If you try to talk about this, I will do to your little

sister what I have been doing to you.�

Other manipulative words focus on the victim being the one who is to blame for the abuse.

Some perpetrators tell the one they are abusing things like: �You are dirty and this is

your fault,� or �If you didn�t look like that I wouldn�t be doing this to you.�

In the case of Kendall, she was told �You were born for this purpose� and nothing

in her life proved otherwise.

Manipulative words have the potential to sink in and become belief systems.

Victims can feel either too afraid to talk because of what the abuser will do, or they

can believe that it is their fault and no-one would offer them help anyway.

Abusers whose victims still live in the community have usually gone to great lengths to establish

themselves in positions of authority and trust.

The perpetrators of abuse on these children are usually known to them or their family,

but trusted because of the position they hold or their ability to manipulate the parents

into believing they are good people.

This can make it even harder for victims to speak out, because people react with disbelief

because it does not fit the picture they have built in their minds of the alleged perpetrator.

The more well-established this positive picture is in people�s minds, the harder it is to

get someone to believe that the perpetrator would actually do something like that (think

Jimmy Savile, Rolf Harris, and Bill Cosby).

A huge step for victims of sexual abuse is finally making the decision to reach out for

help and speak to someone about what happened to them.

For some, this has happened after a big internal battle where part of their conditioning tells

them they are worth nothing and they don�t deserve any help.

A small voice inside, however, is saying �No, it�s not okay for this to happen to anyone�

and this is the voice I hope they listen to.

Failure to be Believed

Sexual abuse perpetrators and human traffickers know that most people are good, decent people,

who would never dream of committing rape/sexual abuse, or sadistic torture.

They exploit this fact to the utmost degree.

Many victims who have spoken out about being abused/trafficked/tortured have been met with

utter disbelief.

It is so incredibly hard for a person to have lived through what a sexual abuse survivor

has lived through, have fought a battle to find the courage to talk about it, only to

be dismissed.

Why Does This Happen?

Why do good people sometimes fail to believe victims of sexual abuse?

For many people, it is actually too much to believe that this is happening, and happening

to great numbers of people.

Of course we all want there to be another explanation.

But where are all these women and children who go missing every day?

Where are they?

I have listened to people whose parents didn�t believe them ask me why.

�Why didn�t they believe me?� It is such a heart-breaking question.

One of the ways I have tried to make sense of it has been by looking inside myself.

There was a stage as a newly practicing therapist when I wasn�t sure I could do a job where

my sole focus would be to work with people who had suffered sexual abuse.

I knew that I would have to be there with them, fully present and with an open heart,

holding space and helping them work through the depths of their pain, and I didn�t know

if I could do it.

What I have found through working in mental health is that sexual abuse is happening everywhere.

People like me had to learn how to face our fear and help anyway, even if we thought we

might cry.

Because if not us, who?

If not now, when??

This is why I think that people sometimes turn away from victims and do not believe

them; because they are not ready to face that amount of pain.

They are not ready to accept that humans do this to each other, or would do that to their

own child.

Maybe they have no explanation for why humans do this to each other, so because they can�t

rationally understand it, they reject it.

Maybe they are not ready to accept that we live in a world where this is happening every

day, by people in all levels of society, because that is far too horrifying.

It is time for us all to realize that this is happening.

Widespread sexual abuse and human trafficking is a reality in our world today.

To help the ones who need our help now, or may one day reach out to us, we as a collective

need to learn how to face this painful truth, with all the emotion it brings up in us.

When we can turn toward our own painful emotional reactions with acceptance and compassion,

we can begin to come to terms with what is happening.

Doing this helps us learn how to nurture ourselves with love through our own pain, and we then

feel more compassion and empathy for those who are suffering around us.

This is how we as humanity can come through this as a whole, in support of each other.

For more infomation >> HOW ORGANIZED SEXUAL ABUSE HAS STAYED UNDER THE RADAR FOR SO LONG - Duration: 9:01.

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How to use automation in Cubase 9 for Beginners - Duration: 3:40.

In essence, automation means recording the values for a particular MixConsole or effect

parameter.

Within a Cubase project, the changes in a parameter value over time are reflected as

curves on automation tracks.

When you open an automation track for the first time, it does not contain any automation

events.

This is reflected in the event display as a straight horizontal line, the static value

line.

This line represents the current parameter setting.

If you manually added any automation events or used write automation for the corresponding

parameter and then disable the reading of automation data, the automation curve is grayed-out

in the event display and the static value line is used instead.

As soon as Read is enabled, the automation curve is used.

You can enable automation on tracks by pressing the write button.

If you activate W for a channel, virtually all MixConsole parameters that you adjust

during playback for that specific channel are recorded as automation events.

If R is activated for a channel, all your recorded MixConsole actions for that channel

are performed during playback.

Read and Write apply to any parameter on this track which is changed during playback, including

all inserts and their parameters.

You can create automation curves manually or automatically.

Manual writing makes it easy to quickly change parameter values at specific points without

having to activate playback.

Automatic writing lets you work almost as if you were using a real mixer.

Apart from the Draw tool, you can use the other tools from your toolbox to draw automation

events.

If you click with any of these tools on the automation track, R is activated automatically.

If you click on an automation track with the Object Selection tool, an automation event

is added.

If you hold down Alt, you can draw several automation events.

To activate the Line tool in any other available mode, click the Line tool and click again

to open a pop-up menu where you can select the Line tool mode.

The automation event editor allows you to edit selected events on the automation track.

The automation event editor is only available for automation ramp curves.

To open the automation event editor, activate the Object Selection tool and drag a selection

rectangle on a ramp type automation track.

Most of the tracks in your project have automation tracks, one for each automated parameter.

Position the mouse pointer over the lower left corner of the track and click the arrow

icon (Show/Hide Automation) that appears.

Right-click the track in the track list and select Show/Hide Automation from the context

menu.

To open another automation track, position the mouse pointer over the lower left corner

of an automation track, and click + (Append Automation Track).

To show all used automation tracks in the track list, right-click any track and select

Show All Used Automation from the context menu.

To remove automation tracks, you can also select Project > Automation Panel > Functions

and select one of the options to delete automation (Cubase Pro only).

On the next video, you'll be learning all about VST Instruments inside Cubase.

See you there.

For more infomation >> How to use automation in Cubase 9 for Beginners - Duration: 3:40.

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50 Greek names for baby boy - the best baby names - www.namesoftheworld.net - Duration: 2:03.

50 greek names for baby boys

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ISIDORO

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KOSMOS

KRISTO

KYRIL

LACEY

LEO

MAGUS

MATEO

MOE

NEO

NICHOLAS

ODELL

ODISEO

OTHELLO

OTIS

PANOS

PHEONIX

PHILIP

QUINN

STAVROS

TASSOS

THANASIS

THODORIS

TITÁN

ULISES

VASILIOS

VITALIS

YANIS

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For more infomation >> 50 Greek names for baby boy - the best baby names - www.namesoftheworld.net - Duration: 2:03.

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Dollar Loan Center Referral Program - Duration: 0:50.

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