Thứ Năm, 4 tháng 5, 2017

Waching daily May 5 2017

hi I'm Dannette here with my partner

Michael welcome to stress relief

simplified summit we're excited to share

with you proven practices to help

calm the mind and body in an

overstimulated world each day we'll

introduce you to a new leading thought

expert who will share practices

techniques research and resources to

help break the cycle of stress

absolutely Thank You Dannette we're really

excited to introduce you to Richard

C Miller PhD he's a clinical

psychologist researcher yogic scholar

and spiritual teacher who has devoted

his life integrating Western psychology

and neuroscience with the ancient wisdom

teachings of yoga Advaita Taoism and

Buddhism Richard is founding president

of the integrative restoration Institute

co-founder of the International

Association of yoga therapist and

founding past president of the Institute

for spirituality and psychology author

of the iRest program for healing PTSD iRest

meditation restorative practices for

health healing and well-being and yoga

nidra the meditative heart of yoga

Richard serves as a research consultant

on the integrative restoration iRest

meditation protocol that he developed

researching its efficacy on health

healing and well being grounded in over

30 research studies US Army Surgeon

General and the defense Centers of

Excellence have recognized iRest for the

complementary alternative program for

healing chronic pain and PTSD and

restoring resiliency and well-being

IRest is making substantial contributions

to the recovery of wounded veterans that

is now being taught in over 85 VA and

military sites in the US Richard leads

international trainings and meditation

retreats on the integration of

enlightened living into daily life

Richard welcome to our summit thank you

Michael and thank you Dannette welcome

back i'm

pleased being here with you our pleasure that's great um you know

first off I got to say 85 VA hospitals

and military sites and me being a

prior military combat veteran ptsd I

have to say thank you very much for the

work that you're doing for myself and my

fellow veterans I can personally attest

to the effectiveness if you will of iRest I

use it I try to use on a daily basis it

doesn't always work out that way but I

do use it often I have the iRest program for

healing PTSD and I also have the iRest

program for sleep and I find that to be

fantastic it helps with my sleep thank you Richard yes you're welcome

I was just speaking with a

veteran today a woman who has severe ptsd

from her whole experience and

just experienced the iRest program

a week or so ago and she said I feel

like I've got the Hope back that I can

come back into my fullness of life again

mm-hmm that absolutely is true that's powerful

that leads me into my first question can

you speak to the neuroscience behind

restoration of well-being and resiliency

as a protocol for stress management

yes it's quite an exciting trend at the moment

the last 12 years has been tremendous

research that's been done on the neuroscience

what's happening inside our nervous system

and our body as we're doing an essential

meditative practices I like to speak of four

essential for something? one

called the default network which when we ask

people to just relax back and do

nothing there's a tendency for the for

the mind to default into negative

recursive thinking groups where we have a

tendency to go into hmm how didn't we do this well

enough how might we have done this better what's wrong with it

so kind of negative cycles

and we have built into that system what's

called the negativity bias which people

are understanding the survival mechanism

it helps us mistake a stick for a snake

better to mistake a stick for a snake than

step on a snake thinking it's a stick

that's the helpful aspect of the

negative is that I gave you a 20 or 30

really powerful positive feedback and

one tiny little negative feedback

it's the negative one we will never take

away with so we can get complete caught

in negative thoughts there's a second network

attention network which we're under

stress can get fragmented and in a way get

taken offline so we can start moving

people who create

stress have a lot of

there's any attention network can get

over activated there's a third network

the control network kind of the

executive function that helps mediate two

other networks and you know that when

people are under stress whether it's

from the phone ringing constantly the stress

of family life or work or some other

aspect in your life for post-traumatic

stress the cortex the executive function

actually can thin out then we lose that ability

to really monitor well our

activities for us and we can get

hijacked in by our motion that hold us

hostage what we see in meditation

is it helps deactivate this

default network so we fall out of these

negative cycles of thinking when we

step out of the negativity bias into

what we may call its opposite the positivity

bias where were able to integrate new

information in a way we otherwise can't

we actually see the limbic system which is

responsible for holding us hijacked with

emotions

that has become overactive you can begin

to calm down and we actually see the

MRI shrink over time it's not so hyper vigilant

overactive and this what we called a

defocusing or we call it the

presence of the network begins to activate it's

an interesting network because it opens

us out of the default way that we tend to

get trapped in negative thinking and it

opens us up to our calls the land of

infinite possibility where we're no

longer trapped by the past in our

condition thoughts or experiences of what

we might have these negative thinking

loops and we have a whole new way of being

where we are open to new ideas

creativity it also is a network that

when we're in it we feel very connected

both with ourselves and with the world

around us because we know people who are

under stress illness difficult

circumstances they can begin to feel

disconnected from themself sensations

emotions thoughts and that leads them

oftentimes to feel disconnected from the

world we can fall in these negative cycles of

helplessness victim hopelessness

whereas meditation helps rectify this

helps us step out of this quality of

helplessness and we begin to see

insight into actions that we can

actually take help us move forward and

the beauty is for long-term meditators we

see structures actually opening up the

structures that represent the presence

center network they're actually thickening

the cortex is thickening the

hippocampus that helps us see

perspective and consequence of our

actions that actually erode our capacity

to actually keep on track with where

we're needing to go and the consequences of

our actions

and the structures like i mentioned

the migula tends to shrink and come back to

normal functioning so will interrupts

things like hyper-vigilance be more

connected to themselves and there was a

recent study i read where people invited

to step out of that default network into

that presence centric network to

a quality of simply being and it opens into

this insightful for more and more

creativity people report feeling

a sense of more connection a sense of

well-being the sense of peace or

calmness just emerging naturally and

what I found most extraordinary is they come

upon natural feelings of value meaning and purpose

we know that when people are under

long-term stress or difficult

circumstances they can sometimes lose

touch with a sense of meaning value and

purpose and then it gets attributed to what

we're not doing in the world or what we

should be doing we doing so a person for

instance who loses their job a divorce an

illness like cancer this can cause such

duress that we learn value meaning and

