Do you believe that techniques for Love Making could be helpful?
techniques whether it's lovemaking
or something else can be helpful sometimes
it depends how tuned in
you are with your heart so if you are
let's say quite disconnected....
the more disconnected you are the more you need
support from techniques, from outside
secondhand information so second hands
guidance... if you are tuned within your
soul and heart then most of the time you
do not need the techniques because you
tap into a situation where everything is
there
everything is a master of light, a master
of everything you know, you're tapping into
a field of millions and millions of
years, if you want think linearly,
of Life, of experience
in regard of lovemaking.... to me it seems a little be odd
to talk about techniques because
love making more than most of anything else
is such a such as a natural
spontaneous expression our self that
we really need to have a great deal of
distrust to what we are and what we feel
in order to get to the point where we
think we need techniques, but there's
nothing wrong, it's just that once you
operate from a technique point of view
you shifted into a state of being that
is mind related so you are
addressing the experience with your mind
because technique means i have to think
what I'm doing I have to I have to use
my technique so I'm going to be on my
mind, lovemaking when you are in your
mind is like not really the most desirable
situation... I realized that many many
people in this planet right now are
operating, when it comes
to sex when it comes to making from that
standing point because we have been
programmed and educated to externalize
our
our way to perceive sexuality and so we are
very much in our mind but again if you
are connected with Source, with your
heart you do not need the technique to
make love, making love will happen
spontaneously and you will fully
embrace experience and allows
mysteriousness to unfold and the unknown to
unfold and then
you will allow something unexpected to
happen,
it also depend how you get to the lovemaking and
at what stage of the connection with
your partner you....
so you are saying that in some cases it could be helpful then
yes when you are not connected with your true heart
and soul, then you need you need
support you need help, when we are
disconnected we do need help because we
are not we ...we don't have the internal guidance
mechanism that is not supporting us so then we
have to look for outside in order to get
support that not only love making its
anything anything we do
yeah so for example if you learn dancing
or photography or anything like that you
learn first some technique because you're
not completely new and you don't know
much about it so you can expand a little
bit on what it is and then once you
learn a little bit the techniques you can let go and
get more into your heart and you know
and then apply the things that you learn
yeah that's how we usually do
we operate, it can be tricky
it depends on your personality
and again how much tuned in you are
with life, you can learn how to swim
by just going in the water and
figure out things while you are there or you
can read 50 books about swimming
before you even dare to put one feet in
the water, is nothing wrong with one or the
other , however i personally think
that it's much more valuable in the
experience, in the direct experience then
in the accumulation of data that
somebody else has created and then
following that it kind of sometime take me
away from the experience so I never
really fully have the experience and if
you think about it if you are learning a
technique
someone must have created that technique
and that person didn't have technique
so he or she started to operate with no
technique
and then the technique was born so in a
way there we go..we are applying
techniques because most of the time we
have not
we're not connected with life enough to
just dare into the situation and just
create our own technique as we have the
experience... there's nothing long and
learn, I have studied photography i
have studied many things and they have
been supported we have to just make sure
that what we learn in the in the school
or in the book or and whatever
educational system we choose doesn't
take over us because then we lose the
magic and then we become puppets that
just mechanically operate through that
technique and there's many people that
you see that come out from the
university or whatever and they have the
big degree and they are big professor
of big whatever, but their doing
it's not extraordinary and
they're more or less do the same thing
you can see... you sometimes you walk in a hospital
and doctors seem to be kind of similar
lawyers seem to be kind of similar
they even dress like some time you know and even not
even in the art you see some musicians that
more or less they do the same thing and if you
take away from them the supportive mechanism or
technique they are, they get very nervous
so we need to use our intelligence to
blend, to make
the best of our techniques but then we
have to let it go and forget about it
and then allow our heart and soul to
take charge
so back to make love if you need to
learn techniques just do it, just go to
the tantra techniques the whatever
techniques and memorize the pictures and
learn that you have to breathe in a certain
way and the positions in a certain way and
then...but once you have learned that
and then you jump in the bed with your
lover please forget everything and just
allow your true your true essence to
express itself without without filter it
with knowledge because otherwise
your doing will never ever take you to
an extraordinary field and unexpected
field, and geniality is exactly
that, if you follow the technique and
that's all you do you will never never
be a genius, a genius, and I believe we
all are genius when we are connected to
the source, in different ways that we all
are, is nothing else but a person
that completely surrender it takes our
system, all the programming,
all the right way to do
the wrong way to do it just does "tabula rasa"
mean just press the delete button of all he knows
and just start to, he goes in
the water and and just feel the
experience and then the feeling will
take him to a certain situation of
course is viable to know certain things
for example if you you need to know of
it there are some things
when you make love you have to know do I
want to have children? you know or don't?
