Waching daily May 9 2017

8 Negative Emotions Happy People Avoid

�All emotions are pure which gather you and life you up; that emotion is impure which

seizes only one side of your being and so distorts you.� � Rainer Maria Rilke

People who are genuinely happy most of the time are a conundrum to those who are not.

Taken a step further, people with a positive disposition can be annoying to those who do

not possess such a disposition.

The human brain is an enigmatic entity, one that even the brilliant minds struggle to

understand.

We still can�t explain the origin of thoughts, regardless if we know what produces them.

Put another way: we know that the brain makes us aware of thoughts, but not a single person

knows exactly where these thoughts come from.

One thing that scientists (and most others) do understand is that the brain is a creature

of habit � it has a way of repeating itself.

This is a benefit when those thoughts are positive and a hindrance when thoughts are

negative.

The good news is that we can learn to be happier people if we make a conscious effort.

The key words here are conscious effort.

Not a single person can expect to alter their disposition, personality, outlook, etc., without

first having a plan.

One important component of such a plan is to know what not to do.

Emotions play a key role in this respect � happy and unhappy people both have emotions, they

are just of a different variety.

Here Are 8 Negative Emotions That Happy People Avoid:

1.

Impulsiveness

Happy people recognize that being impulsive can bring about an array of troubles.

When one is impulsive they are more likely to overspend, overeat, lash out, become angry,

and generally make bad decisions.

On the other hand, when one is thoughtful, it becomes much easier to avoid harmful actions.

Of all the negative consequences being impulsive brings about, the most injurious effect is

the damage it beings to relationships.

Happy people recognize that a particularly harmful word or deed can hurt someone, sometimes

irreparably.

2.

Envy

It�s very difficult, if not impossible, to be content with current circumstances when

wishing for someone else�s.

Genuinely happy people are appreciative and grateful for what they have, rather than what

they could have.

At its core, envy is a manifestation of unhappiness.

Oppositely, being grateful and appreciative is an indicator of happiness.

We�d all be better served if we chose the latter�just ask happy people.

3.

Jealousy

Some people think that envy and jealousy are the same�they are not.

Envy, as counterproductive of an emotion as it is, doesn�t usually correspond with betrayal

or outrage as jealousy does.

Simply put: enviousness occurs when we lack a desired attribute of someone else.

Jealously is reacting to the perceived threat of losing someone.

It goes without saying that happy people aren�t jealous often, if at all.

4.

Revengefulness

Revenge invokes harmful emotions and contributes absolutely nothing.

In the short-term, thoughts or feelings of harming someone else � physically, emotionally,

or in any other way � can bring about a sense of satisfaction.

Carrying out such, however, often leaves much to be desired.

After all, we can�t control what other people do, only how we choose to respond to what

people do.

Happy people don�t carry around this extra baggage.

5.

Superstition

To be clear, this is not a criticism of spirituality or religion.

Instead, the thought process here is that relying on something, anything to fulfill

us is often bears little fruit.

Happy people realize that each individual inhabits the potential to create their own

happiness.

Don�t allow superstition to dictate what is or is not possible.

Don�t give away your power.

6.

Fear

It�s human nature to be fearful once in a while.

To say �don�t fear anything� is, frankly, a stupid and irresponsible piece of advice.

The appropriate advice is to not let fear take control.

Some of the happiest people in the world have taken risks that would�ve scared the daylights

out of most of us.

Yet, their positive outlook on life enabled them to march right through that fear.

They refused to be denied what was rightfully theirs.

7.

Hostility

Hatred, hostility, spitefulness � call it whatever � are pointless emotions.

Not only are they pointless, they�re counterproductive.

What does having negative thoughts or feelings towards someone or something accomplish?

Stress, exhaustion, guilt, and often times, shame.

Think of all the expended energy!

Now think of what that energy could be used for.

This reason, among others, is why we won�t witness manifestations of hostility from most

happy people.

8.

Unacceptance

Happy people are generally very accepting and loving individuals.

Bitter, resentful people are generally the ones making the effort to exclude people.

If we can�t at the very least accept each person as an individual, what kind of hope

is there?

Here�s an interesting exercise: think of the happiest people in your life.

Got it?

Now, think about how they treat people.

Odds are, these folks are accepting and loving individuals towards most.

