Waching daily Nov 4 2017

there are a few people in this room that know what is like to be in a situation

where everything in your flesh is saying give up

and yet you're in a situation where sometimes you're standing not because

you are so strong you just don't have any other option you just you're just

backed in a corner you know and you you it's not that you didn't think about

quitting it's not that you didn't fantasize about quitting it's not that

you didn't dream about quitting it's not that you're so tenacious and so strong

but life has got you crushed in a corner and you simply cannot let go of anything

and you have to stand there in the middle of the storm and keep pumping

your head with the faith to persevere and just say just just hang in there

just don't give up just don't give up

some kind of way you're going to get through this great people are people who

don't cave in they're not people where everything goes right all hell can break

loose and there's still something down inside of them if it says I'll never give up

they'll never take me alive I'll be fighting I'll have a knife in my teeth

and a rag around my head and I'll be coming at you

so what do you do when you fall down get back up everybody knows to get back up

because if I start walking I'm not gonna get anyway but I'll tell you there are some

times in life where you fall down and you feel like you don't have the

strength to get back up you so sort of put a mask on your face when you come to

school and pretend that everything's okay when it's not and you go home and

lay in your bed where no one's looking at you when you don't have to impress

anybody and you're yourself and fear comes in you know the fear that

you have as soon as you walk into the doors of your house maybe there's a

broken home maybe you have doubt in your life maybe you don't know if for sure

what's going to be happening in the future and it scares you maybe about

maybe you're worried about what people think of you what people say about you

just that fear paralyzes you and I just want to ask you today do you think you

have hope because I tell you I'm down here face down and I have no arms no

legs it should be impossible for me to get back up I mean you go home and tied

the legs and arms of your brothers and sisters and like push them down and see

how long it's gonna take him to get back up you know what I mean you know you can

tell them that you'll see them tomorrow you know what I mean but this is the

thing it should be impossible for me to get back up but it's not you see I will

try 100 times to get up and if I fail 100 times if I fail and I give up do you

think that I'm ever gonna get up no but if I fail I try again and again and

again for as long as I try it is always that chance of getting up does that make

sense and it's not the end until you've given

up and just the fact that you're here should persuade you but you have another

chance to get back up there's still hope I'm not here today to tell you that I

understand your pain I don't know how it feels to be abused

I don't know how it feels to feel quote fat and you've got an eating disorder I

don't know how it feels to have a broken home I don't know how it feels but I

know how it feels to have a broken heart and I know how it feels to be alone and I want you to

know that I found my strength in Jesus Christ and you're gonna find your

strength in whatever you find it in but I just want you to know that it's not

the end it matters how you're gonna finish are you going to finish strong

and you will find that strength to get back up like this

see the hustle man somebody sent me a wonderful sign one day it was like a

sign that goes in front of a house that's for sale it says the dream is

free the hustle is sold separately and that's so true man you never see you can

never give up you don't ever know where God is just waiting on you to pass the

test but but you have to stay with something and go through the test to get

to the end see so you can;t get if you quit there's no way you'll ever know you

have to keep putting one foot in front of the other

even if you don't know what it wait it's not your job to know the way it's just a

job to believe that's what people and that's up as people you try to figure it

out show me the scripture that tells you to figure it out where's that scripture

there's no scripture tells you to figure it out it tells you to ask and believe

that what you got to do ask God for something then believe it and now if

you gotta be willing to hustle because the

hustle is sold separately now is the dream for you dream all day long

but the hustle sold separately it's hard changing your life it was hard when just

over three years ago in the Penobscot building in Detroit Michigan where I was

operating my business and I fell on some hard times and I was sleeping in my

office it was hard coming into the lobby and

the security said excuse me Mr Brown can we see you for a moment

and I said yes and I walked up to the counter and he gave me an envelope and

he said would you mind reading it here and I opened the envelope and the

envelope was from management that says this is an office tower it's not a hotel

please do not sleep in your office and I said excuse me sir I said I just work

long hours in creating my business I'm an entrepreneur and right now things are

bad for me but they're not going to be this way always and I just asked for the

opportunity to continue to operate like I'm doing I'm not trying to make this my

home and it was hard coming through the lobby and sometimes they would laugh

there's a guy talking about becoming successful and look at him he's bathing

in the bathroom upstairs on the 21st floor he sleeps on the floor him and two

other dreamers up there look at him it was hard ladies and gentlemen coming

to speak to people and I was facing financial difficulties in my own life I

was behind on my bills and my dreams and I'm saying to them you can live your

dream it was hard ladies and gentlemen it was very difficult to pick myself up

each day believing that I can do it there were times that I doubted myself

and say God why why is this happening to me I'm just trying to take care of my

children and my mother I'm not trying to steal a Rob from anybody how did this

have to happen to me it was very hot and here's what I want

to say to you for those of you that have experienced some hardships don't give up

