On a subconscious level, you are carrying more than you might think.
Many of you are carrying with you undealt with sadness and haertache, especially due
to people who turned out not to be trusted, who put a knife in your back, or who have deceited
in some way.
Without realising it, many of you are not less capable of opening up to love, to lovingly
coorporating with the other, and many of you are feeling that you have to do things all
by yourself, that you are standing alone with everything (emotionally).
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Your anxiety for what is to come, makes it very hard for you to get a clear vision on
what is to come your way, but is also making it very hard for you to go for opportunities
when they were to arise, and making it hard for you to just laugh and play and not be
so serious all the time.
In doubt, taken out of your power, on an island, you are unable to ask for help.
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Many amongst you choose to assert oneself in a defensive way, and to chase people away
from a fake sense of strength (read: harshness), even though you might not be aware of this.
One must always be on guard, ready to defend oneself (read: ready to attack).
One knows to little autenthic softness.
This also expresses itself in ones love life where one is too mistrusting, and you start
seeing underlying motives within the other that just aren't there.
One cannot trust the other, and this also relates to other areas of life.
Like the anxiety to make choices, and to really go for life.
This mistrusting nature is the consequence of something that one hasn't left behind,
that is still there subconsciously.
One is scared of the opinion of others, and by the saying 'where there is smoke, there
must be fire'.
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Our advice to you, is to no longer be looking back, and to start moving in forward motion
again.
Certain people are placed on a pedestal, and are ought to be seen for who they truly are:
people who are anxiously trying to dodge life.
Furthermore, it is a good idea to give some extra attention to your emotional outbursts
the upcoming week.
Go and analyze where this is all coming from, to truly leave it behind you.
Emotional outbursts, especially within relationships, are a sign that one ought to be more independent
on an emotional level, to walk ones own path in life, and that one ought to have a deep
cleaning within oneself, and not within the other.
Leave it behind you, this being harsh and defensive in your contact with the other.
Approach the other coming from a place of sincere curiosity for the other, and from
observing by value.
Leave this 'come on and give me your best shot' mentality behind you, and start feeling
what is truly going on inside of you, what is being brought to the surface.
Focus your attention to the internal rather than the external.
Don't go and give even more when you are treated badly, where you are being ignored, or you
are not receiving love from the other.
Go and observe instead of reacting.
Don't go comforting people who are angry and are not considering the impact this has on
those around them.
Don't be a shock absorber for the other, let them be grumpy.
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