purpose in our life just helping people

in to a meditative state actually

helps them re-access these feelings of value meaning and

purpose that are actually unique within

us and our independent the kind of

job or circumstance is we are involved in

the world so I find the neuroscience

that's really enlightening are understanding

of the at incredible effects that even

short periods of meditation i'm talking

about 10 min a day and half which we see

a person who meditates reported ten or

twelve minutes a day over a period of 18

sessions actually starts to see

the hard changes in there nervous system

that's fantastic yeah so in 20 days

20 days we can actually see a reversal

and the effect that I often see in each

session we can help a person radically

come upon these kind of discoveries which

motivates them to engage the practice and

then our job is to really support them

and help them create a new positive

habit of a daily meditation practice

and I tell people to find a time during

the day even great when you're coming

into bed and I don't make any particular

circumstance that you have to sit or you

can lie down even fall asleep just take

the time little and often on regular basis

mm-hmm wow that's great we're for our listeners

are definitely getting into more into

the iRest here shortly you can actually

experience it so when next question so

what are the values and the challenges

of nourishing and inner resource of

unchanging unbreakable well-being at

every moment whatever our circumstance

yeah when we are under duress or stress

or when we are having to engage in a

difficult conversation and that could be

a difficult conversation with ourselves

when looking in mirror or with our partner our

children peer or co-worker

when we're entering into a difficult conversation

there's a tendency to start to slip

into this default network of negative

thinking and it's just a positive aspect

of our survival mechanism our mind

begins to strategize how am I going

to do this and am I going to survive

through this I think anybody

listening we think of a time when we had

to engage a difficult conversation we

can feel in our body that desire not to do

it

to dis-engage what I've discovered is by helping

a person to find a place in their body so

it's a self somatic bodily experience of

a place in themselves where they may

describe it using different terms people say

feeling of well being peace ease being

equanimity or they might associate at

different imagery like one person is

sitting by a stream or waterfall when

one person said that they were holding

the hand of a three-year-old granddaughter

another person that taking a walk with their

lover but if we can remember to bring out

of the body these natural feelings we all

have within us a quality of well being

where we're feeling develops a feeling

of being grounded that we have the

capacity and resiliency to navigate a difficult

situation it creates this internal influence

within what I do is I ask a person

first to discover it then to practice it

when they're just feeling stable and

steady and then to practice it in

visualization when you're sitting in

meditation to inviting difficult emotions

difficult thoughts difficult

memory and what I have one do is

feel their inner resource of well being sense of

grounded peace then remember the

difficult feeling emotion or

circumstance come back to peace and back

to the difficulty and then weave them

together what we're doing with creating

biofeedback mechanism in the body so

that later on when you're out and about

and you find yourself experiencing that

same or similar emotion thought or experience or

as you're moving towards the difficult

conversation you're completely feeling

upwelling of well-being ability to ground

it gives you the ability to navigate these

difficult situations and we're all going

to face in our life some point in it

it instills the sense of resiliency and not just

hope but what I discovered is it

discovers it helps a person feel a sense of

trust and faith that no matter the

circumstance that they find themselves

in life they have the ability to

navigate and I like to make the

difference initially what people often

say like the woman you listened to

earlier who said she re-discovered the sense

of hope she could get her life back

focus in ...... it actually is

based on fear I hope that i'll

be able to do this I may not be able

to where as faith and trust is actually

founded on the understanding that the best

circumstance is going to happen the

best outcome is going to come out of

this so as a person rounds in there inner

resource what i hear is they report they

move from hope to faith to trust and

develop what actually ultimately they

realize is an unshakable un-

destructible indestructible aspect of

in their own body and i've experienced

tremendous difficulty in my life tremendous

pain a physical issue and i have found

that that inner resource is actually

unbreakable indestructible and there's one more piece

here that i think it's very important

especially for people who are

experiencing difficult circumstances or

challenging issues in their life like

like PTSD when we're under duress over

a period of time we can loose that

sense of trust that simple connectedness

we can loose touch with that inner resource

so we may come upon this feeling

of dis-connection within ourself and we may

find ourselves trapped in the default

network of thoughts like I'm broken I'll

never be able to find my way back from

this circumstance something got changed

and believe that will never be able to

be healed when I help a person ground

back in to discover and relearning for the

surface this innate feeling the thing

that I feel mostly inside is I feel like I

just came home to myself and I've realized

something about myself that no matter my

circumstance illness cancer ptsd death of

a loved one there's something that never

got broken that is actually indestructible

and wants you find that and discover it

now there's a shift from I'm doing with

my meditating to fix or change to heal

this place that's broken is I realized

I'm not broken my body and my

mind are having a difficult challenge

they need to heal but I'm okay and I realize

I've always been okay this is a major shift

where we're not healing to become

whole we're actually now healing out

of our innate it changes the game feeling

it removes a lot of shame blame self

critical thinking and it looks much more

squarely in the drivers seat wow that's

really oh that's amazing it seems like

part of my life has gone on that

timeline you talk about hope faith and

then trust and then taking a few steps

back and in the back and hope and then

maybe hover at faith for a while feeling

strong and trusting and then so it seems

to be an ongoing process that need to

choose like you said you can continue

and and and do with your self

care and do your meditation at 12

minutes a day yeah once people

understand physically is the

impact of having this discovering this

inner resource of well being of peace ground

they understand the importance of

nourishing it all day long and now yeah

we're going to be a difficult

circumstance but we have the ability to

meet it really does then bring forward

more than feelings of trust

and faith and what I love is the person

comes back to me and says you know today

I have myself in a difficult

circumstance and I didn't have to

remember my inner resource it's just

came foreground on its own then we

really know that it's doing the work in

particular in over stimulated world that

we do live in where we're often looking

outside of ourselves to resources when

they're just not stable or sustainable

or reliable to have that home base where

it becomes a remembering and and calling

