5 Reasons Why Breakups are Hardest for Introverted Men
When it comes to getting over your lost love, you might think the cards are stacked against
you as an introverted, guess what?
You are not the one.
In fact, most of introverted people, or even extroverts feel the same.
According to Huffington Post, over 96% of American CEO's are extroverted.
And we agree that most women are attracted to successful men.
So, do you think we introverts actually stand a chance?
In this video, I'm going to show you 5 reasons why breakups are hardest for introverted men.
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Statistics show that at least 30 per cent of the population are introverts and it is
probably closer to 50 per cent rightnow.
While you think you might not have a chance, that's not the case.
Introverts make great partners too actually.
It just seems that extroverts have an easier time getting back out there and dating again.
As an introverted guy, you probably have challenges when talking to girls.
In fact, you have challenges talking to anybody, right?
Because of that, when you finally open your heart and let a girl in, that is a major risk.
Once a girl breaks up with an introverted guy, he may stay single for years.
Especially if he really believed she was the one.
So, here are 5 reasons why introverted men have such a hard time getting over a break
up:
1) Risk Without Reward:
It often takes superhuman effort for the shy introvert to approach a girl in the first
place.
If she responds and likes him, it is a big gamble for him to open his heart.
Once an introvert lets himself like a girl, he is no longer a loner.
Connecting to a girl fills a deep ache of loneliness for lots of guys.
Introverts take a bigger risk so the breakup digs a deeper hole.
2) Kicking Yourself When You Are Down:
If a girl ends the relationship there is a gaping hole where she used to be in his mind
and his heart.
Lots of guys crash and burn when a woman dumps them.
An introvert hurts extra bad and might even blame himself for letting her in that deep.
Fierce self inflicted blame just multiplies the heartbreak making things worse.
Introverts can be brutal to themselves.
3) Frozen in Time:
Fear of getting hurt again can seal him in a fireproof safe.
Dating may be next to impossible.
Grief and anger may be controlling his every thought.
Friends may be nagging him to get back out there.
An introvert can't motivate himself to move on.
That sucks because a new love may be just what he needs.
A friend with benefits may be the perfect solution but the introverted guy may be secretly
terrified of opening up again.
4) Speechless:
Introverts have a hard time talking about themselves even when they achieve a goal,
win a game or earn a raise.
When something bad happens, there are truly no words.
Introverts may suffer in silence.
Sometimes alcohol can be helpful.
That and a friendly bartender may help an Introverted guy spill his guts.
But alcohol just delays real healing.
Finding someone to talk to is the secret to getting through.
5) Body of Evidence:
When an introverted man is in love with a woman who dumps him, it is like she has all
the power.
The shock may be very physical.
He may feel achy, sick, sleepless and especially sluggish or lethargic.
They call it heartbreak for a reason.
Your chest may actually ache.
An extroverted guy is less likely to hide away at home.
Getting out and doing stuff breaks up the breakup blues.
Introverts may have a terrible time motivating to get up and out of the house.
So, what to do to get over the situation?
First and foremost you must see yourself as a real catch.
Introverts have fantastic strengths to bring to a relationship.
The truth is, an introvert can be a fabulous boyfriend and husband.
Being in a breakup state of mind, you probably don't believe any of that, right?
Well, in the next video I will show you how to get over a breakup for introverted people.
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