because you know, just to give you a simple example
so yes I personally enjoy
learning enjoy learning some degree of techniques but
because I could learn a technique
to do this interview
there are courses to how to do an
interview there are courses on how to
speak out to say what you have to say
what kind of posture and how to see down
what kind of voice you have to use
and then you apply all this techniques and
you have this perfect interview but
that's not what we need we don't need
an artificial perfection
most of the time is quite boring and it
really doesn't create any emotion
i rather just to sit down and then just
hear what you are going to ask
I do not know what you're going to ask me and
then I trust my inner source to guide me
through the answer and sometime I find
an answer that I didn't know before
now if I use one hundred percent technique that
will never happen and so I will never
learned anything from this because i am
applying already a pre-configurated path
and with that pre-configuration i will
not be able to surprise myself and learn anything
but as you say some are
disconnected and find it very hard to feel
in their own body
yeah and feeling for example for the
partner's body
you know so for example when
someone learns to breathe
more deeply and learns to connect more with their body
then I think it could be very valuable
and the person can you know learn in
that way also to open up more to their
hearts and connecting more in that way to their
bodies and learn in these ways step by step to go deeper
in to lovemaking
yes it is it is so, it is valuable
however again what is it better? it's
better that I am scare of doing something
and I face my fear and I jump into it
and I see what happened or I hide my
fear and I cover-up with a bunch of
information that comes from some other person
and then gradually maybe I get
confident enough but its a choice
everybody has different different
approaches and some people relate on
education and on on techniques in order
to avoid or maybe let's not say
"avoid", to build more, to create a sense
of self assurance that everything is
going to be fine because now I have
technique right , so nothing is going to
hurt me or nothing is going to be...
I am going to do, to have this
technique which will allow me to make
sure that I
I am doing what I'm supposed to do
because I'm really scared to do
something wrong because then i will not
be accepted what would be not loved
yeah in a way it will be better to... ok i
got fear here... alright let's see what's
going on... let's play with fear
hey you are my lover, I have to be honest
with you, I have zero technique and I'm
scared, I am really scared
let's try and see what happens
you know... but that's an honest and open and
vulnerable field to which many people
just cannot get there, so these people
sometimes they take classes and they
get very a huge amount of data sometimes
not all with some time now the ego kick in,
so they avoided their insecurities and
fear which are still there, is just now
cover up with a lot of information that
making feel that I am I am and I master
i got a degree here, you know... and now
it's going to be even more difficult for
me to identify the real work that i have
to do which is face my fear and the
best way to face my fear is to jump
directly into the experience because
life experience is the technique, is
the best teacher rather than somebody
else that tells you his founded rightness
and wrongness... and maybe he didn't even
found it, he learned from somebody
else so he is also lost... so you are
getting not second hand but third fourth
tenth hand information
all these because we don't really want
to go deep into our core and and expand
and grow up and yes it's scary it's
scary
yeah so what? it's scary, i am afraid
I am nervous, yeah I don't see any big problem with that
we all are nervous, we all experience fear,
just let's see where this fear takes me...
and then maybe
it will be a disaster the first time
if your lover is a real lover will allow
and embrace your disaster and say: don't worry
we will try again right? but again that
will require already a strength within
yourself that I understand that most of
us do have and so back to your
question yes
for some of us it's good to have to
have technique, and I I again i have studied technique
sometime I study how to use the camera
so I can do any interview, how to take
picture how.... but in a sense
mostly of the time I try not to know too much
because when I know too match then my mind is
polluted with "this is how it has to happen" and then
it's not fun anymore because I don't get
I don't get to live the surprise of the
creation, if your a Creator and
you create, it means you're doing
something that you are.... you're supposed
to do something the has never been done
before because then.. if that's
not the case then you're not creating
you re-creating, you are creating again
but if you're a creative person and you
create in means that you are stepping
into a mystery
an unknown territory and
and then you have the chance to create for
the first time.... when you have a lot of
technique... very very difficult that you
have that chance... because there is a lot
of information inside your head and with
all those information you won't be
to be innocent
you will not be able to be like a little
child, you will not be able to be a first
timer and so you will most likely
recreate something more than create some thing....
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