us back through this practice of iRest so

I would love for you now if you're a

little more specific information about

the iRest program that that is able to

create this inner resource well the iRest

program is actually out of a variational

meditative program I've traced it back

to five thousand BC where it's an oral

tradition codified around 750 BC then

into an oral tradition around four AD

it's a very ancient protocol what I've

done is looked at what's does this

particular program that I learned in the

yogic tradition share in common with all

other meditative and contemperative

programs so I've looked at the

judeo-christian

perspective at one point I was headed

towards becoming a Christian minister

I've looked at it from the perspective of

Buddhism I had a Taoist master I've

explored a lot of different realms

looking at what did they all share in

common and over the last four to five

decades I've looked at these basic

principles and I've been able to

structure them into ten basic elements and

the first element is whenever we step

into a journey the first step we take is

in way built on in the intention so for

instance I ask people when you meditate

take a moment and reflect what's your

intention what is it that you want to

come out of this particular practice and

your practice in general so that might be

a healing or health or building the

resiliency or discovering this

inner resource so the first two aspects of

the practice are why am i doing it today

and why am i doing it over my lifetime

so we build in this quality of strong intention

third step is I help people access this

inner resource because the inner resource

now is going to become the ground from which

to emerge to practice and we're going

to weave it into everything else we do

the fourth step is i'm working with helping a

person build a strong cohesive relationship

with their body everything that I know

comes to us through the body all the

perceptions of sound taste smell hearing

seeing thinking they're all basically body

sensations and when we're under stress we can

loose connection with our body and the

more subtly we can access available

information from our body the earlier

we can for instance if we're

really in tune to our body two weeks before we

start to get a cold

we start to feel something not right so

now we've got two weeks to make some changes

before that cold might have come in or

one person who is learning body

sensing decades ago with me

she perceived the first time this subtle

feeling in the lower back that she hadn't

been aware of I asked her to go just get

it checked out with the doctor it

turns out she had the early makings of

a massive kidney infection if she hadn't been able

to catch it at that early stage it would

have progressed into a serious illness

so body sensing and then the next step is

breathing i hook the breathing because

there are a lot of breathing

intervention that we can learn that

helps reduce stress increase our

resilience or well-being and i keep them

very simple there's a very interesting

one that I've come upon over on the last

10 years which is a measure of health is

how long you can actually hold your

breath out after exhalation the degree

or threshold for instance is our

ability to hold our breath easily out

after exhaling for 40 seconds is a measure of we

have fairly good health people who are

under stress can't hold their breath for

maybe even ten seconds so I'm introducing

simple breathing regime one for relaxation

one for health another if you want to get energy so i

weave them in with the body sensing and they

become powerful interventions that we can

learn and apply all day long most people who

are under duress are upper chest

breathing shallow breathing and actually

there is a little bit of hyperventilating so i'm

teaching them how to shift out of upper

chest breathing you might call it belly

breathing longer exhalation so we have a lot of

information about how health is can be a

pretty simple breathing technique then people

can use them all day long when under stress

the next two aspects of the protocol are

helping people become emotional adept

and cognitively adept so that no matter

what feeling or emotion or thought they're

having no matter the image that's arising

or the memory that they might be coming

upon I'm teaching simple ways to respond to these

emotions sensations thoughts so that they

feel they've amassed a number of

skillful means that they can use

throughout their day to build muscle of

emotional intelligence and cognitive

intelligence this is really important

because stress again trips us in to these

negative cycles where we can be caught

in loops visualizations negative

visualization negative memories negative

thoughts negative emotion so I'm

teaching how to have a number of

skillful interventions from very simple to a

building more complexity and so they feel that

they have the capacity to meet any emotion

any thought that might arise in response

rather than knee jerk action the next

component which is we're helping people

discover within themselves an ability

to what we say step back one person

said it feels like I'm in a helicopter

and I've got a perspective of my whole

life often times when we're taught in a

strong emotion a difficult circumstance

a thought it feels like you know it's

right in our face and we're being

gripped by it what we're learning to do

is peel it off and put it at a distance

so we're staying connected to it but

we're able to have perspective and

what's interesting is when we look at

the neuroscience that's what's happening

when we're able to take it and put it at

a distance we're actually activating the

hippocampus which is actually growing on

our ability

to take perspective in the future as well as

in the present moment and we're

deactivating the limbic system which

helps us not feel so emotional over-reactive to

what is arising a feeling an emotion so

we're developing this ability to be able to step

back in the midst of the circumstance

and we have people practicing this

many different ways so that they can

learn it as a scale and then practice it

into the world and then the last step in

the protocol is practice practice

practice into the world so ok let's take

these interventions out into the world come

back we'll talk about how did it work go

back in the world come back to talk

about how it works and I've even been

known to take people who say have a

bridge phobia or a water phobia or a

phobia of dogs I'll take them out into a

real-life situation so as we're moving

for bridge I'm having them access there inner

resource of well-being how are they

able to take perspective or are they

getting all bound up in the tear thats arising

so we want to activate these in both

practice session when their say in a

safe environment and then take them out

into the world in real time and put them

into the practices one of my teacher

said we're not just here to look at this

nice car we want to kick the tires and

take it for a test ride to see

if this really works so we have these

ten different structures and with each

of the ten intention we call a heartfelt desire

inner resource body sensing breathing

emotions thoughts perspective in integration

world we have multiple interventions

that were teaching so over a period of time

you really gain what we might call

skillful means so that when they're being

taught in a difficult circumstance

they're starting to engage in old condition

major reaction the mechanisms are now

kicking in over their own and helping

navigate the situation I love to tell

the story of this one fellow who had

tremendous road rage and from his post traumatic

stress and had been known to take people out

of their cars who cut him off and

just get into fist fights one day he came

