We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National...
- Competition on Worries! / - Competition on Worries!
I'll introduce today's guests.
He's now a father. Please welcome Eli from U-Kiss.
Hello. It's nice to meet you.
Please welcome Hani and Hyelin from EXID.
You're amazing.
- Yes. / - Welcome.
This will be aired on Parents' Day.
In your life, have you done something bad
to your parents? Do you want to talk about anything
- to your parents? / - My mom is very strict.
How strict was she?
For example, when I was in seventh grade,
my friends were going to watch a movie
after the first midterm.
I wanted to join them,
so I asked my mom, "Can I go to the movie theater?"
And she said, "Don't you dare."
She's very strict.
She didn't say, "Where are you watching it?"
- "Don't you dare." / - "Don't you dare."
In eighth grade, I became a little rebellious.
I said to her, "What have you done for me?"
She said, "How dare you say such a thing?"
She hit me with a bowl that had bibimbap inside.
- You got hit with a spoon. / - She's fierce.
- Gosh. / - I got hit with a brass bowl.
Some parents are very strict like that.
But not many hit their children with a brass bowl.
- And she's a daughter. / - Right.
But I am thankful to her. The reason
why I didn't become more rebellious
was because of the brass bowl and her harsh messages.
- Did you do anything sorry? / - First of all,
I'm sorry that I got married secretly.
- Did your parents not know? / - No.
- What? / - What?
- I got married unexpectedly. / - Did you
get married without telling your parents?
That's the worst thing you can do to your parents.
Really?
- So my mom said / - How...
I could marry her after the contract ends
- if I still love her then. / - Right.
But I was sure I was going to still love her.
- Your parents must have felt so sad. / - They were.
Kneel and apologize to your parents.
- Apologize to them. / - I am so sorry.
(But his family is really happy now.)
Goodness.
EXID's new song has a very unique title.
- It's called "Night Rather Than Day". / - It's lovely.
- Can you show us? / - Show us.
(Please show us the new song.)
("Night Rather Than Day" by EXID)
(At night, at night)
(Hello on Monday night)
(It's a collaboration of Hello and EXID.)
(It's a perfect night.)
We have three stories again today.
- Please reveal the keywords. / - Yes.
"Dear My Queen".
- "The Silent Son". / - "Nothing's Wrong with My Face".
I have mixed feelings about this.
Let's see how you feel about it.
Hello. I am a man in his 30s, married for 10 years.
Many wives have come out on Hello Counselor
because of their patriarchal husband.
But in my case, I am not the king.
I serve a queen.
(His wife is like a queen.)
- It's the opposite situation. / - Complete opposite.
- When my wife says, "Water." / - What?
"Water." "Food."
- That's crazy. / - "I'm hungry. Give me food."
- That's a worry. / - "Do the dishes and the laundry."
"Why don't you clean the house?"
I am unbelievably busy every day doing chores
and serving my wife.
Does his wife have a building?
"Honey, what do you want to eat today?"
"I want Chinese food. 1 jjajangmyeon and 1 jjamppong."
"But I want to eat fried rice."
"Just order 1 jjajangmyeon and 1 jjamppong."
"I married you because you're not gluttonous."
That's crazy.
I always have to eat whatever my wife wants.
This happens too.
(That's unbelievable.)
"It's already past nine. Let's sleep. Lights off."
"I need to check something on my phone."
"Turn it off."
(Turn it off.)
- Don't let any light come out. / - Any.
I have to sleep whenever my wife goes to bed.
Why does she treat me like her servant?
I want to escape this now.
Please help me.
(He wants help to escape the servant life.)
He must have a lot to say. Let's meet him.
Please come on out.
(Who's the one who serves the queen?)
Hello.
(Kang Deokho)
(Welcome)
Do you really serve your wife like a queen?
Yes. I've been married to her for ten years.
You've been like that for ten years.
I do most of the chores.
(He's in charge of most of the chores.)
I do almost everything except for the laundry.
When she does the laundry, she washes dirty clothes
in the washer and takes them out. That's it.
So the washed clothes are just in one big pile.
- You have to hang it. / - You have to wash it again.
- That's the toughest. / - You hang them.
Hanging them and taking them down are the toughest.
