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YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR FEEDBACK | MELROBBINSLIVE EP 9 - Duration: 4:41.- When he said this to me, I literally,
you know how you feel like you're shrinking.
I just wanna disappear right now.
And the reason why it was such a zinger is, he was right.
(funky music)
I gave a speech yesterday in Dallas.
After the speech, it was a big audience of people
in financial services, a guy dressed to the nines
in one of these super slick suits comes up to me.
He says hey Mel, really love the five second rule.
Do you mind if I give you some feedback?
(mimics tires screeching)
Feedback? Ugh.
Don't you hate getting feedback?
And then when people actually preface it
by saying can I give you some feedback,
I don't know about you, but literally my butt's like.
(makes screeching noise)
I just cannot stand it.
I immediately go on edge.
But here's the thing about feedback.
You have to (bleep) take it.
You have to take it. It is critical.
Critical, critical, critical.
So I wanna tell you number one, what the guy said to me,
my reaction, and then I wanna give you
my philosophy about feedback,
because what the guy said to me was so valuable,
and it was also really hard for me to hear.
Here I am after the speech,
we're surrounded by a big group of people,
he walks up to me and says, when it's his turn in the line,
can I give you some feedback.
I immediately tense up, and this is what he says.
Mel, I love the concept of the five second rule.
Super cool idea, can't wait to try it.
Okay, now comes the punch in the gut.
He said, you called it stupid so many times
during the speech, it was off-putting.
Doesn't that sound terrible, that word?
And he said I could tell that you were doing it on purpose.
He's right.
In fact, you called it stupid so many times,
and yet you had these insanely powerful examples
of how people are using it.
You came off as defensive.
When he said this to me, I literally,
you know how you feel like you're shrinking in life
or you're standing in your full size
and then all of a sudden somebody says something
and you're like I just wanna disappear right now.
And the reason why it was such a zinger is, he was right.
He was absolutely right.
You see, I do call the five second rule stupid
because I'm in front of so many analytical audiences.
I'm in front of skeptics all the time.
And so I use it as a preemptive way to disappear
the biggest pushback on the five second rule
which is, on it's face, it sounds so stupid and so simple,
there's no way it could be so powerful.
The problem is I've gotten lazy,
and I say it too much.
He's 100% right.
And by hearing that feedback,
I can make a really simple tweak to my speech.
I can call it stupid once or twice in the very beginning,
and then I can transition to calling it
something that's very simple and powerful.
Now that's gonna help me reach more people
with the five second rule.
And here's what I wanna say about feedback.
Feedback is intense to receive.
It really is, because you are exposing yourself
to critical opinions.
It will make you feel very vulnerable.
The way that I handle feedback and process it,
I'm very clear about the things
that I will receive feedback on,
and I'm very clear about the things
that I will not receive feedback on.
And the reason why is, if you don't listen
to any feedback at all guys, you're never gonna improve.
You're not gonna ever do anything new.
So no feedback means nothing new.
If you listen to everything that everybody says
in terms of feedback, if you allow everybody
to weigh in on everything, it's gonna become so paralyzing
that you will do nothing new.
So the key with feedback is knowing yourself
and knowing what you actually accept feedback on
and knowing what you don't accept feedback on.
So for me, for example, I will always take feedback
about how I present on stage,
because I am committed to constantly improving
as a public speaker, and I also am committed
to knowing new ways that I can reach more people
with how I explain the five second rule.
An area, on the other hand, that I am not open to feedback
is all of the feedback I get
about how much I (bleep) swear on social media, okay?
I'm not interested in that feedback 'cause I'm not changing,
'cause this is how I talk.
When I'm on a stage, I don't swear
because of the speaking platform.
But when I'm being myself and I'm sharing myself with you
on social media, I have zero interest
in your feedback about swearing.
And I can give you some feedback about swearing,
which is if you don't like it, you don't have to follow me.
It's that simple.
Anyway, I hope that distinction helps you.
Getting feedback in the moment
will make you feel vulnerable.
It might make you feel nauseous.
It can be very hard to hear.
But you have to be willing to listen to it
in the areas of your life where you're open for improvement.
