Hey guys thanks for tuning in today
we're going to be discussing some solo
traveler relationship advice myself I
actually have been traveling for over
three months now and it's kind of funny
because you know I left the country
partially to get over my ex relationship
of three years and I just ended up
falling in love with this girl on Coplan
yawn because you know when you're
traveling solo you're bounded me
interesting and beautiful people at the
time everything seemed perfect you know
the first month or so that we are dating
everything was you know incredible but
lo and behold she had ulterior motives
they say a lot of Thai girls always have
ulterior motives and I didn't want to
believe it you know I've heard a lot of
stories about you know guys getting
married to Thai women and then
everything gets put in their name
since foreigners can't own anything in
Thailand then they get divorced and the
woman takes everything that wasn't the
case in this situation but it ended up
being bad for me because you know I
believed her and I did fall in love and
it was incredible but you never know
what's going to happen you don't know
what's going on in the other person's
heart and these women meet people all
the time they're always coming and going
so their capacity for love and the
things that they're interested in might
not be in alignment with what you think
they are so I was definitely lied to and
deceived and I want you guys as a solo
traveler if you're planning on dating
anybody I just to protect yourself and
you know really just don't do what I did
and believe what what they say as hard
as it may be and as genuine as they may
sound it's a lot safer for you to
protect your heart to save yourself the
pain that I went through finding out
that I was being lied to
because once her ex-boyfriend in Russia
contacted her she basically realized
that she still cared about him and our
plans together didn't matter anymore I
didn't know that of course until she you
know made up a bunch of Lies and left
early and I ended up
to do some research because I knew
something wasn't right and I totally
busted her and it ended up being a
really really really bad situation
really difficult situation for me to
deal with so this video is just for any
solo travelers out there that are you
know considering dating anybody while
you're out obviously
I recommend meeting people it's been one
of the best highlights so far and I look
forward to meeting so many other people
however I am a little emotionally
damaged from that and scarred and I will
definitely be more reserved moving
forward I was a important learning
experience for me as I will be traveling
for nine more months through about 15
other countries so I guess it's better I
learn now than later or if I had not
learned and she kept us both on the
string until she moved to America when
which is one of the reasons why I look
forward to seeing hers because I knew
that she would be one state away from me
when I get back to the United States so
some dreams are too good to be true
and this particular circumstance was one
of them it was a hard life lesson for me
I mean I don't take it back because it
was amazing and I don't want to
discourage you guys from you know trying
to experience love and meeting people
but I just want you to protect yourself
because it can hurt a lot and you know
just to avoid it just have a good time
and really try and keep your distance if
you can and yeah just just travel
tomorrow travel safe and have a good
time all right guys that's it that's my
relationship tip for solo travelers just
protect your heart don't trust these
women while you're out here because they
don't want your money
they might have some ulterior motive
just like she did that you know is not
in your best interest and you're going
to end up you know suffering because of
it so if you if you don't then you can
have a good time
you can keep your distance and keep
traveling without having to deal with
the heartache all right thank security
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