in this video we're discussing why
cosplay is not consent and three ways
you can stay safe at Comic Cons it up
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going to be talking about the topic
cosplay is not consent and we're gonna
be sharing with you three ways that you
can stay safe attending your local Comic
Cons just a reminder at any time during
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that go along with this video so here we
are guys and we're talking about a topic
that is hot right now in our community
and it's kind of a controversial topic
but we both feel like it needs to be
addressed and that's the topic cosplay
is not consent
you probably bend to the conventions and
seen the signs everywhere people talk
about it maybe somebody's brought it up
and you're not quite sure what it is but
definitely want to protect yourself in
that situation
what exactly is the definition of
cosplay is not consent it's pretty easy
I mean the rules are you just don't run
up to somebody or some character and lay
hands on them you don't tackle them you
don't take pictures of people dressed in
costumes and compromising positions
there's been instances you know where
we've been at conventions and we're
trying to eat or we're trying to go to
the restroom or you know we're just
trying to catch a break and people just
without even asking they just come up
and they take pictures
around of us and mid drinking they're
still taking pictures and listen we all
love to have our picture taken I mean
that's what we thrive on as cosplayers
that is the ultimate compliment is when
somebody comes up to you and wants to
take your picture
but cosplay is not consent really is
about asking the other person for
permission before you do anything before
you invade their personal space
so how do you keep yourself safe at
conventions we have three tips for you
right now
first tip we have is don't go alone use
the buddy system absolutely I mean we
all go to conventions to hang out with
friends anyway and just like they taught
you in middle school in elementary
school use the buddy system it's always
safer in numbers just think of it this
way numbers deter predators so if you go
to a convention and you're going by
yourself consider going around world the
people art too don't don't go somewhere
where you're gonna be alone yeah exactly
so you know if you go to the convention
by yourself like you're dressed like an
Avenger find your tribe there's gonna be
tons of people there cosplaying in the
same fandom that you're cosplaying in
and I guarantee you that they're all
looking to make new friends tip number
two is gonna be spread awareness if you
see something going on and you see
someone acting the way that they
shouldn't be acting but you really can
figure out that it's not malicious they
just before maybe they've never been to
a comic-con before maybe they're super
excited feel free to reach out to that
person and educate them on comic-con
etiquette not everybody's good in social
situations some people are more awkward
with it some people just don't
understand but the best thing you can do
is just let them know don't pull them
into it don't mean about it or anything
like that if you feel like they might be
attacking you of course speak up but in
some situations they're just walking
around taking pictures and if they take
your picture and you're not comfortable
with it just let them know a lot of the
times they just don't understand that
that's not okay and it doesn't have to
be mean or malicious I mean we all
remember our first comic-con and when I
first attended comic-con I had no idea
either these were things that I needed
to be taught these were things that
people brought to my attention and over
the years we've been trying to bring
them to your attention as well
and the last thing is sometimes it gets
so bad you do need to report them just
let the authorities know or go to the
information desk absolutely I mean I
think we've all been in that situation
before I know that I've been to some
conventions before especially ones I
serve alcohol
sometimes things get unruly sometimes
you just really can't talk to somebody
it's kind of like the bullying and the
harassment thing you know I mean there
just comes a time when you've tried to
take other steps you've tried to be
really nice but you just have no choice
so you can always go to like the
customer service desk at a convention
you can always find a security guard
they usually have you know like the
yellow shirts sometimes black shirt
security yeah stuff like that so
definitely reach out to those people if
especially if you feel threatened
absolutely don't ever compromise your
safety or the safety of your friends if
you feel that the situation is out of
control
definitely alert the authorities well
hey guys thanks for checking out this
video we really appreciate it and we
hope that you found it valuable and you
learned three ways to keep yourself safe
during comic convention and remember at
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