Waching daily Aug 5 2017

The net worth of the property that Chester Bennington

owned was almost 30 million dollars which is almost 193 crores 38 lakhs rupees

Would Chester Bennington ever choose such a dreadful path if money would have been everything

on earth??

Definitely not..

In Twitter Chester Bennington had 8 lakhs 48 thousands followers.

Would Chester ever choose such a dreadful path if fame would have been the greatest

satisfaction on earth?

Again definitely not.

"Linkin park" is one of best bands in the world and Chester Bennington was its lead

vocalist.

Linkin park in 2000 released their first album "hybrid theory" . Over 70 million copies of

that album were sold in all over the world.

And in 2005 RIAA made the album diamond certified.

It is the greatest gift for any musician in his music-carrier.

Would Chester ever commit suicide if career would have been everything in life??

And the answer is again the same, no.

5 things in various times which used to be the top priorities of our life are - 1) Career

2) Relationship 3) Money, 4) Fame 5) Health.

In various stages of our life, any one of these five becomes our top priority.

I mean it becomes our main target or maybe I should say it becomes our main problem.

But the incident of Chester Bennington's suicide have made everyone to think again, that then

what is the most important thing which should be the top priority in our life.

Today I will talk about that in this video in details.

But before that I want to discuss about the theory called domino effect for those people

who don't know about it.

If we organize according to the increasing order of dominos where the next domino is

1.5 times bigger than the previous domino, then if length and breadth of the first domino

is 5 millimeters and 1.5 millimeters respectively, which is smaller than a tic-tac ,we will find

that the 29th domino of this series is as big as the Empire State Building.

If we start a chain reaction by knocking down the first domino which is as small as a ticktack

followed by the 2nd domino and so on, then we can easily knock down the 29th domino which

is as big as the empire state building.

The behaviors of our life also follow the chain reaction of this Domino effect and it

works in the exactly same way irrespective of whether it is in bad or good direction.

Entry into the world of addiction happens by smoking a simple cigarette and following

the chain reaction of domino effect it ends in drug addiction . Like this, entry into

the world of exercise happens only just by doing 10 pushups a day and following that

same Domino effect it ends in making a six pack abs.

So the most important thing is to choose the first domino correctly because if the chain

reaction once starts in the wrong direction then it becomes very difficult to stop it

at a particular stage and come back.

It�s quite easy to move in the wrong direction but coming back proves to be very difficult.

So we have to find a single centre point and have to keep that point as our first and main

domino in all situations so that we will find less or no problems in our life.

That means, one solution to all problems.

So now the question is then what should be that target?

Should it be Career,?relationship?money?fame?or health?

A person commits suicide when that person believes that he or she has stuck in a very

painful problem which has got no other solution and that for the person only death seems to

be the savior.

In this universe, there cannot be such a problem which has no solution, because, no matter

how big the problem is, the universe is big enough to absorb each & every problem.

Just for believing some wrong things deeply, a person chooses some dreadful ways like committing

suicide.

The main two reasons behind Chester's suicide were- 1) childhood abasement.

He was sexually abused by a senior male from the age of 7 to age of 13.

And for being so skinny and different looking he was also abused in school and 2) he couldn't

just accept the death of his close friend Chris Cornell.

His friend died by committing suicide 2 months ago.

On 20th July, It was Chris�s 53th birthday on which Chester committed suicide.

Chester was also suffering from drug addiction.

He started taking drugs after the divorce of his parents.

At the age of 17, when he again started living with his mother, he was successful to come

out of his drug addiction . But from the year 2011,he once again started taking drugs.

According to his wife, after the death of his close friend Chris, Chester was suffering

from severe depression.

So the main two factors behind the suicide of Chester were relationship and mental health.

As we can see, again mental health is dependent on relationship.

These two things finally together meet to the one thing, that is peace of mind.

This is the smallest Domino, which should be in our top priority all the times.

You may be a very successful person, you may do job in one of the world's top companies,

your salary may be pretty high but if the working environment of the company is very

bad, filled with politics and corruption, then this can severely affect your peace of

mind.

Then a desire to leave all these things and to run into some other place will keep coming

into your mind.

So in this condition will you be able to lead a healthy and prosperous life?

Work stress will affect you relationships.

And with all of these, your health condition will also fall day by day.

On the other hand, just think that you have a very good family where everybody loves each

other, cares for each other.

But you are the only income-source of your family with no permanent job and insufficient

amount of money with which you can't even fulfill the basic needs of your family members.

So in this condition will you be able to lead a happy life?

No you cannot.

So, everything is important in its place.

But everything has a common centre point that is peace of mind.

If that centre point remains ok, then everything others automatically becomes ok but if the

centre point gets not ok, then everything others also become not ok.

So our life's first and main target should be to maintain our peace of mind and we should

always take our actions based on this.

There is a very famous quote by someone anonymous, "There is no greater wealth in this world

than the peace of mind" and I hope by giving the example of Chester Bennington I have made

you understand a little bit why it is so.