For more infomation >> 8 Negative Emotions Happy People Avoid - Duration: 7:20.

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Lego The Batman Movie 30523 The Joker Battle Training - Lego Speed Build Review - Duration: 1:43.

One of The LEGO Batman Movie polybags that will be coming out in conjunction with the movie is The Joker Battle Training (30523). The only current way to get it is at LEGOLAND and LEGOLAND Discovery Centers and on eBay. There's been no information on how the 49 piece polybag will be further distributed at this time.

Lego The Batman Movie 30523 The Joker Battle Training - Lego Speed Build Review

One of The LEGO Batman Movie polybags that will be coming out in conjunction with the movie is The Joker Battle Training (30523). The only current way to get it is at LEGOLAND and LEGOLAND Discovery Centers and on eBay. There's been no information on how the 49 piece polybag will be further distributed at this time.

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How does the Hanging Pillar of India work? Anti-gravity? Levitation? - Duration: 3:50.

Hey guys, I am at Lepakshi temple in India, and I am gonna show you not just the mystery

of the hanging pillar, but also show you exactly how it works.

In this temple, you can see many people doing the same thing: Put a piece of cloth underneath

and slide it around the other side, proving that the pillar is disconnected from the floor.

This is considered one of the wonders of India, how did ancient people construct a huge pillar

that defies gravity and is hanging in mid air?

These kind of mysteries always interest me, so I decided to visit the temple.

Right from the start, I am fascinated by the carvings in this temple, like this cow for

example, which shows multiple postures in the same sculpture.

But that's another video, so I end up at this hanging pillar which attracts thousands of

tourists every day.

As you can see this is a huge block of granite around 20 feet tall, with brilliant carvings.

Now, I just have to prove it to you that this pillar is disconnected from the floor.

So, I ask this elderly couple who have come with a towel.

Watch how they slide the towel on one side, and it goes all the way on the other side.

This shows that ancient technology employed anti-gravity and levitation, because there

is no way a 20 foot granite block which weighs many tons can hang in mid-air.

So, how does it actually work, and attract thousands of visitors every day?

It works, because nobody is showing you the rest of the footage.

We have dozens of videos of the this hanging pillar on YouTube, but nobody shows you what

happens next: Here is what happens.

You can slide a piece of cloth through one end, but you cannot pull it out on the other

end.

If the pillar is completely disconnected from the floor, we should be able to pull the cloth

on the other side.

However, the cloth I slide is gonna get stuck in one of the corners.

The pillar is not really hanging in mid air, because one of its corners is clearly resting

on the floor, which is how it still stands.

If you examine it closely, you can visually confirm this.

The pillar does not employ anti-gravity or levitation.

So, did the ancient people create an imperfect pillar?

Well it turns out that the British Government decided to do some repairs during pre-independence

era, and attempted to remove the pillar.

But they couldn't, because it was fixed so perfectly, they could only dislodge it.

They realized that removing this pillar is impossible, so they left it in this weird

position.

That is the true story behind this dislodged pillar.

However, there is a bigger mystery in this temple, that needs to be decoded.

Did Giants leave a footprint in this temple?

I am Praveen Mohan, Thanks a lot for watching, please subscribe to my channel, share this

video, and I will talk to you soon.

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Conspiracy Theories That Are Utterly Ridiculous - Duration: 4:05.

The truth is out there — except it's probably not nearly as complicated or terrifying as

some people would like to think.

Modern life is challenging enough without introducing insane conspiracy theories into

the daily grind.

But to the conspiracy theorist, everything we know is wrong, masked under multiple layers

of government interference and clever alien trickery.

Here are some insane conspiracy theories that people actually believe.

The Earth is flat

We've been pretty sure that the Earth is a big ol' ball for well over 2000 years.

But a very unusual and dedicated sect of amateur pseudoscientists insist that the Earth is

actually a disc.

According to Flat Earth theory, our planet is suspended in space and surrounded by an

enormous barrier of ice, so that the oceans and delicious fish don't just drain off of

the edges and into space.

For reasons unexplained by science, no one has ever ventured past this alleged icy wall

to see what's out there, because we can travel to the depths of space but apparently can't

make it past some ice.

While a Frisbee-shaped Earth seems a bit more comforting than our trembling ball of unstable

magma, we'll keep the big, blue sphere that we know and love.