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Morrison County Food Shelf Planning For a Fruitful Future - Duration: 2:30.HE'LL RELEASE A DETAILED BUDGET
PROPOSAL ON MARCH 15TH.
>>> THE MORRISON COUNTY FOOD
SHELF WILL SOON BE EXPANDING
THEIR OPERATION TO BETTER SERVE
THEIR COMMUNITY.
OUR SARAH WINKELMANN STOPPED BY
THE FOOD SHELF TODAY TO HEAR
ABOUT THEIR EFFORTS IN THE
REGION.
>> WE HAVE TO HAUL ALL THAT IN
AND WEIGH IT AND SORT IT AND
DISPLAY IT.
>> VOLUNTEER JOHN IS EXPLAINING
HOW EACH OF HIS SHIFTS START OUT
AT THE MORE RISON COUNTY FOOD
SHELF -- MORRISON COUNTY FOOD
SHELF WHERE HE VOLUNTEERS HIS
TIME FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS.
>> AS SOON AS I RETIRED FROM
TEACHING, I FELT GOD WANTED ME
TO HELP FOR PEOPLE WHO WERE NOT
HAVING ENOUGH, THEY WERE HUNGRY.
>> FOR OVER 30 YEARS THE FOOD
SHELF HAS BEEN MAKING SURE NO
ONE IN MORRISON COUNTY HAS TO GO
HUNGRY, WITH THE SHELVES FILLED
FROM INDIVIDUAL DONATIONS AS
WELL AS FROM STORES LIKE
WAL-MART AND OTHERS.
>> YET THEY DIDN'T SELL IT, THEY
GAVE IT TO US.
THAT'S PRETTY NICE FOR A BIGGER
FAMILY THAT HAVE A BIG MEAL OF
PORK CHOPS OR SOMETHING LIKE
THAT.
>> AND SOON EVEN MORE FOOD WILL
BE COMING IN AFTER A NEW
PARTNERSHIP WITH ALDI.
WITH THE ADDITIONAL PRODUCE
DONATIONS, THE FOOD SHELF HOPES
TO ADD LONGER HOURS TO PROVIDE
FOR ACCESS FOR COMMUNITY MEMBERS
IN NEED.
>> IT'S JUST A BLESSING TO BE
ABLE TO BE HERE TO HELP THEM.
>> IN 2017, THEY SERVED A TOTAL
OF 4,240 FAMILIES THROUGHOUT THE
YEAR.
NOW BASED ON THE FAMILY SIZE OF
THE CLIENTS, THEY ARE ABLE TO
TAKE A CERTAIN NUMBER OF
DIFFERENT FOOD ITEMS OFF OF THE
SHELVES.
WHERE LARGER FAMILIES ARE
PROVIDED WITH ADDITIONAL
GROCERIES.
>> MIGHT GET A CHOICE OR TWO OUT
OF HERE BECAUSE THAT WILL HELP
THEM OUT A LOT MORE.
>> AND ALREADY IN 2018, THE FOOD
SHELF HAS SERVED NEARLY 700
FAMILIES AND GIVEN AWAY OVER
58,000 POUNDS OF FOOD.
>> WONDERFUL SUPPORT THAT WE
HAVE RECEIVED AND THE KINDNESS
THAT EVERYONE.
I MEAN, EVEN IF IT'S 5 BUCKS, 5
BUCKS -- BUCKS GOES A LONG WAY.
>> WHETHER YOU DONATE FOOD,
MONEY, OR TIME THE MORRISON
COUNTY FOOD SHELF IS HAPPY WITH
THE SUPPORT OF THEIR COMMUNITY.
SARAH WINKELMANN, LAKELAND NEWS.
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BEMIDJI EAGLES CLUB.
>>> REPUBLICAN STEWART MILLS
SAYS HE WON'T RUN FOR CONGRESS
AGAIN, DESPITE REPRESENTATIVE
RICK NOLAN'S RETIREMENT.
MILLS SAID IN NOVEMBER HE
WOULDN'T CHALLENGE NOLAN, A
DEMOCRAT, FOR A THIRD TIME.
WHEN NOLAN RECENTLY ANNOUNCED
PLANS TO RETIRE, MILLS SAID HE
WAS RECONSIDERING.