(Is he really her servant?)
When she says, "Water," while lying down,
I get water and give it to her. That's fine.
But I have to wait until she finishes it
and take the empty cup to the sink.
Is she not well?
Does she own a building?
Yes. Recently...
Does she really own a building?
Well, yes.
She must really have a building.
- No. No. / - Does she really have one?
No. No. That's not it.
- Does your wife have a building? / - No.
The worry is resolved.
(He will be her servant for life.)
You have to listen to her then.
What if she really has a building?
That's not it. We worked hard
- Really? / - and bought a house.
- You bought a house. / - And it's under her name.
- It's registered under her name. / - It's hers.
- Goodness. / - Does your wife work
and do you stay home?
I used to work too in the past.
But she had a dream of selling
the clothes she designed.
She was interested in the clothing business.
She suddenly started the clothing business.
I was doing well at work.
But she told me to quit, so I quit.
And I'm working with her now.
You run the business together.
- Yes. We work together. / - She said,
"Quit your job and come to me." And you did that?
Yes.
(Of course I should.)
Why would you do that?
Do you really have to sleep when she wants to sleep?
But what does it mean?
Are you talking about...
Gosh.
What?
You could stay in the living room while she sleeps.
I want to sleep next to her.
I want to be next to her.
- You want that. / - Yes.
I want us to sleep in the same room.
I could go to the living room and get things done.
But I want to
- be with her. / - You must really love her.
Can't you watch TV when she's asleep?
She wakes up when I rustle even a bit.
- Does she scold you when she wakes up? / - Yes, a lot.
- When you rustle... / - You get scolded a lot.
I guess you rustle a lot.
(I don't like being scolded.)
Have you never ordered what you want to eat?
When ordering Chinese food, I've already decided
to get fried rice, and she decides to get jjajangmyeon.
If she's not sure between jjamppong, I must order that.
I'm fine with that.
She'd taste my dish and if it's better, I must switch.
(What a tragedy.)
When we eat clam kalguksu,
she eats the clams only.
She eats all the clams in my dish first.
Clams are the most expensive ingredient of the dish.
Yours would be an ordinary kalguksu.
- Yes. / - It's no longer clam kalguksu.
- It's just noodles. / - It's simple kalguksu.
We better listen to his wife as well.
- That's right. / - That's how it always is.
- Let's meet his wife. / - I think she'll be so pretty.
Hello.
- Hello. / - Hello.
She is beautiful.
She's very cute.
Do you feel your husband's worry?
I do understand him, but I need to do what I want.
- There's nothing I can do. / - You're a bit selfish.
It's not just a bit. She's very selfish.
I said, "a bit" because I met her for the first time.
Getting yourself water is different from being selfish.
You can pour it yourself.
Getting some water is a trivial task.
You get water without a problem.
Wouldn't it be weird to say, "No, go get it yourself"?
I get what you mean. He could get you water,
but why must he wait until you finish drinking
and bring the cup back to the sink?
I have to put the cup down after drinking water.
- Then... / - You could bring it back yourself.
Then I might as well go get water myself.
(My goodness!)
(Chanwoo is completely defeated.)
I lost.
(Laughing)
(I'm the queen.)
Have you ever asked her to get you some water?
- No. / - Not once?
That's right.
(I only attend to my wife.)
Your husband does most of the housework.
You don't even do the laundry properly.
Laundry...
I don't want to use
my energy to such thing.
- You're too lazy. / - You're a housewife though.
When I can't do it, I ask him to do it for me.
Isn't it possible for him to do it for me?
- Earlier... / - It happens every time though.
Yes, every time.
Do you think it's natural for him to do what you want?
I don't think it's natural, but he caters to me well.
- That's why I got used to it. / - Exactly...
- Gosh. / - It's just
that your wife is the one wearing pants in your family.
When you're having an intimate time with your wife,
do you do whatever your wife asks you?
What are you asking him?
Did you get his question?
Dongyeop asked what he was most curious about.
I'm a typical blood type A.
When I show my affection about ten times,
I want her to show me her love at least once.
However, she's quite inattentive about that.
Your wife doesn't express her love a lot.
- That's right. / - Your wife.
If somebody is beside you when you make tea,
- you'd ask if they want some. / - You'd ask.