The Earth is hollow

If you're sure that the Earth isn't flat, consider the idea that everything you think

you know is still wrong.

The planet you're living on is actually a hollow ball, and inside of it is lush jungles,

ancient tribes, dinosaurs, and probably aliens, depending on who you ask.

According to ancient writings, a whole lot of old sci-fi, and one person who claims to

be from there, all you need to do to get into this fantastic world is reach the giant hole

at either of the Earth's poles and drop on through.

Other theories suggest that we're actually living inside of the Earth already, and optical

illusions and holograms have convinced us that we're on the surface.

Either way, Hollow Earth Theory defenders are adamant that there's another world inside

our world—they just can't seem to find what's literally under their noses.

Lunar landings are a lie

It's an awesome human accomplishment that mankind has made it to the moon and back.

But some conspiracy theorists believe that the whole thing was faked with an elaborate

TV studio setup and a whole mess of tampered evidence.

The theory was first described in a self-published book by a technical writer who worked with

rocket engines, which suggested that a trip to the moon was just too hard, and that faking

the trip was easier.

Of course, the Flat Earth Society took up the cause, positing that Walt Disney and Stanley

Kubrick participated in forging the "fake" moon landing film here on terra firma.

Coercing the 400,000 or so people involved with the Apollo project into silence is another

story altogether.

Saddam's Stargate

What if the Iraq War wasn't motivated by oil or to eliminate a potential nuclear threat

— but rather because the US government wanted to access an ancient Sumerian stargate?

While the United States has Area 51 to keep all of its alien stuff…

"Now what's your mission?

Are you planning to make some kind of alien/human hybrid?"

"Are you coming on to me?"

...Iraq has its national museum.

During the Iraq War, there was supposedly an inter-dimensional portal that Saddam Hussein

was trying to activate...in order to rule the world...with military forces provided

by ancient alien gods.

Yeah.

It should be pointed out that most of the unusual theories about Saddam's stargate shenanigans

surfaced a little after the Kurt Russell film of the same name.

"It's the Fargate.

F!

It's different from that movie which I have never seen, so how would I copy it?"

"Chill, man!"

Fortunately for mankind, no cool Egyptian gods have come through to say howdy or hit

us with any dumb riddles.

Lizard people

Forget about sleeping at night, because the whole world is run by shape-shifting lizard

people who just happen to be really, really good at politics and acting.

Called "Reptilians," these creatures are in cahoots with extraterrestrial aliens to subjugate

the citizens of Earth to whatever their endgame is, which is presumably to just eat and probe

everyone to death.

Ultimately, Reptilians are the source of every other conspiracy cover-up, since they're capable

of flawlessly manipulating all media to their needs.

And if nothing else, they're a very convenient excuse for everything that's wrong with your

pitiful human life.

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Can a person truly be happy without meditation? - Duration: 1:53.

The next question is, can a person be

truly happy without meditation? If you're

looking for the emotion of happiness

then probably you can do without

meditation. There are much easier ways to

give you happiness but this kind of

happiness is an emotion and there is

always a counter part of it, sadness that

comes along. You cannot have a constant

sense of happiness all throughout your

lif, all throughout your time. You will

see that happiness comes along with

sadness, it's coupled with it's counter

emotion and same is with every other

emotion that it comes in a package

of opposites but if you're looking for

something that is beyond

happiness sadness and these emotions, if

you're looking for a state that goes

beyond happiness and sadness and all

these temporary emotions, that's where

meditation can take you for sure and

once you are in that state of who you

really are, you would probably not even

ask this question because you will not

be concerned about happiness and

sadness and all these temporary feelings

and emotions that you can experience as

a human consciousness.

For more infomation >> Can a person truly be happy without meditation? - Duration: 1:53.

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Re Distribution Project Process Continues NEW Earth's Economy Stimulation for Crystalline Gridkeeper - Duration: 16:46.

Re-Distribution Project Process Continues NEW Earth�s Economy Stimulation for Crystalline

Gridkeepers Gatekeepers as Foundation Holders and Those Fulfilling Supporting Roles

by Edward Morgan

Yes, there is an economic gridwork/system for all on NEW Earth. It�s been a project

�in the works� for many linear years now. It�s been a re-distributing of the funds

and resources from old earth to NEW, just like the animals and Soul�s in Earthly forms

walking, living, existing here too. Yes, this is a very real physical plane of existence�.