on your dream no one could have convinced me by holding on by continuing

to push forward by continuing to run toward my dream that one day I would

have my own talk show it's a long shot ladies and gentlemen from Liberty City

an abandoned building auto flaw never annoying my mother or father it's a long

shot being here with you today in this dome

in Atlanta it's a long shot no college training labeled educable

mentally retarded but I kept running toward my dream

don't stop

don't stop

don't stop running toward your dream

the best way to maintain a habit is not to expect yourself to follow it at all

times number two is to simultaneously

recognizing that adherence to habits herbs and flows the problem the mistake

that people make is they say all right I had this diet I just digressed therefore

I should just throw it all out and I'm going to eat cookies for the next six

months because I had one cookie and I think that is is flawed on a lot of

levels there are tools you can use like lift which I'm involved with which was

incubated by the Twitter guys at obvious but ultimately the the last point I'll

make is one new habit at a time the best way to avoid abandoning new habits is to

only adopt one at a time and one of the issues with cooking this will be my last

point so when people say I want to learn how to cook they're typically trying to

adopt five or so new habits at the time grocery shopping prep cooking cleaning

of course you're gonna fail so just picking picking one at a time try to

make the new habits earlier in the day hey it's a lot easier to take a habit

that you've already created and that's already running and kind of move it a

little bit later than the day than it is to create a new habit later in the day

so off for example if you want to focus your time and uninterrupted blocks start

by focusing the first hour of your day in an uninterrupted focused block every

single day where you're working on something important make it a habit

make it a ritual

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Is Your Job Keeping Your From Activating Your Genius? | Quantum Consult #15 - Duration: 11:32.

My intention with these talks basically is to like so if there's anything from holding

you back from realizing your fullest potential like to illuminate what that might be.

Certainly my job would be one of them.

Okay cool. So my question to you is so how do you anticipate to activate your genius

if you're, if you're like prostituting your gifts or your time.

I have this idea I can do it all.

Well, so why - that job doesn't seem to be your highest calling to you from what I've

heard from you.

No.

And it seems like the more you practice putting off what you want to do and using that job

as a security that the better you're going to get at that.

Like there's so many I'm imagining that you've talked to so many parents and ike

your parents potentially my parents his parents - it's like this is the way that it is - like

they have this mentality that "this is the way it is." But I don't think they were

born that way. Like this there this - I have all these bills and I have to pay this job

- this is what their job allows them to pay these bills and they're kind of in this

rat race. But I don't think that happened automatically. I think they spent years of

practicing that without knowing they were practicing that. That's kind of in a way

how I see you and I think the sooner you get out of that the faster your the fuller version

of your heroes journey will be revealed. But in the meantime it's like it seems like

you're taking a break, a break from that path. and I'm not, I think like your jobs

awesome its one of the greatest jobs but it's still working for someone else. And I don't

know how you can find out what you really want to do if you're spending a minute working

for someone else - or I don't know a minute is an exaggeration but if you're spending

hours like how much hours a week do you think you spend?

Thirty to fifty depending -

So basically a full time job - so how can you how can you - you have a a full time job

not that doesn't really that's not based on what you fully want to do.

Correct.

Okay, so that - that is a - thats a big topic then. No only for you but for a lot of people.

And for a lot of people who think have practiced it a lot longer than you have practiced it

just gets realer and realer. So my question is why are you still working that job and

when are you going to stop doing that unless it's really what you want to do?

Yeah it's it's not what I want to do - and I trick myself into thinking it's not even

tricking its that the lifestyle that it affords me and its lifestyle that I enjoy and allows

me to live a certain way and yeah I identify a lot with it, I'm able to help people through

that and which I imagine it gives me a sense of significance.

Yeah yeah I want to be clear - I think you're one of the greatest employees that that company

or any company can ever wish for. And I don't mean that necessarily as a compliment because

when I say employee I think of someone who is under a ploy for the benefit of someone

else

under a ploy -I've never heard that.

- like you're in a ploy. And and I can see how your employers probably want you to feel

like you're doing something good - you're helping people it's aligned - like it's

very aligned and close to what you fully want. but yeah I think the real leaders - the people

that are making the biggest impact for instance like the people who started the company that

you're working the person that's the face of the brand or our friend JP sears or even

Elliott Hulse - these guys that you're really inspired by - myself. I think we all came

to terms with quitting being an employee.