When she wants tea, she makes tea for herself only.
- Alone? / - Yes.
When she does the dishes, she looks lovely...
More than how she looks from the front?
(She looks lovelier from the back?)
She usually turns her back on me.
She usually turns her back on you?
- How lonely. / - I'd hug her from the back.
- You hug her from the back. / - On dramas
or American movies,
wives turn their heads and express love.
That's not even what I wish, but she shakes me off.
- "Forget it!" / - "You're heavy!"
- That's... / - That's what you're upset about.
I think that's the main problem.
He does that every single day.
He always wants me to be cute and begs for my love.
- He's a romantic. / - He makes a move all the time.
Yes, yes.
What I'm upset about is
that I express love more often because I like her more,
but I sometimes wonder if she finds me embarrassing.
- What? / - I sometimes feel that way.
- Why? / - When you're outside?
My daughter's tutor comes about once or twice a week.
When she hears the tutor coming, she turns
the light off suddenly.
She hides me so the tutor can't see me.
Why?
Continue.
When she invites her friends over, I must leave home.
I have to go to an internet cafe to kill time.
I got a new cell phone recently since my old one broke.
I happened to call my phone with my wife's phone.
I wasn't even saved on her phone.
- You weren't saved? / - Only the number was shown?
- Only your number was shown. / - Without a name.
Only my phone number was showing.
- I saw if I was the only unsaved one. / - You must
- have been upset. / - All her clients were saved.
- I was the only unsaved one. / - You're her husband.
- There was no name either? / - No.
- Why didn't you save it? / - Did he change his number?
Why did you not save his number with his name?
I recognize my husband's number, so I pick it up.
I memorize his number, so there's no need to save it.
You saved other people's numbers though.
That's because I could forget their numbers.
(That's because I could forget their numbers.)
- It makes sense. / - She's got a point.
It does, right?
She totally memorizes your number.
(This is not what I planned.)
When the tutor visits your place,
- you turn off the light. / - It's hilarious.
Do you wish your tutor not to see
your husband?
- It's the easiest way / - The awkward vibe.
- to avoid an uncomfortable vibe. / - You block him.
What about kicking him out when you have friends over?
My husband needs to go out when my friends come anyway.
Can't he just stay?
- If he stays, it's a bit weird. / - I have a question.
Do you also leave when your husband's friends come?
His friends don't come to my place.
Aren't you telling him not to bring his friends over?
- Excuse me? / - You're not allowing him, are you?
- I think she won't allow him. / - That's not it.
I think he has no friends.
(He nods.)
That's the answer.
When I have time, I try my best to be
- with my family. / - He's a family man.
Don't you want to meet your friends?
You can enjoy an alcoholic drink with your friend.
I don't drink alcohol.
- Recently... / - You don't smoke either, right?
I quit smoking.
- You don't drink alcohol. / - That's right.
You do the dishes, do the laundry and make food.
Do you want him to go out and meet his friends?
Yes, I want us to do our stuff well on our own.
However, he focuses his sole attention on me.
It'd be nice to do our stuff well on our own,
but the problem is that she only does what she wants.
Everything she doesn't want to do is left with me.
- She wanted to drive a foreign car. / - The small one.
She wanted one, so she signed the contract right away.
She didn't take care of the car and made it very dirty.
Like an off-road car.
All the holders had cups from months ago.
- There were cigarettes too. / - She doesn't smoke.
I'm just kidding.
The snack my daughter spilled in the car had molds.
I couldn't keep watching it,
- so I washed the car myself. / - You washed the car.
I thought you wanted to be responsible for your task.
Aren't men supposed to wash cars and take care of them?
- You got molds inside. / - You should clean them.
You could've taken them out, but you didn't.
We're both working.
My husband mostly works on his computer.
I have to make clothes myself,
so I often ask him to do little things.
- You think you work more than your husband? / - Yes.
I work much more.
I really acknowledge my wife's skills.
She's full of drive. However, I have to take care of
- the rest. For example, / - He takes care of the rest.
she makes spring clothes
- around May. / - I see.
- She tells me to sell them. / - It's already summer.
- That's what happens. / - I must do the rest.
Did your wife do something for you in return?
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