in saying an 18 wheeler just cut

him off and all that kind of emotion

started to bubble up and his mind was

thinking he was going to turn in to the parking

lot and pull this guy out and beat him to a pulp

and as he was doing that his hands were turning the

steering wheel in the opposite direction

and he said thats when he knew the energy source

was working he wasn't having to think

about it it was taking him in a new direction so we want

these to not just be nice thoughts things

we read about or conceptual exercises

we want world tested really proactive

aspects that we can engage in they have to

be simple have to be easy and replicable

yeah and what a gift to give to give

that person an offramp to not go into

that extreme stressor and once he's

had that felt sense of his hands

taking him the other way and then it

becomes more and more accessible and so

I we've spoken already about the work

that you've done with combat veterans

PTSD and I know there's a lot of

research right now on IRest supporting

the protocol and that you're touching a

lot of different populations with this so

would you speak to that about some of the

research and some of the other

populations that are being helped it's a real

privilege to engage and consult on about 30

research projects so we work with people

with severe PTSD Veterans and active duty

military people coming back with

traumatic brain injury, chronic pain

multiple sclerosis we've been working to

help people we're not going to overcome

the disease we are helping build resilient

capacity to meet the symptom they are dealing

with we've worked with and we're doing

some studies of people going to cancer

treatments to help them learn how to

navigate the difficulty of the treatment

the emotions that are coming in to the

different thoughts and anxieties we've programmed

for children as early as three and we've done in

a five-year study with college age to see

if we can help them reduce their stress

and from my perspective reduce their

capacity for suicide which we often see

unfortunately in kids who are under a lot

of stress we've done a number of sleep

study so we have extraordinary results

of people with how to get to sleep and

then stay asleep but also if they have

an early morning/nighttime waking get back to

sleep one of the things i've been told over and over

there are thousands of people falling asleep to my voice

all over the world which is quite

comical and one of the first things people

often will say when they first

encountered the practice is I had my

first really good night sleep so there are a

number we're are doing we are about to enter

into a study with elders so looking how

can we help people who are moving

toward sixty seventy eighty ninety years

old with the issues that from pain

sleep issues depression we had great results

with anxiety and depression we did work

a bit of studying on cello artists

people who are playing cello who have a

lot of stress built into their shoulders

or the stress that they may have with a

performance anxiety helping them both

reduce their stress about performance

anxiety but also just the stress they

carry in their body

from practicing for me it's been fun to

see the broad spectrum from our early

studies with veterans which we're still

doing to now we're engaging very

interesting studies one looking at how

can we help people who are undergoing bone

marrow transplant now here's a menacing

anxiety stress how can we help them navigate

the difficulty of the circumstance because there

have been a number of studies with meditation that's

showing for instance when you go through

a medical procedure you go through it

easier you heal faster so you're recuperative

time is a lot less they spend fewer days

in hospital and interestingly enough in

the double-blind study the doctors felt

that the surgery went smoothly and there

was less bleeding in surgery so we know that

there's tremendous impact of meditation across whole

hosts of activity and range of illnesses

from people going through cancer multiple

sclerosis to just general health

resilience and well-being it's been fun I

like to say there's good news and bad news

for us as an organization who train teachers

which we've been so successful

that's good news bad news is we have been so

successful and why is that bad news we have

teachers out there doing the work that

help the people who are wanting our services

it's a powerful subtle practices so

it's so deceptive and so I want to ask

a question specific to PTSD and the

effects of iRest and I know PTSD

you know commonly thought of as a combat

veteran disorder but I know it touches

so many other people in different ways

and you know Dannette I can't tell you how many

people I've worked with who have been in car accidents

plane crashes or they simply had been

walking down the street and all of a sudden end up on the

ground they twisted or broke their leg

and it creates tremendous post-traumatic

stress after now I was working with a

fellow the other day who was in a

wonderful night time gathering he missed the

last step and ended up breaking his

pelvis and breaking a shoulder and the

healing was very fine but what he found

was the amount of he was shocked

actually buy the PTSD that he was experiencing

from the after effect and his

body just having to process that has

happened was a tremendous shock so we

get PTSD from all sorts of reasons

so have you found that people can heal

and actually reverse PTSD yes so I want

to comment on from two directions

one is the ... absolutely

and I've seen people move all the way through where

like I worked with a woman who had been

in a very very severe car accident almost

lost her life and when she came she had

reoccurring nightmares she didn't sleep

well to tremendous stress in her body

and she had all these leftover emotions

feelings that helplessness and

hopelessness that she hadn't been able

to resolve and this was some years later

this was not right after the accident so

this is residual PTSD through the

work we did together she came to a

moment where she was starting to doubt

whether she's ever been in an accident because

she said I can't find the old emotion I

used to have to the accident and so we

see people loose the emotional thought

now yes she can remember the memory

yet she lost all association with all

the negative emotions that had trapped her for

so long another veteran that I worked

with I ran into his wife one day and she

said you wouldn't believe what happened i

came in yesterday and he was watching the

news of the war and she said I got

really upset because I shouted at him what

are you doing this is going to really upset you and he turned

to me and said what do you mean said I'm just

watching the news and they talked about it and

what he came to realize was he wasn't

having the old reactions that he had so

they had been cleaned out now that's

said I also worked with many people who

the PTSD is so early or so we might say

insulting to the body that it's created

changes in the body what we're doing now is

we're giving them the fills to what they

may need for the rest of their life to

keep working with residues that are

going to keep emerging so they may

never heal completely you might say to their

PTSD but we've given them the tools

now with which to meet it because one

of my teachers rightly said some decades

ago when i was first beginning this work

he said it is the people who do not know what to do

who are in trouble so what we're trying to do

is get people the tools so that they know what to

do given that sense of resiliency and

ability to cope knowing that no matter

what residual aspect of their PTSD it

comes in they've got the skills now with

which to meet it and I know that as they