Yeah

And for JP - for JP being one of our really good mutual friends I I've known him and

right right around the time he stopped being an employee and really it's just like I

don't think it was very easy for him or secure or comforting in the beginning but

it's just like oh yeah this is the treasure that's unlocked for him stopping fullfilling

someone else's dream.

Yeah I think that I have this idea that I want to transition the security even if it's

just a little bit - I just want to hold on a little bit. And start and I feel like i

have started on that path of starting away from it where I can continue if I want to

but I don't have to in a sense. And I'm realizing more and more that that's an illusion

that I'll never really …

And how much time do you want to realize that - that's where I think life has a really

mysterious way of unfolding - if someone isn't proactive with what they want I wonder if

life gives it to them in a more contrasting way. And I'm not at all putting any kind

of spell on you but I'm just noticing patterns. Like when someone doesn't break the pattern

of like of the culture sometimes the culture might kind of start to feel like it's breaking

them. And I I understand that like security is very important and I think security for

her is is the most important thing right now - like us providing security for her but for

her to figure out who she really is but I one day she's probably going to let go of

that security and if she doesnt im not sure if she will ever know what life is like without

being depended on security from other people.

I have a joy in doing things with people but I also think it's a crutch um that it's

like oh if we're in this together then it's not my burden to bear - or its like that I

have someone in the fight with me. Which can be a good thing certainly but I think that

I'm allowing it to hinder me in a lot of ways.

Yeah this is such a big thing for so many people - so I'm happy that we're having

this conversation. And um I've probably painted a picture in different metaphors - it

seems like you're wanting to swim with arm floats on and you're like can I leave an

arm float on, or can i leave an ankle float on, or can I just leave like a foot float

on? Well if the treasure is under the sea or like through your emotional experience of

cutting the cutting the umbilical cord of sorts then I don't know if you will ever

get that treasure, even with one float on. So the question is like how to go all in and

I guess I'm wondering what use - is the security financial security what like -

Definitely.

So if someone is watching this and they're ready and like I'm gonna gift that guy I'm

gonna gift that guy a million dollars this year to stop doing

anything out of his genius because I want to see his genius fully activated. Can you

start living like that before that gift is given because then I think that gift will

come. And I don't know if that gift will ever come until you can start living that

way first - and that's what I'm wondering how can - what perspective can i share what's

it gonna take for you start living that way that you are taken care of and that the most

important thing for you to do is realize and actualize your genius your gift, like what's

actually aligned with you regardless of any financial worries. Um because I think even

people that have a lot of money their financial worries sometimes just increase what is it

gonna take for you to do that - do you know is there any idea is there any inkling or

suspicion of what it is?

Yeah I mean it's it's a leap of faith, I can try and sugar coat it like if this then

that but this than that doesn't serve me typically - um yeah i think that i just have

this story that if I'm not the one that holds on to this for all of us then we're

all gonna be but not only me but everybody in our home …

Will be in a place where they can finally swim free..

Yeah I see what you did there.

Yeah Im not - this is an extreme - it's a leap of a faith and its a rust and surrendering

and the heroes journey and dying to your old identity like leaving your parents or leaving

home. It's one thing to leave your parents or where you lived and like where you grew

up but it's another thing to leave like anything that's weighing you down from flying

as free as possible. And yeah I want to see you realize that ASAP. I would say, I would

say quit your job now - and the timer. Anything to say about that with another 30 seconds

here.

I'm curious to how I'm going to feel after Elliot. For me this has been something - I've

been looking at all of us but myself in particular like as a pivotal turning point but maybe

it won't be maybe it's a glamorization of all of this. Um

Yeah its um keeping on the umbilical chord - even saying "oh, after this week then I'll be ready."

Why not just quit before you go? And then be really free for that experience in a new

way - ya know a new metaphorical way, a new energetic way that "wow I'm going into this event

with no back up." W wonder what would happen for you. That's when um, man when I when

I decided to stop accepting money for things that weren't aligned with my highest self,

that's when miraculous things have started happening that make no sense. They're not even

practical, they're not even logical I can't even advise them but like the point where

I was I'm like I don't know what we're doing - like rents due tomorrow and I'm

not really taking money for these and like I could charge people for these, I don't

feel like charging people for these. That's when someone showed up and was like I want

to gift this to you to stay in your genius - I didn't ask that person to they just showed

up basically magically. So I want to see your version of that - and I'm not sure if I'll

ever see that version if you keep putting off surrendering. And there we go.

Thank you.

Yeah yeah maybe this'll be the one, maybe something will happen maybe it will never

happen maybe you just feeling that tension is your heroes journey for whatever reason

- but I doubt it.

I doubt it too.