We�ve been observing (and experiencing) over many linear years as the structures and

systems of the old collapse/deconstruct/fall, the simultaneous �replacement� of a whole

new system (this is called materialization on a higher dimensional plane of existence/timeline

as each exists the �false matrix system� that was built on hidden agendas and separation

(human-self-first) consciousness�

The old ley lines/gridwork of the old earth gone, the physical realities created/held

together by unconscious programs continue to dissolve at an increasingly rapid rate

for all still choosing to live in those realities (the physical body must be cleared/cleansed

of the actual programming that created this by merging one�s own energetic field of

higher light consciousness (Soul/Higher Selves/Universes/Galaxies) into their physical earthly body form fully)

in order to vibrate up/out/onto/across multiple/infinite dimensional planes of existences, while maintaining

a physical body and continually anchoring lighter density realities and shaping them

into physical form�..

For all ascended beings, holding this vibration all of the time, realities are very different

than they were in the days (vibrations) of the old�.

Realities are dreamy, lucid and constantly shift about� Union within also means Union

with �out�. As your higher selves descend and take residence up inside of your body

with your human you, your separation will be made visible for you to see it and dissolve

it, integrate it, unify it and return all to love from within again. This merging process

changes your DNA and genetics too. This process occurs over your entire human lifetime here.

Not just one day or a week or a year. It�s always been happening. It�s only awareness

and realization that are new.

As with all things on each dimensional plane of existence, there are jobs, families, animals,

homes and all new systems already online. Each of you are responsible for achieving

the vibrational frequency with your whole BEing and Body (Head/Heart/Every Cell) in

order to become an INTEGRAL PART of NEW EARTHS structures, societies, civilizations, cities

and network here. You are the ones that contribute to your highest existences here. You are the

ones that make it happen, with all that are and DO.

You have been provided with the Ancient Key Codes, Knowledge (Technology), Tools, Resources,

Opportunities and everything you need to accomplish the EVOLUTION of your NEW Earth, by attaining

the ability to vibrate out of the old dimensions and into entirely new ones. You each old the

knowledge, the abilities, the answers�. what you must cultivate is your ability to

step-up to the plate, to actually have it matter to you, to actually get over your own

human�ness/separation that keeps you from �arriving�/vibrating at a frequency to

continually experience NEW EARTH as your all-new-existence here.

Your Contribution, Your Energy, Your willingness to actually DO, your everything determines

the dimensional experience that you have and the timelines that play out for you.

You do not get to remain separate and think about yourself first. In order to be a part

of this NEW ECONOMY, where realities no longer collapse, in order to be a part of living

your highest dreams and desires, you have to be fully invested, with everything that

you are and have. Anything less, keeps you bound to an old dimension/experience until

you are ready to leave your old ways behind�. and move on to something else�.

For many years, the Forerunners/Physical Guardians, Gridkeepers & Gatekeepers have worked to activate

this Gridwork and open these StarGates for all, to implement the necessary parameters

and hold highest timelines/dimensional realities in place for all. This recent up-shift has

had a huge impact on the transition for collectives leaving old earth and arriving here on NEW

Earth too. Now, each will have to learn/remember how to live in �this new�.

Many of you are now becoming aware of the impact this has on your own lives. Each choosing

a different path of �how� to come online, each having different skills, resources�.

part of everyone�s process is learning/understanding how the physical realm works in conjunction

with your consciousness here. Many now move into the �System Support Roles� and your

current �job� is to support the NEW systems fully and shift your focus off of old earth

completely, come together, unite, share the knowledge, share your resources, your connections

and step-up/offer your support in a way that contributes to the whole now.

You receive SUPPORT as you become the Supporter, you receive all that you �need� in response

to how invested you are. What you invest you, your money, your time, your energy, your resources�

this MATTERS more than you realize (for awhile)�.

Your willingness to step-up, to BE a part of this NOW�. this is what brings you into

the fold of what is already stable, what is already formed, what already works through

a Unified Existence now�..

Your answers are in the things that create the most discomfort for your little human,

they are in the things that challenge you to be bigger than your little you, to open

up more than you thought you could and to contribute in ways that you would not normally

consider�..