meet it they're in a way healing aspects

of that default mechanism that

eventually fall away there may be other

residues that are going to arise and

then they can work with those and they may

fall away so I never know if this is going to

be a complete healing a remission or a residual

we may have to cope with

for the rest of our life because of the

trauma that we've gone through how much of that is

comes back to step number 10 practice practice

practice how much of that is in

the Constitution I think you bring up

the vital point Dannette our jobs and we

may say ... is to really is to create a sense of

enthusiasm to engage regular basis you

know I like to give the image that we move

through our meditation only ... it's

like we start building a highway

and then you leave it weeds grow up and it

gets all crumbly but if we're building

a consistent practice we actually build a

mechanism in and we grow the structures

n our nervous system and in our body that

then are ours for life so it really

is little and often regularity you know

i'm i'm a pragmatic optimist i say you

know take the day off saturday off take

a week every once in a while but then

come back and keep growing these muscles

that you can then have for the rest of

your life I think every time you

meditate we put a little money in the

bank but you don't want to go there and

just take it out it's like you want to

keep making deposits and then they grow

and build a massive bank account and

then okay go on vacation take a week off

take a month off but know

that you're taking money out of that

bank account and then come back start

saving again because growing your muscle and

your bank account so you have it for

those rainy days well so I think that

brings us right to a good good point here

and would you please lead us through an

experience of iRest for our listeners

now give me a sense of how many minutes

you'd like to make this practice

eight minutes or less sure absolutely

right Oh before we do if you don't mind

okay this is probably more for myself

and some of my veteran buddy so you

don't like to close their eyes at all or

the whole time I'm probably more of

I don't like to close my eyes the whole

time but I do find that I guess what I want

them to know is it's okay and that's the way i'm

going to start the practice perfect all

right I think you know

the secret of the practice is we meet the

person right where they are we want each

person to engage in the practice to

find a place within themselves that feels

absolutely safe and secure so if

somebody wants to keep their eyes open

hey that's fantastic I actually

teach with eyes open and if people

are willing eyes closed i teach it

lying down I teach it on your right

side left side back side front side

sitting in a chair and I actually teach it

standing up and walking around the

room trying to integrate into every

possible situation as we could find

yourself in and I actually keep a form

what I call body sensing yoga where I

have people doing it while they're

bending sideways bending backward

twisting and even upside down because I

know that life is going to twist them in

some weird position and I want their

inner resource to just naturally come out

no matter how they feel twisted by life

https://www.irest.us/access/irestmeditationpractice

how are we doing so that's a little taste

very quick but kind of hitting the

highlights of different aspects of the

iRest practice yeah that's great Richard I feel

like I took a power nap actually I feel good

you

really you know there's something here

because I teach what I call 12 minutes

iRest nap with 12 minute we can actually

put ourselves into a very deep state of

accessing almost sleep states that repair the

body kick in the immune system restore

a sense of energy and actually if we're

studying something that 12 minute nap

can help us embed it into our motor

system and we come out actually

refreshed and ready to go it is an

actual power now so I call them

Little 12 minute iRest power naps is

there a science behind the 12 minutes

or is it just yeah there is in that 12

minute you're able to access and just

begin to stage 2 or 3 level

of sleep but not going so far into it

that you can come out of it easily

whereas we know if you take a nap we

sleep too long we come out all groggy and

it's hard to wake up that's because you

touch the stage 3 or maybe 4 you've

gone too deep into it now you have to

navigate it entirely whereas a 12-minute

nap if we study the science behind it it

has these aspects of it it just slightly

innovates the immune system it restores energy it does a little tissue repair

getting increased motor performance and

memory and embeds short-term memory into

long-term memory and it does it really

does restore we see it there's a

wonderful book for your listeners by a

friend of mine Sara Mednick it's called

take a nap change our life I say take

a 12 minute yoga nidra nap every day

change your life

amazing experience Richard share

with participants anything new that

you're working on and how they can find

you you know there's some

exciting developments for myself and my

organization

I've trained about three thousand

teachers worldwide and we're getting

requests now from overseas Hong Kong

China and Japan we're in Australia England but

one of the exciting things come recently the

number of hospitals are now approaching

us to train their staff to better

navigate the stresses that they're

experiencing all day long with

their patients and then we're being

invited in to work with the families and

the patient's themselves to help reduce

their stress and increase their sense of

resilience there's some exciting

endeavors that are coming our way that

we're being asked to participate in an

develop and refine different practices

just for like palliative care pain

control restful sleep as well as

developing resilience and well being so

that's really exciting people want to

learn more about our programs our

programs they can go to my website at

www.iRest.us or just search out iRest as a

google search and you'll either go to

China and get a massage chair or you

will come to our website which is how to

have a restful life for the rest of your

life so iRest you know the military

years ago asked me to rename the

protocol and i renamed it iRest

integrative restoration and they said oh

we don't do meditation but we can do

integrative restoration iRest I love

the name that allows us to come into

secular settings and in one setting

we're teaching iRest in another setting

we're teaching meditation and another

setting if I come in to a Yoga

studio we're teaching yoga nidra it's fun

to have that ability to float into

different setting but really the bottom

line is were just teaching basic human

skills of how to i would say we're

giving people the owner manual none of us

was born with of how to drive this body

and have emotional intelligence

cognitive intelligence and

really become a fully functioning

healthy harmonious human being

the world needs more of thank you

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It's True Love For Justin Bieber and Hailee Steinfeld! | TMZ TV - Duration: 2:01.

SINCE FISH SPROUTED LEGS AND

SOMEHOW TURNED INTO PEOPLE, MAN

HAS HAD ONE QUESTION --

WHEN WILL JUSTIN BIEBER FIND

TRUE LOVE?

AND NOW WE MAY KNOW, BECAUSE

JUSTIN MAY BE DATING THE LITTLE

GIRL FROM "TRUE GRIT," AND

RELAX, SHE'S AN ADULT NOW SO

THIS ISN'T GOING TO GO ALL ROMAN

POLANSKI.

JUSTIN BIEBER MAY BE DATING

HAILEE STEINFELD.

SHE'S A SINGER AND ACTRESS.

SHE ACTUALLY GOT AN ACADEMY

AWARD NOMINATION FOR "TRUE

GRIT."

ANNOUNCER: YES, AND SHE RECENTLY

APPEARED IN JUSTIN BIEBER'S CELL

PHONE, THOUGH WE DIDN'T KNOW IT

AT THE TIME.

AND HAILEE EVEN KNOWS JUSTIN'S

EX SELENA GOMEZ KIND OF, SORT

OF.