BUT MILLS SAID IN A FACEBOOK
POSTING TUESDAY THAT HE
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Improve method for you that feel nervous in school recital,etc. 大宮 整体 人前で発表するのが苦手なあなたへ - Duration: 7:15.Hi my name is youhei ozaki. Thanks for look this video. This video talk about improve method for you that feel nervous in school recital,etc.
Maybe you become so nervous at doing something in front of many people.
Maybe you will feel so nervous in some place.
It is work place recreation or party,physical education,sports day,school recital,karaoke,etc.
I recommend method that decrease the nervous for you.
This is relate my experience. I was thinking that in the public is don't want to talk.
I could to decrease that thinking. However,it is not gone completely.
At especially I did not like school all recital.
I was so feel nervous always. I did not like to express self.
In work place also there was to as same thing at while little ago. Many of them is recreation.
Recently,I nervous feeling was decrease.
Maybe relate also to age. But,that is not only.
Improve method is to have confidence in myself.
Why you become nervous in front of many people.
Case of me is to do compare other person too much.
For example. People around can but I can't do it. Like this way of think.
People around be dignified but I am not be dignified.
I was looking for inferior more than people around. I was in a habit that.
If that apply you,it is value feel that you had until now.
Maybe there is factor of the environment that grew up and the influence of people around us.
Shy too much,angry,etc.there is same. There is to want to tell you.
There don't improve immediately. My recommend is to actively action. It don't passive.
I improved by increase the actively action. For example to hobby.
Watching movie,listening music,looking concert,reading books,watching sports,etc. There is not good.
Playing sports,recording video,write a blog,cooking,play a musical instrument,etc.
There is very good. There is actively action.
The actively action is do connect your confidence.
Thereby my nervous was decrease and I did not care also to doing something front of people.
My recommend is to watching sports not but to playing sports. Or to listening music not but to play a musical instrument.
I think that karaoke is also good. Please increase actively action.
So,this time is same. To watching youtube video not but to create youtube video. I think that there is many things.
But,please do not force yourself.
Please try it. Thanks for look this video. See you!
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BSU Men's Hockey Prepares For Michigan Tech In Quarterfinals - Duration: 1:18.FROM TOMORROW.
BACK TO THE ICE.
THE MCNAUGHTON CUP IS HANDED
OUT.
THE REGULAR SEASON'S OVER.
NOW IT'S TIME FOR THE WCHA MEN'S
HOCKEY PLAYOFFS.
AND FOR BSU THEY'RE THE FOUR
SEED HOSTING NUMBER FIVE
MICHIGAN TECH THIS WEEKEND IN
THE QUARTERFINALS.
THE TWO JUST MET EARLIER THIS
MONTH IN HOUGHTON WITH EACH
TEAM WINNING A GAME
CONVINCINGLY.
BUT THE STAKES ARE HIGHER.
THE SPEED IS FASTER, AND ALL THE
LITTLE THINGS ARE MAGNIFIED.
IT'S PLAYOFF HOCKEY THIS
WEEKEND.
GET EXCITED FOR A FUN SERIES AT
THE SANFORD CENTER.
>> IT'S REALLY NICE BEING HOME
AND WHENEVER YOU GET A CHANCE TO
PLAY AT HOME, THE FIRST ROUND OF
PLAY-OFFS, I FEEL LIKE IT IS
REALLY IMPORTANT.
AND WE'RE DEFINITELY EXCITED TO
PLAY MICHIGAN TECH.
>> BOTH TEAMS KIND OF GOT THE
TASTE OF WHAT IT TAKES TO BEAT
THE OTHER.
SO I THINK THAT FOR THE FAN
BASE, THAT WILL MAKE FOR AN
EXCITING SERIES.
IT IS GOING TO BE BACK AND
FORTH.
>> TAKE A LOOK AT THOSE TWO
GAMES, THEY WERE BOTH PRETTY
TIGHT BATTLES.
WE WON FRIDAY.
THEY WON SATURDAY.
BEING AT HOME HELPS US, BUT AT
THE END OF THE DAY, THEY ARE
GOING TO HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY
ABOUT THAT.
>> SO BEST OF THREE, ALL AT THE
SANFORD CENTER THIS
WEEKEND.
GAME ONE FRIDAY NIGHT.
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