The Gatekeepers and Gridkeepers (You are included in this too), these are the ones that will

never lack for anything ever again. These are the ones that benefit, receive, are gifted

and live in magic and bliss, these are the ones who have dedicated their whole existence

to all of us (in this dimension and all others simultaneously too).

To come online with NEW Earth, your whole physical body and physical reality must be

re-worked. It�s a huge undertaking and transformation process that affects everything�.. These

re-workings are occurring at an exponential rate now, that continually increases (no it�s

not going to let up, it just changes �how� you are experiencing as you go). Having the

KNOWLEDGE of what is truly going on will make it easier for all. This KNOWLEDGE is a KeyCode

within itself.

Gatekeepers and Gridkeepers hold the Advanced Knowledge that guides, provides, assists�.

this information can ease transitions�. without it, these process can be harsher/rougher/tougher

than they actually need to be. This information and TE-KNOWLEDGE must be distributed via mass

proportions for global impact to be accomplished with greater ease�. many of you have the

ability to make this happen and for those who step up to unite for all of HUmanity here,

reaching all collectives (old earth and new) will create that bridge between �both worlds�

for mass collectives to transition easier & �faster� than ever before�.

Re-educating according to highest consciousness of �how� NEW EARTH Realities work, ease

the struggle, eliminate suffering and drop the resistance when those who hold the positions

to reach masses come forth to realize that their own arrival on NEW Earth hinges on their

own participation in what�s available to all stepping up (answering the Clarion Call)

for fulfilling those Soul Roles that are important for all here.

For each of you, truly look at your own gifts, truly look at your current resources, truly

see how your ENERGY and Contributions can make a difference and then TRULY CARE ENOUGH

to get in there and make it happen, drop your own separation that you hold, come together��

�your arrival� on NEW Earth actually depends on it.

Now, back to NEW EARTH�S ECONOMY and Re-Distribution Project. This will continue to occur as your/Gaia�s

gridwork is continually re-tuned�.. This is a challenging process, for your bodies

are offline a lot when the encodements for these new Systems are being �loaded� embedded

in the Crystalline Structure for all existing on/holding NEW Earth frequencies�.

For years, may of you have been a part of �receiving� the infinite wealth, abundance

and gifts that is �made available� in response to your own contributions and dedication

here. This will continue to increase a gazillion-fold as you continue honoring your own Soul�s

Paths, fulfilling your own Soul�s Purposes and Galactic Missions here. Ease and simplicity

is a part of this. The most challenging for each multi-dimensional is when the body is

�taken offline� for these huge upgrading processes�. be patient and honor, for when

each process is complete (like today), everything aligns and comes back online at a much higher

frequency and all new timelines �arrive� for you to experience with more bliss, magic,

joy, happy, abundance again.

Yes, the heavy integration and crystalline upgrade times can be daunting and challenging,

especially when it takes all of your energy just to BE. This is a huge process that requires

all of your attention, so yes, you often have to let everything else go�. it will be okay,

let it all go and honor what you feel/know inside (as always) above all.

The deeper we go, the more your body must re-code, re-calibrate, re-everything�..

Slow all down, simplify, cut everything out that does not contribute to what you �need�

and isn�t supporting your current processes�.. this is all up to you to determine�. reversing

every mindset of how everything is supposed to be is a huge process for each�..

Humans are never going to understand this�. you must honor and come from integrity to

YOUR PROCESS at all times. Until one opens their heart/mind (Soul) fully, there will

be resistance, walls, fears, struggle, suffering, fight�. you will have to choose how much

you are letting it �COST YOU� (yes, this all plays into your own abundance here)��

for what you allow ENERGETICALLY directly affects your own physical reality now.

There will be times that you know you must �get through� the current situation and

that a new one will present for you. You must be open to this and grab it, go for it and

dissolve the doubt/excuses your little unconscious human makes for you�.

We are Super Quantum � Which means you are no longer bound by anything of the old. You

need not try to do anything linearly, as this will/can create struggle/suffering/hardship

for you. You must open up to bypassing the linear constraints of �before�. Linear

= grid-lines�. those are gone�.. other than in your own mind of how you see/connect

things�..

Non-linear means you hop, you jump, you skip, you collapse, you obliterate you don�t color

inside the lines anymore�. it means that you have the opportUNITY to do anything you

desire, however/whenever is in highest alignment, by not waiting for �time���

You occupy a space which allows you to energetically and holographically move however you desire.