BECAUSE THEY WERE BOTH AT THE

MET GALA LAST NIGHT.

HARVEY: OK, BE REAL WITH ME FOR

A SECOND.

SELENA GOMEZ RUNS IN TO HAILEE

SEINFELD AT THE MET GALA --

STEINFELD.

HARVEY: SELENA GOMEZ RUNS INTO

HAILEE STEINFELD AT THE MET

GALA, IS THERE ANY --

NO, SHE'S LIKE HAVE FUN WITH

THAT MESS.

I HAVE THE WEEKND.

ANNOUNCER: SHE'S PARAPHRASING

JUST A LITTLE.

POINT IS, IT'S JUSTIN AND HAILEE

FOREVER.

EXCEPT FOR ONE LITTLE THING --

HAILEE'S REP SAID JUSTIN AND

HAILEE ARE ACTUALLY JUST

FRIENDS.

ANNOUNCER: FRIENDS WITH

BENEFITS.

NOT SEX, WE MEAN BENEFITS LIKE A

401-K PROGRAM.

BUT WHETHER JUSTIN IS DATING

HAILEE OR NOT.

BODY BY JAKE IS HER UNCLE.

HARVEY: WHAT?

BODY BY JAKE IS HER UNCLE.

HARVEY: I WAS GOING TO ASK THAT.

YOU WEREN'T GOING TO ASK THAT

BECAUSE YOU'VE BEEN CALLING HER

SEINFELD ALL DAY.

[LAUGHTER]

ANNOUNCER: POINT IS IF THEY ARE

A COUPLE, JUSTIN AND HAILEE ARE

PERFECT, EXCEPT FOR MAYBE THAT

MASSIVE AGE DIFFERENCE.

SHE'S 20 AND HE'S 23.

ANNOUNCER: WOW, IS HE ROBBING

THE CRADLE OR IS SHE ROBBING THE

GRAVE?

THANKS YOU TWO CRAZY KIDS!

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Hypnotic Guided Meditation for Lucid Dreaming, Deep Sleep & Dream Recall - Duration: 59:56.

Can you now find a quiet place, where you will not be disturbed.

Maybe you are sitting in a chair, or lying on your bed or lying on the floor.

Can

you begin to find comfort and relaxation.

Really take a moment to relax Take a long, slow, deep breath in

And as you slowly exhale and just close your eyes

And tune into how you are feeling today As you allow yourself to relax, notice your

breathing as you slowly breathe in and out Inhale and exhale

Giving yourself permission to enjoy this moment as you continue to relax and find peace and

stillness As you go into this relaxing state I want

you to pay attention to the sounds around you and realise that they will allow you to

become even more comfortably relaxed while you continue to focus on my voice that follows

you wherever you go.

Knowing that the meaning behind my words will always be clear to you

Paying attention to your breathing...

Air moving in Air moving out and just surrender and rest

Because as you continue to focus only on your breathing ...this sends a powerful message

to your mind to RELAX Allow the thoughts in your mind to drift on

by Instead of getting attached to them or dwelling

on them....simply observe them....accept that they are there and let them go

All the while bringing your attention back to your breath

Air moving in Air moving out

When you do this you are consciously relaxing your mind and your body will follow too.....focus

on the movement of your exhalation.

Just watch it That's all that matters in this moment is

your breath Air moving in

Air moving out Just relax

Rest here Allowing yourself to completely let go of

any thoughts or visualisations.

Just let them drift on by.

Your body can relax too Just allowing that wonderful feeling of relaxation

to spread throughout your entire body.

Relax the muscles of the face, relax your brow, your eyelids, your jaw.

Relax your tongue away from the roof of your mouth.

Relax your neck, your shoulders, your chest, your back.

Allowing that relaxation to continue to spread.

Relaxing your right arm, the upper arm, lower arm, thumb, first finger, second finger, third

finger, fourth finger and palm.

Relax the left arm, the upper arm, lower arm, the thumb, first finger, second finger, third

finger, fourth finger and palm.

Relax your belly, your glutes the top of your right leg, the lower part of your leg, the

first toe, second toe, third toe, forth toe fifth toe.

Your left leg, relax the upper part of your right leg, the lower part of the leg, the

first toe, second toe, third toe, fourth toe, fifth toe.

Totally relaxed now and notice how easy it is for your body to stay relaxed.

Any tension in your body is just melting away now........allow your body to be completely

supported by whatever you are sitting or lying on.

Finding it easy to let go of any thoughts that come into your mind.......let them drift

on by and allow your body to relax because you will sleep peacefully through the night

as your body is so relaxed and at peace.

Pay attention to your breath........air coming in and air moving out.

Allow your focus to remain on your breathing and notice how this calms the mind and encourages

relaxation that means you will sleep comfortably and calmly.

Allow the earth beneath you to fully support you now

You are centred.....calm and quiet.

Your muscles are relaxed.

Give yourself permission to tune into relaxation The more you focus inside to more relaxed

you become as your mind takes you on a journey inside your mind.

And let this state develop to the point where your mind allows you to learn more about yourself

telling you of long forgotten resources that are yours NOW

You are here, you have a past, that past is available to you in the form of thoughts and

memories, and that means you feel relaxed as you drift deeper inside your inner world

of wonderful, peaceful pleasant, positive memories

I know that you are interested in all I have to say and because you are interested in my

words so your mind can relax even more easily and because you are imagining this then you

will find yourself relaxing deeply and comfortably.

And because you are so deeply comfortable that means that you can begin the process

now of retraining your mind with the right thought patterns which will automatically

trigger your awareness of when you are dreaming.

So just allow your mind to relax That's right

Because you are entering a state where you are fine tuning your mind for dream awareness..

control.

and memory.

Allow your inner voice to be soft and gentle which means that when you go to sleep your

thoughts will be focused on remembering your dreams because you will be dreaming soon,

won't you?

Because you are listening to the sound of my voice, that means that I know that you

want to master lucid dreaming and that will allow you to heightened awareness of your

dreams, enjoy better dream recall and you will have the ability to control your dreams

as you wish.

