you are unusually fearless and willing to go in the face of other people
telling you something that's crazy and I know a lot of pretty crazy people
you still stand out where does that come from or how do you think about making a
decision when everyone tells you this is a crazy idea where do you get the
internal strength to do that well first of all I'd say that I actually think
I feel feel fear quite strongly so it's not as though I just have the absence of
fear I've I feel it quite strongly but yeah there are times when if something
is important enough you believe in it enough that you do you do it in spite of
fear so speaking of important things like people shouldn't think I should
think well I feel fear about this and therefore I shouldn't do it it's normal
to be to feel fear like you'd have to definitely something mentally wrong with you
if you shouldn't feel fear so you just feel it and let the importance of it drive you
to do it anyway yeah you know actually there's something that can be helpful is
fatalism some degree if you just think it's just accept the probabilities then
that diminishes fear so when I started SpaceX I thought the odds
of success were less than 10% and I just accepted that actually probably I would
just lose lose everything but that maybe would make some progress if we could
just move the ball forward even if we died maybe some other company could pick
up the baton and move and keep moving it forward so that we're still do some good
yeah same with Tesla I thought odds of a car company succeeding were
extremely low it's enough enough enough like living by somebody else's rules is
a humongous mistake I just literally sat down with five people under the age of
27 and it's so refreshing it is so refreshing if you have not jumped on the
bandwagon of doing exactly what you want to do which is scheme for next three
years or working at a job that's not what your parents want or what society
wants this video is just called enough enough make this little in one two
minute video depends on when I finish the piece of content that gets you to
stand up and take life by its throat do something stop being scared stop letting
the way you were raised the fear as an offense take that away let me be the
person I'll take the blame I loved that some of my employees are like my parents
don't love what you're saying good parents because if you are playing
defense and if you are living a life where your kids lives are the way you're
being fulfilled you're a loser parents and so enough enough parents imposing their
way you want your kids to be happy on your terms enough the kid that's sitting
right now at a desk and saw this in a feed and you hate your job
enough! stand up get the f out of here and do you live your life you've got one
life do something about it you've said what makes you different makes you great
where does that advice come from that you when you talk to people well I mean
I think that the most obvious one really obviously is being a girl um so when I
was younger and like living in England and kind of early teen years I don't
think I I didn't care that I was a girl I just didn't want to make it real
obvious I mean I didn't want it to stand out you know I didn't wear nail polish
cuz when I talk about the racecar I didn't want guy them looking at my hands
and seeing pink fingernails you know I didn't you know wear pink and purple and
make it really flashy and obvious no hearts and bows and you know just kind
of wanted to blend in and having my seven-year-old daughter
am I really hearts and bows or didn't want to wear her she's now rejecting
them but she was all in them so well you know you go through these phases where
you feel comfortable and sometimes you don't and I didn't really feel
comfortable making it obvious and so so it really was I came back from England
when I was 19 and you know I I let myself kind of go there to be a girl a
little bit and it really came from a kind of racy photo shoot that I did that
it was more girly of me and it just all of a sudden it stuff started happening
and people were contacting me and sponsors and teams and it just but
nobody questioned what I could do you know it wasn't like people didn't
didn't think I could race or their opinion really changed on that maybe
they had opinion on what I did but it didn't change the opportunity to be able
to do what I wanted to do it just really was opening doors and it was allowing it
you know it was me being able to tap into something that was part of my
personality I mean I think we were not one-dimensional people we have all kinds
of different sides to us we're not you know I don't just race and I don't just
work on cars I you know I race and I like to cook and I like to travel and I
like to look pretty and I like to get dressed up and I like hair and makeup
and I like all those other things so it was kind of a way for me to it was an
extension of me and but it was celebrated so it just came to you as you
embraced who you are exactly so you know sometimes I really feel that whatever it
is it's the most different about you is probably the most important and the most
special and the most useful I think the one thing that discipline definitely
does help you with is it it helps you get things done
and when you get things done when you actually do things you have more
success if you have more success sometimes a big part of success is just
not being lazy and just doing it yeah just get that's like 90% of it is just
showing up get there and start working like you're not gonna feel perfect every
day if I felt if I only worked out when I felt good I'd be a fat f because
there's a lot of days I don't want to do it if it's pretty much the same with
everybody that if that actually gets good at something that you you get
there's got to be those days you push through and they're them they're
probably gonna be more numerous than the days you don't and so the benefit of
discipline in my eyes has always been that through discipline I get things
done I always say that I'm like the most lazy disciplined person I know
because I don't want to do it yeah but I always do I try and read 2 or 3 books a week and for me what I make
realized very early on and it's a little bit clearer for me because I work in
book publishing and I'm a writer but like I consider reading to be like part
of my job so like and that was actually somewhat weird when I was working full
time in America like I would want to sit there and like
read a book but you like can't do that at an office you know but so now I work
from home so I can sort of do I can arrange my day in a way that like
appearances matter a little bit less but I think you know reading but what I what
I say is like okay look chances are whatever problem you're going through
right now someone else went through before you and they probably wrote it
down and so like books are the way that we we access that knowledge and if
you're not availing yourself to it you're gonna learn a lot of things the
hard way when you don't necessarily need to so I consider like leading to be like
part of my job and part of what's accelerated what I've been able to
accomplish and I just so it's like when people are like oh how do you have time
how do you have so much time to read it's like well how do you have time to
sleep and how do you have time to eat and go to work like that's just what you
do it's not like this extra luxury that I squeeze in when I'm on vacation yeah
that was gonna be one of my questions head yes that yeah time to read so
there's no secret and like I don't read fast like I think a lot of people think
that people who read a lot must be like speed readers and so they focus on that
it's like no people read a lot just spend a lot of time reading because it's
important to them and that's sort of the distinction that I mean people do a lot
of talking and most people don't put in the effort there's nothing you can't
accomplish in life with the right amount of work the challenge is you know are
you willing to do the work and the reality is most people aren't but that's
the opportunity right is I mean it's like people you know at school
most people are lazy right they just they barely get through it and and so
that creates opportunity I tell my kids that a if they want something they're
gonna have to earn it yeah and B if they don't work hard
enough to earn it I'm gonna sell them off as medical experiments that's the
line in our house right I'm gonna sell you up good
you need money okay we'll set you off as a medical experiment we can get you
money that way give blood dad I'm seven I don't care so I'm gonna go hard no
matter what cuz I gotta feed my family yeah and I gotta feed myself and I'm not
and if you notice on my snap I'm trying to make it super clear when I get
something to eat it costs money to eat right but you got to pay the bill like
if it's a cheeseburger that's five dollars it's five dollars if it's a flaming yarn
it's 35 dollars you know God forbid you want a lobster and this is food guess
what and I try to tell the young world I don't know why they not telling them
yeah costs money to eat right right I guess what you got to do you gotta get
money see you know it makes me mad at people who try to discourage people from
getting money like it's a problem I didn't create the system like yeah if it
was free I would thank you you're saying and then so what I'm trying to say is we
have to hustle we have to get money like you know teach the young world
work hard strive hard it's okay I remember when I
was young they told me Khalid you only gonna get a Hyundai so I went and bought
a phantom no dude I'm saying like yours I'll try and tell you like that's what
I'm saying if you wanna wear dope sneaker what's wrong with wearing a dope sneaker
it would cost money okay right great work hard like what they don't
want us to wear dope sneakers they don't that's it and that's the that's the
major key they don't want us to so i'm then you know straight up they don't
want big boy to have the number one morning show in the country yes a black
guess what we got the number one show in the country
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