Your heart must be open, your pineal gland activated (inner vision), your listening tuned

to a higher frequency too�.. You must be willing to side-step, go around and often

completely ignore the old rules�. they were your prison you believed and insisted were

true�.. now you must challenge your own beliefs and CREATE NEW ONES that look totally

new, totally different and push your little human beyond those old self-imposed limits

once held deep inside your own human body/mind��.

Physical REALities are as you CREATE them to be, as you allow them to be, as you transmit

them to be, as you believe them to be��

If you want to be a part of RECEIVING all that already exists, all that is fully abundance,

a wealth of infinite riches that blow your human�s mind here�. then you must be willing

to dedicate and commit you to a whole new existence and you must be willing to step-forth

and come together to BE a PART of our NEW��

These cosmic alignments and Gaia�s increasing POWER (Schumann Resonance) is to bring all

online NOW. All is to dissolve all of those veils of amnesia and return all to full consciousness

again. Your human will get fed up/done (a whole lot), as this is key here�.. Until

you are �tired of the old�, your resistance won�t go, your heart won�t open, so these

frequencies wear you down, weaken your systems (to rebuild new systems) while you are purging/clearing/cleansing

the strength of your old everything��

We are oscillating between a multitude of frequencies daily�. shifting from SOULar,

to Plasma, to Gamma (oh thank god!), to over-stimulation & over charging ions/neutrons/protons, to

evolving the cellular structure of your bodies so that your cells actually generate a new

form of energy which works completely different than the old. Your carbon-based to Plasma/Silicon

bodies take great care to complete each one of these processes that need to occur for

all�.. The recent atomic codes activated and the Advanced Genetics continue to re-code,

re-build, re-structure, re-distribute, re-calibrate, re-everything on a daily basis now.

You will have to re-structure how your life currently is�. you must align all yourself

or it will align for you to move you to a higher density plane of existence�. with

your human kicking and screaming or with your Soul awake and honoring, it�s totally all

your choice�.. Your dominant aspect determines all of your individual and collective experiences

here. You determine which aspect to give dominance to�..

Going forward, these upgrades will increasingly continue for all. The immensity is beyond

and will require that you shift your own mindsets to shift your own experiences with this. Where

you hold separation (are disconnected inside), struggle and suffering are the experience,

because of the perceptions one still holds. Where you are unified/connected/fully on-board,

it will often be challenging for your human body, yet the rest of you will experience

with greater ease and all will come easier to you because of this�..

Do your Soul Searching, do your observing, do your seeing and �test� responses based

upon what you put in, what you do�.. You will start to see how easy this can be�..

When you are truly ready to transition fully to NEW Earth too.

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Haircuts That Look Gorgeous On Older Women - Duration: 6:07.

Regardless of your age, a gorgeous, vibrant haircut is your right as a strong, sexy woman.

And don't think you have to kiss your long locks goodbye, or give in to those grays.

Expert stylists are weighing in on the most beautiful styles for their maturing clients.

"Express yourself / whatever you do / whatever you do..."

Change it up

Stylists agree that the key to a great cut is being brave enough to try something new.

One of the easiest ways to look older is by keeping the same haircut for decades.

As times and styles change, don't be afraid to update your look!

Hairstylist Jenna Mast has seen clients unknowingly age themselves by hanging onto the same style

for way too long.

She recommends talking with your stylist about how to update your look.

"I know what some of your big city, no-bra-wearin' hairy-legged women libbers might say."

Long bob

Top of the list?

A clean, classic bob.

It's simple, low maintenance, and always in style.

According to celebrity stylist Mitch Stone, anyone can rock a long bob, regardless of

your age.

He says,

"A cut like this adds instant style and sexy sophistication.

You can't go wrong."

Mast recommends a modern bob with long layers for her mature clients, saying,

"This will give you more movement and an updated look.

There is nothing more dating and high maintenance than a stacked bob that needs to be cut every

few weeks to keep its shape."

Shag, baby

Stone recommends bangs for any age, but especially for his more mature clients.

Bangs are always in style and can complement any face shape — but make sure your stylist

understands your face shape first.

Stone says,

"[Bangs] can make you look really young and sexy, or make your nose or forehead look twice

the size.