You find it easy to drift into a comfortable and restful sleep because you have renewed

your connection to your abilities to become aware of your dreams as you sleep, sleep,

sleep.

That's right.

Simply by allowing your mind to be quiet and still and allowing every muscle in your body

to totally relax means that you just go to sleep.

And when you do you notice that it's easy to tune into your dreams.

I know that you love lucid dreaming and because you are comfortable that allows you to easily

remember your dreams.

Because you sleep soundly and comfortably, that means that throughout your sleep you

feel that your mind is alert and can tune into your dreams because lucid dreaming is

just a normal part of your life.

Remembering you dreams is easy because you can control your dreams because lucid dreaming

comes naturally to you.

When you focus your mind in this way that means that your dreams are always lucid and

it's easy for you to notice what you are dreaming because you are in control of your dreams

now.

It's a beautiful state when you can awaken within your dreams now whenever you choose

and that makes remembering your dreams easy.

Now that you are comfortable we are going to go on a journey.......and to begin, I want

you to imagine that you are sitting somewhere that is peaceful.....

This peaceful place is a sanctuary for you.............this is your dream sanctuary.

That's right.

As you look around and orientate yourself you know that this is a safe place and you

feel comfortable and relaxed.

Somehow this place stimulates your senses.

And interestingly it stimulates your mind in an intriguing way that causes it to want

to dream.

And even though your mind is stimulated, your body remains completely relaxed.

What does it mean to dream?

What messages are being communicated to you right now?

What pictures do you notice?

What sounds do you hear?

What is coming into your awareness when you dream?

What wisdom is being shared directly with you, as part of your dreams?

What symbols and messages are present in your dreams?

This place is somewhere that you can come to at any time, to specifically access your

dreams.

Making it easy to dream and easy to remember your dreams.

This is a very special and resourceful place for you.

And in realising that allow yourself to dream and really dream as you sit quietly in your

dream sanctuary because you can dream.....

Realising now that your dreams may evolve and change as you develop your connection

and it's easy for you to remember your dreams.

Paying attention to your dreams the pictures, sounds, or just a knowing.....

Notice how easy it is for you to allow your dreams to be lucid because you can control

your dreams at will.

Realising now that lucid dreaming is just a normal and very natural part of your existence.

This journey means that it's easy for you to remember your dreams......remember.....remember......remember

your dreams.

That's right.. because this journey means that your mind is finely tuned to your dreams

now and is totally focused on making your dreams lucid.

Your mind remains alert even when you are asleep because of this process of renewing

your connection to your dreams and that allows you to gain access to the symbols.......the

messages.....the wisdom that is hidden within your dreams......

Remembering your dreams is easy.......

You are in control of your mind.......and your dreams......and you can control your

dreams at will because lucid dreaming is a normal and natural part of your life.

And because lucid dreaming is a natural state for you, you can easily notice when you are

dreaming and you can awaken within your dreams whenever you choose.

Knowing now that your dreams are always lucid and you can remember your dreams effortlessly

means that this is a natural process for you.

You are a powerful being who can easily control their mind and direct your mind to focus on

connecting with your dreams which allows you to become aware of all that you dream and

that means you can you also recall what you dreams and you enjoy the benefits of having

this wisdom.

Lucid dreaming is an easy and natural process for you and you enjoy all the rewards of this

renewed awareness and control.

We are about to return from your sanctuary to your normal waking state.

Realise now that you are experiencing a feeling of overall well-being and mental calmness.

Because you are in fact at peace with yourself and each and every day you experience more

and more positive results because of the changes that you are making.

You are an amazing person with such a warm and magnetic personality

creating such a positive effect on all those people around you and who come in contact

with you day to day realising now the changes that this journey has created for you.

I want you to know that you have done incredibly well in making this an amazing experience

and you can return to your dream sanctuary, your special place for dreaming at anytime

you choose.

Finding now peace of mind, joy in your heart and complete happiness in your soul.

Because maybe it's time to sleep now and if it is you can drift off to sleep naturally

and easily now And you can gently and easily drift into a

natural....

Comfortable....

And relaxing, dreamy sleep

Feeling sleepier and sleepier Just go to

sleep Enjoying natural.

restful.peaceful and comfortable.sleep

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Masterpieces Play Doh - How to create Spiderman with Play Doh - Learning Numbers and Color for Kids - Duration: 10:24.

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MINI GAMES IN ROBLOX adventures cartoon hero roblox for Roblox Games channel TV - Duration: 15:16.

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Fayetteville residents complain about plan for new cell tower [ - Duration: 0:47.

NEW TONIGHT - OUR AREA COULD SEE

A NEW CELL PHONE TOWER GO

UP--AFTER A VOTE TO REZONE THE

LAND.

THE TOWER IN WASHINGTON COUNTY

WOULD BE BETWEEN PARADISE LANE

AND BLUE WILLOW AVENUE IN

FAYETTEVILLE. THE BOARD HEARD

COMPLAINTS BY

NEARBY RESIDENTS OVER HOW THE

LAND

IS BEING DIVIDED.

ONE RESIDENT SAYS SHE'S NOT

HAPPY WITH DECISION.

"many of the people in

neighborhood have expressed

concerns about how property

values taking a hit from this

cell tower. The safety

concerns and the health concerns

I know the

board can't addressed them

legally but we have

them."

RIGHT NOW -- NO WORD ON WHEN

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The Haunted - SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE!!! - Duration: 1:53.

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Reichelt launches his re-election campaign for West Springfield Mayor - Duration: 0:26.

THE ANNUAL DAY OF OBSERVANCE IS

ALWAYS HELD ON THE FIRST

THURSDAY OF

MAY.

JULIANA:

WEST SPRINGFIELD MAYOR WILLIAM

REICHELT LAUNCHED HIS CAMPAIGN

FOR

RE-ELECTION TONIGHT.

ABOUT 50 PEOPLE GATHERED FOR THE

KICKOFF EVENT AT THE DANTE CLUB,

WHERE

REICHELT OUTLINED HIS VISION FOR

A SECOND TERM.