It's important to make sure you trust your hairstylist before going for it."

Stylist Ruth Roche often suggests her mature clients go for bangs that are long and wispy,

saying,

"Have them trimmed often rather than cutting them shorter so they last longer.

Fringes that are too short can look utilitarian and boring."

"Shall we shag now, or shall we shag later?"

A little longer

Think you've gotta go short as you age?

No way!

Jeff Stump, owner of Artkiteks salon explains,

"Many people feel that they need to have short hair as they get older.

This isn't always the case; it really depends on the texture of the hair and how [it] ages."

Short 'n sweet

If you're ready to get rid of some length, go for it!

Stone loves it when brave clients want to ditch the length, saying,

"If you want to go short, say, Audrey Hepburn, Halle Berry or Mia Farrow, I love that.

It is an instant style."

Damian Santiago, co-owner of Mizu New York salon, agrees.

He says,

"I have many mature clients that wear everything from cool pixies to razored bobs.

A mature client with a strong inner confidence can rock any cool and modern look."

"I got tired of my long hair.

Simple!"

Layer up

Judy McGuinness, senior stylist at Mizu New York salon, likes a light, layered look, explaining,

"In general, softer haircuts look good on older women.

Any length you like, but be sure to incorporate some soft face framing layers!"

Mast agrees that layers are always flattering, but recommends explaining exactly what you're

looking for with new layers.

She asks,

"Do you want layers to help with movement?

Do you want to see more texture?

Does having more layers help you with styling?

Hairdressers speak a more complicated language than 'a few layers' so it's easy to have miscommunication

if you're trying something new for the first time."

"Just be very, very, very careful, Mr. Stephanie.

Cuz as we all know, no one really cuts my hair except for Alejandro."

Amp up the volume

Our hair tends to thin as we age, so adding volume with layers is a great way to keep

a healthy, youthful look.

Roche recommends Pureology Fullfyl, a "3-step system that creates full-bodied hair, with

lived-in texture that actually looks and feels like more hair."

Talk with your stylist about the best product for your hair type and thickness.

"I know it sounds crazy, but it's gonna change your life."

Forget the frizz

Maintaining shiny, sleek locks keeps our styles looking youthful.

Roche recommends using a smoothing product to tame any frizz.

She uses Pureology Colour Fanatic 21 benefit spray, and says,

"Always blow dry with the nozzle moving from roots to ends to smooth down the cuticle and

increase shine.

Youthful hair is shiny!"

Nail your color

Even more important than the cut is a youthful color.

Roche recommends changing up the color as your hair changes with age.

She says,

"Color is key; keep it dimensional with subtle highlights.

Solid colors, especially dark, can lack dimension and vitality and tend not to complement skin

tone."

Stone agrees on staying away from the dark colors, saying, "Softer colors like golden

blondes and gorgeous reds are great.

The biggest mistake is going too dark!"

"My hair's blue.

It's blue.

I have blue hair."

No matter what color you choose, going a shade or two lighter instantly nails a younger look.

Celebrity colorist, Kelly Cardenas recommends framing your face with highlights to brighten

your skin tone.

He says,

"Tonal change is also important — you want to stay within 2-3 shades of your target overall

color as a higher contrast creates the opposite effect.

Lastly, the highlights need to be blended in almost an ombre effect opposed to large,

chunky pieces."

Sexy is timeless

When choosing the right haircut, focus on your type of hair — cuz you can rock a chic

and strong style at any age.

McGuinness says,

"If you've gotten older and your hair has thinned quite a bit, then going for something

shorter will help make it look much thicker.

I like a strong bob for finer hair!"

Roche agrees with the classic bob in a vibrant color, for any age, saying,

"Something understated and simple makes a statement without trying to 'look' younger."

"Don't matter if it's long, short / do it do it with your hair / your hair / your

hair" "I whip my hair back and forth / I whip

my hair back and forth"

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How to overcome trials - don't ask why, ask what. - Duration: 5:36.

If you've ever gone through a difficult

situation - a trial - in life, or if you're

going through one right now, chances are

that you've asked "Why?" Why me? Why now? Why

this? Let me tell you something.