SPENDING IS A FOCAL POINT OF HIS

CAMPAIGN, HAVING SUBMITTED HIS

FISCAL

2018 BUDGET TO THE TOWN COUNCIL

THIS WEEK.

STARTING IN JANUARY OF 2018,

THE MAYOR OF WEST SPRINGFIELD

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Anushka Sharma & Virat Kohli SPOTTED at Mumbai airport; Couple off for vacation! love birds - Duration: 1:13.

Anushka Sharma, Virat Anushka, Virat Kohli, Virushka

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Kate Prepares For Royal Birth In Coming Days: William Waits Eagerly, 'Spare To The Heir' Drama? - Duration: 3:37.

Royal baby fever has hit again with the world anxiously awaiting the birth of Kate Middleton

and Prince William�s second child.

Kensington Palace is making preparations for the delivery of the princess or prince as

The Duchess of Cambridge is expected to give birth any day now.

Parking has been restricted and 3 hospitals have been prepared to assist The Duchess in

her delivery of her second royal baby.

Measures have been taken to try and tame the media circus and prevent issues that became

big problems for St. Mary�s Hospital and security during the birth of Prince George.

Kate and William have also opted to have Anmer Hall readied to welcome the royal couple after

The Duchess gives birth.

After Prince George was born, The Duke and Duchess rested at Kensington Palace before

going to their 10 bedroom mansion for some more privacy.

Princess Kate and Prince William refurbished The Queen�s wedding gift, making sure it

was completely baby proofed according to British media outlet, The Independent.

The �Spare to the Heir� mania has also begun.

Prince George will be �groomed� as future king, taking the role of his father, Prince

William, Forbes explained.

The second child of William and Kate will have more of an �understudy� role; a backup

in case something should happen to the heir.

Prince William and Prince Harry underwent the same scrutiny and seemingly take their

positions in stride.

William has kept his nose clean and stayed out of media headlines, while his brother,

�The Spare,� enjoyed more freedom like naked romps in Vegas and unfortunate choices

in Halloween costumes.

Perhaps Kate Middleton�s hope for a son during her first pregnancy was influenced

by the stress of being an heir.

Giving birth to a boy would mean that under King George V�s rules set in 1917, the first

born male would get the title of Prince, while any girls born would be dubbed Lady.

However, Queen Elizabeth had the archaic rules amended in 2012 when she issued a Letters

Patent under the Great Seal of the Realm, which means all of Kate and William�s children

will have the title of Prince or Princess of Cambridge regardless of gender or birth

order.

The change also means Prince Harry will now be fifth in like to the throne.

Prince Harry has been vocal about his relief after Prince George was born, citing �the

pressure� was off now that an heir has been produced.

Harry has never seemed enthralled with the idea of being King, but seems like he�d

become King for the sake of his family and country.

The Mirror even reported that Prince Harry has preferred his freedom since he was just

a boy, allegedly telling Prince William, �You�ll be King, I won�t; so I can do what I want!�

Will Prince William and Kate Middleton�s kids adopt the same understanding and acceptance?

Is Princess Kate nervous about having the �spare to the heir� label on her second

child?

Let us know what you think in the comments below.

thanks for watching.

please subscribe my channel.

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In the wake of daycare arrests, deaths, experts want parents to know what to watch for - Duration: 1:28.

WITH THE

WARNING SIGNS THAT MEAN YOU

SHOULD CALL FOR HELP.

HALEY: AND WHAT TO LOOK FOR WHEN

YOU'RE TRYING TO CHOOSE A SAFE

PLACE FOR YOUR CHILD.

TAISHA: EXPECTANT MOM ALLISON

SERRANO KNOWS THE STRUGGLE

PARENTS FACE.

>> IT IS A DAYCARE AFFILIATED

WITH MY WORK AND IT WAS A PRETTY

EASY CHOICE BECAUSE IT HAD A

REALLY GOOD REPUTATION.

TAISHA: A CHILD ACCIDENTALLY

DIED AT A LICENSED IN-HOME

DAYCARE THIS WEEK.

FURNITURE CAUGHT ONTO HIS SHIRT.

YEAH, IT'S PRETTY JARRING, IT

DEFINITELY HIT HOME.

I THINK IT COULD HAPPEN ANYWHERE

EVEN IF THE DAYCARE IS REPUTABLE

.

TAISHA: TWO JOHNSON COUNTY

DAYCARE PROVIDERS WERE CHARGED

THIS YEAR FOR CHILD ENDANGERMENT

AND OPERATING UNLICENSED

DAYCARES.

>> WE CONDUCTED 31 CHILDCARE

ILLEGAL CARE VISITS LAST YEAR.

TAISHA: THE COUNTY'S DIRECTOR OF

CHILDCARE LICENSING SAYS PARENTS

SHOULD ASK QUESTIONS.

>> THEY NEED TO BE ASKING WHERE

WILL MY CHILD EAT, WHERE WILL MY

CHILD SLEEP?

TAISHA: SHE ALSO SUGGESTS

SURPRISE VISITS.

>> THEY SHOULD SHOW UP AT ALL

VARIOUS TIMES ESPECIALLY UNTIL

THEY GET TO KNOW THEIR PROVIDER,

AND A PROVIDER CAN NOT TELL THEM

THEY CANNOT COME IN.

TAISHA: THE EASIEST WAY TO TELL

WHETHER IT IS LICENSED IS TO

LOOK FOR THE PIECE OF HIP ON THE

WALL.

STILL, THEY SUGGEST CHECKING THE

EXPIRATION DATE.

HALEY: MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF

PEACE OF MIND.

ALL REPORTS TO THE CHILDCARE

LICENSING DIVISION ARE

CONFIDENTIAL.

IN JOHNSON COUNTY, YOU CAN CALL

THE NUMBER ON YOUR SCREEN OR

VISIT TAISHA'S FACEBOOK PAGE.

YOU CAN ALSO CHECK WITH THE KDHE

IN KANSAS AND THE DEPARTMENT OF

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