Asking why is one of the most pointless

things you can do. Let's talk about it

Hey there, I'm Mario Escobedo. Thanks for

checking out "Equipped!" This is a channel

dedicated to adding value to your

spiritual growth. If you haven't had a

chance take a moment to subscribe to my

Youtube channel, that way you're always

up-to-date on the Bible studies that I

post. Difficult times trials. We've all

been there, you might be going through

something like that right now and like I

said in the intro, chances are that if

you've ever been through a difficult

situation - a trial - you have probably

asked why or some variation of the

question why. Why me? Why now? Why this? In

reality, asking why is one of the most

pointless things you can do when you're

going through a trial. Now there are two

reasons why I say that, and I'm basing

this talk on James chapter 1 verses 2 &

3, a very well-known passage especially

as it relates to trials. Now here's the

first reason I say asking why when

you're going through a trial is

pointless. If you ask why and God somehow

opened up the heavens and spoke to you

audibly and answered your why question,

meaning he told you why you're going

through this trial, I'm willing to bet

that you would not be satisfied with the

answer. In fact you would probably ask

why again. It's what we did when we were

kids. We would ask our parents a question

they would answer we would say why. They

would answer that question we would say

why. We were never satisfied with the

answer. And again I think that even as

adults if we were to ask God why and he

were to tell us why we wouldn't be

satisfied with the answer. We would

probably respond with another why. The

second reason why I say asking why is

pointless is well, the Bible has pretty

much already answered the why question.

And I'm pointing to James chapter 1

verses 2 & 3 for that answer. If you want

to know why you're going through a trial

well the answer is already given to us

in James chapter 1 verses 2 & 3. James

chapter 1 verse 2 pretty much guarantees

that we're going to go through

trials. Look at what it says. "Consider it

pure, joy my brothers and sisters,

whenever you face trials of many kinds."

Notice that James didn't say if you face

trials. He pretty much guaranteed when he

said whenever you go through trials

he's guaranteeing that we are going to

go through trials. Then he gives us the

reason we go through trials in verse 3. Look

at what it says. "Because you know that

the testing of your faith produces

perseverance." The way I see it James

gives us the answer to the why question

we have when we go through any trial.

Basically we go through trials in order

that perseverance would be produced in

us. What does that mean? Trials produce

growth. It's for spiritual growth and

maturity that we have to go through

trials. Now we may not like that but

essentially spiritual growth, maturity,

perseverance comes only through trials.

You can't buy perseverance, you can't

borrow spiritual maturity from someone

else, and you're certainly not going to

find growth just somewhere out there in

a corner somewhere. You have to go

through trials in order to attain that

perseverance, growth, and maturity. So let

me propose something to you. And what I'm

about to share with you is the big idea

of this teaching. It's really the one

thing I want you to take away from this

teaching. When you're going through a

trial, don't ask why ask what. What type

of growth is this trial intended to

produce in me? What am I supposed to

learn from this trial? What is God trying

to teach me through this trial?

Essentially which is the area of my life

that this trial is showing me needs

growth, maturity, and perseverance? So when

you're going through a trial don't ask

why ask what. When you're going through a

trial keep this in mind. God is on your

side. God doesn't allow trials to come to

your life because he wants to squash you

or see you defeated. Completely the

opposite. God allows us to go through

trials because he wants to produce

spiritual growth, perseverance, and

maturity in our spiritual walk. So if

you're going through a trial in life

right now, I know it's hard, but remember

this. At the other side of this trial is

growth, perseverance, and maturity that

God has in store for you. And when you're

going through this trial you're probably

going to be tempted to ask why but don't

do that. When you're going through a

trial don't ask why ask what. I hope this

teaching added value to your spiritual

growth. If you feel that it did I

certainly would appreciate you leaving a

like, a comment, and sharing this with

others. Remember to subscribe to my

Youtube channel so that you're always up

to date on the Bible studies that I post.

Now as a side note, I'm changing the

frequency of these postings. Up until now

I've been doing these once a week but

I'm changing the format to twice a month.

I'll be posting the second and fourth

Tuesday of every month. Now you got to

understand that I really love doing

these videos. It's one of my favorite

things to do. However it is a huge time

investment and so I made this decision

to change to the second and fourth

Tuesday of every month because I feel

that I need to be a better steward of

the time that I have. So be on the

lookout because I'll be posting a new

Bible study the second and fourth

Tuesday of every month. Thanks again for

tuning in. Have a great day. I'll see you

next time.